₦airaland Forum

You are not ready to have kids.

Kids are not stupid that you can't have an arrangement with them. It gives them a sense of responsibility and accountability. She can talk softly and still get him to behave. She isn't first parent with kids.

.

Karleb:
Stay there and be forming woke.

If the mother is angry, do you expect her to talk softly?

Work on an agreement with a 7yr old, wtf are you saying?

Can the kid say that to his teacher?

Her shouting hasn't made things better. She is an adult that can communicate without shouting. It is good upbringing to raise a child that can resolve issues without screaming like a banshee.

Beremx:
Imagine a child telling his mother not to shout at him, that means if you shout at him when he’s a teenager, he will slap you.

Madam, start now to correct him especially with cane. No too much shout shout or else his misdemeanor will get out of hand.

Speaking from experience

You are very harsh. You have no reason to slap him for that.

The alternative is to take away his privileges. When he does something wrong, let him know the consequences and apply to asap, no second chances.

You are as despicable as him. Both of you shouldn't have been born.

marsman:
And it not alien to any one that is sane, that those decent houses in the erosion ravaged east are built from the proceeds of Drug pushing, pounding babies from baby factory for rituals, worshipping amadioha with human skulls at Okija shrine, kidnapping, assasination jobs and many more cruel atrocities humans can think of.
Osu bastards the most babaric crude wicked cursed race on earth

Money ritual is not real

damosade:
And some people will say no money rituals or no juju..
They should also visit bode area in ibadan, before molete overhead bridge, people will be amazed.

This is a poor attempt at investigative journalism. It fails to inform us how our man discovered this information, his experience, his guarantor etc.

Why amI not surprised?

You don't do embezzlement well for them to copy.

How father is a Yoruba man from Nigeria. There is nothing travelled about it. These genealogy companies don't have enough info on our par tof Africa. We are not Spain that has been through a lot of mixes. We aren't Ethiopia either.

Techsupport:
You'd be surprised how far African genes have traveled in the world.

It won't help him. Not many Nigerians are in their database and they don't have enough information on Africa genealogy to be helpful. Many of us know where we come from.

Techsupport:
He can start with DNA genealogy. stuff like ancestry.com, if he has any relative from his father's side that is the database, that will be his first link. Armed with these facts and a confirmed living relative, then he can make his way to Nigeria.

Odeinde or Ojerinde?

Lmao. This won't stick. He is mad man, we don't need explanation for this madness.

The anonymity should not be for long. He has a right to face his accusers because I don't understand why his accusers joining issues with the his friends and family. Something is fishy.

Let her know the trajectory of her life. Her life, her choice. Plus you won't be responsible for her.

E reach to know

pocohantas:
Forget about the EX. Please share your money management skills.

Middle class Yoruba doesn't represent all Yoruba population. I am surprised you are arguing about this.

Saintmary:
I just deduced from your posts.


If you're familiar with well to do or at least middle class Yoruba people, then your views won't be that narrow.



I have seen, worked with, lived with,and interacted with All people from all walks of life, rich and poor, from every major tribe in this country, but I don't generalise because for every case, there's always an exception.

Exactly. Is that bit what old family houses are for.

Although, it is uncommon to find an educated family in such environment (not educated and rich though)

Mariangeles:


It’s not even a taboo, so I’m wondering why the fuss.

This is common with some families not all.

Omoluabi16:
Haba. Why would you say this? I don't know neither have I seen or heard of any Yoruba family doing this.

Two truths can coexist. You can't hate US and not hate Russia. Russia might not have done as much damage to non European countries doesn't mean they aren't evil.

Gangster1ms:
The only evil thing here is USA together with NATO..
You guys won't understand what is happening and be opening mouth waaa. Hollywood and western media has brain washed your heads into believing Russia is the villian

Which is exactly what I said and has been saying.

No one said the world is unipolar. I wrote that the West have more allies than Russia.

Tambaringabas:
Europe is preservative, there is no signal they are going to send troops in to help Ukraine.
The fact that you even think they will offer themselves as cannon fodder, it ain't gonna happen.

Deescalation of the situation is in everyone's best interest: Russia, Ukraine and the rest of Europe.

Some countries will just have to learn to live in a world where issues do no start and end with them.

Where other countries have their own way of doing things.

Where other countries can form alliances among themselves for their own benefit.

The world can't be unipolar.

It is the new normal

pocohantas:
It is not modern o, it is vintage. Hehehe

When I see a fresh stew, I just know it is a stew I shouldn’t eat. No well fried stew looks fresh. Most Nigerians cook horrible stew and they don’t even know it.

Putin isn't the only country in Europe with nuclear submarine. Europe can find alternative means of energy. You sound like it is Russia's or nothing. Expensive isn't same as impossible.

Unleash India on Pakistan. It is about allies. The west has more than Russia. Putin cannot win if the West get involved unless he makes the same mistake Hitler did. However, we don't know Ukriane and Ukrainians worth in Western Europe.

Tambaringabas:
If push comes to shove, Putin has got nuclear sub Marines that are ready to bring Europe to it's knees within a day, they know that.

The west showed their hands early when they announced sanctions, Putin thought, well why not go after the real prize?

The best they can do is sanctions, and in this economy, does not look like that's going to work.

Europe depends on Russia for energy, are they ready to get cut off?

Pakistan PM was in Russia today to discuss gas pipeline to pak, that should send message to everyone.

I actually went to look at the picture. Many people don't cook their stew well. Probably a modern thing that I am sometimes guilty of. No one wants to stay in the kitchen that long. Stew has a different look to it when it is fried well.

pocohantas:
For fck sake, why do some Nigerians think stew should look “fresh”? This is why someone is complaining that y’all cook stews that stink and slap. Please, fry your tomatoes well. Check the difference and thank me later.

Fresh kor, fresher ni.

If NATO and America get involved, Putin is going to lose and he is going to lose big. They are holding back because this is exactly how it fits going to play out.

A coalition of NATO, allies and America army fighting Russia will bring the war right on their doorstep. It is fine if America and NATO ruin other countries but they don't want the guns pointing at them. Russian allies will try to take advantage but they can proactively prepare for that by preparing their allies to face China and Iran while they blow Russia to smithereens. Throw in Gen Z, they are not like their parents. Russia is biggest state in Europe and It has plenty of them. Russia will eat itself alive.

The western countries are going to win on any side. The main question is at what cost?! Putin is hedging in that cost!

I doubt many comprehend the losses of WW2. When you do, no one will want a repeat of that unless a psychopath. The only good news is the technology that we think would happen in 20 years might just happen within a year.

Western countries got away with their crimes because it wasn't on their doorsteps. Putin is gambling.

complexBoss12:
If you think Putin is going to loose in this affair you have to think again. Putin is no fool and has taken into consideration all possibilities. Why do you think even American is staying away? Putin will rather see an end to this world that loose like Hitler, even America know this.

I will never justify the death of Ukrainians, but people should leave CCN propaganda alone and see the facts, which clearly shows that American and the West, is the aggressor here.

The number of persons CIA has made to disappeared in this world, is more than the people killed in WW2. CIA plans wars, coups, insurrections, assassinations, etc. But you don't get to read that in the news. America is the biggest Terrorist the world currently has, with Brittain as her lapdog.

Let me bring it down further, Russians as a people Originated from Ukraine. That is to say that the history of every Russian is traced back to Ukraine, which is the Mother land. Putin has always been sentimental about bringing them back as one, so for him, this is not even just a war, its personal.

Putin is invading Ukraine because of emotion. There is nothing logical about instigating WW3. Emotion is not a negative trait. It is shame you try to reduce your skin colour to naught and a bigger shame you thibk war is logical.

DropsMic:
....These guys need to understand that Putin is not a black man.. No be emotions dey control am. Before he sent his troops into Ukraine the baba don already weigh the pros and the cons.. There's nothing that the West can do to stop him.

Even the west gan would do same to their neighbors if they tried to join forces with Russia, China or North Korea

Don't mind these peopt. 4k is a lot of money. Go for it biko.

engrrichie92:
I'm a tech bro, I currently do 1.5M Monthly in Nigeria and I just got a job offer last month in the UK for 4K pounds monthly(after tax)

My guys there be complaining about bills and how hard it is to save and all over there

So, If you were me, which would you pick and why?

Modified: will also like to hear from those in the UK; what do you think guys?...Now that you know how it is over there, what would you advice?

@lalasticlala...please help push to front page for more engagements

Screw Putin!
WW2 is too recent for this madness

There is no preference. They feel the same way. You might think so because someone who share your skin might be the last person you would expect to hate you.

LILTJAY:
Racism and xenophobia, which do you prefer?
White people are more accommodating and nice compared to blacks whether you accept it or not...
how many times have you seen white people in their hundreds going out in their streets to carry out xenophobia on blacks in their countries, compared to how fellow africans in Ghana and south africa attack and kill other blacks in their Countries. ??
by the time you experience racism from a black american just because you are from Africa, you will prefer white racism ..
Mtcheww tribalists crying about racism

Some racist marry the race they hate. It can be that bad.

Lmao. What if they don't?

Not really. These athletes are tested randomly. They have to inform the org wherever they are at all times. They can pop in at anytime and anyday to test them.

Profayo:
Nigeria failed her because other countries gets these screening regularly,if anyone is doping, the country will pick it up before it gets out.They will help the athlete to come off it therfore avoiding bans like this

Second wife in a one-bedroom apartment is already a symptom of insanity.