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@poster, forget about all these claim claim some of da gals use to claim, Most of them are virgins cos getting a gud en lovely guy dat would break their virginity is really hard to find. So kip on shopping as you are a gud shopper! Lol!

@poster, How do you know dat there are few virgins?

Are we Nigerians or English?

I dont think so cos its too early to start judging his works.

Like they say too much of anything is bad. I in particular hates being over coddled by ma parents talk less of being over loved by ma lover, it atimes makes me to reflect back to da relationship to know whether da gal in question truly love me or after ma money. For instance, if i did something wrong dat warrant being cautioned by her yet she didnt see anything wrong in wat i did all in da name of love. Its irritates me cos dat isnt love.

Dis post is poo

O boi thou shall not trespass just let her be,

@poster, this is totally gibberish cos if you think that you can play fouls game with a man (be it your husband or not) and win you must be joking. Some men will even bring another woman to your matrimonial bed if you act according to your post as the way of purnishing their wife for denying them sex or some may even go as far as marrying another wife if the wife take it too far. But as for me i wont act any crazy to my wife if she deny me intimacy, i'll even start doubling the amount of money i give to her daily but will never give her audience. By so doing she will be crying and also be bleeding internally as women cannot stand been ignored but men can live a lonely life.

kulyie:
He kips me riding dery!lmaohehehehe.u know men of dis days r d ones reducing d number of virgins in dis world.at least its no news dat a 3o sumtin yr old teacher is defiling his 14 yr old student so y'al shudnt complain if there r no more virgins

i agree with you that some men are bunch of whores seeking for confessors to breakdown. But in todays world 90 percentage of despoils/sexual harassment were caused by the type of fashion that ladies put on this days. Some exposes their bosoms and a.s.ses in such a way that i feel ashamed of them. can you bring somebody to heaven and expect him not to enjoy the heavenlies? as we guys are not status or almighty God that are not attracted to sin or guys are we sets of idols that cant be attracted to things happening around it? And for the virgins they should behave like one cos virgins in the bible are usually careful with their lives and fight as they could to protect that which is most precious(virginity) read Deuteronomy chapter no 22 from verse 1 to 30 you will understand more.

@poster, thank you for this thread its really true. There is no doubt that intimacy is a way of binding ones soul with another (ie sexual partners), so therefore it would be crucial for us ladies and gentlemen to be painstaken with people/personalities we have intimacy with cos as HIV/AIDS could be transferred through intimacy so can one tie his or herself to an intimacy-mate through intimacy. Let us be meticulous with our lives cos you cant eat your cake and still have it back.

I cry in kwi

The insults rained on our dear Prof Dora Akuyili by kanti and other northern senators were really uncalled for. They are just making a national hero out of her with all these scenes/episodes cos Nigerians knows the truth. Are they representing the masses or something else? Cos it was a shame to behold. God help Nigeria!

yea! dat was when i was in ghana at dat time i was 17yrs. there was this gal her name was nana dat stays at her mothers store opposite our house at Tabora. she looks sweet like heaven. i fell in love with her one fateful day i came back from school our gate were locked by my aunt cos she went to market, i decided to wait for her at nana's store. we had a long chat in her mothers shop and she was intelligent, humble and outspoken at the same time. after dat day i did not have the chance of meeting her cos i started going to my uncles office from school and also being 17yrs i was short of ideas on how to fabricate a lie to my uncle just to see her. i'll never forget it cos i later came back to Nigeria before my 20th birthday without telling her how i felt. Fortunately, i have been more cautious of falling in love since then.

1914mistake

Hellfire

Erroneous

This is really National cake in order. I love naija there is alwayz quota system in every aspect of our life,

Scottx:
There will soon be an end to this killings.

For your information Mister there is not gonna be an end to these killings unless all christians are converted/annihilated by the moslems or all moslems converted to christianity which is not feasible at all

I took a bullet for ma gf.

I feel really sorry for Ramsey, dat was a horrible injury from a careless defender. All these Manure and Chelski fans dat supported Shawcross instead of supporting poor Ramsey i pray dat before the end of march both Rooney/fletcher en Drogba/lampard will get career threatening injury in Jesus Name i pray Amen. Get well soon Ramsey!

I'm speechless. . .

Its non of Obama's business to know Yaraduas health status. He should shut da Zap UP  en focus on Americans' dream before he get kicked-out by the republicans.

Why should i wish him dead when i don't know whether he is alive or dead. I av never wished anybody 'dead' and will not start now with Yaradua.

Why should any gud Nigerian av compassion for Turai when she is the jezebel of our time, i dont care nor even know that she exist because she didnt care about Nigerians. I only pray God to grant Yaradua eternal rest in his bosom cos they av wasted useful time on muslims marabout en juju people instead of coming to God almighty for healing,

I assent with the statement of Dokubo depending on the motive behind his assertion. Those who are calling him names are doing so because they have not had any opportunity of living outside the shores of this nation. Due to the current happenings in the country, It is an insult, disgree and tragedy for one to be known and called a Nigerian. Come to think of it if you travel to the US, how will you wish to be identified? As a Nigerian or As an African?

Are the Southerners caged? Because from what i av been reading for a long time it all sound as if we are caged like toothless lions by our masters(Northerners) to keep believing in this political entity called Nigeria. Well for me i am a Nigerian en not caged by anybody. . .

One Nigeria whether good or bad. God will punish those people trying to break this united en lovely nation. GOODMORNING NIGERIA!

Mbeki:
Your ID son-of-peace might have affected your viewpoint.  Shine your eye

Nigeria is the imagination of Flora Shaw, the bedmate of Lord Lugard.

Nigerians are the people that Lord Lugard and his Bedmate becos they are very obedient and loyal to the point that you only need to ask them to jump and they'll ask you "How High?" So they gave them power to rule others that are more intelligent and stubborn in the land of his imagination.

That bed time dream of Lord Lugard and his bedmate is yet to be a reality.

Hope I answered your question?

well you answered my question a little bit but how can someone be foolish yet he was allowed by the said wise people to lead en influence them? I guess the dream of lord lugard has fulfilled

OBLONG:
wake up from your slumber

i really wish it was a dream

Who are Nigerians?
I know really that some may try to overlook this vital question on the platform of it being a childish question to ask. Well that is their opinion.

For a long time I have tried to know if I can get a positive answer towards this crucial question, but all have been really negative. Due to many facts that I will soon list to you all but will not elaborate it, I think that the name “Nigeria” is owned and understood by some particular section of the Nigeria entity.

In 2005 I got the answer though negative to me. That year was my first time of being to Abuja. I went to Abuja for sole purpose of the networking of a complete guesthouse to have access to Internet service in Wuse Zone 6, on arrival I was greeted by the gateman “Welcome to Nigeria” on hearing that I was shocked and surprised because I came together with the owner and the manager who are both from kogi state. I alighted the vehicle and went straight to the gateman to make him really know that I am a Nigerian and equally from Southeast though I live in Lagos (Nigeria) then, to my greatest dismay he told me that Lagos is not Nigeria, stating that the name Nigeria started from Kogi up North.

Later that day I ask one of the hotel workers the reason behind what the gateman said, he cleared the air with the following points;

 He asked me, has any region other than the north influenced the decision of the National Assembly both Senate and Reps?
 Also that it is only Northerners that has the power to remove any other region from this entity “Nigeria” citing that Nigeria-Biafra War started because the Igbo’s wanted to disintegrate from Nigeria but the North (i.e. Nigerians) said no,
 That no matter what happens (crisis) in the North that no military action will be deployed with the authority to arrest/prosecute the law breakers (Muslim jihadist),
 That truly other regions are more educated than the North but they cannot rule Northerners(Nigerians being born to rule) excepts they so wish, citing the case of Obasanjo as an instance,
             He said that while the Southerners are busy fighting each other the Northerners(Nigerians) are busy regrouping planning on strategies that will be suitable in developing their country(North),
 He gave me so many instances (facts) that suggest that really the Northerners are the actual Nigerians while others are pretending to be Nigerians.
But I still don’t know what to believe because I am a Nigerian and was called a Nigerian when I visited Ghana.  Can someone help me with this question WHO ARE REALLY NIGERIANS?

ODI_BABA:
@JPROSPERO you're a great.
You have spoken so well and eloquent! Yours is proving that truth is the hallmark of intellectualism.

However, NdiIgbo most stick to self determination. The home truth is Nigeria as structured today is doomed, it’s infecting designed to fail by the colonial masters. Putting politics aside, every student of contemporary African history acknowledges that a restructure of Nigeria means rejuvenation of the whole continent.

Nigeria most be restructured in a manner that will be beneficial, not only for it's citizens but as an articulated plan for African renaissance. A lose federation, or even confederation as previously agreed by the erstwhile leaders at Aburi conference before Gowon's renegade, allow each group to contrive it's pace or form of development. Determine its system of education, and application of overall governance. For example, the North might opt for monarchial as practiced in countries like Saudi Arabia or even sharia rule, I do not see any wrong in that as far as it's accepted by the majority of their people and enshrined in their constitution, and the rights of its citizens is not violated. The East might opt for republican constitution as it's self evident that the people abhor any form of imposed government. If every nation that consist of what is today Nigeria will have the right to chose, it will automatically bring in a healthy and progressive competition and pave way for eventual unification. The European Union may as well work as point of reference. I actually live in Canada, and what I find here is each region is autonomous as it's is Canadian; it's practically fiscal federation and may as well serve as a model for Nigeria's restructuring.

I hate to hear that NdiIgbo owns properties in every part of Nigeria without any guarantee of the safety of those properties, or even the life its owners in our present day Nigeria. My advice to every onye Igbo is to invest at home for your own safety. Those other Nigerians who has no dime in Igbo land are not silly if you really look at it. The truth is that they do not believe in one Nigeria, and may never believe for ever. I see no sense in developing their villages while Igbo land laid in waste with lack of real infrastructure that can galvanize and drive real economic activities. I rest my case.

Fenk you brother.