Christianity Etc › Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by sonofthunder: 4:41pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: And who told you I am from the other religion? What do you want the mods to do tho?ban me for breaking no rules.. 
Why do you religious folks always hate the truth...worse of all you can't prove the existence of what you claim to serve..  Stop cutting your nose...... You statements above are contradicting themselves hence you not making any sense. Nobody asked for your religion. Go on with your wells of hatred but don't stylishly condescend other peoples beliefs when you are absolutely shallow in knowledge. Empty vessels often make the loudest noise..... I may just get you a loud speaker |
Christianity Etc › Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by sonofthunder: 2:02pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Mbo07: 2017 I married a gay pastor who drugged me every night to have anal with me, I never knew untill I realised any night he served me dinner I slept like a dead tree, not up to a month after our marriage. I couldn't hold urine or feace, I was ashamed to tell the same person that left me in that condition. He would always tell me he was tired of having sex with me, but once he served me water or food I'm off.
When I wake up, my anus will be swollen and I felt pain, I felt something was wrong with Me, I was scared to confront him untill the day I was cleaning the house and I saw a pack of sleeping tablets. I text the name to a Facebook friend that works in the pharmacy and what she told me left my heart in my hands bleeding.
I confronted him, but he denied it, he wasn't ready to change. Days later I discovered he was doing this with the gardener's daughter, again I confronted him and he denied it, despite seeing pictures prof on his phone of him and the girl. I left a marriage not up to 3months.
I left because this things happening to me was never what I prayed to God for, and if your God will judge me because I left a sex, gay, predator who hide under the robe of a pastor, then That you God is not My God at all. Because my saviour Jesus Christ saved me from premature death This is such a sad experience |
Christianity Etc › Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by sonofthunder: 2:01pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: What's your God business with how human want to live? This is marriage...  You should never displease your peace of mind cos of an imaginary creature..
If your marriage life ain't stable and yve tried all you could...why not divorce instead of enduring just to please something..  Seun, lalasticlala..... Can a Christian leave that first sentence on a Muslim thread  You guys need to come up with rules that will be consistent |
Phones › Re: OPPO Pre Order Is LIVE by sonofthunder: 3:36pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Please share specs and price |
Education › Re: How Old Is Your Sim Card Today? by sonofthunder: 2:26pm On Mar 23, 2022 |
About 12-14years...... Once upgraded it to 4g sim....... Its airtel |
Health › Re: My Mum Has Swollen Feet And Abdomen. by sonofthunder: 9:54pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
dboY1123: My mom has been battling with this sickness of swollen feet and abdomen..sometimes she becomes really weak and she doesn't eat very well because her stomach is readily filled. We've been to a general/state hospital where they did scan for her and they said her kidney is OK but she has an enlarged liver.. They had her stay for two weeks in the hospital and she was recovering when she was discharged, but the sickness is still returns.. Please, any place you can recommend for treatment and what could be the reasons for this thing? Help me please. We reside in Ogun state, Sango to be precise. After she is stabilised with medicine, you guys should work on her diet Follow Dr Berg on YT |
Phones › Re: TECNO CAMON 19 Series To Use RGBW Lens Tech Developed Jointly With Samsung by sonofthunder: 11:23pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
I hear camon 18 heats up....... Hope that will be solved here? |
Fashion › Re: Tall Guys' Fashion Issues In Nigeria by sonofthunder: 6:40pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
nedubrazil111: My only problem is shoe size, I wear size 47. It takes the grace of God to see my shoe size after roaming around the market like a psycho. Guy, just try and get a good cobbler to be making your shoes..... It will reduce stress |
Business › Re: Are We In Famine Period In Nigeria? by sonofthunder: 9:39pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
[quote author=MARKone post=111156033][/quote]What you have in that table is different from what you had in that post..... Maybe you should go through a little more slowly, $1 was never equal to 0.78kobo |
Business › Re: Are We In Famine Period In Nigeria? by sonofthunder: 8:25pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
MARKone: It's every where. Importers are not finding it funny now, commercially imported goods would soon be out of the reach of Nigerians with the new increase in import duties, the Naira is weak, almost useless. Diesel is almost 800 Naira per litre, no light. Buhari is in UK cruising, his wife in Dubai shopping. $1 was never equal to 0.78 kobo I think you mean 0.78 naira or 78k |
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Family › Re: Am I Spoiling My 7-year Old Son? by sonofthunder: 1:49pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Teettyllayho: Please I need advise from people with grown up kids.
Honestly, parenting is not easy. I don't even know what to do anymore.
My first son is 7 but he is kind of slow. However, he's above average in learning and he's learning at his pace. I understand all of this and I'm always happy to guide him.
But I don't know if I'm too hard or too soft on him because I use to talk to him a lot. I only beat him when he does something serious (like going against my rules, or not doing his homework when he should).
These days, whenever I scold him, he would give me a sad look and he might even shout saying: "I've heard you!" Then, he will be alone in a corner for some time.
Sometimes, I'd go close to him and tell him why I had to scold him and he'd say "I don't like it when you shout at me" I'd apologize and hug him (I don't even know if I'm spoiling him by apologizing). .
I don't know how to scold without putting a bit of action at least. Shey I'll be whispering and scolding ni? Sometimes, I'll leave him and pretend as if I didn't see him when he brings up such attitude.
Last week, he mistakenly brought back someone else's lunch box home because they look very much alike. I told him it's okay that it happens and I promised to write his name in bold when he brings back his box the next day to prevent such from happening again.
Could you believe that he came back with the other person's lunch box again? When I asked him, he said he didn't see his lunch box and the boy that took his own. Then I asked: Did you tell your class teacher? Are you sure you know the boy?
His reply: I didn't tell my teacher because I know the boy and I went to his class but he wasn't there.
So, I figured that he must have gone to check once and didn't bother to check again. And he didn't bother to also tell his class teacher.
So, I was very mad this time and told him not to bring someone else's property home again, no matter what!
I think he would have told his teacher if he really valued his property because he told me something that made me really mad the next morning.
"Mummy, or will you buy me another lunch box since we can't find mine?" Luckily for me, he was brushing his teeth then and I was bathing for his sister. The resounding slap I gave him on his back brought back his senses.
I don't know why he always want something new. He spoilt the lunch box I bought for him and his sister o and he's using another one now. That is, he wants me to buy a third one while his sister is still using the first one? How na?
I don't even know what to think. Why would he want a new box when he's barely used the new one?
Then, he's always talking about how his classmates use to bring different kinds of food ( he wasn't like this before o).
I try as much as possible to make different foods for him too, and he's stopped complaining.
We recently changed his school and his new school has quite a lot of pupils. I Don't know if that's affecting him.
Honestly, I'm bothered about the changes and I don't know how best to address it.
I've made him understand countless times that he should always be content with whatever he has and he shouldn't compare himself with anyone.
I just finished with another round of lecture now and he has tears in his eyes saying:
"Mummy, stop shouting at me. It makes me sad"
I was heartbroken and felt guilty seeing him like this and I did everything possible to make him see why I had to shout or scold.
Please how can I scold a child without shouting? Am I spoiling him? Can someone help with tips? Honestly, I'm tired! I didn't read to the end so be careful with my advice. Talk him into what you expect of him, let him know his chores, the time for school work, time for house work and time for TV/IPad. Also make sure that his relaxation or entertainment comes after the has done his work.... You only have 3 years left to correct whatever negative traits he is displaying, after it becomes a lot more difficult. Also learn to be firm. If he needs love, give it immediately and if he needs discipline don't waste time. Its also very important for you not to under or over-discipline him. Last but not the least he's already old enough to start learning morals.... Teach him the bible and take him regularly to a good bible believing church. It will not be easy but the joy you will have 10, 20, 30 years from now will be irreplaceable. Sorry if I didn't answer other questions you asked further down Stay blessed |
Crime › Re: Photos Of Abba Kyari, 6 Others Arraigned For Drug Trafficking by sonofthunder: 10:57pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Jubilancy: How the mighty has fallen....
Same thing happened recently in my office..... Gist me |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: CBN TIES Loans & Grants For Graduates' Smes by sonofthunder: 4:46pm On Mar 04, 2022 |
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Family › Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by sonofthunder: 1:22pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Brighton1: My post might be lengthy, but Pls read because I need advice.
I've been living in Lagos for 5yrs now, even before the death of my father (R.I.P). I lost my dad 4yrs ago. I'm the eldest and I have two younger ones. I'm a contractor.
My mom and my siblings are based in ekpoma edo state. I call them regularly, I advice them, I send them money for up-keep, I visit home once in a while. I play both role of a father and elder bro to my siblings. I don't want them feel the absence of my father.
My construction team got a contract at Auchi, it was an opportunity for me to visit home often.
My younger sister is a 300L student in AAU. She is 22yrs old, she don't read, she's always on social media (tik tok & Co.) Nobody can touch her phone, if my lil bro wants to browse something important or play game with her phone, she will just be screaming at him as if Ogun is about to strike her... Don't touch my phone o, drop it down.
Even the phone (iPhone 7) I was the one who gave it to her when I bought my current phone (Samsung). I promised my lil bro he shouldn't worry, as soon as I get paid for the job I'm currently working on, I will get him a phone before I travel back to Lagos.
Okay, Yesterday I only said, now that ASUU is on strike, find something to do, get busy, learn a skill, even if it's fashion designing, make-up or catering.
She was just giving me flamzy excuses, and the annoying part is she will be raising her voice while talking to me. I almost used a belt to flog her if not for my mom that held me.
My father's house is a bungalow, and we have a tanent, Anytime I receive the house rent (200k yearly) I send everything to my mother. My mom would be like I should hold some for myself but I said NO, they need it more.
AAU school fees is now x4 compared to what I paid back then when I was there. Yet I'm the one providing 80% of her school fees while my mom 20%.
My Lil bro who's just 18 yrs old is more hardworking than her, he goes to my mom's shop to help her out, he's learning how to cut hair and he plays instruments very good (piano & bass guitar). He plays for a church that pays him 5k per week (he plays weds & sun for the church). I pray uniben grant him admission this year.
My father was a nice man, he disciplined us and his death won't change that. I want him to be proud of me wherever he is now.
Nairaland family, I need your advice. My sister depend so much on the money I give her. I don't want her to be a leech. With such character from her, you are in a dicey situation. Be very careful and firm with her... Although she's at a delicate age whereby doing the right thing will make her rebel, but most at times that's just what you need to do. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: CBN TIES Loans & Grants For Graduates' Smes by sonofthunder: 6:16am On Mar 02, 2022 |
olaxm: I tried all night clicking on validate VBN. I got no code sent to my line and my line is what i used to register vbn. By the way. My NYSC certificate is 2013. Can it work for it? has Anyone got approved below 2015. Even though my nysc got validate and show my certificate number. The problem is the VBN. Can I still apply for this? |
Properties › Re: How Much Will It Cost To Roof This House? by sonofthunder: 8:44pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Can someone advise on the advantages and disadvantages of flat roofing and raise roofing.
Thanks |
Travel › Re: Fidet Okhiria: Train Services In Nigeria Cheap, Heavily Subsidised by sonofthunder: 1:50pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Just tell us you want to increase the price |
Foreign Affairs › Re: EU, US, UK, Canada Impose Sanctions On Putin, Lavrov by sonofthunder: 6:15am On Feb 26, 2022 |
yanabasee: Putin will never survive this... Have you read the so called sanctions? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ukraine Capital Under Seige Tonight by sonofthunder: 5:48am On Feb 26, 2022 |
ZhanVeera: So no one is helping Ukraine?? 
I was expecting the Nigerian Army to be on their way by now,  Lol..... Humor me They still have to pass through Sambisa forest to arrive Kyiv |
Family › Re: What I Saw When Coming Back From Work by sonofthunder: 9:10pm On Feb 22, 2022 |
Lostchild: I was very happy that day after they let me go.
I thought they will carry me along with the dead man, but the didn't. Brother..... That feeling was very normal considering what these people are capable of doing |
Family › Re: What I Saw When Coming Back From Work by sonofthunder: 6:10pm On Feb 22, 2022 |
I'm still wondering why the officer had to climb your back  |
Education › Re: Checkout The Hilarious Drawing Of Human Hand Her Students Drew by sonofthunder: 9:44am On Feb 22, 2022 |
Worldlegend: More This is how you people !make mockery of God...... What's the relationship between the Blood of Jesus and the drawing the child made? Grow up |
Politics › Re: Jonathan: There Will Be Credible Elections In 2023 by sonofthunder: 7:45am On Feb 22, 2022 |
KingKDP: Lol… You think say everybody na peace ambassador like you?
Bros Joe, these power hungry mfs just want to attain power by all means. They don’t have plans for the country than just to attain power because it’s their long life wish, as it stands like this, left to credible and fair election, non of these people can even taste that seat so what do you expect? Credit kwa?
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Tottenham (2 - 3) On 19th February 2022 by sonofthunder: 1:54pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
If this was Jose Mourinho winning this match, pundits will insult his life...... Let's hear what they'll say about Conte |
Crime › Re: Yahoo Boys Are Intelligent – Governor Obaseki Reveals Plans by sonofthunder: 1:54pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
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Education › Re: ASUU To Go On One-month Warning Strike by sonofthunder: 7:43am On Feb 14, 2022 |
Warning strike for one month then full strike action can last for one year
On a serious note, this is just to reflect that the FG doesn't take anyone serious....... Continuously postponing promises you made to your staff/universities.
The promises are just to quench the fire, after which they focus on embezzlement of funds. |
Career › Re: Man With Two Degrees And Phd Now Working As Labourer At Dangote Refinery by sonofthunder: 3:49am On Feb 06, 2022 |
gosmoney: see question how does sponsoring his education get to do with no job after education Think beyond the surface. Put yourself in other peoples shoes |
Career › Re: Man With Two Degrees And Phd Now Working As Labourer At Dangote Refinery by sonofthunder: 3:47am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Judolisco: u can easily get a sponsor for anything academics Na... Ur parents day are civil servants can easily sponsor u.. But might not be able to get u a job... D nigga is a hustler... I'm currently doing my msc and I'm earning less than 100k per month I find it difficult to believe that somebody sponsored by parents to PhD level can stoop so low. Higher chance he may have been born with a silver spoon. He appears to have had his MSC and PhD back to back. Unless his area of focus was in one that lacked opportunity Am sure if you reconsider, you'll realise one can get sponsors but it is not always that easy. It will be very difficult for somebody like you to stoop so low in 10 years time. You may even get a lecturing job or some other opportunity before you acquire your PhD. Please understand that I'm not mocking him |
Career › Re: Man With Two Degrees And Phd Now Working As Labourer At Dangote Refinery by sonofthunder: 3:44am On Feb 06, 2022 |
alizma: He has been a die hard hustler just like you can see him in that pix. Many paid their fees that way. May God bless all true hustlers You may be right. But that will only make me expect more because most it really is unthinkable to to do such after 10years of acquiring his PHD. My only excuse is that he took up a lower job in order to get closer (to information) on another job. You can also consider it..... There are so many opportunities between where he is and where he could be. Being a labourer is significantly low. What was even his reason for acquiring said PhD? |
Career › Re: Man With Two Degrees And Phd Now Working As Labourer At Dangote Refinery by sonofthunder: 3:39am On Feb 06, 2022 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD: even cow must not ask such question Don't be so shallow in thinking...... Think!!! |
Sports › Re: Mason Greenwood’s Accuser Breaks Silence Over Rape (Photos) by sonofthunder: 5:53am On Feb 05, 2022 |
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