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NwaIgboBoy:
hahaha enough enjoyments, boys go f@ck them wella till peace return to the state .



chai I wish I dey Amambra now I enjoy them ooo

The thought of this comment is what will make them act more ruthless to men. They will always want to prove themselve

Damikjay:
I think female soldiers will show more compassion to the citizen than their male counter part.

True sha but they will want to prove themselves always

KaluwisxPRO:
When they are out of position of Power, they want sympathy, but when they are in Power, the people are their punching bag.

Like you mean you know him?

Racoon:
[s][/s]He has no plan for the future but joined the army & rose meritoriously to the rank of a captain only for the hausa-fulani dominated army to victimized & edged him out unceremoniously?

He was not good to his people while in service? Did you read that "....I live in a one-bedroomed apartment given to me to stay by one of the persons whom I was good to while I was in service...."

Meanwhile "...President Buhari assured me when I visited him many years ago that he would help me.My problem now is how to get the connection and money to needed to get to him.

Today, many people who took vows to die for their fatherland are ravaged by poverty and there is no help from the government..." Your own brand zombiesm is on a different pedestal entirely.

Don’t mind the idiot jare

paul100:
i am waiting for the group of "just have money and you will get any girl".Wetin dey happen now na.

That theory is dead on arrival.

There is this situations I saw a girl in an event one time. After connecting and getting her contact, due to my chatting prowess I was able to decode this girl follow high profile men and she confess to me some of her dirty runs. From then on we have just been friends in a way. And my only means to get her would be to manipulate her to be my Bleep mate. Which I wasn’t really interested.

But the point here is that I have never spent a coin on her Infact she is the one that tries to offer me favour. if I was a naive guy, I would have spent my change on her hoping I would buy her over not knowing she has contacts of high profile men she does coded runs with. I would have been a big loser. And the game would be on me.

So I see that theory working on young teenage girls.

dopedan:
op make her jealous every female falls for this even dogs!! Bring a beautiful girl to ur house one day with nice hips and ass introduce her to d girl buy her ice cream rice n chicken and eat in front of ur auntys girl don’t give her anything and watch what happens in d next few days . Girls too dey do anyhow until they meet someone who is better than them

And if she doesn’t nkor??
The problem with many of this advice is the addiction to get someone to like you. Why not kiss the reality. This girl in question may have big contacts of men buying her far beyond what you described.

Please don’t kill yourself for something yourself know not. If this girl is gonna like the OP then the best chance he has is to live a sweet happy genuine life without her and open himself to date other girls when opportunity comes by.

For God sake Op has made the said girl so important stack in his life for nothing.

Jannuxajj:
After service I went to stay with my aunt then I met this beautiful girl that stays with her. we both became lovers through out my stay there. I got a job in another state so I left. Fast forward to almost 3 years later now I got a contract in their state so I had to go stay with them. Due to covid this girl was around at home with me. Both of us are always home alone. Now looking at the scenario you will think this will be enjoyment for me as me and her dey dey home alone!!! WRONG. When we had a relationship 3 years ago little did I know that it was due to boredom and frustration of staying at home and waiting for admission that made her decide to date me. Now she has entered uni met alot of other guys and now more exposed. Due to this she rejected me. Naturally this should not be a problem, Na to move on na. But it is a very big problem because we both stay home alone everyday and this brings out the feelings I have for her because I truly liked her. But the most painful part is she doesn't even have a tiny spark of feelings for me. What really made this a problem is the fact that I am a conc stay at home introvert. I work from home on my laptop so we are always home alone together. I used style style to make sure she sees my account balance. she saw it and only hyped me that night. she still didn't budge even though am always taking her out and buying stuff for her. The major pain of this issue now is there is this our young neighbor guy that usually come and pick her with his father's tinted glass car. they will drive to one corner and wind up and that drives me crazy. I will start imagining what they are doing in the car. I even bone her for like one week she no even send, the major problem is staying alone with her and seeing her every minutes makes it hard to move on in my mind. Sometimes I even feel like a simp for being home alone with her and not being able to do anything with her.

Sorry for sounding like this.
But I need you to list 5 things she has that you think it can’t be gotten from somewhere else.

tayewomi:
He'llo nairalander afternoon,i just need small flings on this no that serious though,My gf of two and half years is traveling somewhere next week and she will be staying in another town for some time,we in a serious relationship and am very sure she can never compromise or change to me because of that,she's a very loyal girl and discipline,we will always keep communicating and doing video chats.Please guys is there anyone who have been in such situation and things later change,coz av witness so many relationship ended because of that,distance,so if u had a cruel experience on that u can drop here thanks....

I don’t see the reason why you rush to paint her in an angelic color to start with
She is great, she is this.... , she is that?

And then you went ahead to ask for people who had cruel experience. So if your girl is an angel like you painted it, then where will the cruel experience you seek fly out from?? From you??

This is what I don’t like about trying to act nice, when you should have simply stated what you truly fear.

Chiwetalu1:
Please go through and comment to help a brother...its a long read sha



Earlier this year I decided to start a relationship with a casual friend (a girl). She accepted my proposal although not without giving me much headache sha


So we started, having known alot about our past and in a bid to get the best out of what we have, we gave it all. Shared all our deepest secrets to each other - although I don't have any past still trailing me, my pasts (relationships) where gone and are very far from me. Same with her except for one.


He is a very trusted family friend of hers. Currently a seminarian for almost a decade and has a good chance of being a priest but still does fling with her until I came into the picture. Was a member of the mums prayer group and have been very close to the family for long.


She has been having this affair with the said guy without the knowledge of anyone around but a very close sis, I happen to be the second person to know. So this dude still has assess to her home and she to his home (although both of them don't spend much time with family again but occasionally come around).


MY FEARS

*They really really had a lot in the past, even as a seminarian, he indirectly made her end relationships, she claims to be over him but I usually see it as a conscious denial.
*When she's home and the guy is around, they get to meet- he even made advances at her sometime ago.
* My girl once told me she will want the want the guy (as a priest) to officiate our wedding.
* All about him is seriously threatening my religious life as a Catholic. Each time I see a Seminarian I will be like "hypocrite, this might be the guy who did this with my girlfriend". Imagine what this will be when he eventually becomes a priest.
**the talk plenty sha


WHAT I ASKED FOR

When she told all about him around March or April this year. I insisted on her completely cutting communication with him, but she vehemently refused then, somehow I accepted. I also asked to wanted to know the said guy in person somehow (even if it's through Facebook since I wasn't close), but she still refused. I decided to give her time since we barely started. We've been good since then and things are going well. And I thought we've gotten over that.


Some days ago I stumbled upon a post on her Facebook wall over a sensitive topic. A guy who share a lot of similarities with this ex of her commented on it, using just a sentence to my explain my girls position on that topic. I concluded it's him. So i casually approached my girl - even with a plea not to get offended by what we will be talking about - that I have seen the guy shes been hiding from me. She said I was wrong about my assumptions, and later asked why I was bent on knowing this guy.

My people, I've spent since Monday trying to explain why i think it's important I know him, if not now but sooner considering how far we ( my girl and I) are going and cos we aren't in the same location. But she has totally refused insisting that she only did me a favour by letting me in on it and will not go further not even in future. She even threatened that we should walk away from the relationship if I insisted on knowing the guy.


So i kept asking myself...are my really asking for too much or is it right I know this person??

On the bolder, hit the gear bro. After all you will face the fear someday.

Meanwhile what is all this we tell ourselves everything all about?? Don’t be naive. You are in your own basket. Reality don’t always work with being too transparent. If it was she would have let you know all you need.

The handwriting is on the wall.
You don’t really know this girl yet... I wonder why you think you do

frozen70:
Is like you want to change your crown of destiny with a woman

Pls stop thinking of a woman spoiling you, what you need form a woman is love and respect, that alone contains everything in it

say who??
You can do better than this!

Women and men in a relationship are partners. With different roles, they should be companions. Their is nothing like love and respect. Please think better.

Sibtygar:
According to some stuff some so-called group of boys in the forum have been saying.

They said women are more smarter than men when it comes to relationship and understands the game better, that as a guy, you need to read and learn from books, else you would be simping around. But as a girl you will naturally be smart to deal with relationship issues. Abeg is there any truth to this women being naturally smarter?

Me on my own I think I am among the few breeds of guys born intelligent o, I no see how girl wan take use me play ball
From my experience I feel common sense is common o, some guys naturally mumu and also some girls just mumu anyhow too.
So please what is your opinion?

Only one group can postulate this theory which is redpill.
Some people are naturally intelligent than other in social settings but I don’t think it has anything to do with gender.
The redpill is just an extreme theory.
No research to most claim they make, it is matter of make believe

Eddodoh:
I am grateful to God, Harddon & other people who contributed positively to this thread.

I thought that I know all about the women world & the game not until I stumbled on this thread.

Fews years ago, I had all they ladies flocked around me to the extent that I earned the nicknames like Jim Iyke, Big Player & so on. Then, I had lots of cash flowing but when the cash ain't flowing like b4, I was lost.

This resulted to lack of confidence, trying to impress ladies which most times I got burnt, not getting laid. Babes, used me to play ball. I was like a Football Club on relegation. I began to wonder how my pals get ladies attention & most times, get laid even without a dime.


Everything seem to be changing now. I get lots of attention without stress. I have learnt not to try to impress any lady I'm interested in, Neva to be needy or clingy. To demonstrate value & let the lady chase me.

I was good at asking ladies to come to my place but not any more.

Today, a lady I asked out but said we should friends first which I agreed but wasn't picking my calls.
I stopped calling & whenever I see her, she greets, I just smile, Neva answered & snubbed her. Now, she's all over me & requested we see later.

Another one that I have being seducing, now coming to my place, feel comfortable & was reluctant to follow her sister when she called. U know, she was OK being with me & I am thinking, what next.

I have lots of them on queue at the moment.

What really helped me to up my game, I went through this thread. Read books like The Game, Mystery Method: How To Seduce Beautiful Women, Art of Seduction, The Rational Male.

I will appreciate more advice & suggestions to boost my game.

The game never ends. Yet you shouldn’t keep learning them. Except you are out there to manipulate people.
Just like a guy learning chess everyday because he needs to be a professional chess player.
Toxic people don’t come around everyday like we think. So many times, take a deep breath and just live life.

If I am having a hard time to sleep, India soap opera is the best treatment for me.
I go too sleep

IamD18:
The likes of Desmond Elliot, Yahaya Bello and Elisha Abbo have so many times proven the fact that an average Nigerian youth is no different from the old men in the Government.

They've so many times proven that corruption in Nigeria isn't just about our aged politicians but a general thing.

We saw how our various SUG officials operated in school, how coursereps, lodge presidents and the rest operated. We all saw the corruption there. If you think this generation will politically do better than this current aged politicians, then you are clueless.

An average Nigerian is tribalistic, oppressive, selfish and corrupt. It's in almost all the sectors in this country and it'll take decades for this country to be free from the aforementioned.

Know this and know peace.

And just so you know; 98.485% of Nigerians condemning Desmond Elliot will do the same, they'll rather choose the interest of their political mentors and Godfathers who will politically help and connect them than the interest of the masses.

Nice write up meanwhile your percentage is wrong.

Roman 11:4
New Living Translation
And do you remember God’s reply? He said, “No, I have 7,000 others who have never bowed down to Baal!”

There are some mind in this country that has not yet sold their souls to the things of the world. Let’s not loose hope of having the right people among us. We just have to learn from past experience.

Accurate5:
Indeed! Mexican soaps had a major appeal in Nigeria back then. I wonder what changed

More things to do na. Everywhere is now complicated and everyone is kinda distracted by other nice things.

Second chance... chai.
I love this series due to its unpredictability.

Uzomacharles:
Na people like you go come tomorrow make thread like "My girlfriend of 12yrs broke up with me"

This aggressive mode of conviction is tiring o

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Real niggarrrrs can never get impeached because real niggarrrrs don't do love and relationship

Real niggarrrrs see women as swimming pool
They dive in and swim their own shaperly and move on


They are pussy ass niggarr

So How many baby mama are you gonna have?

Pierocash:
I have impeached over 9 female lawmakers in my life, non have ever impeached me, I always secure my 2/3 majority

oh ok, you’re a not a simp.
How do you feel now?

At it again.

1. There are a lot of trolls in Nigeria.
2. And there is a lot of job to do concerning the youth

DONFRANSKID:
I can only give my money to my self if they like they should call me stingy but thats my principle
God punish all those men who spend money on women instead of their fellow male friends.

It almost sounds like you were sane and making sense until your last line. Now this is misogyny.
Why should I favour one gender? Is there anything wrong with not spending for anyone?

360clips:
All you men are absolutely powerless! All the money you mumu men sweat and work for, it wouldn't even show on you! It's now all those ungrateful useless women that'll chopping and enjoying errything! Them that don't work for anything, the money is showing on them the most! I saw a pic yesterday of man, his wife and his kid. The wife and kids looked so clean & healthy but if you see the man! Lmao! That man looked like chicken that was about to die! All the hustling these foolish men do is all to impress these worthless women! Even those stupid yahoo boys that can even kill their mom for money!, it all boils down to impress one certain stupid ungrateful mannerless girl like this o, that's why they do all those things! I don't know why men have such horrible low self esteem that they survive on women's validation! It's so pitiful! I don't know when men will start having sense! Especially these Africa apes over here! When you make money , yourself comes first before any vagabond!! Stop putting ungrateful women first cus they wouldn't put you first! They don't deserve love!

Ok only a redpill can say this.
I actually don’t understand why the aggressive approach.
To start a gender war?

okoloemmalex:
Nothing is new to me again when it comes to lying in this regime.



this is what you hear and read when you have a dead or perhaps an impostor as a president.


if the lie doesn't come from Lauretta Onochie, it may be Lai Mohammed or Femi Adesina or GARBA Shehu and maybe from the secondary presidency (Buharists).



We have to accept what those who brought them upon us for the now until 2023 since we don't have a choice.

I hope you are not a partisan?? If yes then I am not surprised by your first statement. Which regime has lying not been the foundation?

You people want to start pointing to PDP as a saint abi? Instead of overhauling all the old cargos in this our political climes

ivolt:
It is obvious to even the reasonable blind that no live ammunitions were fired into the crowd. If that happened, we would see the results. The fake "massacre" was a political con job by extremist but myopic propagandists.

Now from denial to blank ammunition?
Is there an end to all this?

collinsuchendu:
I don't really give a fúck what the redpill movement is all about, but be careful lest Nigerian hoes will ruin you.

What were you doing with hoes anyway?? What else do hoes do aside from ruining you??
You are not saying anything new

collinsuchendu:


In summary..

No Nigerian girl truly loves you





























































without money

Love and money don’t always work hand in hand. The more richer you become the more likely you become confused of who really likes you.

For true love, much more bring more misery. You become too capable and powerful, the more easier it is for you to make mistakes. You meet people you shouldn’t have met, you like people you shouldn’t like.

So in conclusion, when you get more money, get more sense. Else money will be a waste

Kiss the truth, men are not women, women are not men, men are not greater than women, women are not greater than men.

Gender simply means role. Only sexism and supremacy theory would tell you other wise.

If you believe gender supremacy, then you can as well believe racial supremacy.

AnanseK:
They are the same people. Your sermons cannot change it . The protesters are also The hoodlums.

Says the guy who is suffering from Stockholm syndrome

Please where do this hoodlums come form and why are they so much in Nigeria?

Please answer without sentiment.

GeoAfrikana:
How do I differentiate between a protester and hoodlum? Perhaps hoodlums have 666 sign on their foreheads.

Protesters are hardworking youth without a platform, they have a future and they need a good Nigeria for the future.
Hoodlums are bad elements born out of a broken society, having no responsibility for their life, they are weapons in the hand of bad leaders.

That is the differences!!

Now who should be responsible for hoodlums and thugs in our society?