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More like what stupîd women do when they're in love.

I never loved sports cuz I was in love. I love sports because I love sports.

Gayatri:
Hm, no vex Sir... Im even disappointed in me more...

I'm no Sir, I'm a woman like you, and I'm telling you to walk away from that guy and don't look back.

Poorboy:
My only question is

Are you beautiful?

Because what you're doing is what ugly girls do.

Forget that bro. Love no dey look face. When someone is hit by love, they lose themselves beautiful or not beautiful.

Gayatri:
I understand You, perfectly Sir.... When i told him that i'd walk, he said what did i mean by walk away.. I told him, i meant keeping him totally off from my life.. He said, not even being friends with him?- i said no because feelings are involved and he said well then he cannot let me walk away.. That he is so attached and addicted to me.. Hmm

But since he is confused and they are not engaging any time soon, is it possible for me to make him see that she might not be real and she is the one who is to get him focused and if he cant be content with her then he is making the wrong choice of being with her.. Is it possible Sir??.. Jusy asking because i fell for him not for money or his been nice or whatever but his rare kindness, honesty with me, and appreciating the very little things i do, aside the coincidental connections we have... Im sorry if im asking too much questions... I want to be sure ad make my decision and not regret it whatsoever...

I swear you're annoying me with all this bullshit story. Well, I have nothing to say to you. I'll await the day you'll come for advice on how to mend your broken heart.

So you're comparing a 5 year old to a grown ass man like yourself who should be thinking of how to develop himself? Kai odiegwu o

Nothing

LMFAOoooooo you dunno nothing about the man you fell in love with.

Sis, sorry to burst your bubbles but that nigga is either married or in a serious relationship.

Focus on your life you're still too young to let anything with third leg distract you.

Don't give yourself wholely to anybody. That's the mistake we women make all the time.

Magnoliaa:
Okay, na. When you see pM from me, comman share testimony of how you molded me- into becoming a woman of your taste, frame and rib.

Kai

They're many. Listing them will full this front page

Jobless red pillers

Jodha:
All I see here is a pick me...

Awon premium beans.

Lol when you are dating a teenager or a girl in her early twenties, a last born or an only child. Expect things like this. E be like ogbanje dey worry them.

It's quite unfortunate that the only problem Nigerian men have is women. While women are soaring higher and living their best lives. They're living rent free in men's heads.

odinson1:
I just checked your Profile picture And you actually look like the "Chewing gum girls I roll with"

You wish. Get lost please

Let anyone do whatever the hell they please. At the end they'll bear the consequence.

odinson1:
I hope you wont Expect your Husband or Boyfriend to foot all your Bills,since you Are an independent Feminist

Do I look like the chewing gum girls you role with? Boy if you don't geddifok

Nonsense

Lazycyndy:
This is just for daring to ask for the right to cast votes. Feminist fought for this and more.

Then some women will be saying "I don't believe in feminism", madam the only reason you can go to school, vote and even have the fraction of the right you have is because of the feminism you condemn.

Remember, there is a difference between feminism and misandry.

Yeah, I watched the movie "I am Woman" and I saw it all

Hmmm..

zang:
Well, fear uromi oh

Which State is this?

Na today you know? Love your tattoos BTW.

It's the one that will open mouth and tell her body count that I blame.

Most men will sleep with more than 500 girls, but the body count of a woman is the problem.

Mtchewww double standard will be the death of these men.

Godada:
You are probably right. The society today focuses so much on results that nothing else matter. But still the question that requires introspection is how did he let himself fall so low?

It's terrifying to be in relationships these days with girls and guys been woke. Trust is but a pawn, used to gain an edge and disposed like a worthless sanitary pad.

He should first of all focus on little steps to get himself out of the rut he has found himself. Build himself as a man. Heal. Get his confidence back. Get a hustle that pays. Only then, would having a woman matter.

It's not that easy Bros. A lot of things will trigger whatever he went through. Thereby, frustrating any efforts he tries to move further.

It takes a lot of strength and courage to overcome PTSD.

For example now, he might be at a work place and see someone that looks like his ex pass, he'll become depressed immediately, and whatever zeal he had at that moment will die.
Insomnia, emotional stress, fear, low self-esteem, are just some of the things he'd be battling.

I get your point though, he had to move on nonetheless, but it's not gonna be easy. For some it'll take them years to get over it.

walepackage:
I think the problem here first is to get engaged in a meaningful endeavors, like a job or skill.it will reduce the rate in which you think of sex man.

See, it's not always about getting a job here. He's suffering from PTSD and he either talks to a therapist to cure himself or work it out himself. It will take time, but he'll pull through.

Hmmm the ending of your last relationship rendered you useless.

You can only know peace when you let go of the past. Forget about your last relationship. Get your self esteem back.

Lol This man is so confused

Go girl. Men we have these days ain't worth it.

Woah Six good years.

Lol congrats. Wahala for who no dey relationship this December o. Lol

I came here so happy to read a strong contrary opinion, alas I'm disappointed.