WinForever: Well OP, I understand your situation. I want you to understand that you have not sincerely forgiven your wife at any time, otherwise why are you still remembering the deceit of the past.
Look here, forgiveness is never a right. It is dispensed through rigorous penitence of the offender. Not even God throws forgiveness at people!
lailuvly: Hmnn, from my own point of view, have discovered there is no perfect marriage. We are all managing ourselves. It's very rare too see your perfect match. But if both of you can come down and decide to build your home together. Your marriage will work.
Please learn to forget your wife completely. Sit down together and resolve your differences. Let her what you want in your marriage. I believe she Will surrender since she doesn't want to go. You can still mould her to your shape.
God will help you. Please pray together and eat together. God bless you.
Misplaced advice! In this instance, there was never a marriage between the two in first place. Matrimony is automatically invalidated when falsehood formed the grounds of it's solemnization.
Is it not CLEAR that you don't deserve such a criminal as a wife? A so called marriage into which you were deceptively led , blindfolded with tissues of bloody lies has no power to keep you bound to a criminal. Now that you are free of her , keep your freedom by all means and never give in to satanic theologies that make marriage a death sentence to the faithfuls.
What a moronic pronouncement from a supposed learned man! That was how imbeciles among them kicked against the military offensive against boko haram during Jonathan's era, claiming spuriously, with dimwitted audacity, that it was a ploy to decimate the majority northern and Muslim population! Satan punish una well well..!!! Who una majority help?
I regret not going into this church business when i had the opportunity years ago..
You'll be sleeping and money will be rolling in. 10 percent of whatever your sheeples make, plus seeds to be sowed.
Easy money...
That you did not join the church business does not make you less corrupt and criminally minded wherever you are now. You are not even ashamed to advertise your morbid mindset in public. Your criminality perish with you and so with all your co-travellers in crimes against humanity. Amen
Nelso2: Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.
Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.
Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.
The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.
If only you knew the definition of Wife, you would not be here blabbing that you have one!
Miserable creatures, afflicted by mental, material and spiritual poverty! They will even be praying to Satan for prolonged business for their bandit clients in order to fill their miserable bellies!
addictiv: Well mine is the all the girls I have dated are born in January or September. I have purposely tried to date someone who is born in a different month and it doesn't work. But once I meet a girl born in any of these months, we click like magnets. Funny thing is I am also born in September.
What are you waiting for, God may be telling you something : marry one born in September and wed her in September...
creolehunt: I just thought about the girls I've been with and noticed a certain trend. This isn't even about the girls themselves who are excellent human beings, but their families.
First girl I dated revealed to me that the dad died of suspected poisoning and her family were chased out of the family house. Her eldest brother is an area boy while it seems things aren't working out for her other siblings.
The next ones dad was late too, one of her sisters is separated from her husband while the first son of nearly 40 has nothing doing.
The other ones history is that her dad is late too. The eldest sister is cohabiting with a man. They have 2 kids already without being married. Her other sisters bride price was just paid after having 3 kids with a man.
For the other one, her dad is late too, died quite early. The eldest sister is in her 30s and unmarried. Her other sister has 3kids for a man who she isn't married to and now they are separated. Things aren't just working for her people.
The one I just met recently told me her parents are late. Lost both of them to suspected poisoning within the space of one year.
I keep wondering if this is some sort of coincidence.
This is the picture of society today, it is largely representative of what most are experiencing.
nairavsdollars: Which of these critics of the Muhammadu Buhari administration do you think will make a good President if allowed to govern the country?
1. Yinka Odumakin
2. Deji Adeyanju
3. Omoyele Sowore
4. Reno Omokri
5. Oby Ezekwesili
6. Dino Melaye
7. Mike Ozekhome (SAN)
8. Buba Galadima
9. Timi Frank
10. Femi Falana (SAN)
11. Femi Fani- Kayode
Don't be deceived by these so-called critics - most are far worse off than those they criticise. Reno Omokri, for instance, is just a political play boy...
Bullet01: Femi Fani-Kayode, former Aviation Minister, has urged Nigerian authorities not to allow Abubakar Shekau, leader of the Boko Haram sect, to surrender.
Any surrender by SheCow can not exclude him from Justice. Nigeria alone cannot handle the atrocities of shecow. He must be tried by the international court of Justice for Crimes against humanity.
I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.
Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.
After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.
But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.
During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.
To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.
One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.
The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do. The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy. I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.
She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.
I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.
She is there sleeping with men and all. But I have cut her off from myself and the child.
Hope my decision is not wrong?
She ran away from other men and landed in your house, even pushing away the one you had all along been with. You forgot this was a professional runner and got bewitched by her sorcery. Not even the curious testimony of her own father could cast off the spell over you. You believed you were the Richard Lander and that she had finally landed her final bus stop in your house. But now, the bubble has burst. The gamer is hot on her chosen race and is landing several other destinations as her errant spirit leads. Hear this, it is time for you to pick up the bits and pieces of your life left and forget completely about the wild goose. But it is doubtful if she left you with your ears...
If the complacent and conniving Nigerian government attempt to grant amnesty to these criminals guilty of terror crimes against humanity, we will be left with no option than to take out all boko commanders, one by one, by sniper action even if that is our last task on mother earth. So help us God. Justice must be served
dragunov: Maybe you don't know, that the deadliest armed robbers and kidnappers are flat skulled. And they will have shops at Alaba, Yaba, Aba, Dugbe, and everywhere so you can never suspect them. I say again, one million boys is a conglomerate of Southern boys. Period.
One million is a combined force of Cone heads and Igbos. Period!
You call yourselves one million boys. Don't you know the people are millionsss? Dimwits!!! No force , physical or spiritual can withstand the Power of a United People.
Mavrick2012: I heard my neighbor asking another neighbor if he can pay tithe from the 20k alert he got from government.
This got me thinking.
Are members expected to pay a tenth of whatever they get at this difficult period?
Times are hard, right. But there are poorer people who did not get the #20k gift you got. Can't you recognize and appreciate that as an act of God and return glory to HIM? Put aside how tithe has been bastardized by many, it remains a central point of worship and service to God. Let no man deceive you, Christ is still seated receiving tithes of everything. Where then is Christ? Christ is in every neighbour by you, especially fellow faithfuls. Let no man deceive you, no church owner or founder is the custodian of tithes of the faithfuls. Christ is available everyday to you to receive your tithe . He is that needy and hurting neighbour by your side. It is expected of every faithful to release and return at least a tenth part of all he has gathered or received which must be applied in caring for those waiting on God. You fail the needy, you failed yourself and you failed your maker. Give tithe of all.
Just before you begin to cry racism, sit back and contemplate the ways of the black man till date. The looming negative image of the black man as a people is overshadowing any and every personal merit of a distinguished negro. Until Africa redefines himself before the world, we must expect things like this. Unless this generation of blacks undergo an unlikely rebirth, the unborn generation of blacks would suffer same fate! Evil is in you oh black man. Heal thyself
The non reference to federal agencies by this late mogul is a character trait of the ruling cabal. To them, laws are made by the mighty, to be applied on the masses to the exclusion of the mighty. It is too condescending for the law to apply on their mighty status. And this is the twisted mentality of African leadership! African leaders are too big for those they lead. This is a diametric negation of the very principles of progressive leadership the world over.
Bootlicking by political sycophants taken beyond limit! They expected they would be received back with hero's welcome at the villa? Fooolz, No occupant of Aso rock is ready to jeopardize their continued stay in power by your overzealousness and insane eye service.
You will all pay the grave price all fooolz pay for their stupidity. The coronavirus will neither respect nor forgive your stupid defiance of safety regulations. You will pay with your miserable lives until sanity is forced by agony to dawn on you
A married man is woeing my babe o Saying all sweet things to her, promising her different things, although the man is quite wealthy, he said he want her to be his wife
Guys what should we do?
Don't be a foool. A girlfriend, lover or fiancé is just a likable good on an open market shelf. Three things determine her final destination : her heart, her parents and the highest bidder. If you don't control any of these, your whatever claim is simply audio and without any effect whatsoever.
I am not a fan of confusion but I think Nigerians deserve an apology for this. This same government have been ruthless with the stay at-home stuff, shutting down every stuff across their path that may lead to convergence of individual, some were lucky to be taken to court, why the unlucky ones were shot dead by men on uniform. Nobody should be immune or above the law, Social distancing should be for all.
God bless Nigeria.
In the words of the President himself, your freedom ends where others freedom begin! You have no right to showcase your corrupt loyalty to power when such is confirmed to bring others into risk! Certainly, all those who acted in contravention of the social gathering and distancing order are to be summarily quarantined and prosecuted for public good. But in a mad zoo of a country, rules are subjective!
I'm the guy that likes to flirt with women (trying so hard to change). Sometime last year November, I hand some sex encounters with 4 different women (2 unprotected) and by first week of December I started experiencing some symptoms which include;
1.White tongue 2. Occassional diarrhoea (watery, oily and formy stool ever since then. I feel sudden need to ease like twice or thrice a day). 3. A gradual weight loss (I eat very well, mainly fruits and proteins with carbohydrates on average) 4. Occasional hand tremor. 5. Occasional body vibration and fast heart rate.
I used to smoke marijuana and take alcohol, but stopped. I also masturbated for about 5-6yrs, then stopped last year which added to flirting with women. I've not masturbated since then, but still take alcohol (mainly vodka).
I went to a university teaching hospital, met with the consultant and explained to her just as I'm doing here (she was wowed!). She then directed me to do HIV test (came back negative), H. Pylori test (also came out negative) and another test (I've forgotten the name).
She then prescribed, nystatin oral suspension and vitamin B Complex which I've finished taking, yet no change. Meanwhile, I've taken fluconazole, antibacteria and probiotics of late.
I'm waiting for the lockdown to be lifted to go back, but before then, (who knows when this whole problem will end) felt i might get some help here.
Please Doctors, what could be wrong with me. Especially this diarrhoea and white tongue. My stomach is always rumbling after eating. Please help.
Thank you.
Pictures of my tongue before and after brushing
"trying so hard to change"! Bro , we ALL change sometime - either by choice or by "force". Just remember - there is not always remedy!