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Is it Christmas already?

You can tell who their mothers are by their replies.

Any good reason for an objection?

Half of the people cancelling on the Twitter are Yorubas but when you have an ulterior motive, your white is black and your black is white.

Franky70:
Initially I thought the Yoruba and Igbo hate thing is only on nairaland until I visited Twitter


Nigeria can never be one

Okay

GloriousGbola:
If in the future, I have a relationship with one of my childrens over 18 friends, it is quite possible that I have been grooming that child to that moment, even if I only started dating the child as an adult.

That is why dynamics where there are over 15 years between partners, where one partner is obviously immature are messed up

This is an older woman dating 'smallie'. A small boy who can easily be controlled. Let us say it like it is.

Women or your manly logical ego?

kayo8080:
So many of them have been the cause of wars...on a smaller scale, a lot of Hip Hop beefs were escalated by Women. Tupac and Biggie beef...Faith Evans didn't like how her husband, Biggie was sleeping around, so she went and slept with his enemy, Tupac... Both Tupac and Biggie ended up dead. Nas and Jay Z's beef got escalated when Nas' babymama, Carmen went and started sleeping with Jay Z, because Nas was ignoring her.

You can't use the word 'grooming' because the guy is still heartbroken about their failed relationship. He was 22 year old and he was not groomed!

There are 35 year old women and men still heartbroken about a relationship they had at 25. Does that mean they were groomed?

As the time they had the relationship, her marriage wasn't what it used to be. Will Smith isn't complaining. She isn't complaining. Her family isn't complaining.

GloriousGbola:
that is correct. my wife would be seriously pissed if i had an affair
she would be even more pissed if it was someone that was a friend of the family
i do not want to think how many units her anger would scale to if it was one of my daughters friends particularly as we know all my daughters friends parents

so it keeps multiplying. and i am very sure Jada would also not stand for that.

if you indeed have an open marriage - does that mean you can groom your children's friends?
how comfortable would Will be with any of Jadens or Willows male friends going forward?

Did Will Smith ever say otherwise to the arrangement of their marriage? Has there been any hint of manipulation or abuse from Jada towards Will?

There were rumours that both were in an open marriage before the Jada's affair came to light. Men have affairs with dauaghter's agemate all the time, many of you don't crucify them. You praise them but when it is woman, you act different.


You are looking at their marriage through the lens of yours. It doesn't make you manly

GloriousGbola:
Would you consider will smith worth it if it came out that he had had affairs with willows 21 year old friend?

Would you consider him worth it if it was transparently clear he had an unresolved crush on left eye (that's the closest analogue to 2pac I can pull out of the air at short notice)

If you were born in 90s, many kids I know started school before 4 years old.

RayRay06677:
At 4 I was at home, this age, you guys believe 2yrs is ripe for school yet turn around to complain that the load is excessive. I believe the 4yrs old was asked what she was taught except she wasn't taught.

If you think she is too young for teaching, keep at home till when matured.

Parents have the mind to take 4yrs to school and still arrange lessons that keeps the kid away till 4pm, I closed at 12:30pm, from primary 4 was 1pm. That was after starting school at 6.

Vet schools before enrolling your kids. I doubt the teachers have professional education and training in early childhood/primary education and common sense.

You should go to that school with a cane. Their foolishness should be beaten out of them.

How did you know that she isn't worth it?

Truckpusher:
Hate to see a grown man being manipulated by woman that isn't worth it.

3 examples that are most likely executive decisions.

Please sue him for all you can get

I will never understand what drives Africans to eulogise people that don't care about their existence. The juJu behind white worship must be extraordinary.

Yup the type that justified death of poor non Americans.

Laggafin:
She was one of the finest diplomat and secretary America has ever produced.. Rest in peace Lady Albright

Kill him

Lmao. You are one of those people

Nothing screams touch me like a white wall

pocohantas:
She should get her hands off the wall please!!!

Eish! Nigerians always touching walls and placing their useless shoes there. All in the name of posing.

They will come to your house and start looking for mosquitoes to kill on your wall. Very anyhow people.

Werey dun wo, koshe bi lo mo

We are not surprised . Eranko

PetroDollar wan burst

Would you have preferred he stuck to a lie?

Babygreene:
Ohhh.Voodoo charm has been renewed! hes been caged again! Hes been served food and pussy laced with menstrual blood,his picture tied inside a calabash with red cloth!

A crazy person will make you unstable

Iyaebe:
unstable husband

You have your answer na

Western hypocrisy at its bes.

Lmao

This is evidence not news

And their pictures please

You lost me at the tomatoes

How? The caliber of the teachers you had, your lecturers, your bosses and your politicians are enough proof that shit doesn't work.

Dshocker:
It will help both the child and the parent

That is the same across genders. As kids become more aware, they recognise your weaknesses and limitations and they will test it. The father threat might work because many fathers are walking sperm and money donors and it doesn't guarantee a well behaved kid.

I know women that have single handedly raised great men. This woman is not taking liberties with her son yet he remains a tough kid. The solution is not his father. She should take a deep breath and change her parenting style.

Mariangeles:
I don’t know the thing with boys, but at some stage, they tend to be very difficult, especially for their mothers, and the only language they understand at that point is I will report you to your father.

They almost always do what you tell them not to do, and it only takes patience not to harm them.

Mabinu. I don't agree that he needs his father. It doesn't hurt to have his father reduce the parenting stress from his mum.

Mariangeles:
Going by what I’ve read, what the boy truly truly needs is his father to be more involved in his life and in raising him. (Thankfully, he has a father.)

Children, especially boys (emphasis on especially boys ), can be very very difficult at that stage he’s in, and in most cases, only their fathers (or fatherly figures) can handle their situations at that stage.

I’d advise op to have a serious talk with the boy’s father about his new behavior, as he’s the best person to handle the situation.

We would have gotten so many academic and non academic articles. It will be their ultimate proof of the natural order.

pocohantas:
Thank God he isn’t a woman. At least we get to focus on the issues at hand, not her vagina or marital status.

Awon ti logical gender . The alpha male

pocohantas:
He is taking them back to the Stone Age,
Man like Putin,
A king I stan.