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@ lola

just peeking in - still working -  ALL THE TIME

so tired  - seems like the days are all merging into one - sleep is just the separator.

it's good to hear from you. take care.

ttl

Why do I sense that there is no yankee friend?

I sense that you are the yankee friend and you want to experience their kindness and loving nature.

I don't blame you though

We all deserve love, don't we?

@ 190

you are definitely forgiven

@ lola

hi sissy

lol @ OP topic

hi - 190

I'm sorry about the things I said - please forgive me.

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=714751.msg8729565#msg8729565 date=1310839092][color=deeppink]190, what do you think of my new profile picture?[/color][/quote]eat fruits and vegetables - drink gallons of water and change your lipstick color - those pastels wash us out - we are too bold and beautiful for those "blonde girl colors"

i've seen your pictures - they are very beautiful - abeg don't fall into the American "let's eat all and damn the diet" fest.

you are gorgeous - don't lose sight of who you are and swell up - you are very young - you can make changes now and maintain yourself

Both have hopped around - he is a divorcee and so is she - they met and married each other - divorcee marrying divorcee

oh well - so what

what bothered me about the two of them is that when i see Marc Anthony - what struck me about him is that he holds his lips and head in a "petulant manner"  looks like a male diva and he looks feminine to me - not masculine at all.  Looks like a complainer and looks totally spoiled.

Jennifer looked the same.  Both perfectionist.  I thought she chose him because of the pressure to marry her own kind - nationality and star. She took alot of negative hits behind the P-diddy connection.

From day one they never looked like they belonged together.  However, they spent money like it was water lavishing each other like no tomorrow.

Have always thought they would end up divorced.  Just wondering which would outshine the other first and which would be the most insecure about it.  If they could, I bet the walls would talk in that household.

Can you imagine the screaming that goes on between those 2 divas?  [shy-one covering ears]

@ thiscounts

just checked it - resend what you sent to me - nothing is there - are you back? hope all went very well for you.

kokoye:
She really got you . . didnt she?

She is just messing with y'all

It is friday

Looks like she did, smh. How did you know it was joke Kokoye?

Shy-one wants to go to Belize

It is beautiful - I was just reading that and reviewing it these past few days.

2012 DV Lottery Results


http://www.dvlottery.state.gov/ESC/


Open this link

Click Continue

Then - Put in your:

Confirmation Number (that was on your letter)

type your last name/first name middle name (Put in the slash)

type date of birth


THIS JUST POSTED AT NOON TODAY - LESS THAN 3 HOURS AGO.

I called 606-526-7682  - This is the Kentucky Consular Visa Office that monitors the DV Lottery Program

I wish you all well.

http://www.dvlottery.state.gov/ESC/

Open this link

Click Continue

Then - Put in your:

Confirmation Number (that was on your letter)

type your last name/first name middle name (Put in the slash)

type date of birth


THIS JUST POSTED AT NOON TODAY - LESS THAN 3 HOURS AGO.

I called 606-526-7682  - This is the Kentucky Consular Visa Office that monitors the DV Lottery Program

I wish you all well.

You chewed that gum and poured that bowl of cheerios and cold milk - one time - too many

He is not an AA man, them African men do not like too much fast food or quick non-cooked food items.  That cold cereal must have pushed him over the edge.

Say something Chima - if you need us - you need to open that mouth of yours and tell us.  Did you leave the house yet?

Chima - leave - just leave - don't do anything. You are pregnant and you might get overly emotional - you know how excitable you can become on NL - do all of us a favor and just keep your damn mouth completely shut.

You and your big mouth are loved by many - we don't want anything to happen to you. COVER your mouth with your hand if you have to and pack a bag and get out of the house.

Go to a relative - if you need my phone number or Mz Darkskin number let us know. We will come to your aid. Get to a safe place and start thinking through what you must do from there.

Be safe sis.

@ Poster

Babe is definitely onto something.

I was a landlord for some time and landlord + money + good tenant = WIN/WIN situation

You are either doing something to cause disturbance - and they are now reacting by disturbing you

or

You owe rent

or

You have too many parties, guests, traffic

What have you not told us?  

They didn't just out of the clear blue start ringing your doorbell non-stop.  Tell us.

I'm sorry 190

Abeg - Please forgive

I was unaware you were joking. It is not my intent to hurt you. I do like some of your threads, really, I do very much.

I just don't want the type of attention you have started showing to me. Can we just go back to being what we have been before Mz Dark Skin left and before my guy and I had conflict?

Just generic friends commenting on threads. Again - I apologize

@ Mukina - sorry for opening my mouth and pulling you in, my apologies.

Thank you Mukina - you are doing a very fine job.  I very much appreciate you.

Abeg - 190 is delusional - I promise you Mukina, I am not trying to get to know him better or playing hard to get.

Again - I thank you and hope that I didn't inconvenience.   I have decided to just stop responding to him, his advances are inappropriate.  Please listen to that filthy song he posted on my thread and he actually thought I would like it.  My guy would be horrified and I was horrified as well.

Please, in your downtime, during your relaxation periods - I encourage you to ban him until your banning finger goes numb.  He is a nasty.

Again, thank you for listening.

(I just am now reading through the thread)

I dislike all of the above.

But chose the lesser of the evils - "getting by" it is - but he will be dumped ASAP as soon as this thread is over.

ok

I am officially filing a complaint

my guy is Nigerian and he is very romantic, but what I am noticing is that he is NOT as romantic as he used to be earlier in the relationship, which concerns me because I just don't buy into the "years together" stuff.

I don't care how long we have and haven't been together or difficulties in the relationship, etc, etc. I expect romance out of my partner especially when I give romance to my partner.

So I am actually finding myself rethinking this relationship and I too am wondering about my Nigerian man. I know there are serious, serious struggles in Nigeria and actually everywhere because of the recession, but regardless of the food, water,work situations, etc.

WE should never lose sight of what we mean to each other. I just am not willing to settle and I won't just settle, I need to feel cherished and loved by my mate whether he is tired or not. I'm tired to and will still reach to be what he needs when he needs it.

I have to have the same and as committed and loyal as I am and as I can be - trust me when I say that Shy-One will wander.

Omolola1:
approach her just like u wud approach any other lady

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=712920.msg8714780#msg8714780 date=1310638342]OP

Just approach her and introduce yourself. Take it easy and work your way in. Desperation is not cute. [/quote]

donguutti:
[size=14pt]approach her as u would if she were just another lady, just be careful abt topics u discuss and your manner of speaking to her so she wont feel its out of pity or something more "sinister"[/size]   ^{***your word**Na to just eat and clean mouth.}

These 3 writers above - I AGREE with what they have said.

I want to see it - what was it?

ooooo - ahahahahahaha

i just peed on myself - I laugh sooo hard - now I have to run and change my clothes

oooo Babe!!!!!

ahahahahaha - lolololol

I admire your forthrightness.

wow, I started thinking and had to add more names - there are at least 20 more names that need to be added to my list.  But I am told we have to keep it at 5 per category and I already went over?

Wetin I do?  I want to add more.   

Cold, Araboy, Obowunmi and so many more names should be there.  This isn't fair.

satani23:
Shy-one, me think Busybody is the same xter as Jennykadri. Same aggressive style

ooooo

I never thought about that - see you are smarter than me.

I forgot to list your name - I just kept remembering your posts - I am going to list you as well above. It's just soo many great writers and I cannot remember all of them. I try ooooo

You can nominate as many as five for a
category. If you have no preference, leave
it blank.

Categories:

Best Female Poster:  Mz Darkskin, Chaircover, Iice, Ogugua88, Livedit

Best Male Poster:  Kingsleyinfo, Lord Reed, Mr. Brown Jay, Dayokanu, justwise, kokoye

Nicest Member: Ivynwa, Tosinville, Reality101, High Chief, Omega25Red, Desholah, 2Buff

Best Newbie (Registered in January 2011):  New Guy, SexKillz

Classiest Member:  Chaircover, Kingsleyinfo, Mr. BrownJay, Lord Reed, Desholah

Member Who Should Post More Often:  Odunnu, Mama190, Nayah, Kokoye, Orinkila, Anna White

Most Delusional Member:  The female Gangbangers who act like men on NL – Busybody and JennyKadry;  Craziness at its finest: LefuLefu, and Da Doctor

Member Who's Most Likely To Be A Good
Parent and Lover Now/In The Future: SA Goddess/ Omolola1/ MzDarkskin/Kinglesyinfo/Lord Reed/

Most Popular Member:  Chaircover/Mobo999/Seun/Tpia/Mukina2

Most Comedic Member:  Chima/Cork/Mobo999

Most Predictable Member:  Stranger 1-6 or A-Z and Cork and Sagamite and Mobo999

Best Thread Maker:  Rokiatu, Lawyer, Orikinla, Satani23, 190, Chima, Babe

Worst Thread Maker: LefuLefu

Wittiest Member:  Dyt, Mr. BrownJay, Desholah, Chima, Mynd_44, kandikane

Biggest Flirt:  190/Jaybee/Cork/Ms. Potato/Dyt

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pmiZg7Tt_bY[/flash]

I passionately hate white underwear on men or women.

If I wanted sex from you - once you revealed your "Tidy Whitees" - my desire disappears immediately.

Grown men also - boxers not "little boy underwear" - I have never liked hanes briefs or any type of briefs on men. I love boxer shorts on men. Maybe because the little briefs are too small to hold the man wearing them - so I've never had a man wear the briefs before.

@ Poster - Dump her backside

It sounds like you dress very well.  Keeping up with the "Jones's" is cliche and will keep you in the "poor house."

As long as you aren't wearing hawaiian looking shirts with flowers and striped or checked pants  - it sounds like you are doing a fine job. Clothes don't make the person - the person makes the clothes.

Remember that. If you are in shape, look good, have swag - you can wear a paper bag and it will glow and everyone around you will want to copy.

Advocator:
She is traumatized, wants to be assured what had happened to her previously won't happen again. Use your psychological scantiness, calm her down, love her, ease her the pain she's carrying, slow sex her, be overly romantic until she leaves the dark room she is in. she is your woman now, and her painful past is your past. The pain she is in won't be forever. You are getting tested dude, so bare with her and all will be well.

wow,

never thought i would say this - BUT YOU COMPLETELY RIGHT.

Shy-One is impressed with you. A wonderful response that will definitely get results - it is very true - thank you

Kingsleyinfo:
i concur,

loving someone without a reason doesn't make sense.

the question is which reason,

why am i not surprised that most females are loving without a reason,

no wonder they are taken for granted and then you start wondering why,

now let me analyze this my way,

guy loves a girl without a reason,
breaks up with her and moves on to another girl,

few months later discovers that the former girl is the best and wanna make up,

teens fall inlove without reasons,

as you grow older you fall inlove for different reasons
the question is can that reason stand the test of time,

^^^^ - so true - beautiful

2buff:
Thought you were gonna dedicate the rest of the year to business lol. 

You got me 

See Shy-One - Such a Hypocrite

I tried hard oooooooo

I have to have that chocolate man of mine.

I hope my man beats your mouth closed - you have just lost my friendship.