₦airaland Forum

generationz:




The husband has replied with WhatsApp chats as evidence and I believe him. He asked her for a divorce for her bad character and asked for a DNA test she refused and when he left the house and she was unable to get him back, she posted this on Facebook.


I remember last year, one lady conspired with her mom to accuse the husband of the same thing. It turned out that the mother was notorious for using her daughters to milk and blackmail her son in laws.



I hope he takes the matter to court and whoever is guilty pays dearly. No name slander/injustice will be tolerated in 2021.

Very good news. At least he can defend himself.
Please where is your source? or photos of the chats?

angelfallz:
i've heard of these love languages before. However, it does not apply to me. If you give me a gift i would love and cherish it, if you do an act of service i would deeply appreciate, if you spend quality time i would appreciate, physical touch i would appreciate as well.

So my own love language is all the love languages.

Only you wants all the languages.
Continue......

Asour:
Is there really anything as love language?

Are there really 5?

I sincerely think it was a brilliantly manufactured concept to sell books and "Relationship" seminars. I could be wrong though.

It seems the most beneficial key to keeping a relationship with any SANE /reasonable person is to not take them for granted AKA respect. Other things are supplementary.

Great question. Its the love languages that let you know what your spouse will consider "been taken for granted". I didn't know these until I saw it play out in my marriage.
I love (acts of service) not really gifts or words of affirmation so my spouse couldn't understand why I was NOT tripping for the human hairs, and watches and shoes and Lexus he bought me - I really don't care much for them.
I found him rather kind and sexy when he was washing dishes in the kitchen with me or joining me in my little farm or in the gym (he hates the gym ).

And he always complained that I took him for granted and never gave him gifts. I did give him gifts but I later realized his love language is GIFT GIVING, so the bigger the gift, the more it meant to him.
So now whenever I want to give my spouse a birthday gift I start putting it together months in advance. I would not buy a phone of more than 60K for myself cause it means nothing to him but I know his love language is gifts so I gift him some crazy unreal phones (His eyes widen like a kid's when I hand him the latest edition).
Of course he still buys me lovely gifts but my thank you when he has done an act of service is both in words and in kind.

deltateam:
In za oda room?

In any room available. If no room is available, we have small garden at the back of our home .

However we have had real fights and serious up-and-downs but in all this we respect boundaries. From day one, I told my spouse we cannot call each other names. You can tell me I did a silly thing (insult the action) but you are not allowed to call me a fool (insult the person). And that is how it's worked for us.
We remember the chastising when we did wrong, but you know that your spouse never insulted your person.

deltateam:
Shokoloko this your name nawaoh.

5 pints of your blood? I hope you don't tell him to give you back your blood when he mess up.

I collect my blood from him at least one night every week and one morning every weekend

ToksZee:
hmm maybe I'll do nursing.. because I'm really confused on both besides reading is not my thing

Please you will have to make reading your thing. Healthcare courses are no walk-in-the-park. You will need to read and research on your own in college or university. Best of luck

Neddstark:
https://www.rhinocarhire.com/Car-Hire-Blog/February-2017/Canada-Toll-Roads-Guide-to-toll-roads-in-Canada.aspx

Great link.
I'm going to asume here that you live in Ontario: you know the 407 and 412 dont get into the cities? They encircle the cities so are not inside the cities and that was what I was referring to.
Toll gates should never be built within a city. And I still maintain that roads in Ottawa and Toronto and Major cities in Canada are not tolled.

Neddstark:
You need to travel out. Toll gates exist in major cities around the world for revenue generation.

There isnt a single toll-gate in Ottawa, capital of Canada, No toll gate in Toronto, commercial hub of Canada.

1. She sent you a really disrespectful text.
2. In her text she says "Its over". When someone is done they will not bother to announce it. Apparently she isnt done.
3. She was upset when she did not get a reaction from you. I think she still likes you.
4. I am very concerned if the only thing your spouse has done in all the years of marriage is pumping out kids. She doesn't even keep the family well fed and the home clean? She leaves the kids to go their own way once she delivers them? You have to breastfeed your kids yourself?! Strange
5. Does she continuously refer to your disability? If yes, she pities you: no love. If no, it was a one time act of foolishness.
6. Please place your boundaries. She should leave if this is about pity and if it is not she should never refer to your disability again.
7. There are 5 love languages. If you do 150% of four and it is not your spouse's love language it means nothing...so check if the unimaginable things you did for her happiness actually resonate with her.
8. Do not abscond from your own home anymore.
9. Saving your spouse's life is not spectacular - it is expected. Five pints of my blood is in my spouse's body right now. Its not a big deal

sirjamesjnr:
Yes, I let go of an opportunity to be an American citizen to be with my girl. You can call it pure love but it is more than that. 1: I met her untouched(I am the first guy she is in love with) 2: I saw brain and level of reasoning so I saw a woman I can evolve with to any height we ever want.
My girl has done more than enough you could possibly imagine. All through the pandemic, we were in an average 8 hours video calls every day. I can't count the resources she put in though I spend more. She reciprocates gifts every now and then. You have no ideal sacrifices we have made for this relationship to stay untainted.

I have been on nairaland 15 years so I am not a young person.
My advice: Stop responding. You and your girl have a beautiful relationship that 90% of the haters wish they had.
However this thread which started wonderfully is now filled with poisonous, bad energy.
If I were you I would distance myself from it. You have made a good point. I pray for you that the toxicity has no effect in your relationship, and I wish you all the best with your lady

[quote author=Didi2d post=97932376][/quote]A picture cannot be used as data

BusinessCity:
Go to your in laws place empty handed and after two weeks come create a thread about the aftermath of your action

Your response so far have been very mature. I had to go investigating and found the attached.
I agree with the person 95%. The 5% is for when you call people "fool" and "Ode"

Think9ja:
One of the poorest states in Nigeria.
And guess what? They are the so called food basket of the nation.

Whenever anybody tells you farming is the way forward, ask him to explain why Benue state
houses some of the poorest folks and keeps regressing.

I only opened this thread because I thought you wanted to tell us about the new "kwase" you fuvked. But alas, I was "amakad"

Tiv people and fvck are like Sodom and Gomorrah.

They start fvcking as soon as they are conceived. Yet, one obobo will go there and pick a wife. Tufiakwa!!!!

But wait, how did this make front page?

Farming is the supposed to be the way forward. Food production is a wealth generator...except one has a government that has to keep you poor so they keep getting million dollar aids.

GayPontiff:
No offense o, but be offended all u want.
You and ur mama need deliverance .
Contact me for recommendations.

If the guy marries u, each visit to your mum will now cost him a cow and a new house shebi?
That he even went to greet her which is the highlight that deserves accolades suddenly gets swept under d carpet. U proceeded to hang up call on him.
Now ur seeking justification publicly.

If u want to enjoy ur marriage in d future when u don marry eh babes, no be everything momsi talk u go swallow.

This is not true. This exact same thing happened to me. The guy's mum right there told me that it was wrong to come and see her without a gift (no matter how small). I had to go out, ask the guy for a little cash and go give his mum.

Los Angeles is launching a digital iPhone receipt for COVID-19 vaccinations, which could one day become a 'vaccine passport' that would be required for such activities as airline travel and live concerts.

The project is initially aimed at ensuring that people who get the first shot of the approved Pfizer or Moderna vaccines also get the required booster shot, including through follow-up notifications.

But the digital receipt could also be used 'to prove to airlines, to prove to schools, to prove to whoever needs it,' that a person has been vaccinated, Healthvana CEO Ramin Bastani told Bloomberg.

But critics fear it marks the emergence of a vaccine surveillance state, where digital 'passports' are required for everything from flying on a plane to going to the movies.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9100029/LA-begins-issuing-digital-vaccine-verification-Apple-Wallet.html

001Truth:
So, she didn't hear of it up till now and why hasn't she come to prove otherwise?

What do you think would happen to you, if after 8 years of looking up to God for a child and non came at the age of 45years as a woman, you now find-out that the same husband that claims he's been waiting on God with you, suddenly has 2 children: 8 years and 6years respectively, and with his subordinate at work is perhaps prettier than you and irrefutable resemblance ?
I guess that will make you leap for joy?

HYPOCRITES EVERYWHERE!

That's what many of you do all around looking for married men who is already made. Túlétúlé. How I wish infidelity test could be done or perhaps, there's a meter on everyone's face showing:

How frequently you have sex with someone who isn't your partner,
The Degree or it's intensity,
What thoughts go on in that regard and
How much worth is left of every single part of your body.

Would people like you even desire that it exists, so that you can keep deceiving the innocent and guys you would never be with; who would keep trusting you and avoid such conversations as infidelity so as not to question your faithfulness?

Before responding to you, I would need a verifiable source of the statements please?

igbowoman:
Please could you post a link to this
Thanks

Nwanyioma, please see below.
One young angry man here calls it a fake letter but by tomorrow we will know

https://thenigerialawyer.com/another-group-of-friends-of-late-tunde-thomas-absolve-fcmb-md-adam-nuru-says-allegations-unsubstantiated-malicious/

britiko:
Can't u read between lines... that this publication is published by the MD and Moyo. All lies. Deranged nigerialawyer.

God purnish all of una.

Its too late for me to be punished. I am already blessed. I'm in a very good state in life.

It's only people that God has not yet settled that get angry on social media. Once upon a time, I also used to get angry on social media

Keep your emotions in check. Dont drink Panadol for social media matter.

The word is "punish" not "purnish"

britiko:
Apologise my foot!!! For what exactly?
So no local news carried this info? I see na dem dem... kontinu

My dear, I refuse to drink Panadol for this matter.
The letter is already out ( Daily dispatch) and I'm sure it will be everywhere by tomorrow.

This is a link :

https://thenigerialawyer.com/another-group-of-friends-of-late-tunde-thomas-absolve-fcmb-md-adam-nuru-says-allegations-unsubstantiated-malicious/

Read the letter yourself.

britiko:
You forgot to add d part, where she filed assylum in the USA stating marital violence from the husband and got Tunde barred from visiting d kid's. So how do u expect Tunde to retrieve d kids?

You also skipped to recount that she only called Tunde during her supposed vacation in d states and informed him over d phone that d kids weren't his.

How cold blooded can she be? Can u imagine d shock?

You can refer to Tunde as a slowpoke but I won't. May his soul rest in peace.

Out of other people's mistake, you learn...
As a man, work hard...

You forget to add that in the recent letter from his friends association they stated that Tunde went to the US in 2018 to visit the woman and kids. So how did she claim asylum and bar him from visiting.

And that Tunde spoke with Moyo on 26th November 2020.

Are you aware that Tunde's friends have apologised to Nuru Adams (according to Daily dispatch, January 2, 2021)

The name calling has a condition. But I firmly believe that Tunde had some intelligence hence I said that he must have know. So I don't really think he is a slow poke.

Daddysidhan:
oloriburuku ni e with this terrible conspiracy

Same to you dear. The exact same to you and family!

BigSquids:
I've seen all your comments desperately trying to alter reality. I can tell you know the husband or are somehow related to him.


I've got new for. You. Your comments give you away. Just give up cause you can't change the reality that's already known by the whole world.

Happy to help! I am glad people are seeing my comments. If I am able to get a few people to think that is fine. I am desperate to get Nigerians off the bandwagon - herd mentality and use their heads. I find that is the difference between us and developed countries. Nigerians do not want to think objectively: they want to think with emotions. I showed some of my colleagues here in Canada the comments and they think we are ridiculous.

I dont know the husband, but if he was my relative I would never have let him marry Moyo.

And this your post below is also everywhere, so I am not the only person commenting desperately- you are as well.

Don't swallow Panadol for these people. This story will be stale in one week and bloggers will find new content.

BigSquids:
For a man with a job that pays around 300k monthly. Naaa.


The discovery led to shock. The shock killed him. The shock proves he was badly hit emotionally by what was too big to swallow. Hence betrayal.

Why are you saying he just discovered. he knew! Two black African Yoruba people can never give birth to two mixed Fulani kids with Arab ancestry.
Guys, lets think!

kunle75:
I live here in Minneapolis Minnesota, thanks for this info am driving down to the hospital any moment to snap the building and any info you need please let me know, that yeye girl go hear am today 01/03/2021

That girl did not do anything that Tunde did not know about.

1. Moyo was Ali's babe before meeting Tunde. This was open knowledge in the bank

2. Moyo and Tunde are BLACK AFRICAN YORUBA but the two children are FULANI WITH ARAB ANCESTRY. If Tunde is claiming he didn't know from day one then he is an slowpoke. A BLACK yoruba couple CANNOT have mixed kids

3. The marriage survived 8 years: The daughter was 8 years when the marriage ended, meaning that Tunde married a pregnant Moyo.

4. Moyo left for the US in 2017.Tunde did not attempt to retrieve "his" fulani kids.

5. Tunde was engaged and his fiance was pregnant when he died. Apparently the guy wasn't looking to get back the kids.

My take is that Moyo and Tunde played a milking game on Mr. Nuru but Moyo ran away with Mr. Nuru's settlement

Righteousness2:
There is Nothing Hidden that shall not be Revealed

Nothing was hidden from anyone. All three of them knew what was happening
1. Moyo was Ali's babe before meeting Tunde. This was open knowledge in the bank

2. Moyo and Tunde are BLACK AFRICAN YORUBA but the two children are FULANI WITH ARAB ANCESTRY. If Tunde is claiming he didn't know from day one then he is an slowpoke. A BLACK yoruba couple CANNOT have mixed kids

3. The marriage survived 8 years: The daughter was 8 years when the marriage ended, meaning that Tunde married a pregnant Moyo.

4. Moyo left for the US in 2017.Tunde did not attempt to retrieve "his" fulani kids.

5. Tunde was engaged and his fiance was pregnant when he died. Apparently the guy wasn't looking to get back the kids.

My take is that Moyo and Tunde played a milking game on Mr. Nuru but Moyo ran away with Mr. Nuru's settlement

britiko:
Would u type dis rubbish if d late husband were ur brother?

The bitch deserves all d stalking and many more.

There shall be no peace for the cold blooded murderer

1. Moyo was Ali's babe before meeting Tunde. This was open knowledge in the bank

2. Moyo and Tunde are BLACK AFRICAN YORUBA but the two children are FULANI WITH ARAB ANCESTRY. If Tunde is claiming he didn't know from day one then he is an slowpoke. A black yoruba couple CANNOT have mixed kids

3. The marriage survived 8 years: The daughter was 8 years when the marriage ended, meaning that Tunde married a pregnant Moyo.

4. Moyo left for the US in 2017.Tunde did not attempt to retrieve "his" fulani kids.

5. Tunde was engaged and his fiance was pregnant when he died. Apparently the guy wasn't looking to get back the kids.

My take is that Moyo and Tunde played a milking game on Mr. Nuru but Moyo ran away with Mr. Nuru's settlement

BanevsJoker:
Actually she did. She lied to the authorities that her husband tried to kill her, thereby denying him access to the children he raised from birth. Yes, she actually caused the stroke and subsequent heart attack that killed her husband.

This doesnt sound true. Where is the verifiable source of this statement?

emmyN:
I'm careful about commenting on this story line given that it's only account from the late husband's people that have been heard. From the timeline given, Thomas had known about the paternity fraud since 2017; he's had time to thrash out the issue, probably discuss with his ex wife, the MD, treat the health challenge he suffered from when he just made the discovery, and even start a new relationship which was already leading to the altar. So we have a duration of three years and he appeared to have moved on. He didn't drag the MD all those while. But now that he is dead, his people are orchestrating it on his behalf, which perhaps is something he wouldn't have done, possibly being privy to other information not being stated here.

What I'm trying to figure out is why he never raised alarm on the injustice meted on him by his ex and her boss while he was still alive.

What I am trying to figure out is how two black African yoruba people will give birth to fulani kids with arab ancestry, and claim paternity fraud. it must have been obvious from day one that "Hey, these kids are mixed!".

genq:
To what end?

If his family members 'expose' his wife, what would they stand to achieve when they know he's completely under the spell of a Jezebel? Have you ever witnessed a complete fool (or should I say simp) in love? Most of these men will foolishly cut off family members for a woman under the guise of being a "real man"

The fact that he died of cardiac arrest after she dumped him proves that he probably lacked a solid support system outside of his wife - peharps he fell out bitterly with family members because of her - like in the case of Peter (Psquare).

I have never seen a fool in love but what I know is that;

1. His cardiac arrest was not because she dumped him - because she was never with him: She did not hide what she felt for Mr. Nuru. He married a woman who he knew was in love with another man. It is expected that the marriage would be short-lived.

2. His cardiac arrest was not because of shock of discovering the kids paternity - Tunde knew from day one. He is a banker and as a banker you need to have at least average intelligence to deal with financial matters

3. There is another reason that caused the shock and that is what we do not know - maybe we need to ask his fiance

genq:
Good insight but I disagree with your conclusion.

Tunde was a fool with low self esteem - there isn't a more disastrous combination than that.

He simply fell in love with a biitcch and his folly led him to the grave.

But on the other hand, lets assume he was a fool with low self-esteem in love with a b***h, his family would have been making headlines since those kids were born. (These are the kind of stories that make headlines, so this story would have been popular years ago)

The question is " Is Tunde an oprhan?" If he isn't "why was the whole family silent when Moyo was bringing mixed kids into the home? Why was there no reaction from his family?" "Was there something the family was gaining by keeping quiet?" "Were the family enjoying funding from Mr Nuru?"