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Wisdom to rule simple. In America the chances of hate speech causing a war is negligble, a reason why you Trump can be insulted anyhow but it’s different in Africa. We need more of these laws.

MyGeneration:
This post alone shows that she's already missing him

according to her, she just wants to be with her man but then I remembered reading a post claiming she declined residing in nigeria or where her husband is... I can’t remeber. So if you want to be seeing your man often, why don’t you agree to live where he is given that you know the nature of his job. Other than infedility, I don’t see reasons why they can’t work things out given the number of years spent together.

trevorhorace:
You see menace

I see unchannelled talents

thank you for seeing it this manner. Some people are even wishing accidents instead of advocating a good environment to breed these talents, make money from them.

InvertedHammer:
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This is what happens when you get rid of a specie's natural predators.

Okada riders would have solved this problem.

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okada is back to lagos btw. Gomax, gokada are all around. A rich man will always steal buy and innovate a poor man’s business. Now okada owners are riders under these platform.

BareFacedLies:
Mr man I have fuçked a woman who got married as a virgin before so go and sit down!

how did you know? Because she told you she married a virgin and you must have believed her from your post ... chei.

Olalan:
Can't say it's the best gift cause a whole lot of other things are needed to be a lovely wife and mother. But a guy with a virgin wife in this age is lucky.

being a virgin male or female means no compromise, determined, goal oriented. You don’t want to joke with these attributes in a partner. I am not saying a non virgin can’t be any of these but this is just a simple sign. It goes beyond the physical thing. It means mindfulness. Even though the indicidual might not be perfect, expect some level of peace. A virgin husband deserves a virgin wife, a celibate husband deserves a celibate wife. It is best pre marital sex is avoided at all cost.

cindybaby22:
Nigerians girls and pride
Try to watch approaching girls prank in USA on youtube and see how white girls react to such issues with extreme humility and sense of respect, even if they are not interested. Pride is the problem of the black!

thank you. I call it unintelligence which degenerates into foolish acts like screen “shoring”. There is nothing wrong in sliding into DMs as long as it isn’t a threat to ones life or insult.

Preshy561:
How old was he when he got married to her.

I'm talking about teens.
Kids that meant to be studying will be online toasting ladies they can't even handle.

there are young girls responding to DMs of men old enough to be their father online. You guys should show some intelligence and understand somethings are not peculiar to a gender. If someone admired you and you don’t find that admiration worthy. Keep it to yourself. It is a good thing to be admired. If you weee threatened, insulted or abused you can make that public. Is it a crime to admire someone. If you feel the person is not upto age, tell him privately that is what proves you are matured yourself not screen shorting.

It baffles me when I see men in their 40s and 50s beg for money. I mean these are people’s father. Now imagine the mindset and thinking of their kids. Imagine the kind of children these people are tasing. Change ain’t imminent in this country.

dokyOloye:
The Muslim North never learns.
You invite and camp terrorists from all over Africa to decimate the Christian minorities in the North.
How do they keep themselves busy when they are not doing that =banditry in Zamfara and Katsina, Kidnapping in Kaduna.
Same way they were hailing boko boys when they started and were majorly bombing churches and police stations.
Buhari condemned killing them,Northern abi Borno elders said a fight against boko haram is a fight against the North.Sultan etc were all talking nonsense.
What is d outcome now?

this is not about the Muslim north. It is about Nigerian benign a ticking bomb. I was in a meet up with senior business men some weeks ago and one of them said clearly. What we are seeing in the north will be a child’s play compared to what will happen in the next 5 years. Are there no kidnappers in lagos now. He said, the rate of joblessness is increasing with no anitidote or caution. Where are the jobs? Graduates are churned our daily. What you are seeing is a result of poverty plus mental laziness plus bad policy plus corruption. A mentally lazy person who finds himself in a poor country will commit crime. Should a mentallly lazy man find himself in a fair country, he may not think of crime as there will be means to take care of him. You see that even government officials are not free from this. Fake custom Officer, imagine, another product of mental lazy man. Now, until Nigerians stop shouting Buhari, Atiku up and down, the next victim might be someone dear.

Llizyy:
. Which husband? The one that abandoned her and only came back after she became famous? Claiming he went to hustle? She had to sell bread to survive and take care of their children. Why did the so called husband stop hustling? Am not sure they were even legally married. How many men here will allow their wife hawk bread to take care of their household.

she is a weak woman. If you cannot leave an abusive man when you are poor, why leave him when you are rich. If she had her goals and saw her glorious future, she would have left him long ago but no, she was waiting on the little support she was getting from him and managing. People who settled for less and then realize they deserve better when they perhaps found grace have a higher chance of abusing grace. This she is doing. Her time is limited.

murphybo:
What a crazy country where mediocrity is celebrated and hailed, what talent or innovations(s) has she brought to the country that requires her to be celebrated and require recognition and praises given? Lubbish, Best students in Mathematics, best Graduating students, best innovators, are there unknown struggling to survive, so many young talents that have created some piece from pieces have been seen in the country but who recognised them or celebrate them, just Bread seller with zero ideologies now turns to motivational or role model to some thereby making herself important based on written script to be delivered, what exactly did she want to know earlier if still in the baker? Misplaced priority.

I mentioned on some other thread her time is very limited. 5 years from now, she is in oblivion. She has not talent nor educated enough to be in the media space. She is a product of grace and gradually she is abusing the grace. I saw her who on AFMAG ... no flavor, no interest. In the end, she may be hired tp work with other Yoruba shows because they are many competitive ones out there. People are making money from her story and when they are done she will be left alone. From her rants I can’t aee any mention of goals and ambitions. Prolly she had none. Apparently why she is all about her past, she hasn’t a future. This is so clear.

JewelBukky:
Jummy, Jummy!!! See the way guys are just coming at her, slamming her ds and dat, all coz she's successful yen yen yen like you all know what she's actually going through? Pls let's not be so quick to judge!!!!

Meanwhile, check my signature. I sell quality and affordable wears and hand bags.

wheee is the success, I am yet to see it. Until you guys understand the decisions we make in our youths affect us a life time you will know she isn’t successful in anyway.

Godmother:
Nigerians are so quick to judge this girl and call her names. No one knows what her battle is about and what she's had to put up with.

Like she said, she's all about her happiness and reality and not necessarily what people will say and I'm happy about that.

if she is all about her happiness, she would be coming with unnecessary posts all the time.

IdreamOfUnicorn:
We don't know what she was putting up with in the marriage so I can't judge

apparently she is being taught what she is all about. Can she speak and write English. Those tweets aren’t from her. Sooner or later the persons tweeting for her will abandon her. That’s life for you but then she won’t be able to come out

Nigerian drivers have a problem. They believe they are experts and no one can tell them how to drive. You try to caution them, they come aggressive. They Can’t be corrected. Especially the young ones. 20- 45. Sometimes it’s just wisdom they need. May the departed RIP.

Two wrongs don’t make a right. Slavery is crime, yahoo is crime. Crime is not the antidote to crime. It is all wrong.

victorian:
Really?

It amazes me how u can compare Mo Abudu, who is in her 50s and must have started media stuff so many years back to Nina who is in early 20s. And Nina started months ago.

For God sake, where is the comparison? Its just like comparing Micheal Jackson to dbanj? Haba!
Please think in a wise way, let's not get carried away with emotions.

it amazes me how you can tag Nina successful because of cars and trips abroad. Now wait till Nina and the bread seller is 50, then come quote me

If you government has failed you. Treat the Bleep up of the government in your country, not in another man’s country. This message is to all criminals. Going outside Nigeria to commit crime is doing more harm than the government will be doing to you back home. Unfortunately, it would have been honourable if he died at home.

Celebrating road in 2019. What’s the status of the airport itself?

eyinjuege:
Perhaps she's happier not married to him.
Only she knows where the shoe pinches in her relationship.
Life is just once. She's made her decision. Divorcees also live fulfilled lives

No one is happy ending a relationship, divorcing or separating from a partner. No one is happy but then sometimes it happens for a reason. And the reason behind the reason is what determines if we are happy afterwards. If she was still selling bread, would she call the man “misfortune”? She is being uncautious. Take this anywhere and keep this mention. 5 years is too much for her to remain relevant. Again, the ones who advised her, would they have done same if she was still a bread seller.

victorian:
Don't worry u will shocked, she will go far in life with her illiteracy.
When people expect one to fall, God rises up and say Nope, my Grace on her, she won't fall or fail.

And so because shes an illiterate she should accept all sorts of insults from people, right? Just to show she's humble?

Really?

Nigerians sef... See nina almost everyone was saying she won't go far, she's dumb, she's olosho, shes slow, she's this, she's that. She won't go far in life.

Now where is Nina? Haven't u seen her achievements lately?
She's even gaining more grounds in Success than ceec.

You don't write people off like that. Because the more u right them off in your mind and with words. The more God rewrite and repolish their stories all over again with more twists and turns.

Just watch and see what happens to olajumoke. Her success is just the beginning

she can’t go far not with social media insults. Where is Nina? What succcess. The cars and trips abroad. What you guys fail to realize is there are people who make money from publicity of these guys. It’s called media... garner attention, the more attention, more money. Where is Efe, Ese, ttt and the rest. They are doing their thing, all good but they are not in the media like they used to be. Wait for the next BBA is over, you will be the one looking for Nina. Madam, if you want to measure success in the media space, you mention mikes of Mo Abudu that commands the respect of world leaders or mention Mary Njoku. We know the ones that trade insults online.. like of Tonto Dikeh.. where are they? You

victorian:
I can bet my last money on her, she's not even looking for a better man out there.

She will be more focused and driven to achieve more successes in her life.

Any newly divorced successful woman out there, will not start looking for a better man after her divorce, she will bury her head in her business and kids.
If a better man comes along, fine and if he doesn't? No wahala. Life goes on.

Life is not all about man! Man! Man!

go read my quote again and see “man” is a part and read the other parts.

victorian:
What he said was so wrong

He had no clue what she has gone through In her marriage and where she's coming from, even if the man gives her hell in the home. Everybody just feel she should suck it up, smile fake smiles to the camera and continue living in a hellish marriage.
All for people to praise her that she's a good wife

Really? And dying in silence? If u look at their pics displayed, she looks so unhappy but feigning a fake smile.
Anyways most nigerians love lies and love to live a deceitful life and I'm happy olajumoke is not one of them.

Someone cannot be successful and still be living with a thorn in the flesh everyday and night. You can't be giving me hell at home and expect me to pretend all is well to the public , then stay put and be suffering. Hell no, I won't. I will leave, that's the truth.

One has suffered being poor, one can't keep suffering the same treatment or worse when one is rich. It doesn't make sense.

That's just life.

money is good but the reasons for the divorce are obvious. If money could keep a relationship Jeff Bezos won’t be divorcing his wife. If money and fame can’t make this woman stick with a man she has got two kids for whist she was known as a bread seller, money and fame won’t get her a better man, foster her relationship with people or make her happier.

An illiterate with no talent in the media space cannot go far. Take this anywhere. She is a product of grace not talent or hard work. Her story attracted attention which is the whole idea of media. They people who used her story have cashed out and she is only being empowered to make ends meet. Unfortunately, pride is coming in gradually. When a fool has plenty to eat, he becomes a burden to the earth. The least she can do is to be lowly and humble to everyone. Throwing insults and all she is all about means she is heading to the valley.

lomprico:
That is why one man said you should never allow your wife make more money than you.

there is nothing wrong in a woman making more money than her husband. There is something wrong in a woman who hasn’t wisdom. Key thing is knowing the woman you are married to or in a relationship with. If she thinks she will be “ Olajumoke” forever, she is dreaming. She is simply a product of grace ... nothing more, but gradually abusing the privilege. She was never a model, she bumped into a photo shoot according to her story. Now calling a man who you have worked things through lazy because you found grace means you will be getting down soon.

In about 5 years or say 10, I am sure she will regret this action. The problem with young folks is they don’t want to hear the right advice from people who have gone through the path they are going. She will find she is happier a bread seller than whatever money or fame she is looking for. Money doesn’t buy happiness. If money cannot keep her in her relationship, money won’t keep her in her next. It takes a man who truly loves you to work things with you when you are a bread seller. The people who advised you to leave your man and that you will find a better man will never have advised you same if you are still a bread seller. Wisdom calls, wisdom calls. Another life test failed, prepare for regrets.

chloride6:
Foundation was faulty because he wanted to buy beer?

Wetin person no go hear?

that boy is less than 18. Everything is wrong with an under age consuming alcohol.

Go ask children who flew around the world for summer holidays as kids but now they are selling bread in the village. Life is a mystery. When a fool has plenty to eat, he becomes a burden to the earth. This man can be called that fool.

safarigirl:
I'm just happy the lady isn't a small girl. She looks to be somewhere around her late 20's at least.

It's good.

matured men don’t date or marry small women as first wife. They need a woman who is matured and experienced like them. The ones who wish to marry second wives may marry a smaller woman. Now, a woman matures faster in size than a man but many times not in sense.

Stanley126:
This is what you get when you stick to a guy when he has nothing, young ladies should take note...

unfortunately, life did not give many girls wisdom to decipher this.

Where are the pessimistic, “ absolute score” individuals. The ones that have no hope in whatever they do. Keep the hope alive and go succeed. My name is HOPE.