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i recently moved house. there's a redeemed parish near my new home so i decided to check it out. women wore trousers. I didnt see the heavens come crashing down. Heads were uncovered. no one made a fuss. Isnt it the same redeemed? Are those rules enforced only in naija? because when the cold hits here its almost unkind to ask someone to wear a skirt!

ive only caught the preview.it looks real good. im going to watch it.

soulpatrol:
@spoilt. are u serious? shit! she practically gave him a whole new career! wonders o!

dis one pass wonder oh! I guess he has her to thank. Plus the fire man who found the 'kini' in the woods where she flung it.

@ TOH
you're welcome.

some opinions on naira land just beat me hollow! i can't comprehend where they get their stance atimes! 

ThiefOfHearts:
JustGood is actually retarded enough to compare female circumsion as being important as going to school.

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soulpatrol:
na only AMY FISHER? i bet u with time she go become LORENA BOBBIT one day, if she's not careful!

oh no! not the bobbits! dude went and became a porn star after the thing was re-attached! sorry to digress.

@TOH
dang! you look hot in that pic! go!

+osisi:
what were you doing ,talking about oblokoss in 4th grade.

my name is spoilt! duh!

omoge:
blokous as in blokoss long time i heard that

omoge i swear you took the words right out of my mouth. I havent heard that word since the fourth grade. eew!

She thinks american women aren't jealous? I guess she didnt hear about the astronaut who wore an astronaut diaper and drove miles to intercept her boyfriend's other woman. and that was just a love triangle. . She doesnt realize how ugly this whole man sharing thing can get. Anyway if she has found the universal panacea to the age old problems of polygamy . pray. let her share!

@ babyosisi
hehehehe. poor thing hasnt wrapped her head around sharing a man. One thing is for sure. A man can't emotionally, sexually, spiritually satisfy 2,3,4 women. Even a no- strings -attached party causes problems talk less of a live in situation! she probably means well. havent women been known to go to extremes to please their men? Hasnt it always backfired? I guess she hasnt read about sarah who married Haggai for her husband Abraham. it isnt today that strife started in polygamy. Im almost tempted to say "hope she finds out the hard way!"

Tanna
You have a right to your opinion. But we are never gonna agree. The day you hear that spoilt has ascribed to having another woman move into her matrimonial home then you'll know that i must have taken leave of my senses and run stark raving crazy. Like i said before ,move another woman into your home for a couple of months then get back to us with feedback. you'll be in a better position to argue intelligently.

Tanna:
Trying to discourse with Spoilt and Thief is like trying to chase a shadow - (Totally pointless and a waste of mental energy that could otherwise be spent on intelligent dialogue and opinion sharing with the other interesting minds of Nairaland).

wetin spoilt do you abeg?
sweetie, i think you have my script! You are reading my lines! 
Seriously you think your posts are intelligent? seriously??

you guys are very funny!! the question should be, why is that a girl of 30 + is not yet married? is it that no men in town or they are not through with life yet for them to get married?

i know a girl who men crawl around her and asking for her hand in marriage she refused them and do you know why? she said she is not through enjoying life yet for her to settle down. ok! keep on rocking!!!

After she might have sold the good part of her honey pot to every body who cares to eat out of it and her age start climbing, she start looking for husband desperately to give the left over of her honey pot to. for some ladies i know, they are very choosy, they want a perfect man. just like a question posted here some time ago about, would you as a graduate marry a school cert holder? i see how some guys and ladies answer the question i just laugh. you want to marry a man /woman that you can be proud of a perfect man /woman right!! good but the perfection you seek is not what you think. are you perfect? you are marring a man /woman that you love that you will spend the rest of you life with, that you will grow old with. she / he is not a certificate for God sake!!! haba!!!!!!!! i have never seeing a man / woman marrying a certificate!! we all want to marry a societal man /woman who can express her self in public when true love is not there. who give a damn who you marry? as long as you both are happy with each other. just yesterday some one want to cheat on the husband because he pick quarrel on a slightest provocation even beat her up and she is finding solace in another's man's arm. what a life!!! i believe they are both graduate to the core!!! what a sham when a man /woman is married, he /she should not be looking for good man /woman, perfect man /woman stunts. just be the loving man /woman you should be as ordained by God to be and leave the rest to God.

people sef, na wa for una!!!!

@amaikama

why do people always assume that girls over 30 who arent married had a wayward lifestyle? that is so far from the truth these days.

I find most Nigerian women to be too boring, unambitious, and unimaginative. Marriage to them will be boring.

@ seun. most Nigerian women? how many of the over 60 million nigerian women have you run into?

dakmanzero:
@spoilt

By saying the man would be smart to say 'yeah', you acknowledge that polygamy is beneficial to the man?

In other words you acknowledge that the real sufferers are the children, or at least, not the man himself (you still seem to feel that the woman's life will become a living nightmare)

of course he'll say yeah to the sex! isnt that all they think about in polygamy? The sex, the sex, the seX! All other angles are completely forgotten.

I dont know about boring but i know marriage is hard work. real hard work! Some days i just wake up and cry and ask myself what ive gotten myself into.

**sigh** not another thread on female circumcision. thought we were done with this?

@ poster
I thought your post was a trick of the light.
Had to read it again to make sure i saw what i thought i saw. You have got to be kidding me! Why should a woman be walking around without a clitoris ejo?

im tired of talking about this topic. I will teach my daughter the virtues of womanhood and show her right from wrong. But i would not go to the extreme of chopping off her clitoris to ensure that she doesnt become promiscous.But then again some of the most promiscous women i know are circumcised! since when did circumcision stop all those girls from sleeping around. ?

@ Tanna from your signature, i guess your man or husband is nigerian. Interesting but good. He may be open to this whole polygamy idea. It dont matter that you are no longer ill. Just whisper the idea in his ears and if dude is smart he'll say "yeah"!
Bring in the other woman. She doesnt have to be nigerian. Just bring in another African American woman like you (like with like yeah?)ok, Then make her preferably younger and prettier (thats what guys opt for when its wife number 2) . Play house for 3 months and then get back to us. Nobody is attacking you personally. A lot of people on this forum are from polygamous homes.Its so common in our culture. They have lived it first hand. Its not good. but i guess the saying that experience is the best teacher rings sooooooooo true.

Tanna:
No, the point is your OWN men think you are evil. That is why they all speak of some horrible atrocities that Nigerian women in polygamous marriages will do to the husband and his children by the other wife.

Your own men have said this.

and who are these men you polled miss tanna?

ClimieNH89:
TOH, Spoilt and Osisi

I must say you guys have really exaggerated in your attacks against Tanna.

polygamy is pretty drastic. Fighting it doesnt require mincing of words. I dont do personal attacks. Its nothing against her be rest assured.

Hurginnie!:
Human Meat

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Tanna:
I NEVER PRAYED that women would not be leaders.

I said "I HOPE THE closed minded ones who belittle people here DO NOT become leaders in your country." , But you now provide evidence of your illiteracy and comprehension deficits because my posts are frequently being misquoted, followed by a dozen passionate remarks by people eager to jump on the bandwagon, Exactly why I hope SOME WOMEN HERE should never be leaders in your country.

Save your REBUKES for the devil. I simply made a comment, not a prayer, and not a curse. You'd go further in life if you weren't so religious and superstitious.

No one misquoted you. You made it clear you want to share your husband.   . that part we all understand we are still trying to understand. .  
As to the leadership comment, you know absolutely nothing about nairaland women so why worry your pretty head about them becoming leaders? For goodness sake worry about your own  country's Leadership first. Obviously the women you are refering to as close minded are those who are extremely horrified that you want to share your God given husband. If that's your definition of open minded i guess you are alone on that one.

Its shocking that its the so called people who are supposed to be all westernized and about 200 years ahead of us in civilization that are trying to regress our progress and drag us back to the stone age.
religious and superstitious? Whatever! quit telling me how far to take my religion. You said to save the rebukes for the devil. erm er, i did!   I was taught that he doesnt have horns and a long 2 pronged fork. he speaks and acts through people who dont wish  me and mine progress or leadership! .  You portray yourself as a religious pious woman but your twisted interpretation of the sanctity of marriage has me in a daze. As for that dumb illiteracy comment of yours, i'll just let that go. It will be a crying shame if after all your own education you still think it will take 2 or 3 of you to make a man happy.

kanz:
married people attend the school but they have agreed not to get pregnant. pregnant people don't attend the school. if u are pregnant u defer your admission.

doesnt that just sound silly. so carrying a fetus now stops you from acquiring an education?

i just clocked in. what did i miss?

Tanna:
I sure hope some of these women of Nairaland never end up being leaders in your country.
Their inability to have an open ear and disagree without denigrating an individual is not virtuous.

I rebuke you!  That your prayer will not be answered.  

@salsera

take over the thread. .

PTH:
its my favorite word. Dont worry you can expunge it from your own dictionary.

This time, tempting is allowed from TOH only.

thought you were a changed man. you just preached an abstinence sermon few posts back. remember?