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HQ: Oh Geez, Not another one of these on the frontpage.

We've been through this countless times. Where did you come up with this remix to the question? "in movies".

So Much for the front page. SMH*

lmao!!

All the deaths this week are of men ripe and old...and ones who lived full lives...
R.I.P to them all!!!

jennykadry: She shouldn't be running to anybody (not friends, not father not whoever) but him to answer questions that has to do with HIS business. Any concern she has, should have been tabled and ironed out with HIM and not her father or her friends.

The question is...
Was he available to listen to her at all?
Or aren't we still taking of the same guy who is too busy to "call" for "days"....?

You don't seek confirmation of the success of your man's career or business from your father.

Really?
You think she was seeking confirmation and not some matured opinion/insight?

She is already trying to "secure" her future which I have no problems with but the way she went about it makes you wonder, is she there for the money, the business profits or for love?.

i'm not seeing the above anyways...
I'm only seeing a girl who is uncertain about her relationship more because the guy is not showing significant interest or will in her/the relationship itself and just needs a reason to remain in it.

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jennykadry: There was a reason why I asked him if he loves her. I do not think he loves her at all.

Hmmn...
That is very probable!!

You see both of them have issues:

i agree!!

A woman that runs to her father all the time

Isn't that better than she running to her friends who probably would have nothing of substance to say to her?

and a man who really hasn't met the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with. I think they should just break up and move on.

Maybe....

I want to know who eventually breaks the ice each time this happens-does she end up calling him or vice versa?.

hmnnn...

Regarding my earlier post- I just had to reply to the below post.



Going a day without calling a loved one does not in my own dictionary mean you don't love or care about them. I was just trying to be realistic and wash the eyes of the mills and boons lovers. Truth is some of us Nigerians can ask for the impossible and also ask for too much. Imagine a young woman who is engaged to a hard working man, vexing on a thread here a few months ago that he is not romantic because he does not engage in MTN MIDNIGHT CALLS WITH HER. Can you imagine the silliness?

okay..
I get it now...
I also do not expressly suscribe to that statement..i made it clear in my post.

I suggest finding that person that can tolerate his BS. Somethings no matter how little cannot be compromised. He might turn a new leaf tomorrow but go back to his old ways the next week. You cannot force people to do things they "might" not be used to.

Oh well...
I guess the choice will be his at the end of the day...
To decide if he wants what he wants with her or not and make an effort to make it work if he wills it!

deshclones: This op na bleeding pipehole..yOu have been lamenting about this ex of yours for the past 2yrs..what's ur problem man?why can't u move the hell on?are you the only guy that has been dumped or played by the daughters of eve?always running down seun's site with ur sad pathetic tales of ur ex did this nd that..spare us ur problems man nd go get urself a gd gorgeous gal..the earlier u stop stalking that ex of urs nd move on,d better for u..she was a lesson to u man,pick up urself nd move on..next tym don't buy things for a gal you have never nyashed.

i be think say na only me sabi 2sexy issues concerning the same girl..
Im go still tell the story for another thread before the end of the day and tomorrow and the next day after that...
Nothing more pathetic than one who can't move on!!!

Johndoe100: @OP
Seriously are you for real? If this is not a joke, which I think it is. Why are you worried? Let the biatch go. Never, never let a woman rule you She has told you she wants to go. If she stays it will be just to manage you. Is that ALL YOU ARE WORTH? Where is your self esteem?
Kick her azz out. Get rid of her as fast as you can. That marriage is over, move on and next time get a reasonable kitty. The mistake most young men make is thinking that everything with a kitty is wife material. You have learnt now that that is not true.

You nor get sense!!!
...and i'm not sorry i said that!!!

Reminds me of a certain character in one of D.O Fagunwa's books..
"Ajantala" has come to life!!!
Hehe!!

everystep87: Who send you? They are some people who are focus than you. Just congratulate the old man and stop telling us your class.
Try and go back to skool wen you are 50yr old and make 1st class. Yeye.... [b]U wan make we know say u get first class for FORESTRY. [/b]Osisko

forget that thing jor!!
Forestry nor be beans o....
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This old man make shame catch me sha as na ---------- i get for school...

This is not news...
Na naija way...
Next please!!!

jennykadry: I still insist that not calling someone "everyday" does not in any way mean you don't love that person.

Yes,i agree too.
Sometimes,life gets too full and busy that way.One or two days can be excused but how do you love someone and be comfortable with not knowing how they are faring for "days" in probably the same country and state and expect that they understand?
Not everyone can understand that!

I know this because they are people who are not into the lovey dovey BBM,TXT MSGing and are in happy relationships but in-order to to have that kind of successful relationship you need to look for that woman that reads more into actions than words and not the other way round.

....or compromise that for your relationship at some point...
Or get out of the relationship altogether since there's no mutual understanding around that!!

If Iyanya nor use and dump this geh,im be mugu!!
Where all these mumu love dey when im nor see anything sing for the past two years?
Mtcheeeeew!!

acidtalk: And what exactly is your point?
For you to memorize all my thhreads shows you are a very dedicated FAN of mine. *2 pako biscuit and half bottle of Tandi Guorana for you*

Remembering anything for me is effortless so don't get a hard-on cuz of that...
Just to remind you your e-reputation precedes you....figure!!

tchidi: The kinda food we eat, the time we eat n lack of exercise are some of d reasons....

speak for yourself sweetie...!!

Yes o!
Infact,i've killed two!!
...two cockroaches mating in my bathroom on a cold morning....
Very dangerous animals in a dangerous situation!!!

Haha!!
If the woman's story is true,in her shoes,i would do the same minus the police part though...
I would give the thing to him to play with or take it out and throw it to dogs on the street!!

Honestly,the "i really cannot bring myself care or be nice" part of me will say NO...but the beautiful me inside of me will not let me act the NO.

This Acidtalk...
Na im be pastor wey dey prophesy give us for Nairaland...
Na im get banker friend wey the wife pregnant for someone else..
Na im hin girlfriend father discover im id for Nairaland and cancel marriage things...
Na im them wan dash wife from the village..
Na im sabi every club wey dey Lagos..
Na im get fridge wey everthing wey dey supermarket full inside for house..
Na im get different experience wey 80 percent of Nairalanders nor get..
Na im come still get 186 celebrity contacts for BBM...
Na im be.......*in the next few posts or topics by him*watch out!
Na Acidtalk biko o!!!!

Yes,it would do us a lot of good to see him return!!
Even though he raised tarrifs like some m0r0ns,bastard$ and slaves to white men wey never reach Nigeria are bawling here,was it not better that we at least saw and enjoyed what we were paying for?
Aren't we still paying now?
...and even though we are not paying as high,where is what we are paying for?
For the first time in years,we saw remarkable improvement and a little light at the end of the tunnel but as soon as they got rid of the guy,we were back to square one and will remain at square one until God knows when...and you say why should we wish him back?

I have 3 names and i trashed one long ago because peeps do not pronounce it well (English name o) and i never liked it sef..so i have used just two since i can remember.
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Its my people that love giving numerous names though...
Been to a naming ceremony wher the boy was given about 16 names..
The names were sent from all the coners of the country
Father gave..
Father-in-law gave..
Mother gave..
Mother-in-law too..Maternal and paternal uncle and aunty..
Pastor too...
Uncle Kaduna..
Daddy Ibadan..
Mummy ILorin..
Sister Lagos..
The brother of the father of the uncle of the daddy too...
Na wa!!
All na nonsense!!

Nothing absurd in that..
Nothing wrong with it if its just once in a while like you said..
Nothing wrong if you have a good relationship with your inlaws..
People just like to read too much meaning into seemingly harmless acts.

As much as i try to understand people who cant create a balance between business/work and personal relationships,i can't!!
IMO,its mostly a lame excuse for want of something else to blame it on.
You do not like that you are lonely but you are too busy to communicate with the supposed one?
So much has been said here to you about communication..which seems to be the only issue especially from your end.
This lady doesn't want any more than you want from all you've said about her..
She just wants to be happy with the one she loves too.
How hard is it to punch your phone and say hello to one you claim to love at least once in a day?
How hard is it to send a message to her phone ,facebook,BBM or whatever?
How long would that even take?
Is five minutes in 24hrs too much to spare...??
I wouldn't "understand" if i were in her shoes too...
Please adjust if you truly want the things you say you want with her!
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Btw,her relationship with her father doesn't seem like a threat to your relationship now or in the future at all...!!
Its nothing to worry about..
Goodluck to you!!

Though so many things are wrong here,I do not think this marriage cannot be salvaged...
Two external factors are the main issues IMO though....and i can't say nothing until i at least get a clearer picture in relation to the below...
-Her mother has so much influence in her life and your marriage.What is your relationship with your mother-in-law?
-The men she enjoys talking to/with till late in the night.
Who/what are they to her?

Awwww...
Was still telling someone about the state of his health a few days ago hoping he'll pull through...
A fine actor he is!!
Nollywood lost one of the few good ones...
May his soul rest in peace!

What is this thread about??
Schooling someone that is so set in his ways,opinions and prejudices about women and love?
Schooling someone that is the self-affirmed "God of logic and intelligence"?

The guy aint all that IMO...
My Ryan Gosling is far sexier and hotter!!!

ojeffo: what is d grand total of the numbers of ur sojourn on planet earth in direct comparison and contrast with my own personal earthly sojourn in numerical equivocation?

this post is a classic!!!
Lool!!

lmao...
This thread is hilarious!!!

fortyfeet: On your signature:I would advice that you start changing as men are changing. Am sure you won't get that if I am the leader of the rescue team. How about "Gender Equality"

don't take everything you see/read too seriously...
Some things are just meant for humour...
Pocket your advice...thank you!!!

Coefficient: You fell in the gutter at a bus stop on your way to the office after your neighbor's car developed a fault.(compound sentence). You were enjoying a free ride ab initio. Remember?

lool
you remember that....
oh well..
I prefer to call it one of my most unforgettable moments...