₦airaland Forum

Basalt:
Those of you who did FRSC physical screening at 82 division Enugu will agree with me that applying for federal government jobs without knowing anyone at the helm of affairs is a WASTE OF RESOURCES, WASTE OF ENERGY AND WASTE OF TIME.

In the entire country, 4600 people will be employed and the possition I applied for is officer cadre and from a reliable source, only 400 people will be taken for that position.

Now let's do a little mathematics.
In my screening center alone, we were over 4000 BSc holders that applied for officer cadre.

Remember 400 is needed in the entire country for the position of officer cadre.
400/37 is approximately 11

It means that only 11 people out of over 4000 applicants will be chosen from Enugu state.

Out of the 11 people, how many politicians have slots? But let assume its strictly based on merit.
11/4000 x 100 = 0.275%
Which means anyone that applied stands a 0.275% chance of getting the job and 99.725% chance of not getting the job.

My question is now, why wasting money buying white shoes, white shorts and polo and spending on transport and food when you know your chances of getting the job is just 0.275%?

I will never ever ever apply for anything federal government job again unless I have a strong connection I rather channel that energy, time and Resources in something productive.
I also implore jobless graduates to start something that brings money, atleast from there you grow higher and higher while waiting for your dream job because indeed these people (politicians) don't mean well for the youths in this country

MajorJeffery:
This is a white lie because at 26, I was already financially stable. Was not as rich as Dangote but I had overall monthly net income of over N300k which included salary though and if that didn't mean I was financially stable, then...

Wilfredpat22:
SIR, that is we women for you. It is so difficult for us to close our legs especially if we have been sleeping with countless men before marriage.

Her colleague has been enjoying her with you and you are the weaker man here. I will advice you to take a divorce. If my man cheats, I don’t even want to hear forgiveness, I am exiting from the house (that is if it his house)

And sir, it is only the colleague you are aware of, she might have been opening her treasure for the Bank manager, Auditor, Security guard... etc

Please take CHARGE AND DONT BE A SISSY

romenna:
wat kind of rubbish concoction did u spew here? why are you trying to justify the wife's whorish and adulterous act?

patani:
Sometimes I wonder why some men come to nairaland to ask for advice after catching their wives pants down. Can’t you man up for once @OP? Even bible(the holiest of all books ) said you can put your wife away on the ground of infidelity.
Hear this, a cheating wife is a killer.

My simple advise, don’t bother arresting the other guy, that’s a waste of time. Simply take your son and move on dude.

Correct.

Uchenaija:
Once you start, it's hard to cure immorality, it's like drug.


What do you want: your wife back? Divorce? Ending your wife's or/and her colleagues job? Destroy the lives of two families? Forgiving and managing your wife? Managing life alone with your kid?

After careful thought, state exactly want you want, what will truly make you happy then your want would determine your decisions & outcome.

No one can make the choice for you in glaring facts.

Modified: I remembered your wife was reading this too, so let me send her a message:

Stolen waters are sweet, And food eaten in secret is pleasant but the aftermath is as bitter as wormwood. And your disgrace would never be wiped away.

sage04:
i swear if fifa should ban !70mil people cos of these three,i ll curse them the curse they ll never forget

Aspacng:
I need es300 foreign use... Budget is 1.5m

BruncleZuma:


This is becoming too comical to follow. Another Offa loading plus can someone teach our journalists how to do their work please...

The road is missing one town...its Azikoro-Agbura-Onuebum-Otuoke Road for bleeps sakes

AgentGoat:
No be this same car dey get gear issue?

AntiWailer:
The brainless Journalist did not confirm if

“Okeyson, Benue Links, Agofure, Young Shall Grow, Air Peace, God is Good, Abia Links, Efosa, GUO.


or any car was involved.

akbahbah:
You are so dumb and disgusting for saying this rubbish here that marriage certificate comes in two copies and each for husband and wife. That never happens in any part of the world. And fool and local illiterate like you can boldly come out and type this. You suck mehn. In which planet did you do your useless and illegal marriage where 2copies of cert were issued to you and you have guts to even call me names when you are 100% wrong. Na over sabi dey kill people like you. I'm not supposed to answe
r a clown like you in the first place..

angelboy01:
I Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.

She started losing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.

Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.

Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it to me so I began to suspect her.

One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me.

I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife.

It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face.

I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it.

Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol.

Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.

In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.

Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys.

yeyerolling:
dey wud have duped u of all u had and also go home to get more money. The bus i was to take to my house was 10 mins walk from where yaba bus dropped me lol. I just dey follow dem fo back till i got to my bus loading area. I pick race lol. D fool from gabon was leading the way. While d niaja guy was with me lol. Am like how gabon man take know road to ilasamanja lol

Donald95:
After thinking for a while, I discovered that Just 1 year working for this woman can change someones destiny from Zero in life to Hero

yeyerolling:
Lame. 2008 they tried same on me. Am from gabon format i hv goods. Na greedy pple dey fall

Quickjobs:
Since 2017....all this mods self

Esseite:
Undiluted truth... to all those still pushing their various businesses and pushing hard, Nigeria deserves you.

-A country where some people are paying Nepa to take light..
-A country where some people divert fuel just to sell black market..
-A country where traditional rulers would ask for millions for an organization to build road and schools for their community..
-A country where employers never acknowledge your strengths just so you would never be empowered to leave..
-A country where oil companies sabotage refineries just so their private filling stations would thrive..
-A country where the schools of the poor are neglected so as the wards to become tools to the rich.
-A country where the best brains get 240 above to secure admission while below average get less than half to secure same admission.
-A country where its security outfits only listens to the highest bidder.
-A country that the rich evade tax while the poor cant even run a business without multiple taxation.
-A country that an aspirant goes into position with just a home and comes out with 5 highrise, 30 duplex, 15 luxury cars, directorship in bluechip companies, 7 estates in a space of 4 years with a salary of less than N1m..
-A country where the poor are empowered with shoe shinning kits while the rich file their children on scholarships meant for militants, Idp's, brilliant minds, War soldiers, medicals for the poor etc..
- A country where the rule of law only works for the poor..
A country where dreams are killed even before they are hatched.

onegentleguy:
I just can't help but laugh when I read some certain post.
It's clear that u 2 dont even know the guy. ...to presume (from the parts in bold) that he had been adversely affected by some investment play of nearly 10 yrs ago.

Well it might interest u to know that the said person u refer to is currently a billionaire, and a 'big time' HNI who's doing fantastically well !!
...and this is coming boldly from someone who knows him.
So never draw extensive assumptions over a person's state or wellbeing. ...for with some folks, past experiences are merely a necessary stepping stone to future breakthroughs.

Regards.

seagal65:
As an independent investigator, is expected of me to help others stand by the truth, walk by the truth and live by the truth. I have built a reputation for myself as of today, the future and generations to come. Well, you can call me all sort of names if that is what pleases you but I am here tell you today, I am not border because you have right to your own opinion. For swift clarification

1. The father in-law did not go to his supposed son in-law house to beat him up. Point of correction, he went there within the ambient of the law under the command of the D.P.O officer in conjunction with Abraka vigilantes.
2. As for the time a registered with Nairaland as nothing to do the lies or truth on the said subject matter.
If you have more point to argue about, feel free to say it and I will post more of my findings. Once again thanks to you all and God bless.

pluto09:
Diamond has been disappointing investors since KOD time
The talks about better future did not start today.
Those who want to live on hope can continue to buy into the bank.

As for me ,I will only buy diamond if the price is right just to play some kalokalo on the NSE.

seagal65:
I wish to appreciate every one that has been following up this story very closely for the positive and negative comment on the said subject matter but as potential leaders, we should be fast to hear and slow to speak. The said post is meant for the general public to diggest, analyze before making their opinion. Investigation has revealed that the said husband fabricated the story to draw public sympathy, he lied to you and me simply because he realised he has failed in his responsibility as a man. These are some for my personal findings:
1. The said husband never sponsor the supposed wife through school.
2. The said husband never voluntarily resigned from his job to further his education as he claimed but was sacked for the reason best known to his employee.
3. The said father in-law was a kind and nice man who gave out his car to the supposed husband (as uber or public tansport as the case may be) free of charge after he was sacked from fidelity bank.(the marriage was solely sponsored by the father in-law)
4. That the said husband was deeply involved in domestic violence beating the wife at slightest provocation
5. That it was true the said husband helped the supposed wife then to secured a job with Zeninth bank.
6. That the supposed husband made a move to join the yahoo++, and wanted to use his supposed wife and child for ritual.
7. That the said picture the supposed husband posted online was the picture she shared with her supposed husband while he was away in their chat. There are lot more but time will not permit me to say it.
I hereby appeal to the general public most especially blog owners to please verify stories before posting it on verious platform. Thanks for your time and God bless you all.

truetrue05:
You see, this guy called Smacher, that claims to know the elder sister is the very guy tarnishing the elder sisters reputation. he is David Peter by name. just the way Precious Arahamerene is black mailing the ex wife because his plan to kill she and the baby failed, he wanted to use them for money ritual but he didn't succeed that is how David Peter blackmailed his wife some years ago and he is still doing it . God is watching.

seagal65:
I wish to appreciate every one that has been following up this story very closely for the positive and negative comment on the said subject matter but as potential leaders, we should be fast to hear and slow to speak. The said post is meant for the general public to diggest, analyze before making their opinion. Investigation has revealed that the said husband fabricated the story to draw public sympathy, he lied to you and me simply because he realised he has failed in his responsibility as a man. These are some for my personal findings:
1. The said husband never sponsor the supposed wife through school.
2. The said husband never voluntarily resigned from his job to further his education as he claimed but was sacked for the reason best known to his employee.
3. The said father in-law was a kind and nice man who gave out his car to the supposed husband (as uber or public tansport as the case may be) free of charge after he was sacked from fidelity bank.(the marriage was solely sponsored by the father in-law)
4. That the said husband was deeply involved in domestic violence beating the wife at slightest provocation
5. That it was true the said husband helped the supposed wife then to secured a job with Zeninth bank.
6. That the supposed husband made a move to join the yahoo++, and wanted to use his supposed wife and child for ritual.
7. That the said picture the supposed husband posted online was the picture she shared with her supposed husband while he was away in their chat. There are lot more but time will not permit me to say it.
I hereby appeal to the general public most especially blog owners to please verify stories before posting it on verious platform. Thanks for your time and God bless you all.

Sunshinewpx:
Don't believe him Odafenine David Peters is my friend. His ex wife is my friend. That guy has no truth. I know him.

Realhommie:
I'm shocked.

It is well oooo.

truetrue05:
You see, this guy called Smacher, that claims to know the elder sister is the very guy tarnishing the elder sisters reputation. he is David Peter by name. just the way Precious Arahamerene is black mailing the ex wife because his plan to kill she and the baby failed, he wanted to use them for money ritual but he didn't succeed that is how David Peter blackmailed his wife some years ago and he is still doing it . God is watching.

Realhommie:
You could see i was seeking clarity..

Besides, the dude seems to me like he knows them well just like i do to a little extent.. You never know


So what's the real/true story then, do you mind sharing??

Realhommie:
Jeez, you mean Edesiri She use to be my good friend way back ooo..

Like seriously? Something must then be wrong somewhere if so.