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Iyaqueen: Must you.....AttenTion sEEKer silly

Don't mind him..mtscheww

Oh goodness me! Some souls can speak english sha!!

Watching & listening with my dictionary on the fence!!

Timijo: How To Make Your Marriage Work

iv. Resolve Fights
Never ever leave fights or bitter arguments for the next time. Resolve your arguments and fights then and there. Do not be hesitate to say "SORRY" if it is your mistake. You will see how easy it is to resolve fights and forgive each other and truly forget it. Do not bring up old issues, as it will unnecessarily complicate an already delicate situation. It is better to forgive and forget than fret forever!!

Please, when you do apologise, let it be nice & sincere. Just don't say "sorry"..that doesn't sound like your really sorry. "I'm sorry" is more like it.

Get tips! Tx 4 sharing OP

Huh? Like really?? I'm no fan of Jim Iyke but I think 'Sterra' didn't do this right!!

Why trade words like a market woman? Very tasteless!! So so unprofessional!

I bow my head in shame for you ma!!

And to think your married with kids??

Smh

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...dem no kuku force anybody to buy...

My iPAD and Blackberry Curve serves me right until I start thinking otherwise. And I wouldn't be cajoled or forced into upgrading!

I shall only look, admire and pass!!!

@Topic,

Mehn, this iPAD 4 make brain oo...hmmmm...I like!!

hannydarl: Janet baby, please invite and fly me to your wedding. I don't care about the 10k watch just give me the tour.
Happy Married life. I hope you are treated well by him and his family and I hope you guys stay together till DDYP.

Eeayah! I wish Janet Jackson was a Nairalander!!

Dreams do come true sha, never stop believing...lol

1supremo: Jane is 10 years YOUNGER than Qatari. Jane hasn't fixed the wedding date with Qatari, but she sure knows the date of the divorce, because she knows how long her marriage should last.

This was the original post I quoted Mr & Mrs Selfworth..

It just got modified!

I'm glad, my advice was taken seriously!!

dramenda: WHEN I COME AGAIN,I WANT TO BE SUPER RICH.

Have you written off yourself that you can't be super rich already?? You don't need to "come again" bro, you can be super rich NOW! Mingle with the success and it finds it way to you...

1supremo: Jane is 10 years younger than Qatari.

Did you by any chance read the post? Yes, u actually did. Comprehension a problem? I guessed right!!

Read again, u'll be better off next time!!

@least for a change the radar's shifted from Nigerian girls..

Nigeria in Brazil?? Epic!!

We smart people, Nigerian women I mean!!

Shaking my head in terror!! Nigerian youths and their ways!! Kia! Look at the youths complaining that the article is too long! If it was about Tonto Dike or some sensational article, you'll see them dissecting and analysing.

Someone has taken time to show us what our problems are as a nation and how we need to put ourselves in order yet the so called "leaders of tomorrow" says its too long! Shame on all of you who complained!

Any wonder why people who have ruled since the days of my grand parents are still ruling? They are the ones still making the decisions because they buy and read newsprints and other important articles, sit and discuss news about Nigeria as they break, while the youths would rather read GQ, People's Magazine, True Love and watch all sort of soaps on TV. THERE'S A NEED FOR US AS YOUTHS TO WAKE UP! ITS MORNING ALREADY!!

@Topic,

So so on point!!

pDude: The fraud called Criss Angel did the same thing some years back. No biggie.

Fraud ke? So many South Africans are buying he's Magic Kits for as low as R399.99

You need to see kids doing the cards trick...you'll be amazed!

If I havnt heard about Criss Angel, I prolly would have thought this was a lie too.

But its all MAGIC!! Which he Criss Angel even teaches people!

Infact, I watched a show where he divided one of he's spectator into two and joined him/her back...jeeez! Very scary!

Its MAGIC! Pure Sheer MAGIC!!

eduson55: Governor Peter Obi celebrated with the Ejimofors on the safe delivery of the new triplets when he visited them in the camp. “If you are looking for a child, maybe you will have to come to the camp,” the governor had joked during the visit.

Stop the silly joke and do what you are supposed to do Oga Governor Peter Obi...Nigerians are suffering and you dare joke about our condition?? It is not normal to give birth in such an environment..Your wife didn't come looking for your kids in a relief camp! Did she? Rubbish!!

You people should fix this problems so that Nigerians can return back to their normal lives ojare!! Listen to Nema, listen to other environmentalists and do what's right!!

Congrats Madam on the birth of your kids!!

geeez: Our house was robbed 4 times growing up and one of the times, I was on the only in the house as my family had travelled. The next morning, the cops made us realize that over 16 rounds of live ammunition was expended in the attacks and thank God I'm alive today.

Also growing up, there was a day I walked right under our overhead tank and it came crashing just two steps after.

Still growing up, there was a day I was coming from school and seated on he front seat with my mum's driver (back in the days when seat belts weren't compulsory) and as the car ade a U-turn, the door opened and I was falling out of the car on a busy expressway. I still don't know what kept me in the car that day.

I was also involved in a ghastly accident and I came out the only survivor with no injuries. Not even a scratch.

I also thank God that He gave me the job of my dreams and has been with me all the way, making new things happen in my life and giving me more than I have ever hoped for. A beautiful home and kids, a house, cars and every great thing of life.

I also believe tha every challenge anyone of us is going through here wil be a thing of the past soon and very soon in Jesus name. Amen

E ba mi yin Oluwa logo.

Ogo!!!

Lady Winona: I see all these testimonies and I'm jealous. I'm jealous cos since I got married to my husband, it's been one heartache or the other, violence, deceit etc. Currently, we are separated and he has refused that I see my kids. Some part of me wants to give up hope, but a huge part of me is still believing for a change. I'm in between these 2 phases now but above all, I'm thankful for my life, my job, my family and friends that support me and above all God, whom I know is very much aware of my situation but has allowed it to be cos of reasons that I'm convinced are for my benefit. Thank you God and I'm sorry if ever I doubted u.

I speak Joel 2.25-27 into your life...

When you see testimonies like this, it should be a re-confirmation that God still exist!!

Keep faith alive, keep holding on...

You'll come back here very soon to give your own testimony!!

I know I will be here to celebrate and rejoice with you!

Bless you sis,

Big Hugs!

recruitersltd: I am indeed a living testimony to the goodness and mercies Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ God almighty. I have so many testimonies but let M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ put it as follows:
1. Thank God for delivering from death as I was involved in a motor accident Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ which I was the driver and my three sisters were in the car with M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥. The car was a write off.
2. Thank God for the provision Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ another job one month after I was asked to resign my appointment.
3. The Lord God healed M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ sickle cell disease after 31 yrs Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ pains and agony.
Is the Lord not too much. Somebody shout hallelujah!

Halleluia bro!

*Ileke-IdI:
Buddy, if hell dey, I go meet you there

Ha! O ma se oo!

May God in he's infinite mercies forgive us all in Jesus name!

Amen!

I thank God for everything he's done so far...from July 4th 2011 to this very day! He alone knws and understnds. He's still perfecting it! I'm grateful and thankful for now and the future!!


Thank God for Jesus!!

When you say "choose wives or husband" shebi the two individuals will still meet and date @least for a while? If so Why not, if not? Me I prefer referrals oo..I also feel its easier, knowing that someone already knows his history or family background..

Infact, anytime mom calls with her stories about my friends getting married every saturday, I keep asking how many men she's introduced to me and I refused to marry?

My dad was in the city and was introduced to my mom who was in the village at the time. Pronto! She came to lag, fine woman, dad sent her to school, studied English Unilag and those two people are shinning and inseparable 35 years down the line.

For me, it doesn't matter how I meet who I eventually get married to..

I keep saying it. It takes two consenting, matured individuals to make a relationship(marriage) work. Tolerance, forgiveness, communication amongst other virtues are essential for a great happy marriage..

eseosa77: sunshyn, your are mad,i said you are foolish to have spewed that nonsence about my esteemed OBA OF BENIN.What has he got to do with the issue at hand?.pls mind what u say here so as not to let ur mouth send u to early grave i beg u.

Thank you & God bless you!


Btw, its sunnshyn!

Omo, for this toto matter? See plenty viewers and commentators!


Issokay!!!

joeydozzy: I ask you

Why you con dey vex say I give u correct answer na? Oya no vex again, try google

Hmm...she dey try! she sure knows how to pick her men!!

Abeg born this one, and add Oba of Benin to your list ojare! More grease!!

Orishirishi!!!

joeydozzy: sorry who's Rosario, na she act Things Fall Apart?

Na man be the major lead for Things Fall Apart and Rosario dey always like Major roles... So she act for Blackberry Babes part 2 as the main girl wey do osho free for her frnd boyfriend..She no dey part 1, that's why you no know her. Olodo!

Now, what's with the 'darkishness' just by Genny's underarm? I want to believe its my eyes..and the same shade of lip-colour they are all spotting? Na one make-up them use? Abi na plan them plan am...lol

Still gat massive love for you babe!

CAMEROONPRIDE: +100 for my gurl chinaza..@op u should follow what she said...myn44 how old r u if i may ask? No offence r u gay?

You better leave Mynd and he's cohorts! You cnt break them! they are cabals!! stronger than the ones we have in Aso Rock I tell you... You touch one, you touch all...


Smh!

OP, why don't you start with your mum na, afterall she's a married woman, what does it matter if she's married to your dad? Shebi hole na hole? And again you'll earn very high points!!

Goodluck (with the Jonathan) to you...




Anuofia!!

donguutti: Divorce should always be the last option.

Abi o...not the very first thing! Tx donguutti

Mynd_44: And what if it was the woman who was cheating and cheating a lot, would your response be different? You too try
the truth is that she has her mind made up to stay with the cheat and she only came here looking for someone to join her in that thought. Read though all her comments and you will see a woman scared of being alone

If you noticed right from the onset, the OP didn't ask we thought. She just wrote what she was going through and what she intends to do...

Yes! It hasn't crossed her mind to divorce her cheating husband yet and I commend her for that. The truth is, No man or woman wants to be alone in this cold wicked world. That's some of the reasons people get married, abi isn't it?

If it was the woman cheating and the man comes to post, the same advice iv given so far is still the same thing I'll tell the man...


Couples these days really need to start giving their marriages a chance! Common! Not at the very slightest provocations they start thinking of opting out...


The one and only reason I would hv hinted divorce is if she had stated her man was HITTING her. That's it!!


And again, we should all respect each other privacy! Stop snooping...what you don't know would definitely not kill you.

I rest my case!!