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Topeedo: YEAH REALLY ELEGANT WHEN YOU ARE WALKING LIKE A DUCK AND NEEDING SOMEONE FOR SUPPORT ABI...RUBBISH

why do you want to cry??
If you don't understand simple English,just say so...
"when,where and how" in my post means something...
Go figure of fvck off!!

Nobody wan be a Pharisee...when in truth most Christians are like that...
Nobody wan be Eli or any of his sons?

...nairalanders living their fantasies on this thread....
Haha!!

So many long throat men on this thread...
See as all of them wan be David and Solomon...nobody wan be Jabez or Job...
Efribody like better thing..
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I for like be "Deborah" or "Esther" sha..you know the why...

Idowuogbo: Fights? Me is innocent mehn!
Na d mama no dey user friendly joor!

@interviewers
Can u pls interview dat local gal called yemz? I wan confirm her age and sexuality.

idowuarugbo.....
....i expect the usual nonsense form your interview.....if the interviewers will grant one slot from agbero association..
...and pls don't lie about your age o..
You 42 and we know it!!

No 1and 2...
No 3 isn't doing anything wrong...nor playing anyone..

pak: Oh my head ! Am I losing my grip of Yoruba language

It kept coming to me as wonlase wonimi and I was thinking what kind of lang is that.



Thanks, and you'r right, he should def not be taken serious

Thank God its not just me...
I called it that several times in my head and didn't make any sense to me until coogar broke it down yesterday...

pak: The question I've always asked are -
1. Is it possible for a woman not to see any trace of violence (even if it is just verbal) in a relationship with a man who will later turn abusive ? as in, could it have been hidden in the way he treats siblings, friends, neighbours, subordinates even though he might have been nice to you initially ?

2. Or is it possible for a perfectly calm and easy going young man to turn to an abuser after marriage ? For those who have heard of or seen cases relating to the topic. Have you seen a situation where a man who is perfectly adjusted in his relationship with society turns out to be an abuser when he gets back home.

I have answered this question twice today but pyguru hid my answers and banned me twice...
Overtime,i have come to understand that "anyone" can act for as long as they want.Only the truly discerning,cautious and non-desperate person can discover the real person inside of the act!
Time changes people,situations do the same.It brings silent and hidden parts of people to fore.
...and Yes,i have seen people switch from cool,calm,friendly and loving to mean,fearful,and unfriendly overnight literarily....and yes,changes with no meaningful or explainable trigger sometimes.
Nothing is 100 percent certain in life.No relationship is..no human is.
Getting involved is mostly a risk...but when the situation becomes unbearable and life-threatening,isn't it just best to save yourself??

..this the poster and family for reals?
...if it is..then i must say BEAUTIFUL!
...that chic is so fine!

Seriously,the wedding would have to be put on hold for a while....
Something had changed and that something in this case is a big deal that will change everything..
It would have to be carefully and sincerely thought out before taking such step.

freecocoa: Ladies please I have a question, If a guy beats a girl one time say a few months into dating, should she leave and never look back? As in is one time enough to know a potential abuser?

If any guy i'm in a relationship with as much shoves me to fall anytime....any day..it ends instantly!!

debrief08: I don't know how many times I will answer this question but Freecocoa, no he wasn't, no signs, I have said it a thousand times that he got influenced by instant sucess and riches which attracted his dad back to his life, he got a big job, a huge contract on the side which allowed him to own some oil blocs, that was it. No signs, it just happened

The bolded reminds me of a thread i started some time ago about how you almost do not know a man's true behaviour until he's financially comfortable from personal experiences....https://www.nairaland.com/1026638/cannot-truly-ascertain-mans-behaviour
This futher strengthens my belief around that..

Guitarlife: I'm happy for you and your baby but please stop making it seem like those that have never experienced divorce are cursed. You make it sound like divorce is a major seasoning required to spice up a womans life.
Let women realise your decision to divorce was the best of two evils. They need to understand that divorce is evil but it is a much better choice than choosing to be murderred.
And you failed to mention anything positive thing about your marriage or your man.
You related with a man up till the point of walking down the aisle and you can not even remember one good thing about him.
You realise just how opinionated you are now, do you ?

Isn't the bolded what the women telling their stories on this thread doing??....apart from the "divorce is evil part"...
Where are you missing the point?

There's nothing sufferable about it if you know when,where and how to wear it...
Heels make one elegant!!

ezme: BLUE VALENTINE - Made me realize that love could be overrated.Love alone would not make a relationship work, level of education of parties in a relationship affects the union. It takes a real man to accept to be the father of a child you know isn't yours right from the first trimester.

that movie made me scared of love and marriage......

onila: whats slimyem? doing here BITC-H

Are you crazy?
Do you think Nairaland or this section is your billionaire father's house??

ileobatojo: I was going to type a long response but I just can't. I hope one day, you will free your mind from ancient cultural ideas that bind you before it is too late for your earthly body.

...i hope so too...

vascey: Ok!!! Attention ladies and gentlemen (especially virgins, I mean female virgins)

After all my hard work, I am pleased to announce that we (the consortium) have established a link with the agency involved in the wonderful sale (500k pounds for one hour)

So I am happy to announce that our own very Naija version of "sell your virginity" will be coming up real soon.

We have not concluded arrangements but interested virgins can inbox me.

We will be having various programmes including but not limited to seminar, auction, gala night and fund raising as well as fashion parade. It promises to be very exciting. Seun will also grant us the right for real time online coverage, first ever in Nairaland.

Ayam interested sir!!

Wow..
I so hope this new isn't for real...
Beautiful actress she is...
One of the best in Nollywood...
I wish her quick recovery...

[quote author=tony_m1]HIS PERFECT AND YOU ARE COMPLAINING NOW, YOU BETTER APPRECIATE HIM AND STOP MOANING [/quote]Where in her post does it sound like she was complaining?
Is asking a question equal to complaining?

stillwater: Wow.

Why are you wow-ing??
Don't you know the kind of social acceptance that comes with being married and staying married no matter how hellish the situation is??
Don't you know how important the word "Mrs" is?
Don't you know that only a virtuous woman builds her home against all odds and non-virtuous women walk out when the situation becomes unbearable?
Don't you know that all men cheat and all women are supposed to accept,forgive and live with that when their men do it?
Stop wow-ing o...

berem: babe! I don't know about debrief's story.if you notice,I don't visit Family section.I just started that recently.I know what am going thru in my marital life but am not the type that really share my story online to seek for advice.I am an employed woman and I don't need any man's money to take care of myself.I can't get a divorce because I know how its gonna affect my kids.I know how hard I have been trying to sustain my marriage because of my husband's infidelity but I thank God for what he has been doing in my marriage.I think its left for the poster to make her choice! Whatever action she takes it left for her but let her don't do anything that she might regret later.

i don't mean this as an insult but seriously,your mentality surrounding this issue is fvcked up....and big time too!!

Please interview "Long One" for me too...
I want to know how long he really is....if you know what i mean...

This girl is sick in the head...for reals!!

Served in Lagos....
...nothing memorable about it...
...wish i hadn't influenced my service..

wonlasewonimi: Old Age Pensioner?

haba!!
On Air Personality!

Op,he did it the first time...it hurt you but you forgave him!
He has done it again...its hurting you but he has apologised and you will forgive him!
This man knows you'll always forgive him everytime he cheats..and that's his license.
He'll do it again ,it'll hurt you more and for you it'll be business as usual-patience,endurance,forgiveness,virtuosity all for him..!
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The question here is how much can you take?
How much are you willing to forgive?
How long will you remain "the virtuous woman" in the eyes of the world while dying slowly in the real sense?

coogar: jeremy kyle or maury - choose one!



signs on the letters? how then do you pronounce "idowuogbo"? has she got signs n marks on her username? slimyem, adult education class beckons...

It's a lumped up phrase and it makes it hard to decipher as one word...
Go away jor!!
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....and go get interviewed asap!!