₦airaland Forum

Matrimonous:
Social intellect and moral values are two different things dear.
Quite on the contrary, the more morally loose they are, the more socially appealing they also are in most cases.
I can see it hurts you to think of an unfaithful wife right.

What are you saying this guy?

Social intelligent people knows how to interact with virtually anybody, how to handle toxic people and just how to know thyself. Please type “social intelligence on Wikipedia”

Good character comes as a result of social intellect, having high self esteem about thyself and knowing how to judge people correctly during interactions.

MaxEli:
Cc Martinez39 Ubunja

Good day Sir , Happy Sunday

I've been an silent follower for over 6 months on your threads on redpill and simps... I appreciate your efforts in aiding our mental liberation..

Please I have a unique question ; WHAT IS THE FINE LINE BETWEEN BEING GENERALLY FRIENDLY OR NICE TO GIRLS AND BEING A SIMP OR BLUEPILL GUY ?

I'm a fourth year medical student .... I need material , information and notes ... I mostly get them from my female friends and colleagues ... Most guys won't send you... I'm generally a nice guy... But I don't want to be a SIMP OR ANYTHING SIMILAR .... That's why am asking..

Any other response is welcome... Please no bashing or insults ... Am just here to learn... Thanks

Why did you write the last line ?? Because they are notorious on insulting people.

Women are not toxic as they paint them here. It just depends on the kind of situation-ship between two of you.

Be nice to girl just same way you are to a guy, the line is this, stop being nice when they start to have the wrong impression.

E.g she turns you to the crying bucket,
She ask you for everything because she feels she can get it,
She wants you to get something done because she thinks you admire her.

The line is not to send the wrong signal to girl because that is where women get lost at times.
They many times lack proper interpretation of your intentions and try to capitalize on it. Aside this be very nice to a girl

Matrimonous:
I quite agree with you but what if with all that social prowess she is unfaithful and sleeps around?

That is not social intelligence.
A social intellect wouldn’t do such

EMMAUGOH:
SHE will behave specially outside and become a monster at home. Be careful what u wished for . GUESS your marital bed will be placed outside your house.

U never jam

Please go and read jare. Do you know the meaning of social intelligence?

Infact me replying you is a social activity already.
It takes just two to make social. So I know what I am saying.

collinsuchendu:
Please NEVER marry any Nigerian girl hoe that is not a virgin. Don't say I did not warn you.

#HSD

it means no one would marry your daughter

Sibtygar:
Respect sir, you are vast in knowledge.

You simply just get the full picture. Most of people engaging in gender war do them to people not in their social circle. I know of a man who speak so ill about women but is super protective about his daughter,
he vowed his daughter will never marry a Nigerian man. like it was shocking

I am sure he married to a Nigerian wife himself. People are just alittle narcissistic when the matter gets to their doorstep

theophilusj31:
good one bro,you one of the guys with common sense,.......the redpills is not what it used to be,it has been hijacked by psychopaths

I am big fan of David DeAngelo,Neil straus,Chris canwell and others,the real redpills teach you how to love yourself and put your goals in life first b4 any woman,that doesn't say you should hate women,but your goals and yourself comes first b4 any woman.....what all this psychopaths teach here is how to hate and abuse women

That is the idea behind men empowerment. How to be a social genius. Infact women are not the only one to make men not fulfill his destiny. Games, addiction, drugs and poor life choice is another threat.

Fatherhood is almost ignored by red-pill like the OP mentioned. They barely discuss anything about you as a father and fatherhood.

Since hoes and bitches is what they talk all day, it talks a lot about the lifestyle of the group, meaning majority of them are young chap who feels life is a candy shop. All girls are candy(hoes) and he would lick as much as he wants. They coin turn around when they later have a wife and girl child. They become over protective and don’t apply same red-pill theory and allow other guys devour their daughter.

It is well.

Virginity goes a long way to tell how disciplined and moral a person can be and how high morality is important to a person. But please please please and please.

Relationship is much more complicated than just being moral and being a virgin. Any partner for me must be intelligent and smart and understand how to act properly in social settings. A social intellectual is what I regard as character in a woman.

Chastity Is very dear to me but character can’t be underrated, it is something I cannot look away. It is a live safer for any man that wants to build a good family.

So I choose character if I must choose one

EDITED
Social intelligence is the capacity to know oneself and to know others. Social Intelligence develops from experience with people and learning from success and failures in social settings.

Social can mean two people o. Me and her
Don’t comman be asking questions

theophilusj31:
Don't mind them, labelling men simps, meanwhile they are the real simps,they should be ashamed of themselves, coming here to preach hate against women and call them names

The name calling is really a big turn off for me even same reason I left PUA forum long back. They name called and laugh at every single contradiction. Even I that believe in their theory a lot especially Style and mystery. I began to really hate the group.

I feel any movement just like cult, religion that aren’t based on research will be overtaken by the extremist. We see this a lot.

Redpill got ban on Reddit due to the high amount of hate speech and curse words on almost each post. Incels (involuntary celebate) thread where the worst thread ever, they are totally toxic.

The redpill has been hijacked

Op has good points

I sincerely think one thing wrong in Nairaland is people trying to shovel their believe into the mouth of someone else. PUA and redpill lost their forum on Reddit due to the fact that it was taken over by extremist. Extremism is everywhere

EricBloodAxe:
See them OJ Simpsons. After acting tough for the bitches they'll open new accounts later to tell us how they've been blindly and foolishly loving a vagina distributor and how messed up their lives have turned. Some will contemplate suicide while some will use style to beg for money after wrecking their little savings just to please vagina people.

This is what the OP just mentioned. Name calling and insulting other guys!

What is this segregation about?

theophilusj31:
Thanks bro,you one of the few sensible guys I have met here,the kind of hate and anger this so-called red pillers have against women is irritating,i have sisters,and I can't and watch as so called red-pillers call them names,....... respect your yourself women will respect you,focus on your goals in life and you put yourself first women will love you,it simple

No better words
Games are with all gender and goes both way. In here they cherry pick the truth.

theophilusj31:
Don't you guys taking this your red pill extreme,in here you preach so hates against women,I know you guys gonna pour on me and start calling me a simp,let me educating you guys a little,the key to attracting women is confidence,social status,and non-neediness,when you respect yourself,put yourself and your purpose first b4 any woman,and have a willingness to work away from any woman ,women are gonna love and respect you,not all this red-pill trash you do here,the truth is that many of you so called red-pillers don't have to the balls to walk up to a woman in real life and ask for her number,but you come here to rant apha males,.....let me recommend some books and blogs for you that are far better than this red-pill garbage

1-develop attraction blog by Christopher canwell,
2-red pill theory blog by Avery
3-models by mark Manson
4-attraction is not a choice by David DeAngelo

my favourites of all this is develop attraction by Christopher canwell,go to his blog and read all his articles,you not gonna regret,he will give you step step guide on how to handle your girlfriend in relationships,but if wanna learn the secrets of attracting women,read red pills theory blog by Avery,you gonna enjoy........all this are better than this hateful redpills

They don’t take criticism well, don’t advise them.

Until the day a redpill will acknowledge his daughters and sister are hoes and should be suppressed by their boyfriends/husband. That day I would take them serious.

CAPSLOCKED:
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE A REDPILLER OR SUBSCRIBE TO ANY LABELS TO KNOW THE OBVIOUS REDPILL TRUTHS. NAME CAN BE CHANGED FROM "REDPILL" TO "STICKS" OR "JESUS CHRIST", OR WHATEVER, BUT REALITY DOESN'T LIE AND EVERY SINGLE THING YOU SEE HERE IS THE ABSOLUTE REALITY.

Lie number one

faithful2911:
Congrats!

I now fvck raw because I'm on Prep since last two months.

You can get the drug in pharmacy is just 5k, you can also get the drug for free if you have connections otherwise they only give it to health workers.

Goodluck.

Other diseases nkor?

Anoth:
small fame she don start to push the "borderline criminal" Feminist Movement.

Watch how the Twitter feminists will flock around her advocating for equal rights but rejecting equal responsibilities.



And her husband is also a feminist? That
synonymous to saying that her husband is an irredeemable SIMP

Are you more of a man than her husband?

WoundedLamb:
In Africa, women are seen as being owned by their men. This wouldn't have been a problem it the men were also owned by their women. The misogyny in Africa is such that everything a man does is correct. They either make an excuse for him or they try to reconfigure the woman to accommodate the man's excesses. I'm surprised you're this shocked cause this isn't new. NL boys and men will get to the lowest point just to support men regardless of the situation. Logic does not apply here. If a man cheats, his wife will be asked to cook well or lose weight. If a man rapes, the lady will be asked to dress better next time. Wizkid is "my guy" for having multiple ladies but the ladies are 'oloshos'. The sexism down there is becoming beastly and it's unfortunate that these guys are not aware of the kind of socioeconomic environment they are creating with thier actions. They think blindly supporting anything a fellow man does makes them more manly (something they call alpha). And when you try to reason with them, you're abused.

In fact, Nigerians don't like equality. They only cry out when they are directly affected. Men think they are superior human beings. Politicians think they are superior citizens. Force people think they are superior entities. Tribe A people think they are superior to other tribes. Straight people think they are superior to gay people. Religion "A" people think theirs is superior to others. The rich think they are superior to the poor. Etc. And this will continue forever because nobody is really advocating for equal rights. Everyone is trying to create exceptions to exclude those they believe don't deserve it.

Wiseman!!

Martinez39s:
Women run the manipulation game twenty-four-seven where they can. Female can doesn't take a rest. The realms of relationship/marriage, or any other man-woman relation, is a game to a woman. A game of power, leverage, control, and maximum extraction of resources from a man. Because men, being idealistic lovers, don't see it as a game doesn't mean women don't see it as a game. The game is played by women with or without your knowledge.

As ubunja once said, the first thing that should come to your head when you hear the word "woman" should be "manipulation."

Any credible research for your statement?

This one big problem with redpill, it is more of a believe rather than fact.

How can someone come to romance section daily and still deny. This is why I prefer MGTOW over this redpill nonsense

Blackmoran:
majority of guys are worthless to women without money.... I have dated a girl that loves me without money, but las las na one alhaji she end up with, but I still bang her till now..... I don't blame her sha the instinct of survival and protection is in every woman DNA

By end up you mean marriage?
If so then you’re proud to speak of how you still bang another man’s wife.

I fear person wey nor fear you o

Fuckingmallam45:
Are they truly dying peacefully?
Did ABBA Kyari die peacefully?
Did Ajimobi die peacefully?
Remember, those weren’t the way they planned to die? What really happened to them was Karma and nothing more

out of every name you mentioned about 10000 ordinary people has died also. Who ever Karma is, he is too slow to judgement. The only freedom for the oppressed is to take charge. Meanwhile how has a suffering soldier degenerate to this?

KaluwisxPRO:
You may lack comprehension, but it is not a black or white analogy. My statement says those in power forget how Transient power is until they are on the receiving end. Do with that info what you just for understanding. Have a good day ahead.

handle criticism well next time.
Bro Code. Have a nice day also.

Liposure:
a woman will always be a woman

Don’t tell me you’re one the redpill,
Anyway they would always be woman

KaluwisxPRO:
And for you to assume he’s a saint because of his condition means you have a mind of a child. I have not spoken anything directly about this individual but about the position he held in the military. My comment is what affects us generally as a people that we are all aware of. You on the other hand trying to make of who is good and who is not does not justify the fact that people in power in our society do not remember how transient power is until they are on the receiving end. Have a good day.

So now it is a black vs white ideology. If he isn’t good then he must be bad??
Please quote the post I said he is good?

I assuming you’re an adult so I am giving you the benefit of doubt

ume1000:
The man was dismissed not retired

He had no plans towards the future like a typical Nigerian youth

“THEY HAVE NO KNOWLEDGE OF THE PAST AND NO AMBITION FOR THE FUTURE ”

The youth you spoke about is the height of it.

Shebi you will have children or maybe you do. They will have plans for the future but those whose future where stolen would come for them, they will find them and they rob them of their achievements.

Your trait is what we call machiavellianism.

Machiavellianism is a personality trait involving a cold, calculating view toward others, and the use of manipulativeness and deceit to achieve one's goals. Machiavellians have limited empathy for others.

KaluwisxPRO:
Why do I need to know him? I am only stating the attitude of those in Power in Nigeria and how they forget being in a position of Authority is transient.

for you to say what you said it means you somehow knows he is guilty of what you spoke of.

Don’t use general theories on specific cases you don’t know about. It is not a wise thing to do.

ume1000:
so what happened to savings and investing towards the future

Don’t divert the topic.
The man was complaining about how the government has abandoned aged servant who served the country.

Is this shocking to us?
is this first time you hear of such?

For this specific case, you may have a point but on a general case we have a lot of old people who really worked hard wallowing in poverty while Government toil with their pension and allowances

Xixtie:
No one takes any of these two clowns seriously anymore.
I just pity all you students out there.
All you need is a miracle.

some lectures haven’t been paid for 8 months! Deal with that

adajoe555:
I hear you, but that doesn't justify the fact that what happened there is right.

True but the right thing is no to arrest and 11 years old now. Nigeria sef don’t even have juvenile detention center to start with

supportnija:
No true, I have a friend named Siaka, this guy used to steal pen, biro, money when we were in primary, this guy was killed in porthacourt 5 year ago, OP what is bad is bad.

like you mean he was born bad?