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Instead of coming here everyday to take advice from people that can't last a week in a relationship

Ask yourself, if your ex gives you a loan will you accept or not?
That's where your answer lies.

Still beautiful

21cents:
Seeking an intact hymen is one of the paramount qualities of a virtuous and morally upright woman for marriage. that hymen is not only physical but its needed to cement bonding within spouses. don't get disturbed when men are seeking for it.


Settling with a perforated hymen is disastrous. her spirit is tied to that first man forever, reason why God in his infinite wisdom placed it there as part of "pair-bonding mechanism" for whom it is meant for -(husband).


sorry if you've given out yours for coke and indomie, but na you Sabi as God cannot be mocked. Wahala for whatever man that marries those non virgins. they can never love another man wholeheartedly no matter how much they deceive you with their fake love. they only love what you're providing and seeking a better future for their unborn kids.

Any man that doesn't agree with the last paragraph is free to delude himself. time will tell.

And I'm sorry too you gave out yours for nothing. yours was absolutely nothing, and I bet you begged on top, just to shag a woman.

God cannot be mocked right? While you are sticking your third leg Inside every hole I wonder who you're mocking.

You want a virgin but you can't keep yourself pure. Ain't you mocking God too?

Shameless bunch of people, I've left Internet bashing behind, but I hate double standards.

And I'm sorry no one is deceiving me with fake love. I'm a woman who knows what I want and I go for it. I'm not like those women you lie to just to cum within one second. Yet you sit there in your rickety home and talk about God. You are the one God will judge for all the lies and evil you did just to be a one second man.

Talking about God just to suit your own narrative. You should be ashamed of yourself.

I bet you're in your rickety apartment now promising a virgin girl love, just to cum. Shame on you man.

Caleycash:
It is 1million times a gender thing!!!... most of your sex are psychological and emotional scammers, the percentage of what you posted might be 10/100, how many girls do you see with mechanics and vulcanizers per day!?, then how many good for nothing girls with fine face do you see with rich guys... no dey whine yourself jare!

Mr man if you don't want anyone to build with you, build your own and go marry someone that built on her own too! It's not by force. You people should stop making a big deal out of nothing.

Ebere044:
Listen to this today and apply it in your relationship. When he is building himself please try and build yourself too. Trust he won't leave you for another. Its when he is building and you're busy smiling and waiting for him to finish building to come and settle for less abi. Build yourself as well.

Go build your house, when you're done look for someone that has built hers and marry. You must not marry who no wan build with you.

Make una no dey disturb person here

Evolutionlove:
Somebody Is extremely Pained her Greatest Palliative have been Mercilessly Looted and Vandalized. It's Virgin or Nothing. I prefer a stubborn and rude Intact Hymen over a deceptive, kind and pretending Looted Hymen.......

Lol my dear boy, this is the last thing on my mind now as who I have never bothered about virginity or what not. Virginity or not, that isn't what a man with vision wants.

But whatever rocks your boat boy.

Attention given, now bye.

CaveAdullam:
You don't have the time to read, but you have time to expose your low IQ about a fact you lack knowledge of, and still acts strong even in the presence of pictorial statistical evidences.

Now, every sound and logical person can judge for himself or herself if virginity is relevant for marriage or not. The truth is open for all to behold.

Bon voyage.

Virginity isn't a criteria for a peaceful and successful marriage Mr man. You yourself isn't a virgin. After you've broken girls hymen you'll be looking for a virgin to marry. You and the imps liking this post are the ones with the low IQ.

Nonsense.

Lies

Elrufai, if you like join your sons and go marry the whole of Igbo women, you will not smell that Aso Rock come 2023. And woe betide any Igbo that will support this charade of a union.

CaveAdullam:
But you will never advice any of your brother or male relative to marry a runs girl. Hypocrisy at its core.

And for your info, many men who occupy top positions are simps e.g politicians. The reason you see jobless girls with a very low IQ and mental capacity displaying houses, cars, bags and shoes they cannot afford based on their own ability.

More than 80% of men lack an understanding of the female nature, and they will commit to any woman in as much they satisfy their libido. And of course, many are rich, high quality, famous e.g Will Smith, but that an absolute simp when it comes to women. They are pawns in women's chess board, the ones you call MAGA, ATM, sugar daddies, etc.

Your runs girls classmates were subtle and good in their games.

PURE LIE!!!! LIE FROM THE BOTTOMLESS PART OF HELL.


For your information:
Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.

Now lets see who's talking nonsense, and know the truth about virginity.

Oga I not get time to dey read all those trash. Virgin or no virgin, someone that will be promiscuous will be promiscuous.

And if I find a good woman I'll introduce her to my bro. Virgin or no virgin.

Album that won't make sense

RedPhoenix:
Congrats. You said it all. Ladies aren't interested in building with one lover. Never. Even if that single lover is Dangote, when they're with him, they'll be eyeing Bill Gates. Psychological unstable greedy leeches

You haven't seen women that built with a man and he leaves her for someone else? Every time y'all come here to paint women black, like y'all are better. y'all don't know any single thing about the female folk. You think it's to come and be ranting here abi?

My brother if we open our own chapter church no go dismiss o. Better calm down.

Life happens to everyone. It's not a gender thing.

Inyama

CaveAdullam:
The average age of menstruation in women is between 8-14years. The essence it starts early is to quickly prepare women to make good use of their fertility, because as they grow older their fertility decreases which is fully collaborated in menopause: age 40 and above.

Now, a very large percentage of women, to be lenient enough; 70% and above, are approach for marriage immediately they hit their first menstruation, and begin to develop womanly qualities at puberty/adolescence. Since 18 years of age is when she becomes an adult and a legal age of consent, men in hordes will begin to fight for her attention in order to claim her personally. Many will declare their marriage proposals, but because she is naive, beautiful, young and can garner attention from all the cardinal points, she will decline their proposals, and cling to the men and bad boys who just want a taste of her flesh, and move away when satiated. All these happen between age 18-25.

In the age range of 18-25, many women are still young, fertile, beautiful and elegant. As a result of the sexual market deregulation, confusion on what it really means to be feminine or masculine, social obfuscation, liberalism, poor economic system, crazy ideologies and poor parental training, women resist their innate biological and natural ordination: which is to raise and nurture a family under the auspices and home of an alpha man. Instead, they focus on nonsensical careers, become social media narcissist; garnering likes, exposing their genitals for cheap pays, disrespecting good young men with marriageable potentials, enter into lion dens where they become objects of depravity, embellishing themselves in masculine traits. All these factors listed jeopardizes her fertility, and put her at a great risk as she approaches the wall---age 30.

Like I said earlier virginity/the presence of a hymen should be the first and necessary prerequisite any reasonable and high quality man should consider in a woman before committing to her in a long term relationship or marriage between age 18-25, because women at this stage are highly fertile, and still beautiful. Women around age 25-30 can also qualify if they are virgins with a high percentage of femininity. Although, at this age range it is difficult to find such women, and many put masks of superiority in order to mimic high quality women, and manipulate innocent and ignorant men into commitment.

So, any woman can get married to whomever she desires depending on her subtlety and manipulations. In this present day, many women eat their cake when young, and have it back when they catch a beta male on tenterhook. This is possible because more than 80% of men were raised in a gynocentric and blue pilled society to please women, dance to their tunes and satisfy their desires dangling the slogan: HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE before their faces.

My advice is for men who through thick and thin has upheaved themselves to the upper echelons and other males below the pyramid.

So, a lady above 26 who is not a virgin or a repentant wh0re can still get married, but not to a high quality man who understands the outer and inner layers of the female nature, and how the intersexual dynamics works.

Thanks.

You're still posting nonsense abi?

All my course mates that married when we were in school were runs girls, who married men they met in bars. High class men for that matter. And most of them are overseas with their hubbies.

Virginity or what not isn't a criteria for a peaceful and successful marriage. And there are virgins who married for years and still no child.

This messed up mentality of some of you men is very disgusting.

God will bless who he'll bless no matter what.

ashewoboy:
what about you? can a guy be too nice for you?

let's have examples.

No. I've seen it all in life. I don't think anything can surprise me anymore. So I think it's best, I allow myself to be loved no matter how it will end.

Yes.


At times people feel like any partner that is too nice in a relationship have ulterior motive.

Especially people that have been in a toxic relationship all their lives, so when they perceive that too much niceness, they feel like you have a bad motive. Because they haven't been cared for like that before.

Also people that had rough childhood, people their parents never shared love, people that witnessed domestic violence between their parents. All these factor can break someone. And affect their relationship with people. Both romantic and normal relationship.

The heart of man is evil

CaveAdullam:
Nice one from pansophist.

A little add: women by default are machiavellians, they know when, where, and how to mimic to any situation regardless of whether it's good or bad. Women, especially those who are approaching the wall, hit the wall or past the wall will play the chameleon game effectively, pretending to pass your vetting scrutinization. Many of them at their epiphany phase or wall phase, will then discover a need for a religious salvation, and begin to act as wise sages. And any man that approaches them in their religious salvation phase will definitely fall for their whims, with little or no cognizance of their past.

We all have a moment of change, but women change not for the sake of change itself, it is a subtle act of game and manipulation; an attempt to eat their cake during the h0e/party phase, and desire it back during the epiphany/salvation phase. What propel this change is because of a decline in beauty, attention, age, fertility and to quickly latch onto a man for marriage.

Therefore, as a man, entering into a long term relationship or marriage, the vetting process for women should be between the ages of 18-25, using the "virgin/hymen" requirement as a prerequisite. If a woman is a virgin, there is a very high probability of passing other tests. In addition to the vetting process: stir all forms of emotions in her; anger, pain, joy, gladness, anxiety etc. This is to determine her balance and extremes, and how to counter it when you eventually commit to her.

You don't need to like this, a man that has upheave himself to a king standard will never find problem searching and finally engaged himself to a virgin with a high dose of femininity. Other lower men can settle for repentant wh0res who wear a facade of intellect, logic, good behaviour, good character etc.

So, as a man, become high quality in every areas of your life, and only commit to a high quality woman. Settling for less is an unbalanced equation and a waste of your resources. Take a detailed analysis of her past, her sexual escapades, her social behaviour, ideologies and belief system.

Do not commit to a woman in her epiphany phase, because it is foolish to buy the cow when the milk is free. If she freely gave the milk in the , there's no need paying for it in the present. Do not be deceived by the appearance of the cow, it is a facade.

Thanks.

God bless.

In other words a 26 year old lady shouldn't marry because a hymen has cut.

I'm sorry to say this, but this is a very useless post.

This man in Vuga. I think I'll look for that movie and watch it again. When Nollywood was interesting. Feat.. Regina Askia and Segun Arinze

Umahi is about to render himself politically useless. You'll be surprised to find out that not all that glitters is actually gold.

Co-ask

mastertek:
Millions of Nigeria girl want to be in Chioma shoe right now.

Don't know why people shame her, someone that's enjoy money with fame.

Naija girls will gladly drop their ring to be in her shoes

When you are in that situation you will wonder if all the money is worth it

Nice

Always on pink hair. Come out the closet already

Chai

But the ones in Nigeria will be speaking nonsense English to their kids

sonnie10:
If he pays you. Won’t you future?

I'm not an artiste.

It's not just paying Artistes to feature in your songs. Hope it will be worth it

Imade carbon copy

Where is the face?