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ajokealako: Thank you. I guess I might eventually talk to someone who can talk with him.

Please do! And be quick about it...

Its obvious you wouldn't get good counsel here, please go solve your problems elsewhere..

Jeez! I fear some men here! A woman still thinks she can fight for her marriage and she's labelled "desperate to be married"?

Una try!!

claremont: I honestly don't see any problem with your marriage. Your husband is MARRIED to you, and you have agreed that he is taking good care of you and your kids financially. Yes, he may be getting some s-ex on the side, but most men in stable relationships do indulge in this from time to time. It does not mean that he doesn't care about you and the kids, he is just trying to express his s-exual fantasies with a bunch of slags. . .

This is a man speaking...I totally agree with you!!

Mynd_44: ^^
How can you even say/type that and be proud you did?

No Mynd, its you who should be ashamed for typing or saying what you did.

I really wonder how you and Mrbrown concluded that the OP is desperate to be married!..like really?

From her post I could tell this was just an avenue for her to maybe vent and say what's on her mind.

I can smell you guys hitting on the poster to get a divorce! Whatever for? She hasn't said her husband maltreats her except that he cheats which we know majority of men single/married do..

Please cut this woman some slacks, and keep your silly divorce insinuations to yourselves!!

Hypocrites!!

Mrs Ajokealako,

Ako yin po! Lol...

E wo, you need to speak with him about this. Communication is key. Let him know that you know about he's philandering ways! Listen to him, hear him out.. From what you've said so far, you've both been married for quite sometime and I also noted you said he treats you well.

Don't throw your beautiful marriage down the drains, e wo, flirting with that old buddy wouldn't do you any good in the long run, it will only further ruin the wonderful marriage you have both taken years to build.

Seek Godly counsel, so you do what is right.

Don't be deceived Aunty mi, there's no perfect marriage anywhere, don't consider Divorce o, it shouldn't be anywhere on your mind, you are both christians, and as christians we weren't promised a life without battles, this is your own battle, and triumph is all that counts at the end of the day!

As for Brother mi, just speak with him, shey e gbo? It may even have been peer pressure or one of those things men do for ego-sake. Just talk to him, I'm sure he's also a good man, he'll listen if only you'll handle this issue with great patience and maturity. Even if you have to fight, fight with love, remember all the fond memories you both have, remember the lovely kids..

Never stop praying, we need to keep praying for our men, their heart is in God's hand shebi the bible said so...

It is well ma, e ni suru, shey e gbo!


Do away with that old buddy o...God wouldn't like that ra ra....shebi one person said: an eye for an eye will only end up making the whole world blind...don't pay evil for evil..

God bless you ma!!

gwas: @Sunnshyn,
She's talking about girls who have nothing to give out but expect millions from guys!

Eh ehn? Oh ok...

How about guys that's like to sleep with girls and not give anything in return? Did she mention that too?

Wait o, let me see.

Intending to marrying i.e all plans have been made: introduction, buying and preparing for the marriage /wedding?

Or

Intending to marry as in: he's put a ring on my finger, though I havnt met he's parents and he hasn't met mine. We need to live together so we know if things can work between us?

Or yet again

Intending to marry as in: no ring yet, but we will get married. Move in with me baby, let's see if it'll work out...


Truth is: in most cases especially in the western worlds the intendeds end up been "partners".

Its only logical to start getting used to living together, and start doing what married people do: fight, regular sex, make up, that they both get used to it and don't think the ceremony itself is necessary anymore...


For me, I wouldn't even want long courtship, 6months max, do our background checks, and God blesses the union..

Living together before marriage gini? Mba! I'll visit from time to time, Yes! That's it...

Isaac and Rebecca comes to mind..

Babasuwe and he's magical tactics! Its either him disappearing or something from him.. .

Sam Milla: Well, The The Monthly etisalat data bundle i bought today jumped down from 260MB to 2mb.

My Nokia E71 also turned to TECNO T20.
Tell us yours.

You forgot to add that you also started stammering..

Abi what's with your: The The monthly....



Hater!

Chukwu nna! I really wanted to read this..way too long please.

Somebody kindly help with a summary!

Thanks!

MR AJETUNMOBI: Lolaabokoku u re a animal n u don't av brain @ all for wat u said earlier nonsense a responsible person will not talk d way u just open ur foolish mouth to talk like,wa ba oko ku noni muctheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew.

Chineke!! The babe don chop your money before ni? Why the harshness na bros??

Btw, she's not 'a' animal ojare! Haba!!

naturalwaves: Bye dear.

Thanks sweetypie

naturalwaves: Nobody is judging her. Critical observations were only made concerning those sh.its she called music.



What has this question got to do with the context of what we are saying? I never said she is a Nobody, so, why ask who I am? Pls, ask a more sensible quesion next time.



She doesn't try to impress anyone and she went on to release songs to the public? I think you've been watching too much of Tonto Dikeh's movies such that you've been skipping Logic Classes. Why don't she just record something on a CD and play it to herself in her house since she is not trying to impress? Even if I do not have it on my phone, I might come across it on Radio which could spoil the remainder of my day anytime. It is better she impresses herself in the right way.



I am very very sure you are yet to even listen to any of the tracks. Come back here and share your view after you must have listened.

Oga Naturalwaves abi na sportingwaves,

Leave me alone!

I wasn't speaking to you initially, I was addressing Charles who knows nothing other than judging artistes, and sincerely, I wouldn't bother replying you again.

Sorry eh, no vex!







NEXT!!!

abdfaithy: Are u sure u aren't talking from Hell? Imagine som1 asking where is Terry da Rapman...I dey laugh o" u get Tonto for head"

No, I'm speaking from your bedroom, ode!!

You still didn't answer the question.

Btw, the last time I checked I was referring to Charles Rovia or whatever he's name is..

So leave me alone!

naturalwaves: This is exactly what Charles Novia was talking about when he said those who surround Tonto are her worst enemies. Did U just say SHE KNEW SHE COULD NOT SING AND INTENTIONALLY SANG TRASH? Why would someone sing trash intentionally.She would have made a whole lot of effort to make the song a success but unfortunately, you cannot give what you do not have. This ur love for Tonto has blocked ur reasoning faculty.Re-read what you posted to yourself and you will see that, just as Tonto sang trash, you wrote trash. Birds of a feather!

Give me reasons why I should bother with people like you?

Tonto did what she feels like doing and you and your cohorts dare judge her?

Who are you by the way?

She doesn't try to impress anyone and that's what burns you and your kind.

No, you should go re-read the junk you wrote and come back to me...


Ewu!!

Enough said already..!

Life's tough, please don't make it any tougher on yourselves & kids in the future!

Wisdom is Profitable to direct...

Don't be blinded by love..

Do what's right...

Be happy!

In the end.....






its your life anyways!!

joeydozzy: by doing what couples do, 4 times a week, 2hrs a day, especially at night

...and that is?

Only a silly person wouldn't know Tonto Dike's doing all this for fame...
Ofcourse she knows she can hardly sing...she intentionally went to do this cos she knws she'll get such attention...I like her, in that, she does as she pleases without raising an eye brow...nothing beats being true to who you are..

Charles Rovia, or whatever your name is, I'm sure your preparing for Tonto's come-back, cos she'll so so burn you.
BTW, who's Zubby Enebeli? And where's Terry Tha Rapman today??

Mind your business sir!!

wissezy: Op wetin you dey yarn? I no understand you oo? Can yu kowashiate am small?

I laughed so hard at the 'kowashaite' am small..

Sagamite: I am pissed!

I am fcking pissed Baba God put me on the same planet with people so dumb as this.

Judgement Day will be a rowdy session when it comes to my turn on the queue.

The Angels better have enough muscles to restrain me.

People destroy mooorons lives and the same mooorons look for a way to honour and celebrate them.

Baboon citizens of a Banana Republic.

This same cretins if they have any serious health problems WILL DIE because of our leaders that have looted us. Yet the cretins pray for the looters that have gone abroad to get the best healthcare responsible leaders have provided for sane people.

Recently, Jonathan just intervened on behalf of Dan Etete for Shell and co to pay him ONE BILLION DOLLARS for Etete's oil block.

Instead of the President to question how did a former Oil Minister get an oil block worth $1Bn.

http://nigeriaworld.com/feature/publication/babsajayi/052712.html

That is what the leaders you are celebrating are doing, while the fucktards are suffering and smiling.

Baboon citizens!

I get your point Oga Sagamite,

The people who you are fighting don't live here on Nairaland. Why don't you go pay them a visit in their residential apartments, its not rocket science to know they've always lived in Aso Rock...abeg quit this ranting and saliva-pouring and do the right thing sir, or you'll only end up with very High Blood Pressure amongst other illnesses.

prince FAD: sunnshyn:

Its a figurative expression sweetheart...I'm sure u know that already!

both of u re now the new comedians of nairaland

Lol, you'll need to start paying to keep enjoying the comedy

joeydozzy: it was a rhetoric question, honey. I'm sure you knew that already

It wasn't rhetorical darling, cos you quoted me...

Sagamite: Fucktards!

Products of a failed education system.

Baboon citizens of a Banana Republic.

Dear Oga Sagamite,

You come across as a very learned and intellectual person, @least judging from some of your posts here on this forum, so when you exhibit this kind of attitude just like the one above, insulting everyone who doesn't agree with you only sends one some kind of message about your personality.

I truly hope its just a cyber space thing, and that's not how you truly are in reality, because if this is how you are, then you are the kind of man/husband-to-be we are discussing in the other thread!


I'm sorry OP..offtopic! Just cldnt help it...

Its truly sad to note that there are men like this. One begin to question their upbringing and mental state.

Just like Nggold's cousin, my ex was 1,2,3,4 rolled into one. Jeez! That man scared the sh!t out of me. I can begin to state countless things the guy did, but I'm thankful its all in d past. How a human begin can be like that beats me...

Women, should try and stay away from men like that, they are unchanging, they unleash your negative side, cos when in a relationship with such people, you are forever fighting. Your silence will be interpreted for planning a come-back, you wanting to make peace will be misinterpreted for something devilish and so on, and worst still they send ur self-confidence to hell...I"v seen it all with men like that...



P.s: Most Sagittarian men are like that....speaking from experience. My ex, my male frnd and my present boss(ex-Nov 27, Boss Nov 29, my frnd Dec 3rd)

joeydozzy: and you're still typing?

Its a figurative expression sweetheart...I'm sure u know that already!

For me its Aki n Pawpaw anytime any day! Lord! Especially that Pawpaw, he kills me!

Good thread..

Not married yet, but I'm sure looking forward to it....so I'm subscribing

all4naija: What are the evidences to back your statement?

There is also this belief that tall guys have huge boners! That is a lie because mine is just a little above average!

Oh yea?? Hmmm....

Bunchers stab: Her husband is. Weakling...
His he nt entitled 2 marry more wife?
No can do this 2 me

English language will deal mightily with you even before your wife! Olodo

I'm I the only person who thinks most guys by the name: Steven, Stephen, Steve, Stev are cheats?





Just kidding...




Its true sha...sometimes!! Lol

Shinor: I am sad that this device though needed mostly in Africa particularly Nigeria, was not designed and manufactured by a Nigerian or indeed an African company. It points to the lazy attitude that has continued to plague Africa. Always seeking answers to internal problems from outside. NOKIA noticed we never have electricity so they designed this phone for us.
They noticed we always carry 2 0r 3 phones so they manufactured dual sim for us.
Another phone company manufactured a phone that also had torch light for us as we never have light.
Samsung just manufactured a fridge that will function better with our epileptic power supply
All these were done by foreign companies for a problem that is predominantly a unique to us.
When are we going to wake up Nigeria?
When will Nigerians start seeing opportunities instead of complaints?

Oh hear him! You are also a Nigerian, what are you waiting for to lead a team for new innovations that would better the lives of Nigerians? You come on a forum designed by a man like you (Seun) to spew nonsense!

You'll continue to be sad, cos that change you so seek should begin with YOU!! Nigerians are tired of cheap talks...

@Topic,

Thank you ojare Nokia, now I can speak with my fam without anyone complaining that their battery would be flat soon...

Please do get well soon Keeper Rufai

fluid26: Are you saying I'm wrong?

No, not saying u wrong. I'm aware of the very many type of women that abound...so I'm saying you need to be careful with your choice of women...