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How do these women do it? How do you bring a child knowing from the get-go the man doesn't want that child?

pocohantas:
Let me understand this;

Woman says the body is hers and she has the right to keep a pregnancy or terminate it. Fine. But whichever way it goes, you expect the man to play along?

This particular woman entered a relationship with a married man. He never lied about his marital status. She wasn’t a minor, she was 32! 32!!

At 35, she decided to keep a pregnancy, the man said he doesn’t want her to, he isn’t ready to be the father. She took him to Area Command and she got their support, thankfully abortion is illegal in Nigeria.

She had that baby and the man has refused to support her. She is now calling on Nigerians to beg him to play his fatherly role. A role he clearly showed he doesn’t want to play even before the baby was born.

Her best bet is to take him to court. She will learn the hard way that you can force a horse to the stream, but you can’t force it to drink the water.

This man can't get any stupider. A lawyer for that matter.

The father can do it as well. He brought her to this world. It doesn't mean he won't take care of his little sister.

jesmond3945:
please do it if and only if you can. She is your blood.

Culture at play

Chants are part of making sacrifices. Nothing will happen like always.

A human child is now a what which is exactly why the process is evil itself.

Oyiboman69:
Your interpretation of the process is misleading... They use what they had to get what they need...

The same one that watched while foreigners stole and pillaged its lands

What is the common denominator between the two religions and Fulani herdsmen?

People have sex and marry people in their circle. By this time, those in their circle probably don't come consider it a challenge anymore. You are right on the demeanour turning some men away. It is what it is.

franchasng:
Most often such escapades don't lead to anything good......its good for teenage girls between 18 to 23 for learning practice of how to fvck lol. not good for someone above 25yrs looking to settle down soonest.

It occurs in men and women equally but people take notice of the woman's than a man's.

clericuzzio:
This attitude usually occur in ladies who are full of themselves. They always have that attitude like no man deserves them.
Well dear I have no advice for you cos no one has ever advised me too on my relationship life.
If you want to change you will

Their close circle and people that speak to them won't take it personal.

People normally have sex within their circle. His is this different?

franchasng:
It's holding a lot of your sisters.



The spirit makes them frown at male toasters, some even abuse male toasters, so turn deaf and dumb.


But once a playboy, a time waster comes to them, the spirit will free them and push them to accept him fast.



Such ladies usually fvck within their environment ; course mates, yard neighbor, church member, family friend, etc.

The spirit will never allow them to accept a quality man

Their face is moody but they aren't moody.

Truvel:
I Av Met Girls Like Dat. Even As A Guy, U Will Be Somehow Scared To Approach Dem Because Of D Way They Are. There Face Is Always Moody.

Which is no fault of mine

Akuruoulo:
HAHAHA BUT URZ ISN'T COSTING U ANY ISSUE; RIGHT ?

I know but it doesn't mean they are bad people.

Truvel:
I Av Met Girls Like Dat. Even As A Guy, U Will Be Somehow Scared To Approach Dem Because Of D Way They Are. There Face Is Always Moody.

This isn't true.

Truvel:
It's Really Strange. I Met People Like Dat. There Behaviour Is Really Strange. Dis People Are Always Moody. U Barely See Dem Smile Or In A Good Mood. They Are Always In A Bad Mood. And They Get Angry At Any Slight Thing. They Can Be Very Harsh Or Rude Too. I Don't Like Associating With Such People. And 4rm My Experience These People Are Prone To Relationship Or Marital Issues.

Some neutral faces is angry/frown mode. My baby pictures are the same

Akuruoulo:
What made u to start frowning ur face ?

Lol. I have the same issue.

Akuruoulo:
She needs help , and nt this

Some man!

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People have principles or they don't. There are many people who fall under 'God-fearing' that are non-religious or atheist. It takes a special person to use religion to be a better person, it still goes back to who you are or who choose to be despite religion.

In Nigeria, anything goes

blank:
So, a Tinubu and Ganduje ticket. Can it pass muster?

It doesn't cause any harm if they don't do it. I am certain soldiers actually do a bit more than this in extreme weather and other special circumstances

I like your first sentence. The second one is very problematic. What is more satanic than a country that eats its young?

SanctifiedSista:
no country is without it's scruples, my own is america is getting worse with their satanic laws confusing the children from d onset

You laughed unwanted lewd remarks to your sister. Gotta to be a figure of speech sha.

They are becoming more confident! They will soon topple government

What a good Muslim woman ruling a country?

Tinubu will not win this election

She has definitely been raped and assaulted before.

Lo. Everyone is principled.

It was still around in 2000.

hannysur8:
Indomie generations should not comment abeg, they have nothing to say on this

It is a common saying when the power imbalance leads to domestic abuse

Olunmercy56:
Husband and wife wahala, it's only God that knows what is really happening.