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I love to shop Chima and I love to buy baby clothes - they are sooo tiny and pretty and cute. Just adorable little bitty things, ooooo wow - don't I wish - I am jealous Chima, I am jealous. But very happy for you.

Chima:

I have some things I would love to send to you - once you give birth. Actually have you had a baby shower yet? Can you let us know when you have a baby shower? Get a P.O. Box so we can send some items to you. I would love to be a part of your wonderful celebration.

I wish nothing but the best for you and your husband. I really do enjoy you Chima. NL's going to have a baby, NL's going to have a baby, yay, yay, yay - Shy-One skipping and jumping rope.

You have too much energy.

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What do you want? What is it?

What is NL going to do with you?

Alot of them don't want to shave and have a preference to go au natural.

But most women I speak to who don't shave their legs and armpits - really just don't know.

The best feeling in the world - to me - is freshly shaved legs, sliding between clean and fresh smelling sheets right out of the dryer or right out of the sun - with a fan running and I am just out of a bath.

That is the best feeling in the world - legs are soft, smooth to point that the skin feels satiny and silky smooth.  It drives him wild.

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I found the one.

@ Poster

oooooo - yayyyyy!!!

I love this here your thread and your linkl

Can Shy-One join? Do you blog and discuss? How can I be a part of this wonderful group?

Are you in Lagos? Where are you?

I think this is fantastic. I am soooo excited,

This is me, this is really me, I could really get into this. (ok - let me calm myself a bit) - this is really beautiful poster - such a fine job. I love self work - working on myself. Every little bit helps.

@ Poster

I assume that you have started to stash away large amounts of money?  That is my assumption because of the way in which you have handled the women.

If my assumption is wrong - start stacking money left and right - Stay with him long enough to make sure you have enough mountains of money.  If you don't - you got repulsed too fast.

You need to secure your future as you ARE NO LONGER IN A MARRIAGE AND HAVEN'T BEEN FOR SOME TIME NOW.  You are expendable my dear.  Your wifely duty - one of those duties and pleasures is to warm his bed.  He has worked quite diligently side by side with his whores to rob you of that pleasure; they have collectively and without your permission, taken that duty from you and neither of them asked you or God if they were allowed that authority; therefore you need to realize that if they can replace you in the bedroom - then they can replace you in other areas of his life.

IT IS CRITICAL THAT you arm yourself right away.  Don't leave at this point, instead divert your attention elsewhere.  Also, don't cheapen yourself by being with another man.  Work on your appearance inside and out.  Grab your bible and listen for God.  God will tell you what to do.  If there is anything in the home that you adore and want - start relocating it piece by piece elsewhere - get property in your name only.  When you leave him if he won't stop philandering and playing russian roulette with HIV and endangering you as well - if you have to leave him because he has given you no other choice.

DO NOT GO TO ANY PROPERTY you have bought - stay instead with a relative for the first year and then later move into your new abode that he has pushed you into acquiring.

WHAT AN AZZZZZZZ!!

OK

So are you having a girl? What's going on over there Chima? When are u due?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=197499.msg8672901#msg8672901 date=1310070394]Exactly. Good response. Imma name the girl Shyisha. [/quote]lololololol

Chima - what in the world are you talking about?

lolololololol

Much love to ya sissy.

This is the oddest thread I have seen in a VERY LONG TIME.

Not being married doesn't = SINGLE in AMERICA

I don't know ANY WOMAN that isn't either living with her mate, if they aren't married it is because they chose NOT TO MARRY.  Women here live openly unmarried with their mate and many of them have been together for years.

Many women here don't care to marry and don't see it as an achievement on any level to be desired or to work towards.  The culture in the U.S. is totally different and the culture here "places value" on different things than they do in other areas of the world.

Many women here are thrilled and happy to be single, to be independent.  Many people here don't want to marry and settle down.  If they were to read this thread - many would wonder "why their Non-Marital Status" is up for conversation or concern or analysis in other areas of the world as when you look around in America - the Single Life is "placed on a level of value" and not of disdain, worry or concern.  It is seen as normal, acceptable and definitely not as abnormal or to lose any sleep over on any level.

The guy calls himself "lawyer" - he is listed under the Properties Section of NL - GO THERE - ASK HIM - LOOK ON HIS PROFILE AND SEE IF HE HAS AN EMAIL ADDRESS LISTED AS WELL.

There is a legal man on here - go to the legal section of NL - many NLers ask him legal questions - page after page after page

Ask him to help you.  

Don't fear - God never leaves us and always hears us in the wilderness.  You are not alone.  God loves you.

priest2u:
I think we men are responsible for the scarcity of good girls in our days. I think we should change the criteria  for  falling in love, most women are so concern about  how they look  in the outside and forget to develop their character and inner beauty.What if all the guys refuse to fall in love based on how a girl looks but how she behave to others? How good will it be if a guy can say I'm in love with this girl because of how she treated someone or somebody and not how beautiful she is? when that happen ladies with bad character will have no bf not to talk of husband. Women always conform themselves to what men are looking for, if men start looking for  good character, then the pursuit of good character will increase among ladies. Well this is my thought, I look forward to the days when we men select our wives based on what good they have done for others and not how they look outwardly. I rest my case.

I love this that you wrote - you are so wonderful - thank you

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What's Up Doc?

As a Christian - When you claim Christianity - You have accepted Jesus as God's Son - And Accepted God as Creator of All.  That is the Epitome of Christianity.

When you state this "aloud" - You are agreeing that God created ALL.

So if you are rejecting and hating those "Bastards" in the form of Children that Jesus Adored - and didn't differentiate on ANY LEVEL.  Jesus didn't say I love Children as long as they aren't bastards. 

Jesus never stated that and that isn't "my interpretation" - that is fact.

Another fact is that God continues to consistently watch and listens to everything you say and do.  Be aware that you are always in God's presence and in God's company.  Woe unto you!!!!

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A Real Christian's Point of View quoted below.

"My point is, It's our job as Christians to lead them and maybe not just our own children, but children who aren't raised in Christian homes, who need us as loving examples to lead them to the Way, the Truth, and the Life, which is Christ."

http://www.freewebs.com/suffer-the-little-children/

The first thing that God is - in the Bible that you hold up for ALL TO SEE - including "our younger siblings on this forum" - God is Love and God is a Forgiving God.

Somehow as a Christian you have missed that boat all together. You with your "great upbringing."

Jesus said if they don't accept me or what I teach - Dust your feet and keep walking. Meaning don't keep standing at the person's door or in that person's abode (meaning don't continue to Entertain or Suffer that Person's Thought or Views).

sevule:
Ehmmm sorry to say this but this piece of advice is completely DUMB!!! Poster take this advice to your own detriment. Normally Shyone is on point but me thinks she was a wee bit intoxicated when she wrote this. @poster  Forget the HOE you call a girlfriend and move on. She can wash all your family members' clothes but stand firm on this. You never make a hoe a housewife cos she would still remain a hoe. Yes I know it is painful but cut off ALL contact with her and move on. And please do not entertain thoughts of revenge. Let your babe's aristo's daughter be. She had no part to play in this and it would be sheer wickedness on your part to sleep with her to get back at her father

ahahahahahahah - lololololololol - i can't breathe

I don't drink anymore - I had to stop drinking I was going around telling people what I think about them and their BS - ahahahahaha

i stopped drinking that liquid courage - i got into too much trouble , i promise i did, that's not fair   

ok fine - so I missed the mark - i told the poster i had to let it marinate a bit - i have been waiting a few days before i posted because this one had me over a barrel.

i still think i'm close, really i do.

ahahahahahahahaha - don't do that - please - ooooo - lolololololololol - and I know you are entertaining it in your thought right now. I see the wheels turning

you and I are actually too much alike for you to hate me - i know i get on your nerves - but do you also think the discomfort with the pregnancy might contribute just a little tiny bit

when are u due anyway? i hope you post pictures of the baby so i can swoon over the tyke - i love babies

hate me or love me - I'm still going to be there - hanging around you - I'm going to drag you kicking and screaming into the "love light" - giving love and blowing sugary kisses wherever you go - that's what I want to see out of you.

With my last breath I take - I promise I won't give up on you Chima

ok

I realize you and I see and translate things very differently.

Outlook dictates Output

Stormy Weather or Blue Skies - take your choice

anyway happy belated 4th of July to you and yours

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=695105.msg8664473#msg8664473 date=1309976092]You need to ask her.

Good to know that it is all good and not that deep. Now maybe the tears and whines will stop.[/quote]U can't ask anyone u don't see - I just thought you were friends - NO BIGGIE - if you see her - tell her I said hello - again we do miss her - she's probably buried with school and work activities. Her responses to threads were intelligent and interesting - I enjoyed the reads as well as others. She is dearly missed.

Crying or Whining? Ahahahahaha - About what? This is time for celebration. You must be referring to the wrong thread.

Chima:

Where is Mz Darkskin - we miss her

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=695105.msg8664431#msg8664431 date=1309975665]I will puff however I see fit. I never said YOU ATTACKED ME and YOU TOOK WHAT I SAID PERSONAL that WHY YOU puffed. Get it right.

It is all good it won't change a damn thang.[/quote]ok - all good - calm yourself - it's not THAT DEEP.

We women - whether single with children or single without children

Could CARE LESS - if the guy wants to date us or not - that is their choice.

Other writers started putting single parents down, making caustic ignorant comments and going into tutorials about how they see it as some sort of "plague"

then Da Doctor jumps up with his mumbo jumbo crapola as well - lololololol - ahahahahaha

ABSOLUTELY AMAZING

The most recent writer just spoke on how 'proud she is' and then Mr. Witch Doctor jumps up and down beating his drum on the attack as though she was attacking him and all she did was speak her thought.

I came and actually commended her and here you come in a "puff" as though I am attacking you personally. I was commenting on the ignorance of the "thought process".

Sounds like you are quite passionate yourself as well.

Chima

Actually - there is much more going on than just "preference" as you can see. There is judgment and name calling. That is the ignorance of which I speak.

People aren't just stating who they will or won't date. You yourself used the term "plague" to describe single parents. You're smart you know exactly what I mean.

OBVIOUSLY everyone has a choice to date who they want to date and it is obvious that no one is telling anyone who to date. People are offended and reacting to how they are being "described" [b]IGNORANTLY [/b]by other writers.

It's that simple. What is it that you don't understand?

I love Inspiration 92.3 FM - Lagos

dayokanu:
Hmm

Dayo - how are u?

look at the votes

51 to 20 - what does that tell you? The numbers speak for themselves.

Yeye77:
Firstly, i'm a proud single mother. I could have chosen to abort, but i chose to have my child, and i'm glad i did.( No disrespect to those who choose to abort, to each his/her own)

i can't speak for all single mothers, and i don't feel i have a right to judge anyone or generalize.

I am a beautiful, independent, intelligent, strong black single mother of a beautiful, smart, lovely blessed 4yr old princess. I have never been married and i am not desperate for anyone to marry me. marriage is not by force!

I believe that everyone has a right to marry or not marry whoever they want, however i take exception to the attempts of some posters to insult or belittle single mothers. It takes an extremely small mind to call an innocent child a bastard! what did they do to you? Who gives you the right to judge these innocents? Who died and made you God? Feel free to abuse the parents, cos we can insult you right back. (if we choose to waste our time!), I don't really care what the dictionary defines it as, it is derogatory! Every child is a blessing. My daughter is not baggage, she is my life and my blessing.

Before i had my daughter, i dated a single dad and it wasn't a big deal to me.

I realise that for some people being involved with a single parent isn't their cup of tea and that's their right. and yes everyone is also entitled to their own opinion, i respect and honour that, just adding my own ten cents.

I know that the man who will love, respect and treasure me and my angel  is out there, and the water that i will drink will never pass me by.

It's all good and will only get better for all of us!

You are beautiful - ONLY A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN who is secure in who she is would speak with such self-assuredness as you.  I look around and see the many, many, many  numbers of single parents - remarrying around me.

What you speak is truth.  The plagues are the locust flying freely spewing riff raff - those of us with eyes to see, freely translate the environment around us.

Don't bother yourself about what comes out of the mouths of those who have little of nothing in their own lives and therefore have no base of foundation to offer to anyone around them.  Celebrate you and Celebrate your daughter.  God loves you and celebrates you and yours and TRUST ME, that's all that matters.

Stay focused on the thought process that you have - because there are millions out there that definitely feel the same way about you that you feel about yourself and those millions WANT TO share your world - so walk with those that walk across your path.  You are blessed.

Don't allow the small number of riff-raff spewing BS to stress you.  Life is too good. Overlook them - I promise the masses overlook them as well. Success is success - focus on it. Ignorance can't touch it.