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what a meaningless thread.

Go ahead and marry your man your way. Parents will always want to bully you into hijacking your wedding but you have to be no pushover. My parents wanted my wedding done their way it caused one big fight but i did not budge on the things i wanted. Dont wait for your sister her own time will come. I wish you the best

Ofunneka was mauled while drunk and biggie had the nerve to beam it live and complete her humiliation.
Ofunneka should leave the house ASAP so that biggie knows the gravity of the situation. Her parting words should be "you'll be hearing from my lawyers! "

BUt then again she is nigerian and we have no idea what our rights are!

what about guys with their crazy shoe protectors?

when you see some very thin, dry women, you'll thank the good lord for the fat one you have.
When i say dry i mean like they have been passed through a dessicator.

some people dont even read previous posts. Did you not see where he said his dad is late?

we are suspicious of their abroad trips.

@amaikama
you can say what you want. it is hard for people (especially men ) to accept that their mothers have needs. She is a widow and she is allowed to remarry. and yes it is dating that leads to marriage for those of you screaming blue murder! A woman's children can bring her much happiness and joy but they cannot fill the void that a soulmate and husband gives a woman. a son can love his mother and provide her needs but at the end of the day he goes home to his own wife while mama is home alone.

[s]next thing she will move in with him and his wife and that one is fodder for an entire new thread[/s]

excuse me sir! intergrity? decency? we are talking about a single woman here who has a right to date and remarry if she wants. forget that she has grown kids. Loneliness is excrutiating. Every body needs companionship.

siena,siena,siena! Damn if you didnt drag the words out my mouth.

@ poster.
Society is very unkind to single mothers. by this i mean the expectations are ridiculous. Once one marriage or relationship ends they expect you to die single and celibate. But for men the wind would hardly have covered the footsteps of the departing spouse or the body of the spouse would hardly have 'blocked' in the mortuary before he is expected to take a new wife to 'take care of him'.

Rapunzel:
Davidylan, that was a Splendid one ! Guys like You are Rare. Can I meet You ?

david, we await your response.

this topic is really stale. lets move on.

Octupus:
So, I think this woman needs prayers and constructive counsel to deliver her.

**sigh** and here comes nigerians again with prayer and fasting!! calling for prayer and fasting at the drop of a hat. people ought to take responsibility for the part their actions played.

Like i said before she wasnt starting this thread to ask our opinion about the right or wrong of her action but whether she should tell his wife. any advice outside this is unsolicited.

The ogbanjes have not cured nepa yet. They would do that first bbefore finding Mr Laden.

Arnold1:
Anyone who finds this insultive has no sense in their head. simple

Quick to defend? I dont think you saw these parts.

Nihil-ce-M:
STUPID PEOPLE! HOW CAN You PUT THE ENTIRE BLAME OF A RELATIONSHIP ON HER ALONE?

Nihil-ce-M:
YOU PEOPLE HAVE GOT YOUR BRAINS BLOCKED.

Nihil-ce-M:
HEY Y'ALL INSULTING THE POOR GIRL, WHERE HAVE YOU LEFT THE HUSBAND?

STUPID PEOPLE! HOW CAN You PUT THE ENTIRE BLAME OF A RELATIONSHIP ON HER ALONE?

WHAT ABOUT THE MAN?

IS SHE THE ONE WHO PROMISED FAITHFULNESS TO THE WIFE?

IS SHE THE ONE WHO PROMISED FOR BETTER AND FOR WORSE?

NO!

SO CUT THE CRAP.

IF THERE IS ANYONE TO BLAME, THAT'S THE MAN.

HE IS NO WAY JUSTIFIED FOR HIS DEEDS.

YOU PEOPLE DIDGUST ME. ALWAYS TRYING TO PUSH THE BLAME ON THE WEAKEST PART.

THE GIRL OWES THE WIFE NO REGARDS AS FAR AS SHE IS CONCERNED BECAUSE SHE IS NOT THE ONE MARRIED TO HER.

INSTEAD OF YOU TO BE ADVOCATING AGAINST CHEATING HUSBANDS, YOU PREFER TO ACCUSE THE PERSON THEY CHEAT WITH.

YOU PEOPLE HAVE GOT YOUR BRAINS BLOCKED.

AS IF AFTER HE IS DONE WITH HER, HE'LL STOP CHEATING.

STOP CONCENTRATING ON THE WRONG PERSON AND ADMIT THAT THE MAN IS 90% AT FAULT.

No need to get insultive. When a woman who is dating a married man gets so bold that she wants to call wifey and report the deed then she is saying she's ready to take whatever is coming her way. abi? It only goes to show you how people truly feel about brazen mistresses!

three years is nothing. why are we even making an issue of this?

I am a wife and woe betide that woman who picks up the phone to tell me that she's having an affair with my husband.

The next time he skulks into her apartment to get some he'll find her dead. i would have arrived there before him and shaved her head with a blunt razor, decapitated her, flogged her dead body with koboko, poured carbolic on the wounds, make her dog lick the wounds, pluck out her eyeballs , flush them down the toilet. Then i'll chop off those nasty boobs and fry for her dog's supper. Then i'll cut off that tongue that she used to tell me and use it to block that 'hole' of hers.


@ [s]poster do you still think its a good idea to tell wifey[/s]?

okay i'm kidding. I'm using vivid imagination here. But you never mess with a wife. You never know what she's going to do.

what a dumb question! You think because you tell her, you'll be in her good books?
yeah go ahead and tell her.
Hopefully his wife is a real thug who will lay ambush for you and whoop your trifling behind !

the fear of naija police is the beginning of wisdom.

Some of these phobias are downright bizzare!!!
Is your phobia on the list?





Ablutophobia is the fear of bathing.

Acarophobia is the fear of itching.

Aeronausiphobia is the fear of airplanes.

Alektorophobia is the fear of chickens.

Alliumphobia is the fear of garlic.

Amensiophobia is the fear of amnesia.

Anablepophobia is the fear of looking up.

Androphobia is the fear of men.

Anemophobia is the fear of wind.

Anglophobia is the fear of England or English culture.

Apeirophobia is the fear of infinity.

Apiphobia is the fear of bees.

Arsonphobia/Pyrophobia is the fear of fire.

Atelophobia is the fear of imperfection.

Auroraphobia is the fear of the Northern Lights.

Automysophobia is the fear of being dirty.

Autophobia is the fear of references to oneself.

Autophobia is the fear of yourself.

Barophobia is the fear of gravity.

Basiphobia is the fear of walking.

Belonephobia is the fear of sharp objects.

Bibliophobia is the fear of books.

Bogyphobia is the fear of bogies or the bogeyman.

Bolshephobia is the fear of Bolsheviks.

Bromidrosiphobia is the fear of body odor.

Brontophobia is the fear of thunder.

Caligynephobia is the fear of beautiful women.

Carcinomaphbia is the fear of cancer.

Chaetophobia is the fear of hair.

Chaetophobia is the fear of hair.

Chrometophobia is the fear of money.

Chronophobia is the fear of time.

Climacophobia is the fear of climbing.

Clinophobia is the fear of going to bed.

Coimetrophobia is the fear of cemeteries.

Coulrophobia is the fear of clowns.

Cyberphobia is the fear of computers or working on computers.

Cyclophobia is the fear of bicycles.

Decidophobia is the fear of making decisions.

Defecaloesioephobia is the fear of painful bowel movements.

Dentophobia is the fear of dentists.

Diplophobia is the fear of double vision.

Doraphobia is the fear of fur.

Dutchphobia is the fear of the Dutch.

Dystychiphobia is a fear of accidents.

Ecophobia is the fear of home.

Emetophobia is the fear of vomiting.

Entomophobia is the fear of insects.

Ergasiophobia is a fear of work.

Erotophobia is the fear of love/sex.

Eurotophobia is the fear of female Instruments.

Francophobia is the fear of France or French culture.

Geniophobia is the fear of chins.

Genuphobia is the fear of knees.

Germanophobia is the fear of Germany or German culture.

Geumaphobia is the fear of taste.

Gnosiophobia is the fear of knowledge.

Gymnophobia is the fear of being naked.

Gynephobia is the fear of women.

Hadephobia is the fear of hell.

Harpaxophobia is the fear of robbers.

Hellenologophobia is the fear of Greek terms or complex scientific terminology.

Hippophobia is the fear of horses.

Hodophobia is the fear of traveling.

Homilophobia is the fear of sermons.

Ideophobia is the fear of ideas.

Japanophobia is the fear of the Japanese.

Judeophobia is the fear of Jewish people.

Kleptophobia is the fear of stealing.

Koinoniphobia is the fear of rooms.

Koniophobia is the fear of dust.

Lachanophobia is the fear of vegetables.

Laliophobia is the fear of stuttering.

Leprophobia is the fear of lepers or leprosy.

Leukophobia is the fear of the color white.

Liticaphobia is the fear of lawsuits.

Logophobia is the fear of words.

Lutraphobia is the fear of otters.

Macrophobia is the fear of long waits.

Maieusiophobia is the fear of getting pregnant.

Malaxophobia is the fear of pre-intimacy.

Medomalacuphobia is the fear of losing an erection.

Medorthophobia is the fear of the erection of a penis.

Melissophobia is the fear of bees.

Merinthophobia is the fear of being bound.

Meteorophobia is the fear of meteors.

Microphobia is the fear of small things.

Mnemophobia is the fear of memories.

Monophobia is the fear of being alone.

Monophobia is the fear of being alone.

Mycophobia is the fear of aversion to mushrooms.

Myrmecophobia is the fear of ants.

Myxophobia is the fear of slimy things.

Nebulaphobia is the fear of fog.

Nephophobia is the fear of clouds.

Nomatophobia is the fear of names.

Nosocomephobia is the fear of hospitals.

Numerophobia is the fear of numbers.

Nyctophobia is the fear of the night.

Ochophobia is the fear of vehicles.

Odontophobia is the fear of dental surgery or teeth.

Ombrophobia is the fear of rain.

Ommetaphobia is the fear of eyes.

Ophidiophobia is the fear of snakes.

Ornithophobia is the fear of birds.

Pagophobia is the fear of ice or frost.

Panophobia is the fear of everything.

Paprophobia is the fear of paper.

Parasitophobia is the fear of parasites.

Paraskavedekatriaphobia is the fear of Friday the 13th.

Parthenophobia is the fear of virgins (girls).

Pedophobia is the fear of children.

Peladophobia is the fear of bald people.

Pentheraphobia is the fear of your mother is the in is the law.

Phagophobia is the fear of eating or swallowing.

Phagophobia is the fear of swallowing or of eating or of being eaten.

Phalacrophobia is the fear of becoming bald.

Philophobia is the fear of falling in love.

Philosophobia is the fear of philosophy.

Phobophobia is the fear of fear.

Phonophobia is the fear of noise.

Plutophobia is the fear of wealth.

Pneumatophobia is a fear of air.

Pnigophobia is the fear of choking on fish bones.

Pnigophobia is the fear of choking.

Pogonophobia is the fear of beards.

Politicophobia is the fear or abnormal dislike of polititions.

Potamophobia is the fear of rivers.

Pteronophobia is the fear of being tickled with feathers.

Ranidaphobia is the fear of frogs.

Rectophobia is the fear of the rectum or rectal diseases.

Rhabdophobia is the fear of being beaten with an object.

Russophobia is the fear of Russians.

Scatophobia is the fear of fecal matter.

Scelerophobia is the fear of bad men.

Selaphobia is the fear of light.

Siderodromophobia is the fear of trains.

Sinophobia is the fear of the Chinese.

Somniphobia is the fear of sleep.

Staurophobia is the fear of crosses or the crucifix.

Symbolophobia is the fear of symbolism.

Symmetrophobia is the fear of symmetry.

Syngenesophobia is the fear of relatives.

Tachophobia is the fear of speed.

Taeniophobia is the fear of tapeworms.

Taphephobia is the fear of being buried alive.

Taurophobia is the fear of bulls.

Teratophobia is the fear of monsters or deformed people.

Tetanophobia is the fear of tetanus or lockjaw.

Thalassophobia is the fear of the sea.

Thanatophobia is the fear of death.

Tonsurophobia is the fear of haircuts.

Toxicophobia is the fear of being poisoned.

Tremophobia is the fear of trembling.

Triskaidekaphobia is the fear of 13.

Uranophobia is the fear of heaven.

Uranophobia is the fear of urine or urinating.

Vaccinophobia is the fear of vaccination.

Wicaphobia is the fear of witches and witchcraft.

Xanthophobia is the fear of the color yellow.

Xenophobia is the fear of strangers or foreigners.

Zelophobia is the fear of jealousy.

Zemmiphobia is the fear of the great mole rat.

Zoophobia is the fear of animals.

your post was touching ofuks. Take heart. there will always be people who will judge you based soley on your appearance. keep on doing your best and eventually someone will see you for what you are worth which is your weight in gold!

[s]saw the pic on your profile. you sure are one little hottie! [/s]

@alabiyemmy
you no well.

Hi! my name is spoilt.
i am an actress. I star in the lead role superhero role of superwoman!!! i.e Wife, mother and career woman all rolled in one. I play my role well. I seem immortable to some people. It is one exhausting role. **sigh**

ebony4life:
I lied that I was kidnapped because I was late to school, The reason was that I queued at the jollof rice joint. Everybody believed me, my parents even held a thanksgiving service at the church that God preserved my life.
May God Forgive me!

this one had me howling in laughing.
and you actually sat through that church service with a straight face?!

Dr Balogun and other docs in the house.
I have a friend who is planning for a baby in about a year or two.
She really doesnt want to do the whole pregnancy thing over and over and over again so she plans to take fertility drugs in hopes that it will result in a multiple pregnancy. (Twins or triplets maybe!) She already talked to her doctor about it and was told that she really doesnt need any fertility aid as she already has one kid. She was told it may be illegal even.
Seriously she's hell bent on doing this. She's already shopping for fertility drugs online incase her doctor refuses to prescribe them. She knows the dangers of taking unprescribed drugs. trust me she is well aware.she also knows that there's a possibility she may have a singleton anyway but she still wants to try . she's obsessed with knocking it out in one shot!  She also got very excited because another friend did the same thing and got a set of twins. (two for the work of one!)

anything i can say to her to discourage her?

dirt and sweat dont accumulate on circumcised ones?

but seriously we need evidence that he wont overstay his visa. we dont need a mooch!