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Also - please - where is this located? I am looking to rent (let) - this property - Is this located in Lagos, Nigeria? If so - where in Lagos? Is it near the airport? Or near the Islands? Or centrally located in the Islands?

I want to live in Lagos for about a year.

Yes - I saw that - is that Naira?

So how much for one year rent?

@ poster what is your height?

I am 5'10 3/4 inches tall - almost 5'11 inches

when I modeled I weighed 120 pounds and wore a size 4 - 6

I now wear a size 12 -14 (because of my hips) and when I lose weight and get into a size 8-10 - I am told by many people that I NEED TO EAT because I look too thin.

I am curious as to what is your height?

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Mission to Please You

over 200 men - she slept with over 200 men?

there is still enough of her left over to have A BOYFRIEND?

what kind of superwoman is this?

from that headcount i wouldn't even expect her to still own feet to fit into sandals.

i would assume that she would be totally used up by now.

smh

i wouldn't want to touch the tip of her fingernail as a female friend. what man would want to investigate her secret places? those secrets have been revealed to too many far and wide.

Whatever we decided that we both need we both give to each other.

money
gift
love
laugh
conversation
sex (when married)
etc.

it matters not what be thy lot - keep God first - one with God is majority - you are protected in whatever you do - just keep it God blessed

Elpieda:
Ohh freaking shut the hell up, SO you think every woman who gets her womb removed had an abortion, Nigerians and their foolish myopic thinking, Please go and do your research before yarning dust.

She had an Ovarian cyst and it usually affects all women of all ages, Go read about the causes and symptoms yourself,

Ooooo my goodness - Ovarian Cyst - I know what that means - soo painful - I had them. I didn't know where they came from and neither did my Doctor. But very painful - sometimes they go away by themselves - sometimes surgery is required.

http://www.trying-to-conceive.com/pcos/ovarian-cysts-and-pregnancy/

no

don't pick up the phone - don't call him - listen to Goldie - I agree with her words as well

let him contact you

There are 3 couples (married) in my church who don't want children.  Don't want to hold yours.  Who travel, eat out, work and love their careers.  Completely enjoy the finer things in life.  They have been married for over 20 years now and still don't want any children.  Have beautiful homes and are quite content.

Visiting different countries on their vacations, etc,

There are times when you really need to carve out your own niche in life, trust God to know what is GOOD FOR YOU and be the one that can see the forest beyond the trees.  What is wrong with being unique?  being different?  being note worthy?  Those are the ones that are ground breakers.  So what if people talk about you.  They will always talk.  Give them something note worthy to talk about by being great.

Instead of following the crowd - DAAAAYYYYUUUUMMM - GIVE the crowd something to follow.

NO WOMB - a beautiful child bearing aged woman, living in Nigeria?

From a well known family?

Popular ALL HER LIFE?  Held in high esteem far and wide by all who knew her?

Why doesn't this add up to readers?

She is living up to a society THAT DOESN'T LIVE UP TO HER.  That's why she committed suicide.  She lives in a society from birth that puts a woman's worth on beauty, ovaries, being a wife and mother.  Her self worth though she was educated was placed in those categories because she lives in a society that pushes that thought process throughout all levels of their hierarchy.  As far as she was concerned if he jilted her, others would too.  As far as she saw and felt, her life wasn't worth the living.  

I wish that she had been surrounded by those that valued living a life without children.  I know so many people who don't want kids and would have loved finding a woman who couldn't have any.  Who would have loved her for who she is as a person and would have made her want to live until she passed 100.

kpolli:
as a guy having family issues, my new gf of 3 months sends me that . . . . that can cause alot of damage. . . n we dont know how bad the txt was. . . .

my fada is ill, i tell u, then u call me a liar . . . .l com'on lets be human

I believe you very much - "liar" that word is used casually here in the States - whether I like it or not. But "words in Nigeria" are taken much more seriously than here in the States.

That is one of the "culture' differences. So I do believe you - I found this out from my guy - so I have to many, many times choose my words very carefully as he takes them much more seriously than I do. SO I believe you when you said that ^^^ - however the poster doesn't probably know that her words have caused the damage to the point that he wouldn't return the call(s).

Poster - if you want this guy and you have the fortitude and severe patience at 3 months into a relationship to start this relationship off on this footing - if you feel he is worth it - then definitely follow "goldie's" advice as I too believe it is very good as well.

@ kpolli

Here's my take on it:

They Were Intimate in the 3 months he has been her boyfriend here in the States.  Dating, enjoying each other in a frivolous manner.  He ran after her, ran behind her.  She was good enough for that for him.

He goes through a life-altering situation(s) with his family - his lifeblood back in Naija and closes her out.  She wasn't taken seriously enough by him for him to inform her of any of it.  He just stops the contact.  In my mind if he saw her as "wife material" he would have informed her whether they were together 3 months or 3 years.  If he wanted her in his life on a longevity level he would have included her and allowed her to assist him even in his grief.

GF or not - he sees you as a "foreigner," and/or not someone he wants to share his family life with which leads me to see that at this point in time - she wouldn't be the one he introduces to his Nigerian family.

Again, I would move on - I would find another boyfriend or stop dating and heal from this one.  Unless you have the time to deal with this at the start of this "new relationship."  Be aware that you are dealing with not just a "new relationship" but a normal and regular life cycle event that includes illness, death, culture, how he deals with stress as a man, how he deals with stress as a foreigner who is from Naija, his view of your role in his life in midst of crisis, and his view of your role in his life while in midst of crisis as a foreigner, true acceptance by him, etc., etc., etc.

Poster - if this happens in your life - a death, an illness - would you close him out and how would he feel?

as I finished typing and hit reply this writer posted THE OBVIOUS TRUTH(S) better than I did above.

omega25red:
poster

how can you wait for someone who is not communicating with you?
I understand that he has some family emergncies going on but at least you will explain yourself and the reasons why you couldn't be in touch.
I would have said be patient but seriously delete dude's number. If i have a family emergency i would want to confide in a person whom i care about for comfort or advice and i wouldn't keep them in the dark about all that is going on.

Stop sweating a dude who don't want you and even if he did he is not actting like he does.

very funny

thanks for sharing

Get a new boyfriend

he's playing games - dump him - as soon as you dump him - he'll have an epiphany which will motivate him to remember your name. but who cares? who wants a boyfriend that you have to flag down just so you can hear his voice, regardless to what he is or isn't going through?

@mama

lolololol - your picture - what did you do? ahahahahahah 0 oo0000000000

2010Idowu:
As an American "older" woman, who has come into contact with Nigerians as of late, and now see them on the Internet, with their forever sandals, hideous weaves, big belles, fake swag, and whatnot, let me tell you poster, you should take what you can get!!

Be it a 34 year old woman or a 45 year old woman!! Nigerian men are some of the ugliest ppl on this earth!! And this whole site is a big joke. I see you all on here condeming this or that in the name of being a Nigerian, and it just cracks me the f*&k up! Personally, it would suit me fine if all of yous would keep your tribal

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behinds over in Africa, and have boo coos of babies that desperate Americans will have to adopt and care for because the mums as you call them will be so fat, sick, and lazy and the fathers will get wrapped and tied up in that big Bottom dress he wears and choke to death, that the many poor dusty children will be orphans.

Stop, and I mean, PLEASE STOP! idolizing yourselves as you do! It's nonsense! You come to America with your orange feet and smelly food and turn into drunks and wannabes. You can't wait to get to America so you can live the "good life" and be pimped out by your parents who you have to send money and cars and phones and medicines back to until you're well into your freakin' fifties! Who wants to be bothered with that shyt??

With that being said, no woman of any age would want to be bothered with you, let alone marry your wierd looking azz. I can just see you all sitting in your huts with your lenolium floors and couches and chairs pushed together as a makeshift sectional, and your tiny bathrooms, and refurbished laptops that you've begged some American for, making accusations, pretending to be enlightened, and judging people left and right. You are only fooling yourselves! Believe me you.

As I said, I come here to this sight to freakin laugh! Your words are hilarious! Your false sense of self-esteem and culture is downright funny. Men are 25 years old and still in school. Men have to ask their mummies and pappys if they can get married, and to whom? WTF? Men are finding issues with women who wear weaves in their heads when just a few weeks ago, you didn't even have clean water to drink. No one on this site is thankful, but all you can hear is God this, and God that!!

To the poster, if you want to marry a woman 8 years older than you, do yourself a favor, and do it. I've seen your women, and the fat is just waiting to pile on. A woman at 34 looks now how she will look at 44, 54, and possibly 64; as long as she takes care of herself, and your country Bottom don't stress her out with your Nigerian nonsense and ridiculous family matters. Nine times out of ten, she will outlive you. Especially with all those crazy foods you all eat! Learn to evolve and move into the 21st Century. Stop acting like cave men and women! Grow the f&*k up! Stop all your damn whining!! Men who still wear dresses and lace in this day and time should not be judging anybody!!! Get a backbone, or shut the hell up! All this polygamy and other dirt you all do, don't let marriage to an older woman hinder you. Why?? [color=#990000][/color]

2010Idowu:
Diary of a mad white woman. Lol. . ,, @OP, I no know wetin to tel you. Weigh de advan ages and disadvantages. But remember, only you wil get to live wit her and take whatever comes if u marry her. So think well before making any decisions.

Don't u EVA! insult me like that.  I am AA!

I am AA too and trust me - YOU HAVE HUMILIATED THE ENTIRE AA race with that write up.  You have shown your ignorance, lack of education, stupidity to ALL COUNTRIES who have readers on NL.

Don't you EVER tell anyone THAT YOU ARE AA.   WE DISCLAIM AND DISOWN your azz.

I knew we had some complete idiots in our ranks.  YOU LEAD THE PACK.  Your writing style has blown your cover,  You aren't who you say you are - you have more than one identity and you sound like one of those regular writers in the tribal section.  A male, not a female at all.  Your voice sounds very familiar.

Stop embarrassing us you DAMN FOOL!!!

my guy is much thinner than i am and if i become thinner than he - I will be bones with nothing to hold onto

i will never be thinner than he is and I DON'T EVER WANT TO BE

i will not sacrifice my curves for this stooopid survey

i will not be fat - but i will not be anorexic either

my guy is thin and still very muscular - i love his frame, very, very much.

kokoye:
Because I understand Mrs Chima.

she just wanted to create a thread

oh ok - thanks

@ Babe - YOU HIT IT ON THE HEAD - you are very accurate

@ Poster - you are the kind of woman that I would have to keep away from my mate. He is very, very similar as the man you long to hug in your post. You really need to go for marriage counseling. You also need to rediscover the love for your husband and your own life.

You are seconds away from cheating. You are entertaining the idea very strong on a mental level. Don't ruin another woman's home by making passes at her husband. Stop yourself now. You chose your current husband - now be a good wife and do everything in your power to improve your marriage. You are spending alot of mental, emotional and physical energy fantasizing about dyk that belongs to another.

Stop sniffing around another woman's husband.

hi

"I love your outfit"

or

"I love your thought process"

or

"I love your swag"

or

"Do you eat chinese?"

or

"What size shoe do you wear?"     [sorry, shy-one had to throw that one in - but don't say that to a man]

or

etc, etc, etc, etc,

Mobinga:
Yes, and two weeks later they accuse you of violation, file for divorce, you end up in jail, deported or committing suicide.

When is the last time that "we women" on NL have told you the "kind of wonderful that you are?" Such an intelligent man that's our Mobinga.

lefulefu:
In the past it was taboo for blackmen to date white women but today interracial love has come to stay.there is nothing more sensual than having a soft fair white skin by your side.we blackmen love the fair white beauty of a white girl and when a white girl smiles it keeps our blood boiling.the white girl is just so perfect and they are ready to stay with you through thick and thin unlike a naija girl who is only ready to stay with through the good times but when things becomes rough she runs away.a white girl would love you for what you are and not what you have unlike a naija girl who loves you for the material things you provide her be it blackberry,money or expensive clothes items

vomits

Smilenw:
Inform her sister ASAP !

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Can you not tell her to cease and desist? [/color]

Your nightmare will end as soon as you follow these writers.

krech:
my guy you can't put what sbetween your leg to a test so just enjou the package and ladies stop using that world Beast between your legs.How can you call what brought you into the world Beast

we call it beast when it's owner doesn't control it = a wild beast

when it belongs to our Dad, we don't even acknowledge it's presence = we respect and love our Dad's and we don't even view him as owning one, though we know he does, we still don't even associate dyck with Dad. He's just Dad and regardless to how old we get, we are still his little girl.

when it belongs to our heart's desire = the dyk is precious to us on many different levels.

In this instance sista-jay called it RIGHTLY SO - IT IS A BEAST. A stinking, dangling beast that will ruin the poster's chances with his fiancee if he gives in. This is a test, it reeks of a test.

He will pass or fail - it is up to him.