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Would you have preferred he stuck to a lie?

Babygreene:
Ohhh.Voodoo charm has been renewed! hes been caged again! Hes been served food and pussy laced with menstrual blood,his picture tied inside a calabash with red cloth!

A crazy person will make you unstable

Iyaebe:
unstable husband

You have your answer na

Western hypocrisy at its bes.

Lmao

This is evidence not news

And their pictures please

You lost me at the tomatoes

How? The caliber of the teachers you had, your lecturers, your bosses and your politicians are enough proof that shit doesn't work.

Dshocker:
It will help both the child and the parent

That is the same across genders. As kids become more aware, they recognise your weaknesses and limitations and they will test it. The father threat might work because many fathers are walking sperm and money donors and it doesn't guarantee a well behaved kid.

I know women that have single handedly raised great men. This woman is not taking liberties with her son yet he remains a tough kid. The solution is not his father. She should take a deep breath and change her parenting style.

Mariangeles:
I don’t know the thing with boys, but at some stage, they tend to be very difficult, especially for their mothers, and the only language they understand at that point is I will report you to your father.

They almost always do what you tell them not to do, and it only takes patience not to harm them.

Mabinu. I don't agree that he needs his father. It doesn't hurt to have his father reduce the parenting stress from his mum.

Mariangeles:
Going by what I’ve read, what the boy truly truly needs is his father to be more involved in his life and in raising him. (Thankfully, he has a father.)

Children, especially boys (emphasis on especially boys ), can be very very difficult at that stage he’s in, and in most cases, only their fathers (or fatherly figures) can handle their situations at that stage.

I’d advise op to have a serious talk with the boy’s father about his new behavior, as he’s the best person to handle the situation.

We would have gotten so many academic and non academic articles. It will be their ultimate proof of the natural order.

pocohantas:
Thank God he isn’t a woman. At least we get to focus on the issues at hand, not her vagina or marital status.

Awon ti logical gender . The alpha male

pocohantas:
He is taking them back to the Stone Age,
Man like Putin,
A king I stan.

You are not ready to have kids.

Kids are not stupid that you can't have an arrangement with them. It gives them a sense of responsibility and accountability. She can talk softly and still get him to behave. She isn't first parent with kids.

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Karleb:
Stay there and be forming woke.

If the mother is angry, do you expect her to talk softly?

Work on an agreement with a 7yr old, wtf are you saying?

Can the kid say that to his teacher?

Her shouting hasn't made things better. She is an adult that can communicate without shouting. It is good upbringing to raise a child that can resolve issues without screaming like a banshee.

Beremx:
Imagine a child telling his mother not to shout at him, that means if you shout at him when he’s a teenager, he will slap you.

Madam, start now to correct him especially with cane. No too much shout shout or else his misdemeanor will get out of hand.

Speaking from experience

You are very harsh. You have no reason to slap him for that.

The alternative is to take away his privileges. When he does something wrong, let him know the consequences and apply to asap, no second chances.

You are as despicable as him. Both of you shouldn't have been born.

marsman:
And it not alien to any one that is sane, that those decent houses in the erosion ravaged east are built from the proceeds of Drug pushing, pounding babies from baby factory for rituals, worshipping amadioha with human skulls at Okija shrine, kidnapping, assasination jobs and many more cruel atrocities humans can think of.
Osu bastards the most babaric crude wicked cursed race on earth

Money ritual is not real

damosade:
And some people will say no money rituals or no juju..
They should also visit bode area in ibadan, before molete overhead bridge, people will be amazed.

This is a poor attempt at investigative journalism. It fails to inform us how our man discovered this information, his experience, his guarantor etc.

Why amI not surprised?

You don't do embezzlement well for them to copy.

How father is a Yoruba man from Nigeria. There is nothing travelled about it. These genealogy companies don't have enough info on our par tof Africa. We are not Spain that has been through a lot of mixes. We aren't Ethiopia either.

Techsupport:
You'd be surprised how far African genes have traveled in the world.

It won't help him. Not many Nigerians are in their database and they don't have enough information on Africa genealogy to be helpful. Many of us know where we come from.

Techsupport:
He can start with DNA genealogy. stuff like ancestry.com, if he has any relative from his father's side that is the database, that will be his first link. Armed with these facts and a confirmed living relative, then he can make his way to Nigeria.

Odeinde or Ojerinde?

Lmao. This won't stick. He is mad man, we don't need explanation for this madness.

The anonymity should not be for long. He has a right to face his accusers because I don't understand why his accusers joining issues with the his friends and family. Something is fishy.

Let her know the trajectory of her life. Her life, her choice. Plus you won't be responsible for her.

E reach to know

pocohantas:
Forget about the EX. Please share your money management skills.

Middle class Yoruba doesn't represent all Yoruba population. I am surprised you are arguing about this.

Saintmary:
I just deduced from your posts.


If you're familiar with well to do or at least middle class Yoruba people, then your views won't be that narrow.



I have seen, worked with, lived with,and interacted with All people from all walks of life, rich and poor, from every major tribe in this country, but I don't generalise because for every case, there's always an exception.

Exactly. Is that bit what old family houses are for.

Although, it is uncommon to find an educated family in such environment (not educated and rich though)

Mariangeles:


It’s not even a taboo, so I’m wondering why the fuss.

This is common with some families not all.

Omoluabi16:
Haba. Why would you say this? I don't know neither have I seen or heard of any Yoruba family doing this.

Two truths can coexist. You can't hate US and not hate Russia. Russia might not have done as much damage to non European countries doesn't mean they aren't evil.

Gangster1ms:
The only evil thing here is USA together with NATO..
You guys won't understand what is happening and be opening mouth waaa. Hollywood and western media has brain washed your heads into believing Russia is the villian