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The pathetic girl may be having a mental breakdown.

If anyone should take a pregnancy seriously, it is the woman. It is her body and her life, she will suffer for it.

Since she has decided not to take herself serious, tell her not sure if the pregnancy is for you. If she should go ahead to have the child, you will insist on her paternity test.

Let her make her choice.

Family, religious leaders and creating economic opportunities are what I expected yo fight this silly ideology. Alas, we live in a society that don't care about its people

No, it means it should not be sold.

Renforce:
That it has expired doesn't mean its POISON!

You are very cruel

Freehuman:
Where is the groom?

I pity them. They are not evening newspapers because they rejected suitors but because bad luck accepted them.

What a painful and suicidal life they must be living.

Okay, you are very silly.

RCDIY:
Is it possible to put your point across without insulting anyone? Or are you trying to sound like those Confused Feminists who commented before you did?

If y'all look right inside, you'd agree that no one here has either supported rape or justified it.
I believe it's wrong to look forward to sex just because you've spent money on someone.

It is also not right to keep going out with someone at his/her expense multiple times. Haba! You no get conscience?
This is basically a problem with girls who don't have means. I have been with a girl who returns my favour each time! We're still friends till date.
The country (and the world) is full of evil people. Keep the risk to yourself at a minimal. Eat your own food for crying out loud.

And for those who keep posting 'you can't do this in the west', you think people don't get raped in the EU?

Again, y'all need to stop thinking rape is violence against only women. It's so miopic to believe so. I know a number of guys who have been raped, by multiple girls.

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KenModi,. LordAdam16

Come and see your people

lazarusokafor90:
If I lead a man, should I be raped then? If you do, then yes you deserve to be raped. It's tit for tat.

If not that most of you are as silly as Basket mouth, should you be shouting greed on top rape matter? Does it even make sense to you? Lets talk about rape then you idiots come up with but what ifs. The rapists amongst must be very glad. There are fellow men who see sense in rape.

KenModi:
No reason; absolutely no reason justifies rape. You definitely should not be raped because you led him.

That said, there are different people in this world; some sane, some insane; some responsible, some love jail even more than being outside enjoying their freedom.

Some men don’t give a hoot; you lead them on and then don’t give them what they want in the end, they don’t care and just move on. But there are others (which I think are even more in the society) who you would deceive into believing they would get something in return but in the end don’t give them, they would be vengeful and harm you among other many ways especially through rape. Some don’t even care if they go to jail or not so long they have dealt with you.

All I have said is for your own good. Don’t deceive men and expect to always get away with it because rape is a crime.

Don’t worry by the time you have been raped five times by five different men, you would get sense by force not to deceive men and be clear from the very beginning about what is what in whatever is happening between both of you.

And by the way, don’t you ever call me a rapist as I have never and would never rape anyone. Wetin?!! Have I even asked you out or anyone you know. Don’t misunderstand what I write and start talking rubbish!!

There was an incident in India. A woman was gangraped by some men in a bus. In court, they claimed that it was her fault for being out so late.

A woman was raped and murdered in America. She ignored her rapist's catcalls. She might have said a word or two.

Some Nigerian women were/are raped because they led a man on. How dare they lead a man on?

You can lend your advocacy to these poor men. The first one had no home training, I mean why would she be out so late at night. How dare she put herself in that situation.

The second one was so rude. She deserves to be punished for that.

The third one deserves it. How dare she try to outsmart a man. She must be punished with rape

You will make a wonderful rapist advocate!

LordAdam16:
Still waiting for you to highlight the sentence "It is okay to rape a woman if..." in my write ups.

-Lord

Wow, you don't even understand the jargons you have been typing. You should make a living from your advocacy. Once a rapist is arrested, reassure him that the poor girl deserved it for being rude or immoral or greedy.

Her attitude is akin to putting a gun to his head.

Trust me, you will have no problem convincing him otherwise. It is the reason he did it in the first place. You know what they say, great minds think alike.

LordAdam16:
Well I'd wait for you to show/highlight that exact sentence in any of my replies.

#FishBrain

-Lord

One sentence: It is okay to rape a woman if

LordAdam16:
Women abroad always have their creep-o-meter on high alert. Looking out for pervs from stalkers to weirdos. When their friends advice them to get a restraining order against a disturbing admirer, they don't retort with "you're making excuses for his behavior."

They have common sense. You don't.

You can as well go on a hike in the hinterlands of Zamfara alone. So you can come back and inform us about how you were able to cancel, shame, or argue your way out of getting assaulted by a bunch of marauding bandits by convincing them that is a crime.

As Friedrich Schiller opined, "Even the gods are powerless against stup*dity".

Furthermore, you're the one advocating for de-platforming a comedian because you don't like his joke. Maybe you should check the dictionary for the meaning of intolerant. And then afterwards look in the mirror to find the stark image of a person with a single-digit IQ.

You're the special kind of id*ot who would be told to put on a seat belt, and your response would be: You're making an excuse for bad drivers.

-Lord

I have their time today. I expected them to take their fight to the EU. .

pocohantas:
You even get time. Last last na to call you feminist. People wey no get sense. This news sha sweet me for body. They can wail all they like, e no to change am

Come on, you believe it is cool to punish bad behaviours with rape. Violence is great and justifiable over bad behaviour, isn't it?
Any viewpoint suggesting otherwise is hostile and intolerant. My dear, keep on at it.

LordAdam16:
Oh I don't even have to defend it.

More than 700m Muslims of the 1 billion plus live in territories where it is acceptable. Sometimes Hindus too, I should add.

And the interesting part is that you guys are the same and have the same MO. They also censor, de-platform, and cancel anyone who dares challenge/debate their viewpoints. Something must be "wrong" with anyone with contrasting opinions.

And if they don't agree 100%, if they disagree on anything at all, if they dare make a joke; then they automatically are bad, perpetrators, embodiment, agents, enablers of immorality, strife, or evil.

None of this is new, we've heard it all before. It's no surprise that the actual oppressors and so-called liberators of women use the same playbook. That's why I said you guys are making the shackles that'd be used on you later. And you wouldn't even know what hit you. One day you'd wake up and discover you can't wear a 2-piece bikini at the beach anymore because it is offensive to certain people/it objectifies women.

Who needs choice when there's an instructor who thinks it's his/her moral right to regulate everything you do and say to the minutia. And when you raise an objection, you'd lose your right to earn, pay a fine, or end in jail.

Heaven forbids a comedian makes a joke about it. He'd be censored and made to pay a fine for hate speech.

-Lord

You can tell what goes on in their home especially how their mums are treated.

The sad part is that some these buffoons have mothers that were raped and assaulted for this reason.

ornicus:
Most Nigerian males will justify rape with all their might because they have engaged in it.anything other than justification requires that they admit to themselves that they are sexual deviants. You saw the way so many of them jumped on the defense of pastor bling bling. Most of them can never be redeemed.all you can do as a woman / mother is work on the next generation. These ones are lost. It is not just rape they justify after all. They also defend yahoo yahoo.

Of course, lets defend honour killings too.

Violence against women is acceptable provided she is immoral.

Immorality or greed is a good motivator to rape. God! It will teach those greedy and immoral bitches right!

You should be very proud of yourself.

LordAdam16:
It is not surprising that is your takeaway.

I wouldn't go further.

Let's all hope for your sake that your id*ocy isn't the end of you. It's not you I pity, but your relations and friends who have invested their emotions on you. As well as the impressionable maidens who listen to your kind and then find themselves in impossible situations.

This entire lack of conversation and debate is exactly how ultra-conservative cultures end up with practices like honor killings. And when you interrogate them, they'd substitute words in that same sentence you spew:



-Lord

In one sentence:

Rape can be justified.

If not that something is fundamentally wrong with you people, why on earth would you compare leading a man on with rape. Should you even mention it? Rapists must be very proud of you. Kudos to you!

LordAdam16:
And what if rape is a crime. Lying to law enforcement is a crime. Yet most of the time, folks would mislead law enforcement to get themselves, a friend/relative, or neighbor out of a rut.

You may say it's a false equivalence. But outlawing an action does not eliminate it.

That's why we put locks on our doors even though burglary/stealing/robbery is a crime. It's why we dash for safety when a gunshot rings out: We don't stick around to confront the shooter because it's a crime to kill/attempt to kill/cause bodily harm.

It doesn't matter if you wear a full-length niqab or a habit (nun attire), if you walk along Kaduna-Abuja expressway alone at night; the things that'd be done to you by shady elements will make demons throw up.

The law is not an excuse to be st*pid or a jerk.

That's how damsels who've been sheltered all their lives in the boulevards and suburbs of large Western cities where police/help is only minutes away are misled into traveling the world alone without adequate preparation because they're "empowered." And then end up raped and/or dead in a sewer or by the side of the road in some god-forsaken backwater country.

Don't put yourself in situations where f*cked up sh*t can happen to you. It's common sense. The risks are already high enough as it is; don't add to it.

It beats me how an adult human can have no understanding of the mechanism of law and order, no regard for their own safety, nor any sense of personal responsibility.

Keep leading people on needlessly until you encounter a freak, serial killer, or high-functioning sociopath, especially in a country like Nigeria where we don't have the resources to provide uninterrupted power much less effectively police 200m people. Then you'd know there are worse experiences than rape.

The law is an inconvenience not a deterrent for criminals. Always remember that.

-Lord

If I lead a man, should I be raped then?

I am finding it difficult to understand how those two are mutually exclusive! You claim you don't support rape yet you keep bringing up bunch of ifs. Clearly, you support rape. You believe it is justifiable. She is responsible for getting raped didn't she? Yet you lie to yourself that you don't support rape. How did you think the rapist managed to convince himself to rape her? That is a rapist's thinking right there. Mr man, are you a rapist? Is this how you have convinced yourself to justify rape?

The law is against rape. It is a crime. There is no if. It is common sense. It is not my fault if you leave your sense when you are courting a lady, that does not excuse rape.

KenModi:
Why do you accept him spending when you know the exact reason for him being super generous to you and you are very very sure you are not gonna give him what he wants?!!

I repeat, I am not in support of rape! But don’t lead a man and keep making him believe when you know you have nothing to offer him. Let him know from the very beginning, Mr. Man, where you want this thing to go, I am not offering you anything at the end of it. If he decides to continue spending, then thats all on him and he did it with the full knowledge that he ain’t getting shiit in the end.

In as much as the man becomes a criminal by even attempting to rape, the lady should also know she brought it upon herself if she never clarified things with him from the very beginning.

There was a period when it was all he could talk about.

pocohantas:
Na the joke wey cause problem be this? I have seen him say worse, so I am not very moved by this. It only confirms the mentality down here.

However, I am glad someone who has something to lose has taken the fall.

Well, did I? I thought I was explaining the meaning of the joke to you. You should have understood that was what the joke was about.

Raping a woman on a 3rd date is funny because she keeps 'eating' money without spreading her legs! That woman could be your daughter, niece or sister OR could have been your mum too.

Is it still PC to condemn such?

GogobiriLalas:
It's not PC to talk trash to a stranger you've never met on the internet who didn't rape you, your sister or your mum. Dumb at$£

That is different. He is asking for consent.

It is a choice to spend money on a woman. It is his money, his consent, his choice. It is a question of morals for the lady to keep leading him on. The man CLEARLY chooses to spend his money. He was not forced or threatened to spend his money.

Rape is not consensual. It is her body, it is a her choice not to share it with the man regardless of who or what has been done. It is a crime to force or threaten a woman to sleep with you.

RonaldoVido:
Ok, if he throws N500k into your laps and asks you just to spend the night on a second date, will you ? cc KenModi

Let's put your mother in this situation. She is a woman and she has been a Nigerian lady before marriage..

If your mother was raped and given 1 million dollars, will she report it?

RonaldoVido:


If he rapes you and gives you ONE million DOLLARS, will you report it ?

How much is rape?

Do these girls hold a gun to these guys' heads to spend?

KenModi:
FYI, I am not a comedian or entertainer and neither have I raped anyone or made jokes about rape. Also I don’t and would never support rape.

But I still stand my ground that you are biased and hypocritical.

You and your fellow Nigerian ladies should stop being leeches and parasites when a man asks to date you! Hypocrite!!

Did the lady put a gun to his head to empty his bank account? Is he not a full grown adult? You haven't answered my question 'what is the cost of rape?' 5k or 100k or 100 million dollars?

RonaldoVido:
Are you saying that because he said hello, you should empty his bank account because you are greedy ?

Is it PC to call out people who think it is funny to rape your daughter, sister and your wife on the 3rd/4th date.

GogobiriLalas:
Once you apologize you admit and in this new PC culture there's no forgiveness

You should shush rather than desensitise rape

lilmax:
it means I can talk about stealing as long I'm not advocating against it? Take a sit babe

Are you saying money/greed is enough justification to rape a woman?

RonaldoVido:
It's better not to eat his money if you know you don't like him.

Ask for Pepsi instead of eating N5,000 and you already know you are taking him for a ride.

Is Seth MacFarlane an EU ambassador or have to chosen to be blind to those who are criticising him?

lilmax:
their dumb wokeness no reach family guy na

Stupid people

So what? Does that mean we should keep quiet over another? I stopped watching family guy because of this same reason is one of the reasons. There have been petitions and the rest to stop the insensitive jokes.

It is not political correctness to condemn those who have chosen to desensitise rape. Rape is sensitive, it is not a joke.

kingtinnie:
Abi oo if you watch family guy you’ll see quagmire is doing worse no one has attacked Seth MacFarlane for that ooo ...

Clearly misunderstood not that you were insensitive? Lame attempt to shift blame. Most Nigerian comedians do not have sense, I am not surprised.

Sometimes, it could be a form of legalised blackmail but not always.

I find it fishy that the third member have refused to talk to about this matter. Blackface can continue nto hustle his career and he can also speak out and seek legal redress if applicable. Whatever works for him imo.

Stormie Daniel is an idiot and Trump did not need to settle Stormie Daniel. He doesn't have shame and his supporters do not care. He is still a good Christian family guy.

ornicus:
Court settlements imho are just legalized blackmail. Say you and I had an affair years ago as co workers and today I am a big politician. You start making noise that i sexually harassed you. Even if I know I did not, going through with the court case means a lot of my personal stuff will be dragged out and in the news.

I’m sure you read how stormie Daniels was talking about trump’s mushroom shaped dick on live tv.

For me, this is just tuface paying the guy off so he can shut up and leave him in peace. Why can’t blackface hustle and blow again? Did dr Dre not do it when he left death row with nothing? Did he waste his time chasing suge knight for peanuts?

@Yaoli, Get a lawyer to follow to make a report at the Police station.

Do not go to the Police station alone. You must inform your parents or guardians asap. Please do not form Alpha, you may regret it.