₦airaland Forum

Mutmainneen:
30K? I currently earn 16k as a teacher in a private school with my BTech degree in Physics/Electronics. Might I add that I am the first born of the family and currently solely responsible for the school fees of three siblings, and to a large extent, their feeding too? The depression alone no be here. I had such high hopes of securing a job after service. May God help us in this country.

Encourage your younger siblings to start learning skills like hair dressing, graphics design, tailoring, computer appreciation, etc

mrvitalis:
Do u even know how India is structured ?
Every region control their resources and are politically equal ...a region with 100 million is politically equal to a region of 5 million

Would your northern brothers agree to that ?

U can't make Nigeria function for only one tribe and expect the rest to love nigeria

Restructure Nigeria to 6 zones that are politically equal then watch us love nigeria

We would be in need of more than six zones right now.... Unless you want the middle belt to suffer another man's sins

Ishilove:
Mr Boarneges, they could have just given me something to ponder on instead of giving me the run around

Na.... You needed to "ponder" about your books, not copulation.






African Parents and sidestepping difficult situations are like 5 & 6

Ishilove:
Buhahaha! Hilarious.

I once asked my dad what copulation means. My dad referred me to my mum. Mum referred me back to my dad. Dad asks me where I heard the word from and I told him my Integrated Science teacher asked us to ask our parents the meaning.

After several moments of awkward silence, dad changed the subject and never responded. Imagine my extreme trauma when I discovered in JSS 3 that babies are born via the vagina, and not the navel as I had been led to believe all my life. I wasn't myself for a week.

Lol


In your case they perfectly understood the question......


Just didn't want to get "involved"

By handing over weapons bought with taxpayers money to terrorists and bandits....

Neverwill:
I met a man here on nairaland that nearly or should I say took advantage of me and made me nearly commit an abomination which I nearly did. I wanted to keep this to my self till he sent me a message this last night again

I would keep this brief and I hope I find closure with this as I have been so sad since Wednesday and I couldn't sleep

I had to create a New moniker to post this because this is shameful

I'm 29 and a very handsome man. I have a young family with a beautiful wife that I don't even think I deserve because she is an Angel and I have 2 beautiful girls that means everything to me.

I lost my Job during the pandemic last year and it has been hard getting another Job and it's even harder watching my kids starve and my beautiful wife cry at night

I know my responsibility as a man and top most is me providing for my girl's and their Mom.

My wife have been shouldering the feeding responsibility at home since March because after i paid my girls school fee in February my account became empty

Even though my wife does everything she has never been rude to me or shown me the normal "Nigerian" women attitude

She has never denied me sex or spoke to me rudely since August of last year. She meets men, richer men that wants a relationship with her but this lovely woman tells me all, she even gives me her phone to chat with them

In all of this I kept on looking for a job because I feel like I'm failing my girls

On Monday I was in a thread here on nairaland and I made a post that I needed a job so badly and I got an email from here and I replied the email and I and the person started talking and he invited me to his office in the island

I was excited, baby was excited and the girl's were excited as well and I got to his office the next day which was on Tuesday and I submitted my CV to him and he went through it and was impressed and we spoke even more and he said something to me 'what can you do to get this job' and I said anything because I need to start providing for my wife and the girl's as I was feeling the pressure from home and he said something again. 'You are very handsome and I would want us to be closer and if you agree to this you would get even more than a job

Then he told me his office would get back to me and he gave me #15k as transportation and while I was heading home he texted me and said if I'm free tomorrow he would like to see me

My mind told me something was off , I knew but I just couldn't imagine or believe something of that nature could happen to me, I replied his text and told him I would be free and he told me he would get back to me and Wednesday morning he sent me a text that we should meet in one of the biggest hotels in lekki

I asked him why an hotel and he said he has an appointment with a client and he would want me to see the client with him so he accesses my ability In convincing a client to partner with us

Then I got to the hotel by 10am and I called him I was there and he invited me to his room and when I got in it seemed odd

There were 2 glass and a bottle of wine and we started talking and we spoke a lot while we drank and I actually felt comfortable around him and we started talking family and he told me his wife and kids are in America

Then when it got to my turn I told him about Nike and my girls and I got very emotional and started shedding some tears because I'm failing my family even tho it's not my fault, even though I look for job everywhere and every day both on jobberman and LinkedIn and Twitter and Facebook

Then he told me how much I want the job and I said so badly and he said what can I do to get the job I said anything and he said what can I do to get a job of #150k per month gosh that broke me and I said anything at all and right there he called his personal assistant to draft an employment letter in my name and add a salary of #150k

We continued talking and he told me how much I had left in my account I told him just 3k because I gave wifey the rest of the money he gave to me to prepare something for the kids

Some few minutes later he brought out a bundle of cash and told me it's mine and the employment letter in his email which he showed me if only he has sex with me

Hmmmm

I was stunned and astonished and didn't no what to do

I needed a job so badly, my kids needed the money so badly, Nikky has carried the family enough and I needed to do something and there was an opportunity

If it was you what would you do?

I have never thought I would be in such a situation in all my life but I asked him if it would be painful and he Said no

I'm so sorry for even considering it

Then he showed me a video of how easy it would be

Hmmmm

May God forgive me

I agreed guys

I agreed I'm so sorry babe

I agreed because I have been so broken and empty emotionally and mentally

He told me to pull of my dress and I did and he did as well and I don't know what he rubbed in my ass , maybe a cream he said for easy penetration

Then he kissed me and I kissed him back and in all of this I was just mute, confused, not knowing what to do

I knew I hated what I was doing but I needed a job for my girl's and wifey

Then he told me to give him a Mouth Gig and immediately I held his penis in my hands I remembered how Nike would always say no to other men And the Love we shared and I came back to my senses

And I respectfully told him I can't and he was angry and DISAPPOINTED as I could tell from his look but he told me to leave and I asked him about the job and he told me he would get back to me

I left and immediately went to the church to pray and when I got home babe asked me about it and I said I didn't get the job and at night she wanted us to make Love but I felt too dirty to do that

yesterday morning she wanted to kiss me I felt too dirty to do that also

My kids noticed I was different and asked what's wrong and I told them daddy was sick

I'm confused, I don't know if I should tell her and I don't know how she would feel or if she would even forgive me

My kid's are on midterm and I should take them out today but no money, I can't remember when last we had a family time together in an eatry

I feel so sad right now

I feel so broken right now

God forgive me

Please let's not take advantage of people in their down moment. I nearly fell for this and would have regretted it forever

God help me

Good morning

Cc: Seun, lalasticlala...... The screenshot attached to this post probes that the op is fake...... Its high time we stop deceiving ourselves with irrelevant stories or presenting fictional stories as truths.

Akintundexxy:
On this forum particularly, I've seen people being discouraged outrightly against studying medicine, especially those who are already in higher institutions but wish to change to MBBS or those who have been writing utme for years.

Honestly, the medical doctors I see around me are well to do..like they have high financial buoyancy.

If everyone learns programming or coding,who would need the service anymore?
It's better to secure a realistic future than live in the realm of assumption.
*My opinion*

Whoever discouraged folks from studying MBBS here??

Penguin2:
Mental construct blocking whose mind?

Vote for Booth Party in 2023 and waste your vote it’s none of my business.

People will arguing idealism instead of facing reality.

I understand your point perfectly but you didn't answer my question

Penguin2:
Everyone agrees Kingsley is a good candidate for the presidency...

But I suggest he joins either PDP or APC. Voting for any other party is equal to wasting your vote and I won’t advise anyone to do that.

Have you tried voting for members of other parties


We need to see beyond the mental constructs blocking our minds

Charliewyt:
A man with a workable plan, but we just love recycling our old, below average leaders instead of those that will liberate us.

So you do believe mogahlu** has something to offer??

EverydayHelpers:
We have heard this kind of beautiful promises before from politicians that all failed to deliver on their promises.

How are you different?

Nice question

Fulaniherdmens:
I still believe that if he gets their, it will be more or less a failed adventure. the ganja weed will definitely execute him or coupe will take its course. No be 9ja again.

Do you believe in his agenda?

chiiraq802:
Even if Sensible Nigerians vote for you EYE-NECK go still rig am go APShit or PD.Pig....

And as long as your 'Brain' is still intact APShit or PD.Pig will not allow you to run under there Party.

Wish you LUCK shaaaaa!!!

Will you vote for him?

Ishilove:
Nope. Edo state

Chai.......... So you no be Yoruba!!!

Please what's the solution to hospitals not treating victims of gunshot and knoife attacks...... This is getting too much

bababode825:
go here

https://www.nairaland.com/6576958/watch-champions-league-free-anywhere

Thanks.... Lemme try

Can someone help recommend a way for me to watch the UCL final tonight?

Any website or YouTube channel to steam live??

macrodata:
This isn't what he signed up for. This matter should've been handled before he even proposed to her.

You have a point but the mistake has been done. He just has to use wisdom to salvage the situation else at the end of the day, he may suffer more than her.

Psychologically and otherwise.

ArcFresky:
je is jobless naa.

See ehen, this marriage requires the effort of both and requires a lot of sacrifice. Even the Bible says a woman shaa leave his father and mother and Cling to her husband.

You should marry your bestie
Your husband should be your bestie
If your husband is not your bestie, divorce and marry your bestie.

Asides from "misquoting" the bible, you are 101% right...... Including the part where you "misquoted" the bible

Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.
Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful she easily make friends where ever she find her self thats her nature and kind of personality. Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention her is lavishing on him, I have complain to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.
One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy have been trying to distance him self from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife where together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.
My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own, my wife is refusing to understand that in marriage they are things u will have to let go.

Make it your fulltime job to replace him in her life.

Coldshisha:
But this site is a CMS forum not a custom built site

On what platform?

emmy989:
Good evening nairalanders.
Is hp pavilion dv5 an old model laptop or not.
Or Can you recommend the laptop for someone to buy.

Your requirements and budget will help those that want to give you recommendations.

richmond500:
Please no insult, u can air ur opinion, everyone has his/her own opinion, do not insult if u don't agree with anyone, just say why u don't agree with them

Personally, I don't think the govt did a good thing to ban open grazing, this isn't any different from Xenophobia,
We condemned it when SA did it to us, we also condemned it when Ghana did it to us, why are we now doing it to ourselves.

Most of the Fulani herdsmen are doing legitimate business rearing cattle, yes some bad elements have hijacked the business to carry out their attacks but that doesn't mean we should ban the business, there are people that always hijacked protests, but should we also ban protests? People have hijacked affiliate marketing, should we also ban it, did western countries ban Nigerian and Indian businesses even though these two countries are always into fraud?

Its definitely the govt fault not to provide a situable environment for good business to thrive, we shouldn't support them if they try to ban the few business people are doing, banning business wont stop insecurity, this is just trying to force the ones doing the legitimate business to reason fraud, this is Nigeria, everyone should be allowed to do legitimate business

At this stage in time, the ban needs to be upheld and enforced. Unless government plans to provide free land for all farmers nationwide (livestock and crop) to balance the equation.

Given what obtains for others, these herdsmen should purchase or lease desired land and carry out their activities there.

Additionally, there's no evidence that these folks pay taxes or dues hence, all forms of protection and preferences that they enjoy is really over the top and biased.

Wisdomclass1:
Okowa is the best...

Of course he is..... But tell us what projects he has completed

xpool:
You are just being mischievous.
Are you a sadist?

What projects has okowa completed?

My point has always remained the same. Most of our leaders are thieving useless individuals.

They should continue paying subsidy until our refineries start working. But that only helps the common man if people like dangote don't find excuses to hike prices.

How many of you are willing to replace him and ask those question?

Seun has always been careful with asking deep questions but he always throws one or two questions along the way to expose the hypocrisy of his guests, but never a direct question that will put him or his family in danger.

SegFault:
Who cares if it's 32bit or not modern languages can even make 32bit systems use 64bit data types (C can do this) but most importantly what are your system specs, your CPU model and speed, your RAM capacity, your HDD capacity(this one ain't that important apart from swap on memory which the Os can use to extend the RAM capacity), since you are using a laptop I don't need to ask you about your GPU since you're obviously going to be using an integrated GPU given you're current financial status and tech knowledge. Besides there are many fields in programming I'll briefly advise you to try your hand in writing (books, content writing etc) because programming is almost always a disappointment for broke people.

Hello sir, please explain your last sentence.

daylay7:
This question come to mind because of my encounter with some men about their marriage. I still find it funny to think that some guys after marriage would still go for another woman for sex. Some would even go after married women. Some would go for girls as young as their daughter.

A conversation ensued between my married friends and I about infidelity. When I told them since I have been married 10 years ago, I have never slept with another woman or touch another woman inappropriately. They were all surprised and called me a "pastor".

Why is it difficult for some men not to adhere to their marital vows?

It is not difficult for men to adhere to marital law. You either have a wrong circle of friends or framed up this story for whatsoever reason is best known to you

stanley000:
Omo that second guy has been severely raped in prison, e show for him face

Cc seun, lalasticlala

Why are people like this still on this forum as active members

NgeneUkwenu:
Did they follow due process when they were murdering unarmed policemen, soldiers , custom officers, prison warders etc?

Nonsense!

I understand your point and it is not easy but you can easily imagine the person on the receiving end being an innocent person or some one you know.

We don't even have any evidence so far that they are ipob or directly connect to the events. You and I know there are numerous reports of police taking out their anger on wrong citizens.

But like I said earlier, I understand your point.

Phcmayor:
I greet everyone here
I need food that I can eat to gain weight am weighing 40 something at the age of 23.

Please help me I look like 18 years and can't proudly stand with my mates cus of my body size

Which food and drinks can i take

Thanks

If it's a genetic something, you'll need to combine healthy/heavy protein and fat meals with exercises like pull ups, dips, weights, etc