 Crime › Re: SARS Caught On CCTV Collecting Iphones Of Guys Shopping In Ikorodu by smasher1(m): 7:49pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
Franklyspeakin:
So what if it was a gift Its mentality like this that encourage stupidity. Gift from who please? Was the phone collected from a prostitute? Do people just give out half a million or thereabouts just for being friends or relatives? Please reason the matter and amount involved. Someone said his friend spent 200k+ to free himself. Does that person have a source of livelihood that you would spend 200k to free your self? Reason it. How can you cough out that much if you are not in the wrong? Why did the person run away if his hands is clean? I'm not saying any of them is right, but people need to work legitimately to earn their money. |
| Crime › Re: SARS Caught On CCTV Collecting Iphones Of Guys Shopping In Ikorodu by smasher1(m): 7:43pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
tellwisdom:
The only good part is, these boiz aren’t meant to have what they had. So taking it from them is good. How can you own a phone worth 400k. That’s almost 6 months salary of a law enforcement agent. That’s a crime on its own  ...Even a judge will frown at it if you take the matter to them That's not the crime. The crime is they don't have any salary or sources of income/wealth/livelihood and they are living large. If a banker buys such a phone which rarely happens, he has a steady income. |
| Business › Re: 50 Naira Stamp Duty For Transactions Above 1000 Naira by smasher1(m): 4:11pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Goldencheese:
May be you didn't notice or you get anointing for head that made them overlook you. Every 1,000 and above I send out or that is paid to me, they jejeli remove their N50 stamp duty. I don resign to fate.
It is well! v Your account is current account that is why. Use savings accounts to avoid that charge. The person you quoted is correct. |
| Politics › Re: NIMC: National ID Card Replacement Costs N5,000 by smasher1(m): 3:02pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
Donald95:
I enrolled for The stupid ID card but the NIMC foolish officicials at Osisioma Local Government of Abia State told me to pay 2000 if I need the paper one quick or I should come back in the next 2 weeks.
Can you imagine how wicked humans can be. Just to print out what am seeing and you are telling me 2000 They're wicked. That's why they can't progress. They have no empathy. Even a personalised ATM card takes less than five minutes to produce. If they want to charge for issuing the first card like Federal road safety commission they should tell us and stop keeping us waiting for a card after six years of registration. |
| Nairaland General › Re: Conductor Used As BONNET HOLDER On A Moving Bus In Lagos State. VIDEO by smasher1(m): 2:52pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
obiekunie2:
Lagos!
True definition of a jungle! In the Corporate world, Dog eat dog. |
| Family › Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by smasher1(m): 7:00am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zret:
Madam ur story is one-sided, u are listening to the wrong advisors, watch who u listening to, its yours to make it work, it may be painfull but remembered for better for worst , seek good counsel not here where many are not married and are advising you Most marriages have ended because of wicked counsellors when there's actually no real issues. And it starts from nagging. Others would tell you I can't take this but take worse treatment in their home to make their marriage work. From her post, if the man doesn't change, she can change his behaviour by being kind and respectful. She can try it for one year and see the results and come back to tell us. Some women don't know what their husband go through at work and add more fire when he comes back. That's unloving and can lead to such frustrating statements as the husband says. |
| Family › Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by smasher1(m): 6:50am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Realhommie:
I think so too.. While not wanting to cast aspersions, she seem like a nag, a very quarrelsome person and that could be what turns him off.. I mean, like she's always ready to have a go at him over any slight issue, she's got an ego ish and that means having 2 captains in one boat. It can never sail well.
She can actually stoop to conquer yet she doesn't know. While not absolving the man of any wrong, I think she can actually make it work. Both of them need some maturing to do and alot more sacrifices. That's not an issue. We all forget important things to buy at times. Even several times at that. It should not lead to arguments. |
| Family › Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by smasher1(m): 6:48am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Logachev:
Everybody has an opinion and ready to issue judgement...one-sided judges. Let me be patient for the husband's post joor. I don't think her husband post is needed. Her post is clear. There's basically no issue in the house. Although the husband needs to watch what he says, the wife needs to have deep respect for her husband. It's a family with a great future. |
| Family › Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by smasher1(m): 6:43am On Oct 14, 2019 |
setobaba:
You people should stop hiding under marriage is all about tolerance, for God sake she's also a human.
Madam if you feel you've made the wrong decision by marrying your husband you had better retrace your steps back now, the more days you stay in that marriage, the lower the chances of getting another man quick.
Beside how old is your husband and which tribe? The husband maybe harsh in speech but I am yet to see what wrong he has done to warrant her leaving the house. She doesn't have respect not to talk of deep respect for her husband from her write up. She should work on that. Her husband maybe faithful to her. She can make it work. |
| Family › Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by smasher1(m): 6:33am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Octopusssy:
Everything doesn't always have to lead to an argument, unless the both of you are always wanting to get the last word. Sometimes you have to stoop to conquer.
However, making such statements as ''you have zero value to me'' and ordering you to leave at the slightest provocation is totally unacceptable and should not be condoned for any reason.
My take is both of you need to have sense talked into your heads by someone older and more experienced. They are both trying to win an argument which no one wins in reality. |
| Family › Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by smasher1(m): 6:31am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat:
How Do I Deal With This Level Of Disrespect From My Husband
Dear all
I and my husband are just 2years in marriage.
Every time we have issues concerning anything, he is always telling me to pack my things and leave his house or he will say things like you are off no importance to me and you bring me no value and stuff and stuff. But after a while he will apologize and say he doesn’t mean it.
Last month, what caused our fight was because my mum sent some food stuffs to us because she traveled and got them cheaply. He was angry because he felt that was disrespectful. And the argument degenerated to him telling me to leave his house,
i got tired, called his bluff and left the house but everyone advised me to go back and make it work., well except my dad. Mind you, this was the 5th time.
On my return, we talked about it(like we always do) and i thought it was genuine, and i said i was going to give it one more try.
Today, we had an argument because of baby food. I told hime to buy on his way back. I couldn’t go out because the whole road was terribly flooded .
But he didn't buy it, and that lead to an argument. And the next thing he told me was to fuc.k off and leave. Or he is leaving. As a matter of fact, he just left the house now 12:00am.
I am actually tired of it all. and right now, i don't think i have any love left for him or this marriage.
I think he is cheating on me and for some reason i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else.
I don't want my child to grow up seeing me treated like this but most importantly , i don't want her to think it is okay to accept being disrespected and under valued like this.
Married people is this one of the challenges in marriage or what?
Why cant we have an argument that doesn’t lead to leave my house, i dont need you, you bring me no value and all
Also we are very very comfortable, i work and he works too.
Emotionally, i am done. Besides, from your write up, he doesn't beat you. You have no basis for leaving. Forget what anyone says in marriage. |
| Family › Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by smasher1(m): 6:29am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat:
How Do I Deal With This Level Of Disrespect From My Husband
Dear all
I and my husband are just 2years in marriage.
Every time we have issues concerning anything, he is always telling me to pack my things and leave his house or he will say things like you are off no importance to me and you bring me no value and stuff and stuff. But after a while he will apologize and say he doesn’t mean it.
Last month, what caused our fight was because my mum sent some food stuffs to us because she traveled and got them cheaply. He was angry because he felt that was disrespectful. And the argument degenerated to him telling me to leave his house,
i got tired, called his bluff and left the house but everyone advised me to go back and make it work., well except my dad. Mind you, this was the 5th time.
On my return, we talked about it(like we always do) and i thought it was genuine, and i said i was going to give it one more try.
Today, we had an argument because of baby food. I told hime to buy on his way back. I couldn’t go out because the whole road was terribly flooded .
But he didn't buy it, and that lead to an argument. And the next thing he told me was to fuc.k off and leave. Or he is leaving. As a matter of fact, he just left the house now 12:00am.
I am actually tired of it all. and right now, i don't think i have any love left for him or this marriage.
I think he is cheating on me and for some reason i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else.
I don't want my child to grow up seeing me treated like this but most importantly , i don't want her to think it is okay to accept being disrespected and under valued like this.
Married people is this one of the challenges in marriage or what?
Why cant we have an argument that doesn’t lead to leave my house, i dont need you, you bring me no value and all
Also we are very very comfortable, i work and he works too.
Emotionally, i am done. You started it. Wht did you leave the first time. Forget about what he said. Did he chase you or move your things out. When you are married moving out is not an option. Get it clearly. Unless you're totally tired and don't want to make up ever again. Note that it's difficult to start all over again. |
| Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by smasher1(m): 4:16pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
CashDiMkpa:
why am i not seeing the comments on pg 4913? First time of seeing a blank page on Nairaland |
| Phones › Re: TECNO Spark 4 Unboxing, First Impressions And Review + Price (photos) by smasher1(m): 3:33pm On Oct 12, 2019 |
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| Family › Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by smasher1(m): 10:52am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.
Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.
Thanks.
Medics in the house. Keep the baby. He or she is an inheritance from God- Psalm 133. Many people are looking for one and don't have. Don't be ungrateful. You must not kill. |
| Romance › Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by smasher1(m): 12:41pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
beinstein:
Bae said she's not into Nigerians(though she lives in Nigeria) and can't deal with our mentality. She has to move to abroad to achieve what you're suggesting here.
And from the look of things she's waiting to take advantage of someone to go abroad as she's obviously from a poor family.  Lol. |
| Romance › Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by smasher1(m): 12:28pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
donstan18:
You are still a small girl in her Hoe-Phase.
Ask the nearest unmarried aged ladies around you, with time, reality and body go start to dey tell you, after the non-Nigerian guy is done with you.
He might even be the person behind the white guy's account. My challenge is she got both friends on social media. Which is wrong. She should meet people real life not on social media. Over 90% of people hide what they are. Most especially people encountered online. |
| Politics › Re: How To Check Your Individual TIN (tax Identification Nos) Online Using BVN/NIN by smasher1(m): 8:03pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
OlujobaSamuel:
I'm not saying it's a scam, read my post carefully.
I said it might be a way to capture those not within the tax net, inputting your BVN or NIN as one outside the tax net might be a way to generate a TIN for you if you don't have it already. Okay, I understand you now. |
| Politics › Re: How To Check Your Individual TIN (tax Identification Nos) Online Using BVN/NIN by smasher1(m): 7:36pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
OlujobaSamuel:
Are you sure that it's not when I give them my BVN or NIN that dey go generate the pin?
If the pin is readily available, make dem send am to the BVN or NIN contact as SMS na Why is the mind of the average Nigerian configured that everything is scam. I generated my certificate with my BVN and it shows my TIN number I registered four years ago. |
| Politics › Re: How To Check Your Individual TIN (tax Identification Nos) Online Using BVN/NIN by smasher1(m): 7:28pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Psalm2423:
Tax kor? All my money, to my last kobo is mine alone. Tax waytin? Everyone pays taxes either directly or indirectly |
| Phones › Re: How Can You Rationally Justify Spending N600,00 On A Phone? by smasher1(m): 1:06pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
goodmorning40:
When you get to that point of spending that kind of money on a phone you won't remember rational justification before buying it. You will just buy it wait until you get there Thanks. It's someone that hasn't used Samsung, IPhone that would compare it to Tecno or Infinix. The difference is clear |
| Phones › Re: How Can You Rationally Justify Spending N600,00 On A Phone? by smasher1(m): 1:04pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
GeoAfrikana:
We work hard to earn money, so it's rational for us to spend our money on only products/services that (we believe) will add value to our lives.
Yesterday, I heard of a phone that costs #600k. The first question that came to my mind was:
what will I enjoy from this phone that my Google Pixel won't give?
So I decided to throw this question to the house.
How can you rationally justify spending #600k on a phone?
Thanks. How much is your salary? It depends on the person. Some can use three months or four months salary to buy a phone. Knowing fully well that without the salary for those months, they would still pay all their bills, food, clothing, rent, transport etc. |
| Education › Re: INVESTIGATION: Only 8 Per Cent Of Nigeria’s ‘top Universities’ Respond To E-mail by smasher1(m): 3:58pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
nurex01:
that was the reason I said earlier. There's total negligence of work in most federal parastatals. Okay |
| Education › Re: INVESTIGATION: Only 8 Per Cent Of Nigeria’s ‘top Universities’ Respond To E-mail by smasher1(m): 1:01pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
nurex01:
Torr. Do they have anyone handling that? I think no. So, that's Nigeria for us You are wrong, most public universities have staff that do not do their work, reason being their boss also don't come to work. |
| Career › Re: My Boss Asked Security To Throw Me Out Because I Asked For My Money by smasher1(m): 4:08pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
lonzo:
If you type this way on the company page I'll fire you myself. Lol |
| Career › Re: My Boss Asked Security To Throw Me Out Because I Asked For My Money by smasher1(m): 2:21pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
glorybasseymma:
I was employed by Mrs. Jola Otedola. to work as a social media person. My duties were to open all the social media pages, create awareness, runs Ads and promote the company online and bring people to books ticket etc. and I can also assist others in ticketing and reservation, attend to client's travel needs.
I open all the social media pages, drive traffics and followers to the page less than 3weeks. I Runs ads and promote the business, contact an influencer to help us promote our next tours. some people called for booking but because of the money she is asking them to pay, the decline and book else were.
Now after 3weeks of paying transport from Alagbole to Victoria Island every day. She told me yesterday that she wants t to employ someone else, that does not bring sales. NOTE(The business just started on the first of 2nd of September this 2019)
I am the one that opens all the social media pages.
I ask of my 3weeks payment, She calls the security to throw me out. Saying that I am a church rat that I should go to court, telling me not to go to police cause they will not do anything to her. Because she has money and she is married to OTEDOLA JUNIOR.
And I am the 5 person she is doing this too. The business name is Flightjara Travels and Tour.LOcated in SAnusi fafunwa victoria island Lagos. I have the contact of another worker if you need more detail. I needs judges with this, cause she believes I can not do anything to her because of who she is married to, I feel for you because I used to live in your area and I understand how difficult it is to go to work in the island. But if you do have some money, forget about the lady and the work and look for another place. Some people are trouble and it's going to cost you a lot trying to get justice and you may never get it Leave her for Almighty God to judge and God would bless you with a better opportunity. If she said what you typed, don't fight her, please. Move on. Just my little advice. She would surely meet her Waterloo. |
| Business › Re: Understanding The Cash-less Policy by smasher1(m): 7:52pm On Sep 20, 2019 |
netpro:
1. Majority of those screaming online don't even earn N500,000 cash daily.
This is the major issue. It's the rich that should be complaining and not the average or below average person.
2. Any individual earning 500,000 cash daily should have a business account. His limit will become 3 million daily.
Even a stripper does not earn 500k per night in raw cash. Even church offering goes to business account and it is weekly. |
| Travel › Re: Warri-Sapele Road: You Can't Ply This Road And Not Spend At Least 2 Days On Road by smasher1(m): 7:49pm On Sep 19, 2019 |
obailala:
How exactly did this road degenerate so quickly?  I passed this place a couple of months ago and didnt notice any issues. That's the issue. I passed that road October 2018, less than a year ago and it was fine. We need to know the role the people of that place may have played to get this road in such a shape in a short period of time. |
| Travel › Re: Warri-Sapele Road: You Can't Ply This Road And Not Spend At Least 2 Days On Road by smasher1(m): 7:43pm On Sep 19, 2019 |
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| Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by smasher1(m): 7:42am On Aug 18, 2019 |
emmanuelewumi:
Point of correction his late dad's money is not someone else's money. Okay |
| Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by smasher1(m): 8:11pm On Aug 17, 2019 |
heavenisreal18:
Pls how I calculate the 1000unit bought at Ecobank in 2009 till present date. What am I suppose to get from. The broker want to pay me off with 32k. Why are you interested in someone else money. Collect the money you are offered and go and work for your own money. That's the only way you can make it. Besides, the amount you are looking at is not substantial. |
| Family › Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by smasher1(m): 12:08am On Aug 16, 2019 |
pocohantas:
Forgive her.
Lie
Women are polygamous in nature.
Lies
Don't allow those men win, she is your wife...they are the intruders.
Iie
Just focus on your children, she'll definitely get tired and come back to you. They always do...
Lies
Always remember, God hates divorce.
I wish you strength.
And more lies
 I believe from your write up above, you do the same. So you use lies to cover up. Each sentence filled with lies. Even if you can deceive humans, you cannot deceive God. |
