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Please let them continue o. Let all of them continue.

What was she expectibg when she married him?

@onojaintegrity,

I hope you suffer agonising death and rot in hell. You are very stupid to be writing lame propaganda for Yahya Bello. Poverty stricken beggar!

InsideLife2022

Have you ruled out postpartum mental health issues?

Why will you use everything when you could have just gone to the hospital?

Cakkie:
Pls what should be urgently done, ma. I've tried my possible best and used everything within my reach?

Cakkie

You are going to ruin your life and you will wonder why you didn't go to a teaching hospital sooner.

He can walk away from it. There are people who have walked away from that life forever. It is difficult and statistically the odds are against him but he can do it.

Calibrator:
He is only taking on the appearance of someone who wants better because he is broke.... Let him lay his hand on a little wads of cash and see he revert back to his old lifestyle.



Habits and lifestyle patterns especially rough street vibes coupled with the use of drugs are not things a person can ever walk away from.... Unless they are opportune to leave the country and gain a whole new level of exposure.


This is why I am eternally grateful for the fact that though I am street through and through, I don't drink, smoke or take drugs.... It is quite easy for me to blend in with cultured and posh crowd even at that, one minute everywhere burst, the street vibes will come up to the surface.


Realty can often be disappointing!

A skill. If he ants to got to school, he can get himself through it with support and encouragement from you.

Where do you live?

GENES11S:
I no go lie u, the thing pain me wela. Worst of it was that some Muslims in my area where rejoicing about it. If you think you are angry seeing people online supporting the murder, wait till you see them face to face boasting about it.

I just try to focus on those of them condemning it and calm myself down so I don't go towards evil part.

I hope one day we all will understand that we share humanity together. Humanity should come before religion and ethnicity.

How thoughtful

White or stewed.

I can't bear onions and tomatoes.

Her decision to stay doesn't make her a better woman than the women that left.

Frankly, she is not doing her children any good. This is the point she will have to choose herself and her kids or her marriage.

pharmaking:
I had a family friend ( my father's age grade) some years ago.

He was doing well at work until the addiction became worse.

His wife and daughters would hide alcohol he brought home, yet he would search and locate them.
He was fired from work.

On many occasions, he boarded bikes to come to joints and look for alcohol with just boxer short on, I mean shirtless.

The wife stayed of course, u know our mothers, she was determined to raise her kids and make them useful in life.

Someone said they used his hobby (that is drinking) to destroy him, village people side of the matter.

Today, he is very dead.The children are settled and doing well.

I don't know what to tell u, but if u are staying, that road is promisingly rough, make I no lie u.

I met that man myself one afternoon walking aimlessly and shirtless.So when my friends said they sighted him shirtless, I believed them.

If u are staying, u need to be ready to spiritually fight it.

Kai, I wish you well o.Your kind of woman is not common again.

What I read hear every time is women giving their husbands ache.

Rarely see the one that wants to make marriage work.

God will strengthen you madam.

Augustwife

You can't force treatment. It is a decision he will need to make for himself. No one can make him change. It is his choice to make.

Your responsibility is to support him but at what cost? Your financial stability? Influence on your kids because you can't say until they are older if they are going to turn out like him or sit up and want different? Your future?

It is your decision to make.

Kobojunkie:
Your husband has an addiction problem and you have to have him checked into rehab so he can get treatment he needs for his addiction?

No amount of starvation-dieting, what you all call fasting, will fix your husband or your marriage. Alcohol addiction is a behavioral problem which indicates a mental illness so send him to get treatment for what ails him while you work towards getting your own mental healed.

You look at the Western countries and you still believe what you have written?

I am not condemning the Catholic church. Religion or churches shouldn't have to fundamentally change for people when they go into the church.

Vinnie2000:
Hehehe! This is funny!
The Catholic church will even be the Lastman standing!.
These teenagers wearing Rugged jeans, short gowns, doing dreadlocks, spraying dier Hair and going to Pentecostal churches will EVENTUALLY CRASH THOSE CHURCHES!
You cannot expand God's kingdom with Unrighteousness and waywardness!

The Catholic church won't survive if it doesn't adapt.

Omo ale

Lmao. How do you see yourself and people in authority?

remigreat:
My advice is try and be diplomatic about it because he might actually be testing your patience. Who knows he might be a good boss tomorrow who could recommend you to higher positions. Don't let the event of today becloud your chances of meeting a destiny helper. My 2 cents bro

At what cost? Sounds like the traders lost a lot more than the bike riders.

Puskas:
Aboki and their reckless driving have caused the death of the pregnant woman. But Igbo guys gave it to them hot hot. Aboki thinks this is mile 2 where they chase away their hosts to Benin Republic IDP

People have short memory at their detriment.

pocohantas:
They did grow wings before they were stopped. They don’t belong in 2022 abeg.

Nope! One day you will wake up to realise that those two groups have grown wings.

They didn't disown him. He is no longer an employee. A very big difference!

North is another Afghanistan waiting to happen.

remsonik:
They didn't defend Muhammad when Boko Haram desecrated their worship centres with bombs, killed their family members, kidnapped their sisters, raped their women, and annihilated communities. This opium works differently aswer.

There was no need for protest when bandits sacked their communities and deprived them of their livelihood. This is the effect of a docile, sanctimonious religiosity and misplaced priority.

The North needs mental reorientation!
The North needs visionary leaders befitting this age and time

The president, his useless media pa, dangote in law and the national imam are 100% behind this barbaric act. What more proof do we need, the conclusion of this madness is we should go our celebrate our ways.

The audacity to write something like this without fear of any consequence should be shocking but it is Nigeria

People have been killed on behalf of Buhari and the man never condemned the acts.

Mariangeles:
Took him long enough.
With his carefully chosen words.
No direct order to bring the perpetrators to book.

There is a difference between Igbos and Ipobs. Ipobs are Igbos but not all Igbos are Ipobs. Amongst the Ipob members and supporters, some would have found that video and recent events alarming as you have.

LocalStandard1:
I used to support the Igbos and their "struggle", I was so enraged about what I thought was done to them that I considered going to the East to help them fight, even contribute monetary. Since those pictures and video came out I have been angry and heavily disappointed in what the Igbos are doing and even supporting, now just seeing an Igbo man or woman make me assume them to be cannibals and savages.

Igbos should know that this was how the Civil War started. Those who fail to learn from history are bound to repeat it. Making an enemy of everybody doesn't make you courageous or wise but the direct opposite. Those images has opened the eyes of a lot of people, it has turned away the support many people have for you and most importantly many people's hearts are becoming filled with hate for the Igbos. You can't win this war, you definitely won't get your Biafra like this.

The denial is from a place of bigotry where 'it is Northerners and Muslims that are known for extremism extremism'. Violence isn't peculiar to a religion or tribe.

It is shame this happening and if both sides aren't careful. It will change the narrative not for the better.

Not when he is smoking it

Kriss216:
Weed has never killed or harm anyone. Stop misinforming the public.

The headline is for you

pocohantas:
Dude doesn’t look like someone that went abroad in his 20s. I don’t know why, but my spirit is telling me he is one of those Nigerians that are Nigerians on paper only. This doesn’t seem like green card to me. They look lovely.

In your bigotry, you should still get the facts right

Corporate2020:
Waa ti maa gbo. You go don dey hear am.

Seyi Makinde is for Southern President. Let Igbo and Niger Delta governors learn from Seyi Makinde and Nyesom Wike.

Presidency must come to the South
It doesn't matter whether it is Itshekiri, Ijaw, Igbo, Yoruba, Ikwerre, Ibiobio or Benin. It must come to the South. The worst of us cannot be ruling over the best.

An Igbo man cannot be President and then say he does not know Yorubas or Ibiobios. Likewise, a Yoruba man be President and say that he does not know Ijaws or Ikwerres. We saw how Obasanjo's government was dominated by brilliant Igbos, some of the best across the world, unlike Umar Yar'Adua short lived Fulanization agenda. A man that removed a Professor of Economics Charles Chukwuma Soludo as CBN governor and replaced him with a Masters degree in Islamic Studies holder Sanusi Lamido Sanusi, nor the continuous Fulanization by the current lifeless Buhari.

Well done Makinde. Presidency must come to the South in 2023.

Their attitude is a special type of madness

pocohantas:
I noticed they are usually impatient, borderline rude and dismissive. Many would just sit, you pick the item yourself, they pass you nylon, you tie it yourself. Unconsciously I am beginning to avoid buying things from them.