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To an extent, yes.

It can be better

There are drone that costs £50k.

Think about that!

I knew that last paragraph was it when she mentioned international fees.

You can't put your child in a school that demands millions that her father cannot afford and turn around and blame him.

I hope their children have enough sense to filter through the rubbish.

Lol. I have already given up.

pocohantas:
You are replying a redpiller and expecting any bit of sense in his response on this subject matter. I wish you good luck…

How would you know? Have you bothered asking them?

Shows the kind of person you are. You are a bully. The poor girl did nothing to him but he chose to be very foolish, he deserves everything that happens to him

angelfallz:
And I am telling you many of them don't care about the yabbing.

You are just trying to defend something that we both know is wrong. What she did is wrong.

Same difference. I am telling you many of them do not appreciate the banter or the yabbing. It gets to them because many are actually hurtful and unnecessary.

Will you take a moment and stop living in your head? Speak to them if you can! Stop assuming it was fine when many have come out to say that it wasn't fine.

Forget friendly banter, there is nothing about this conversation that is funny. It is bullying and it is yabbing based on skin tone. It is the reason he will lose his job, and rightly so. Next time, he will grow a brain!

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angelfallz:
Please there is a difference between bullying and yabbing someone "based on skin tone".

We have different skin tones, in secondary there were many guys that were black, we sometimes say things like this guy fit stain charcoal o!
they can reply back, at least if dem flog me, e no go show but if na you, you go just red!

Look what that girl did was horrible and bad. No excuse! Especially if she grew up in Nigeria.

It is a big deal in Nigeria. Bullied people do not speak out because we expect them to grow a thick skin and see it as a joke. It doesn't mean those inconsiderate remarks do not affect them.

angelfallz:
Asin eh! I believe she is a Nigerian, what the hell?

She knows that it is not a big deal, unless she did not grow up in Nigeria.

Many of you are irredeemably stupid.

thebosstrevor1:
What she did was not nice.

She should have warned him about his inappropriate comments before reporting. Atleast give him a chance to be remorseful and to apologize and only report if he acts unremorseful.

Now, he will be sacked by the woke company and wont be able to find a job again.

Join the queue

Your fate does not differ from every Nigerian's, but you deserve preferential treatment at the expense of our lives and properties. Clowns!

They should contribute to gas, electricity and foodstuff bills

Lmao. Misbehave please

ibedun:
This is what you think........Not facts!

pocohantas:
If their father did the same to their mother, they will come here to tell you how they don’t connect to him because he spent all his money with side chicks while they struggled with their mum. But because they are on NL and trying to look woke, they have somehow made Ighalo the victim.

When this case started, she made no mention of his cheating or babymama, but trust Nigerians to go for her and start dragging her. In situations like this, there are many things the other party would rather leave unsaid to protect the image of the other (especially the man). Until they start pushing you to the wall and you will be forced to talk or act, make everywhere kuku scatter.

They think the solution is marrying her in Nigeria where she could be chased out with just her pants. Not amending their ways. Very wicked lots. He won’t even try this nonsense with their #TeamForeignWomen.

With what I have seen Nigerian men do or say, I don’t blame any woman who hides her money or builds houses without her husband’s knowledge.

If their father is Dangote, they won't outgrow it. Every father is not a Jude or Dangote, so many will outgrow that money!

1. Some will take it as a lesson and treat women better
2. Others will appreciate a society that doesn't hold them into account, follow their father's footsteps and it still won't stop them from hating their father.

ibedun:
You are dead wrong too. They never outgrow the father’s money plus once the boys become men and start to interact with women, they begin to see things from a man’s point of view.

My response is not code for you are right or you know what you are talking about because you really don't know what you are talking about,!

ChiefSosa:
Lol. I may have sounded harsh, but I was truthful. DEEP DOWN you know I didn't lie. Most women are opportunists and they only finesse. I'm not bashing all women o
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Oya, take one plate of jollof rice. Just one o

Millions and millions of women do everyday.

hammer3x:
LIAR!


AS IF YOU WILL EVER SUPPORT A BROKE HUSBAND.

She also impregnated those women.

Martinez39s:
“NA WE STILL DEY RULE #LegallymarriedinEurope... If I decide to take everything today, nothing dey happen.”

When you foolishly get married over there despite the marital and child support laws, you give your woman the power to brag and threaten you like this. Forget Ighalo's flexing, he is at the mercy of his wife. Don't get married abroad, don't bring your wife abroad, don't be naive to think a prenup will save you, and don't think you can play the system.

Don't think you are invincible; if Jeff Bezos could lose billions in his divorce and his power and influence couldn't stop it, who are you?

Edit: funny enough, everyone will think Ighalo is the bad guy here, but only females (despite their pretense) and the wise few men will inwardly acknowledge the possibility of Ighalo's wife being a demon and thorn in his flesh behind closed doors.

It is about power not gender.

We live in a society where the powers that be are beginning to have sense. You are not a nigga today because of that. It is like fantasising role reversal of Europe and Africa history.

Dalil8:
Bullshit"*

It's the stupid men enacting these laws i feel sorry for. Cuz the moment women start earning more i bet my balls those fvcked up laws are gonna be scrapped.

I don hear you

ChiefSosa:
Get a lawyer(s) to draft it out. Prenup is very well recognized in Europe. Lawyers are even invited to make things less complicated between couples. No matter how long it takes; prenups MUST be signed. We are not rushing anywhere. Post-nup is also a thing over there, that's to tell you how serious they take agreements. Please, point out the lie(s)? I'm currently cooking jollof rice, but I've put off the gas, so I'll settle down to reply you.

Dangote has money and you don't know the kind of father he is.

Lmao. Same Alaafin? . If he dies tomorrow, most of his children won't go 'Oh father'.

Theunbothered:
Did Dangote's children abandon him?

Aalafin of Oyo?

Life is not that simple.

Your second paragraph is not true.

Once the children have no use for his money, HE WILL BE ABANDONED. He is as good as his money.

You think they will forget the rich man that made their mothers cry? Most wouldn't!

Theunbothered:
What you are seeing from your friend is a father who abandoned his children.

If he was still financially supporting them or he stuck around in the marriage for appearances we wouldn't hear this.

Most women aren't interested in the men they marry anymore, rather the idea of marriage and an expensive wedding.

When the ideal is shattered resentment sets in.

I'm not interested in marriage, I'm not going to deceive myself with the illusion of sticking to one person for societal approval.

Prenup in Europe? Like it is going to be a walk in the park. Lmao.

Most of what you wrote is a lie anyways

ChiefSosa:
ALWAYS MAKE SURE YOU SIGN A PRENUP. FELLAS, FORGET ALL THE EMOTIONS OR THAT TRUST ISSUES NONSENSE SHE MIGHT BRING UP. MAKE SURE YOU SIGN A PRENUP. Look at some famous men that lost MILLIONS and even BILLIONS to women after divorce. Marriage HIGHLY favors women, especially abroad. Some women even get the house, cars and kids, without leaving anything for the man. Then, he'll have to start from scratch while the woman is flexing his life's work. SIGN THAT PRENUP, BRO. I'll take care of an ex-wife if divorce occurs, but NO WAY will any type of law force me to split my things or totally give them up to her.
Dr. Dre was married for over 24 years, yet after divorce, the wife still wants his assets, even after she already has some percentage stake in his billion-dollar companies. She even requested $2M per month, excluding other payments o. BROS, SIGN THAT PRENUP! IF SHE LOVES YOU, SHE'LL SIGN THAT PRENUP. KANYE AND KIM SIGNED!!!

Her last slide for me

He is telling his own truth not mine. So you go listen to him and nod at all he says.

anselm791:
Wealth creates options.
Listen to that guy, he is telling you the truth.

Wealth doesn't guarantee faihfulness.

addictiv:
If you want a high value man, always know that he is very likely to cheat because he has options. If you want a faithful guy, marry an average guy with Less resources.

It never ends well for the family.

You can't claim to love your children and put their mother through this unnecessary emotional turmoil.

Then the poor children out of wedlock, they are going to have lives vastly different from the other three children. Another trauma itself

MansoryMX:
Too many kids in Nairaland lately! You can see them defending the stupidity of that so called Ighalo. Ighalo is so irritating and irresponsible! Every man who have walked down this path usually end up losing everything. He should be careful!

No. It is the same old automatic reaction to she is going through. It is boring.

Kindness is wishing, hoping and saying kind words like 'may she find the strength to move beyond this'. Not 'she is pained', thanks for stating the obvious what else should she be feeling?

She needs to feel that pain. She is entitled to feel what she feels.

anselm791:
Compassion? Empathy? Kindness?

I am trying to understand why many of you are concerned about her pain.

Says who?

illicit:
The poor cries most

Who doesn't cry?

illicit:
Hmmm the rich also cry

pocohantas:
I am curious too. I have never met one feminist that said women shouldn’t be good to their husbands. Talking about Mercy, how good was she to Ike? What peace of mind did she give him, both in and out of the house?

Anyway, she has said what them boys wanna hear. Tomorrow they’ll still call her olosho once the euphoria of this post wears off.