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Ubanagum:
Killer pose! imagine walking in on your wife's younger sister who came for a visit in that position? boy! it happened to me and i did not miss that opportunity, and after that, my love for my wife reduced drastically, and she can't figure out why up to this moment.

Oh My God! Fear go allow me marry so?

Even Chika done go buy yaannnnssh

Baby idi hot!

Brightgem:
Why should you stop being introverted, embrace ur nature, its the best thing that I was created with, being introverted, but it don't mean u are caved up or naive. I will speak to a group of people clearly about what I want to say, but I am considered a quiet calm person in general, I will rather sit alone at a restaurant than sit with company that's meaningless or have shallow talks... I love being introverted jare, I read and write more, I observe more, discern better. Forget parties and just do you, never attended a party in my life an I am still a happy woman, not all parties but that's how people get drunk or have one night stands and hate themselves afterwards. I guess the idea of celibacy is so ingrained in me because I also believed in it right from when I was a teenager. Not saying its not hard but it can also be easy.

You are kind hearted and empathetic. Thank you.

ola9ja:
(21-05-2018)

Oh, I'm so relieved.

I just ended the relationship today, I was bathing this morning when she called, I missed her calls, and she quickly composed a text message saying:

it's my sugarbunny's birthday, I am so happy to have you as my first love and friend, I pray that as you add a year today, heaven will open for you, everything you lay your hands shall prosper. do any how it's your day your babe gat your back, always remember that your babe love you and will always do.

I'm sorry the spell has been broken, I called her later in the day and told her that I saw her calls and got her message that I really appreciate everything she wrote in the text message but unfortunately I can no longer continue in the relationship, she knows I wanted to get married to her at most next year but telling me that people change and that I don't expect her to be the same person I know last time I saw her, was one in many reasons I am doing away with the relationship
I told her that I am certain that she had already moved on but was finding it difficult to tell me because she wants to have me as a backup plan.
I gave her the following reasons for moving on without her
1 Blocking me, my friends and family on facebook and not giving me a valid reason what caused it.

You can't love me and not love my family

2. For being a narcissist who only thinks and cares about herself alone
3. For not appreciating recharge cards that i used to send to her.

when ever I send her cards I am still the one that calls to find out if she has recharged, on several occasions she has said, oh she forgot

4. Changing my name on her phone to someone's else name and said that it's her phone that did it
5. There is no give in her dictionary, all she knows is collect, collect and collect
6. For disrespecting me on several occasions.

The list goes on and on....

It could sound stupid listing this things but if you reexamine them deeply you will know they aren't suppose to be taken lightly.
Mind you, I have told her these things severally and I have given her over a year to adjust but she had chosen her part so she should face the consequences, that's only if it will affect her.
When I said it's over that both of should go our separate ways, she said if that's what I want, no problem.

Seriously I don't know I could do this on my birthday but I am glad I did it.
....And I am totally free and relieved now.
Hope to see a better person soon.

Link to Previous Post: https://www.nairaland.com/4513677/ending-toxic-relationship-monday

Happy Belated Birthday to you! You are very patient. It's a good thing you ended it. You will be fine.

Ride Solo!

tomdon:
Be careful not to fall into the trance of self-righteousness Congrats on your achievements tho

....
I look the opposite. I have never been sanctimonious. Thanks Sir.

MarieSucre:
That's harsh

I understand everyone must not like my opinion, that's fine.

Ikwerre girl wey no wan gree.. King Charity.

Wow! Jet Li? My birthday mate? Wow! All love.

TBoss sometimes come off as a proud person. He apologised, let it slide.

CoolFreeday:
can I get the link to the article?

The one I wrote? I wrote it for a client. I could mail it to you.

QueenDeborah:
He could be fvcking her, who knows.

Haba! This guy likes life, no doubt! I'm not sure he would do that, men are so so protective of their daughters, how could he possibly do what you accuse him of?

He is rich. Let him spend on his princess.

kimbraa:
Nigerian guys have become so desperate that I'm even scared of going into any relationship because you can't tell the motive behind any proposal now.

Lol.

itsmeurLady:
Aww dear, Sorry about that... if u had had sex with him, u wld have been blinded to his lying and cruel ways but thank God, Waiting helped you to discover his true self.

I am an introvert as well but I can be an extrovert when I want to but I am more of the former (Introvert)... being an introvert has its ups and downs, people will call u boring sometimes but u shld know that for everything u do, there is a reason why u do what u do. It's either you are avoiding parties in order not to be too carried away or maybe u just need space to focus on more important things.
Going to cool parties doesn't hurt! You can hang out with friends and have some fun but never forget to raise the bar (set limits and standards) for yourself. I am a badass but I know when to put limits to my naughtiness, so I think that's basically it. Be You, Have Fun, Dress Good U'd find som1 that will eventually fall madly in love with you and will be willing to wait

Since I came across this quote, my life has never remained the same. I'm now even more confident waiting

"Never be too Afraid to lose A Man, because A Man that truly Loves you will not go anywhere" - Steve Harvey

Awwww! Hugs! Kickass Badass! Thumbs up to the last post.

I have dates this weekend, and it's going to be like that henceforth. My female friends, toasters, business meets and all.

Cheers!

Is that person male or female or a tranny?

This Shisha, is it a fun thing to do? I wrote an article on vaporizers some days back. I was gob smacked at how pricey they are. They get much patronage too.

itsmeurLady:
Oh really dear? That's wonderful but I'm interested in this gist... y didn't it work out? Was it because u were not ready to put sex on the menu or he didn't really love you in the first place ... I am waiting as well, it has been tough but so far it's worth it

He is a pretender and a liar. Quite a cruel person too.

It's okay to hang out, right? Like attend some cool parties too? My friends are of the opinion that I stop being introverted.

Iambees:
I Am Confused In This Type Of Relationship I Found Myself,
First of all She Told Me She Was Single And She is No Longer Dating Her Ex Again
Fast Forward I So much Love My New Girlfriend That Made Me To Visit Her Allmost Everyday, For Her To Return That Favour Vice Versa Has Been Impossible To Her, I Send Her Recharge cards, Buy Her Some Of her needs, But She Keep Acting Strange Towards Me Most At Times And Since We Started Dating I Hav'nt Bleep Or kiss Her Due To Her Excuses of Not Having Chance, At Times She Would Act Like She Loves Me Pls
Cc Apha Men, Player's Mature Guys I Need your Advice...

I am laughing so hard. Na real Alpha men, players.

I find it spooky that some men use material gains to convince a woman to fall in love with them.
Man up and try to ask her what she truly wants. Don't be scared of being rejected, you'd find closure from that.

No. 2!

BiafranBushBoy:
Lol

At this stage of my life, I visit expensive clubs to know if I can meet like one or two rich people that will invest into my idea.

and guess what...

After I collect their number, I call them the next day.

When I make the money and visit a club with my Venza, the girls will collect my number and do all these you have written.

Life is simple if you have a plan and format.

I'll take my leave now!

[b][quote author=BiafranBushBoy post=67760399]Lol@ Visiting expensive clubs. That's the Abuja way. Owl city!

itsmeurLady:
This was created for people who have decided to take the bold step in life to be celibate and decide to wait for their God-ordained Partner. This is simply to encourage ourselves and discuss challenges if possible, who knows you can meet your Prince Charming here who is also waiting BUT first, let us have a heart-to-heart talk about your waiting experience... Married People who waited, you are also free to advise us as well, and how "waiting" has helped you and is still helping you in your marriage life.

This is for single People that have Decided to WAIT, to be CELIBATE, To delay Sex till after Marriage. It is Not Easy but it's definitely worth it, Happy Workers Day!

Yeah. Sometimes you might get really lonely but it is very worth it. I have been off intimacy for months, prior to the last time, it was years ago. I actually wanted to commit to someone I met recently, thankfully, it didn't work out.

I am happy I keep a clean system. No alcohol, no cigarettes, no drugs, no intercourse.

I am so very grateful.

David Beckham, na who born you? Man's too hot!
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Oh Lord! You had to call someone's father a fossil? Lol.

I really do not listen to people or look up to them. After I noticed people hardly practice what they preach.

More so, I don't see anything wrong in Linda getting pregnant at her age. Especially for health reasons. Fibroid and all female hormonal stuff.

samuelson06:
I had a female friend. We met on Facebook and somehow got talking on Whatsapp. We were real good friends and sometimes could discussed some personal stuff with each other. Unfortunately, we had a problem along the line. This was the it: I couldn’t find her picture anywhere on social media to know what she looks like. This was like after we have been friends for over two years. She knows what I look like [at least] because I have one picture on Facebook but I never knew what she looks like and I was worried. Many times, I would discuss with her about it but she insisted to remain anonymous for some personal reasons. So I said to her that I would stay off if she chooses to remain that way. She wasn’t disturbed so I stopped talking to her.

Months on, I feel I am missing her. I missed the valuable counsels we used to share with each other. I missed the friendship. I missed someone talking with me passionately even late into the night. I think she has all rights to her privacy and maybe I was wrong to have pestered to know her in person. Now, I want her back.

Yesterday, I tried to reach out to her let’s restored our friendship but she wouldn’t have that except I fulfill some conditions. First is what I am doing now: to create a post on NL and apologize to her and maybe get some good spirited individuals to join me and apologize to her for trying to invade her privacy. I don't possibly know what would be the next condition. God help me! Being a man that I am, I'll take the blame and I say, “I am sorry, let’s be friends again.” Would you give a chance?

She doesn't feel the same way about you. You have tried your best. For how long will you keep begging her? Move on.

gonkin:
Mine comes as solutions to technical problems and i have fixed 90 percent to technical issues from dream. Cars, computers and phones. Does anybody else experience this too

Wow! The guy that did the design of one of the largest cathedrals in Great Britain got the inspiration while dreaming. He passed out from pain on the Dentist's chair.

You are gifted.

awwfar:
no mind the guy, he is only following your footsteps in Oshoism

Stay there and be deceiving yourself.

JESUSBOIY:
You don't understand what poverty can cause, unless you are inmy shoe.

Double standards! Better go and hustle in a legit manner. I don't even want to understand. When some of you guys insult some ladies, do you care if they might be piss poor. Go and carry concrete.

QueenSuccubus:



Jezzzzzzu! That muddy yam is soooooo HUGE!

I wonder how many ordinary women cried while receiving such MONSTROUS MEAT ?

Faints! Hahahaha. I'm done with you!

Somebody give me that Lil Wayne's Olosho meme. If it were to be a girl, you guys will lash out at her. "Brokeness" kee you dia.

This girl wey dey sabi shake ikebe. Idi bam bam!

nairavsdollars:
So unfortunate. Despite all her assets, they still barred her from entering the palace

At least, she got to the vicinity. You, Have you ever entered your village palace?

I haven't laughed this hard in months. Adekunle Gold chei! Davido chai!

Damita Jo!