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Oyindidi:
I dey Bayelsa

oh I see... You dey enzoy o

Oyindidi:
Hmmmm....

my darling... I go try show on Thursday

Oluromantic:
An 18 year old is not even mature to keep secrets of her pastor, she will ignite his emotions to the level that he won't focus aptly on his duties anymore as he should and when he tries to resist temptation, she may manipulate him or even cast his name in open rumors among the brethren. It takes maturity to look over some certain issues in the church.. especially women. This one is too young for such maturity

Besides op, what happens to the appropriate hierarchy of a male Christian.. your God, ur career before your woman. Finish and get a job. As long as God is concerned, your wife may not even be in that campus. So don't let ur desires ride over God's plan for you. You're infatuated.

you have a point but Op is in order... When I was in Year 3, the President of my departmental fellowship who was in final year was having a no sex relationship with a girl in year 2... Today they are married and they have two kids... I am friends to both of them till date...

stupidity:
naahh, the OP wants to fvck. I can see it from the post. He’s dlck is hard on seeing the girl sef

Lol... Let's hope and assume he has genuine motives and not just to devour her ...

Victorisoni3:
abi
How easy will that be

very easy... The girl will still respect him even if she turns him down.. but there is a high probability that she will accept him ...

Swizbank:
I told u my age. To tell you that if sex is my problem, I knw where to get it. I can't even invite her to my room.

I have been in relationships , and am tired. So am no more a kid that is desperate about things in skirt. Am above that level bro, by the Grace of God any way.

Don't you think, telling her abt relationship will be too direct. She may not have that mental capacity to decipher my submissions.

not at all... Just put it the way I said... Come back and thank me with one sachet of pure water... I am waiting for your testimony...

Swizbank:
I will try to be short and simple.

I'm the president of a my campus fellowship.
One of my members has caught my attention. She is a new member. The first day I saw her, it was like a a fulfilment come true. Every feature I want in my potential wife is in her, including profession.

Am ready to do anything to secure her before another man does that. But how to do it, without getting "No" as an answer and without giving a wrong msg to other members of the house, is a problem. She is aged 18, am 28.

I even just spoke with her now, but I maintained the discussion at , "How is your prayer life" levels.

Pls I need hints!

what if she tells you NO; sees you as a pervert on pulpit and she stops coming to the fellowship because of you... The way you dey go, you fit rape that babe if only both of una dey the same room ..

Okay let me assist you...


Just tell her you want to start a serious relationship with her that could lead to marriage although you want the relationship to be without sex till when maybe both of you get married...

Elesta:
Very good question oh. I have actually left several times but family members and pastors usually settle the matter,but I know I have had enough. d moment I able to rent an apartment, I will certainly leave and we will work out the divorce from there

Don't divorce him yet but I will advice you to as quickly as possible leave your house to another place but the motive shouldn't be divorce... Give him time to stay alone to see if he will come back to his senses... When he comes begging you give him the final condition that any day he hits you , you will leave his life... As for the insults, you said it all... He is suffering from chronic inferiority complex...

lilianofentse:
?? No miracle took place. She's still the same as she was five years ago

She met him one on one? Besides that is not a proof that he is fake ... Not everyone that attends crusade that needs healing end up getting healed... So to you who is the real man of God that is not fake?

lilianofentse:
My Aunt visited this man's church last year. Ni.gga ez fake asf

did your Aunt tell you he is fake ?

smadav:
Bro I don't think I will have woman time for now biko wetin I face for that cell no go gree me look woman side again for now but to butress again i have a girlfriend anyway

That's cool... For this life I fear women pass men o... Lol ...

smadav:
Bro women matter go de on the low for now

it's better to have a serious sexmate especially in times of conji than for you to fall for the temptation of conji then go bring brothel ashawo again ... Las Las conji go still knock on your door...

Happy you are free now... I told you your mum had the solution... Thank God for caring mum... Try and get a serious sex mate that you may marry if she is worth it...

What if na poor man slap you

Ask your self ... If the tables were turned and your girl is on the verge of making much more cash that will involve her being in another relationship with a fairly rich dude... Will she dump you or reject the guy... I know the answer for most (Nigerian) girls... The choice is yours but something tells me you may regret your actions... I hope you don't ...

The man face sef look like matured toto wey big preek don fvck am slack...

smadav:
Thanks bro, lord save me from this situation, before she left my house, she swore to deal with me and she is trying hard to do that

next time bro... Fear women... Becareful... They are not as weak as we think... She fit don give those sars guys free toto and now them wan use you shine ... Chei.... Matters like this dey turn person to born again by force...

Don't you know that lack of money makes the pussy very dry...

smadav:
bro thanks for this advice I called her this evening begging and even forming cry, sweet mouth her small and asked to take her out tomorrow, she agreed on that. Right now am scared if she is trying to lure me to those sars guys, bro this girl really mean me. To make matters worse my mom called me this evening telling me that she saw me in a trance in a big problem that I should come back to see as soon as possible.

tell the girl you want to start dating her... First of all go and meet your mum and talk to her... Explain to your mum all that happened... She no go reject you... She go give you better solution

Ok

Silverlove1:
I really am not thinking about marriage now, I just want him receive sense and acknowledge that it's a baby we are talking about, his own blood and not a disposable thing,

I'm still facing the first one and you are wishing me the second one, lol

Lol... That's how the second one comes... Besides... A time will come you will be the one to demand for the second one... Even when he will not marry you... Don't mind me, some things may be too deep for your age now so let's focus on the present... You actually need a guide in your life that will correct you or point out to you when you are wrong and that will advice you on how to go about things generally if not I am afraid , just update me on how it goes .. I am interested in your matter...

bixton:
This is what happens when you read from only one source.

In my ignorance........
Ask yourself how and in what ways does your definition apply to the Nigerian culture?
Please think in depth

Lol... I apologise Bro... I actually did wrongly by trying to correct you so that you will not repeat such mistake on another platform... My sincere apologies...

There is a difference between not knowing something and not knowing that you don't know... I am imperfect band can make worse mistakes than the one you made... But to you , it wasn't even a mistake ... Once more , my sincere apologies ... Sorry for the typos

Them dey look face... E get ppl Dem go shake, na their preek go loss...

Most important thing....
" Man Know thyself" .... Socrates...

Silverlove1:
Exactly, his family would accept me since he is even the only son, they aren't doing bad, so the cost to take care of the baby isn't the issue,
I don't want to bring my parents into it till I see his parents first, I can't believe guys can be so heartless

that he is the only son or child doesn't mean the family will be willing to accept you or the pregnancy... But if you are fortunate... They may decide to play a financial role in the bringing up of the child... As of marriage... He doesn't love you enough to marry you so that one you are saying that you don't want to get into a loveless marriage is only self consolation... One thing that is most likely to happen is that after the birth of the child, it's only a matter of months or years before he comes back to his senses at least to play a fatherly role even if he will not marry you... From there the second child can come in .. Lol

Sorry for typos

bixton:
The kind of useless things one reads on NL is on the increase.

Pure kindergarten post.

Kindly edit your post........
Men pay dowry to get married.
Women pay bride price to be married.

Lol... Thank me bro... I just cured you from ignorance...

bride price
noun
noun: brideprice
a sum of money or quantity of goods given to a bride's family by that of the groom in some tribal societies.
"the larger bride price given for a virgin"

https://www.google.com/search?q=brideprice&oq=bri&aqs=chrome.0.69i59j0j69i57j69i60l3.1366j1j9&client=ms-android-transsion-tecno-rev1&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8

dowry
/ˈdaʊ(ə)ri/
Learn to pronounce
noun
an amount of property or money brought by a bride to her husband on their marriage.

https://www.google.com/search?q=dowry+meaning&oq=do&aqs=chrome.3.69i57j69i60l2j69i59l2.1742j0j9&client=ms-android-transsion-tecno-rev1&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8

Okay

Congratulations Hazard... You contributed your best when you were with us at Chelsea... All the best ..

High level of brain washing

dollytino4real:
ok o! if i catch I her wat I did in 1990 will rrepeat itself

hahahhahah there is love in sharing na

dollytino4real:
i hope she is not my sister from another mother

haahahhaahha who knows... Maybe o...