₦airaland Forum

Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

About 8 years ago, I created a post on Nairaland about gays been born that way, so many people were furious with me, even the mod couldn't attempt to move it to front page even though it was research backed.

Now 2024, not even up to 10 years like I suggested.

Just pray nobody can trace you, there are people willing to kill anyone with the word gay.

sauceEEP:
Excuse me, but if I heard correctly, you mentioned that the individuals in question are inadequately financed. However, I observed three individuals equipped with rocket-propelled grenades. It appears that referring to them as being poorly funded is not an accurate assessment.

You think 3 propeller equals well funded?

In actual combat, the accuracy of those hand rocket propeller is 50% at best, a single artillery can confound them.

Olatara:
He was in the senate for 20years

Not senate, FHR!

That is why everyone is so surprised, looked like was in the Senate

Turquoiseee:
I’ve never been to a beach before. Who will take me? I’ll get to wear that beautiful bikini I bought and have not had the chance to use.

And you are in Lagos? Impossible!

For the OP!

There are lots of beaches in Lagos, the one you went to is for the ordinary man, they left those for Agberos to manage.

Wow!

Manny21:
How can ordinary wives of policemen ordered the demolition of people's properties in a state where all land within the territory of a state belongs to the governor

Read, ignorance is not an excuse for stupidity.

IamDora:
How many men on NL can play football like Oshoala?

And you tell me what a man can do, a woman can't do better

Vawulence is that you?

Anny69:
Men don't deserve women. A woman's presence in a man's life is enough for him. We deserve all the gifts and the merriness. Y'all deserve NOTHING!

Considering you can only offer nothing

Babysho:
I'm 189cm tall, fresh out NYSC and I've recently began working my first 9-5 job in Lagos and inorder to cut costs, I've had to opt for public transportation and I've found that the leg room is never enough in both those yellow buses and the BRT. I'm tired of folding like jeans in suitcase, my back won kpeme and I'm not 30 yet. It's even worse in traffic.

First of all, I don't think 189cm is that tall. Also, I'm suspecting most of these buses are shipped in from Asia where the minimum height is the lowest in the world.

Tall Nigerian working class, how do you cope?

It's worse even when you want to buy a car, I had to go for an SUV instead of the normal ones I prefer.

Leg room, head room, I have stayed bent for the duration of an entire journey because I couldn't sit straight, no head room.

Armaggedon:
How many people attend them

You will be surprised.

Pierced:
It is 600 per litre in Lagos.

I bought at NNPC Awolowo road, full tank of 71 litres 40k.

LeoDeKing:
Fuel is sold 670 here in Lagos and at most 700 in other parts of the country.

But same Fuel is sold 1000 in Anambra.

I think we should blame MC Oluomo for this.

Fuel is 568 in Lagos, but 100 litres yesterday.

Are you sure it's 1000 over there, that is ridiculous.

Agbadocassava:
Tinubu has subsidized the TFare I see no reason why people won’t travel. Onitsha dat was 15k before is now 7.5k

Where? From lagos?

Even Benin is more than that!

CJStarz:
Having a disabled family member isn't enough, the person should be Disabled too so those disabled people can feel free and relate with him or her. We have very smart, educated and intelligent Disabled people.Making a wholesome person the Head of the Disabled People Agency is nothing but a mockery and further humiliation of those they seek to help.

She is, do you research first.

FlawlessKarl:



This is so justifiable to me. so far we have the most clownish fake president, we shouldn't expect anything better again.

Not surprised this is coming from you.

OkayDaddy:
Just for a minute imagine if Dangote put this refinery in Onitsha or Aba.

He will never complete it, besides the cost of running the pipeline will make it impossible.

westlius:
I remember my first job interview
And the GM asked if I drink
I replied him yes I drink water alot
Everyone on the panel was laffing

If you are operating machinery, that question is valid.

Depends on the person, I have been using my Honda Pilot for close to 5 years and I don't have any problem, if you don't mind it doesn't matter.

Ikinternational:
Apparently he ought to be congratulating the Nigerian Government.

The cover is blown. All Nigerians now know the man get plenty government support

That is news because

Adewale1603:
This one is just starting life. You never know anything yet. Dying over a single carryover course in Nigeria, that after graduating, there is no job guarantee for you on that same degree certificate you are dying on top now. where even first class graduates are still jobless for the past years. Whereas some people are still burning their certificate out of frustrations.

It might seems like that to you, but honestly, I once cried because of a B, my HOD was just looking at me like, are you okay I mean I have never had carryover before, I am sure I won't be able to walk home.

It's not surprising in my case, I had nothing else apart from my studies, I don't have extra curriculum or parties so a B is not acceptable.

I had food allergies, I had to cook.

MadamVanessa:



No man born of a woman can cross Vanessa using false marriage promises as bait .

If you need sex, Open up and be genuine with your intentions. when once you starts with marriage, I know immediately that you're a clown and still a baby in the game and I will play you the game till you become so useless.

I have done that to couples of men, sadly , today they're so useless . They foolishly sold every of their properties just to see Vanessa's pant. Men men men chai and today I am the Jezebel and I agreed totally.

Is that Venessa in the profile picture?

If a man really what to see any woman pants he can, it's just different for ladies, if devil ready for you, only small temptation packaged in all you love and hope for, na you go submit pant and add bra.

kettykin:
Solve the problems of open defecation, street begging, urchins, Indian hemp addiction, omolineism, thuggery, human ritualism and cultism.

This is placing the cart before the horse. Let's watch it in 3 years

You are just a sad person, do they have to be mutually exclusive, they can be do concurrently.

christejames:
International Embarrassment



Like I keep saying, world leaders don't recognize Tinubu as one of them, he is more of a pariah in their midst.

Unfortunately, sane world do not role with thieves and misfits.

Really? But he was in front?

Akeem79:
Only munching some fruits after the damn yam is what will solve the problem

Is this true? I don't digest yam well too.

The only thing I digest properly are proteins.

Jennyclay:
Another post demonising single mothers . Just look at that nonsense man shouting “100% true” repeatedly!! Mtcheww!

Biko, Let her speak for the single mothers in America

Most single mothers here in Africa, Nigeria to be precise are doing great job raising their child(ren).

Let’s understand there are many situations that make one a single mother, situations like.. widow, irresponsible father, rape, deceptive boyfriend etc

The question we should be asking ourselves is Who is the better parent?? Is it the woman that actually stepped up and took responsibility OR the foolish, deceptive and good for nothing man who abandoned his child and his responsibility??

In Nigeria?? You're kidding right?

A lady raise by a single mom is a bundle of problems waiting to happen.

Nigeria is the worst country to be raised by single mom.

1TrippleCee:
Nigerian rice diesnt taste good. Lets focus on the cassava our geography is suited for, produce excess of it and export and use the excess funds to buy good rice. Abeg

Keep telling yourself that.

You should travel around Nigeria, we grow apples, strawberries 🍓 everything perfect in some middle belt, as a matter of facts, most of those things you think is foreign are produced in Nigeria.

soccerlite:
Rice is a staple food for every home

Nigeria isn't producing enough for various reasons

Why should border not be open to supplement for the short fall

And let people have food to eat

What's rice production to nigeria economy growth, negligible

Even major cash crops which give multiple returns of income are not looked after

Well maybe you feel rice should be good for the rich politicians alone, others should be eating garri, fufu only

The bolded is exactly why I think you are a child, a 50kg roce is 43k that is less than 43 dollars, nobody needs to buy a bag, you can buy 25kg, besides at what price do you think the foreign rice will be if imported through the right source? Smuggling and corruption is what got us here, you want the border to reopen so you can destroy the economy completely.

Who told you we don't have enough rice I have friends in Benue, kogi, lokoja, with loads of rice looking for buyers.

1TrippleCee:
If it doesnt taste well, how can it contain the same nutrients. Abegi. Stop talking up your ethic centered governance. Nigeria has a country doesnt have the capacity to farm good rice. Simple as abc. And for farming, i farm tens of acres

Ethic? What does that mean, every geopolitical zone plants rice. Northerners are the only group that plant in commercial quantity, how does ethnicity come into this?

I remember someone wrote a piece about local rice on nairaland but as usual, people like you always want to act pouch, if you want foreign rice import directly and pay all the duties on it, don't expect us to open Nigeria border so you can start illegal wholesale business, or you think we don't know the reason for all this ass-licking of foreign rice?

https://www.nairaland.com/5702014/health-benefits-nigerian-local-rice#:~:text=These%20nutrients%20include%20carbohydrate%2C%20protein,iron%2C%20selenium%2C%20manganese%20etc.&text=One%20of%20the%20nutrients%20present,reducing%20and%20preventing%20digestion%20disorder.

1TrippleCee:
I have not tasted good rice in years. Do you know the horror this creates and causes us as a nation?

So it's about palatability, you can't expect to taste the same, but I can assure it, it contains the expected nutrients.

I am sure there's land in your village, grow good rice if you feel those growing it are doing it wrong.

We should learn to feed ourselves if not, by 2100 the country will be so indebted we won't be to afford anything.

1TrippleCee:
It wont work. 20,000 bags for millions of people. Open the border and give tax grants to import rice.


It is not just the availability and viability of rice
the quality of the produced rice matters more. The policy of encouraging home grown rice has failed. For eight years has failed to produce top quality rice

You want the border opened because of the price but at the risk of the economy, by now we should be able to produce enough food ourselves.

The cost may be high but it's a gain for the economy.