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maxjax: So many ladies viewin...but not commenting ....

adewasco2k: so you guys expect NL girls to come out and talk then you tag the person as being #cheap #single #slut etc?

>>>> RED LIGHT

chemystery: The ladies are not helping matters on this forum. So you ladies viewing this thread and leaving wanna tell me you haven't for once tried to attract a guy's attention via several body languages? See how able-bodied men buy ticket finish con sitdown for this thread deh wait whilst una just deh come deh comot. Abi una go form for real life also con deh form online too? Na wa o! Oya guys who has gotten one or two experiences please share with everyone. The ladies will always want us to take our positions and theirs at same time. But when we go contrary, that's when you see them coming from left right and centre to bash you. Guys let's help ourselves while we wait for a lady with the first meaningful contribution.

1one: See it's a simple thing... If a girl shows green light and the guy doesn't still woo her it just means the guy is not into her.. A normal guy can sense green light from Oshodi even if the girl is flashing it in CMS..Guys are not as dumb and clueless as ladies would like to think... If you flash green light and he doesn't take it as a cue then he's not interested in you.. SIMPLE. As someone rightly said A guy would reject as many ladies he's not attracted to just the same way a girl would... No difference. There's this subtle expectation that once a girl woos a guy or does something close to that being that it's against convention; then the guy "MUST" also accept the offer.. BIG LIE ooo.. As hard and as disadvantaged as my face is if a girl I'm not attracted to physically, intellectually and spiritually woos me. .. She's on her own o.. I go just jejely and respectfully decline.

korel9: To clear the air first, "Omugo" is a 'local' Nigerian tradition where the mother of either the husband or the wife comes over after child birth to take care of both the woman and the baby for a little period of time.

Now to the matter,
A man who happens to be the only child of his parents got married to the woman of his dreams (an only child too).
Both parents are eager to carry their first grand child.
The couple lives in a single room with little or no space to harbour only ONE guest.
The wife just put to bed and both mothers are eager to come for the "omugo".
The question is who comes first and why?
Is it the mother of the husband who will focus more on the child than the wife or the mother of the wife who will be interested in both?
Don't forget that the family of the husband claims ownership of the child in most cultures and the mother of the husband is so desperate to carry her first grandchild.

Unionised: You want to make a mountain out of a mole hill, abi?

Common sense requires that the woman's mother show up immediately to take charge.

In the event that she is unable to, for whatever reason, then the baton naturally falls to the man's mum.

It's not a competition...

CoolHunk: What is funny about a patient dying?

damekings: Now I knw stupidty runz tru ur blood...

damekings: Dat not d kinda answer I was xpecting to hear frm a matured girle like you..u don fall my hand

damekings: Take it easy girl, I only asked a question

Neldrizzy: what do you Nigerians actually want?? They sing love song, you complain, they sing party song, you also complain dat they r copying, they dance, you complain, is either yu pple complain of 2much repeatation of lyrics or you complain of copying of beat..... Oga see ehn, this ejeajo song is 1st of its kind in Nigeria! The pattern is different and unique And they deserve applause for the effort, give them their credit pls or are you a hatter or sadist??

yuzjet: Hmmmmm! Ur opnions ni yen ☺º°˚˚°ºo

As long as it is Psquare, there's always something unique about their music. And, I'll still choose them over some other lacklustres Nigerian music.

They only want to let American know. And now, America don know! Shikena...

Edited...... I bet some people are suffering from a phobia dat hasn't been discovered yet. How could u condemned dis one unique video from one of the unique African Artists

Just watched the video and it was a uniqueness @its best from the duo. A video dat both Jude Engees Okoye and Clarence Peters directed together.

@OP, tell us what's wrong with u?

RedEboe: Till date I have been unable to watch Psquare's Ejeajo music video from begining to end for no other reason than the fact that i find that video/song utterly disgraceful.

Most devoted/diehard Psquare fans feel the same way too, but many will not say a word; some keep on replaying Ejeajo, hoping the song will eventually grow on them...its not happening.

Psquare has released its first major flop and the inclusion of American rapper T.I will not save them this time around.

The Ejeajo song sounded below average, ordinary, nothing catchy, no rhythm and to sum it all up, totally tasteless. It seems as though the sole purpose of this song was just to feature T.I and break into the American market.

I can bet my very last kobo that any American (Black) who's opportuned to watch Ejeajo video will laugh off his seat saying, "Who are these African booty scratchers trying too hard to sound like us and dance better than Usher?"
I felt the same way watching Peter Okoye putting in so much "gra gra" into his dance moves.

But on a serious note, about Nigerian artistes wanting to break into the American market; do these Nigerian artistes think that the Jay Zs, P Diddys and Dr Dre's will sit back and watch Nigerian music break into US Hip hop market? Especially in an America where music and sports are the few things black Americans can really hold on to. So they (Black American artistes) will allow some black African musician to come in and steal their domestic market share?

Nigerian music is already big in many African countries like Kenya,Zambia,Ghana and even South Africa. Do we think indigenous artistes and music promoters in these African countries are happy with Nigerians dominating their respective music scenes?

Why will Black Americans not stay proactive and stop Nigerian music from gaining foothold in their market?

Now here's the truth,someone should tell Psquare that its time to go back to the drawing board and re-invent themselves. I don't know the duo's football age but i'm guessing they are in their mid thirties. When dancing musicians start growing older or maturing, they concentrate more on the quality of their music, where more matured dance steps are incorporated. 'Matured dance steps' here simply means slow but sleeker dance moves, just like USHER in GOOD KISSER. And definitely not the 'gra gra' Peter Okoye was showcasing in Ejeajo, epecially to a lousy song.

I think it's time the Okoye twins take a break from music for some time; perhaps they can go concentrate on their respective marriages or try to mentor younger musicians with the ability to sing and dance.

After a few years, Psquare can return with a new style and sound.

For now,Psquare has lost it and i hope their closest fans and admirers tell them this truth before it's too late.

Remember Dbanj?

aljharem: APC Propaganda again

would you have said this if he supported ur APC Buhari. A 71 years old man that wants to be president only in Nigeria

abacus: Inasmuch as I respect and love the 2 men, I will never pass any blame on Baba Fela but we are all human being, social critics have their faults too. *lip-sealed* RIP Abami-Eda, Eleniyan, Eleda, Chief Priest, Ogostine Baba 70.. Name too plenty

For Buhari is high-handedness. Some times leaders use this to promote decorum, that's what GEJ don't have and makes him Jona-daft aka Clueless. The good man GMB is now a civilian, Baba has change.

On behalf Buhari, no vex Seun. Maa bi nu.. Yoruba will say "Agba lon da yi.." @Seun, in soon time, you will agree with some actions Buhari took those days.

God bless Nigeria.

jking001: If Buhari Daft swine is a good man you need not defend him,human rights means nothing to that man,imagine loosig an election clearly and crying like you won the election,the sane thing to do would have been to congratulate the winner and tell your followers to respect the office of the president of the federal republic of nigeria because you aspire to that same office and if you get there you would need the respect of other ethnic groups but instead he shed crocodile tears to unleash his followers on innocent youth corpse members who were murdered in adamawa and some other NE states,Buhari Daft Swine knows nothing about democracy and he's no democrat.

lakpalakpa: What did Seun Kuti call Jonathan??

damekings: Are u les?

aflyingbird: video quality & background setting are fantastic! but d song itself is empty. I like d two of them very much, so just disappointed dis is what they came up with when they're capable of doing better.

oyeakd: After the huge success of his debut album, Pent Hauze Records’ poster boy, A.K.A Man of the year, Phyno has just released the video to one of the tracks from the fully loaded album "No Guts No Glory".

‘Authe’ is a typical Afrobeat tune in which he featured King of modern highlife music, Flavour N'Abania. In keeping up with the quality he’s come to be known for, Phyno gets the renowned Clarence Peters as director for the video.

A series of high quality pictures flayed with beautiful, model-bodied girls swaying to the tune of the song, the Clarence Peters directed montage only depicts the message Phyno passes across in his lyrics.

It is also worth mentioning the video has a brief cameo appearance from Vast of Bracket.

Download VIDEO and mp3 here - http://www.360nobs.com/2014/09/video-phyno-authe-authentic-ft-flavour/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5bgGDg6qq4

Source - http://www.360nobs.com/2014/09/video-phyno-authe-authentic-ft-flavour/

RuudNisterooy: I think the latter part of your post happens to be the case.

I know that guy well, and he's one of those few i respect on here. He has a way with words, and most of his post resonates deeply with the kinda outlook I've 'bout life.

A guy who's been wooed by ladies before(not once, not twice) will not have that kinda feeling you talked 'bout in the former part of your post. So I believe it's strongly the latter. And @ such the OP is un4tunate sort of.

I believe she'll strike gold soonest tho, since all she wants is just 2 b happy! #4giveMyLongPost

nickz: OP you must be a comedian!!

3cycle: As a lady, sometimes I come across great post by a guy and I fall in love immediately. Most times I try to ignore the poster but I do Remember The username so I summon the courage to follow him and see if I can strike an online conversation before I send a pm but I never succeed.

Just yesterday a young tall guy on Nairaland from Enugu state gave me an all time blow when it was obvious I was trying to woo him, he started with iyanga and walah he ignored me completelyonly for somebody to call me names for making my intention known.
To make matters worst his response was "I don hang boot since last year"
Who says that to a lady bikonu

Do we really have gentlemen on Nairaland?
Can a guy reply pm's of a girl with an open mind?
What are the chances of starting an e romance if a lady were to be the innitiator?
Seun is it possible for us to chat with a nairalander without a third party involved?

teeo:

Nihilist: [size=18pt]DO YOU PEOPLE REALISE THAT SOME OF US ARE AT WORK? WITH THE WAY YOU LOT ARE POSTING HALFNAKED CHICKS LEFT,RIGHT, AND CENTER

PLEASE PUT A GADDEM NSFW TAG ON THE THREAD BEFORE I GET DONE FOR WATCHING P0RN0GRAPHY AT WORK!!![/size]

2legit2qwt: I think you're getting them mixed up.

Ishilove: That's gluttony.

Fat, slim, what really matters is health. It is good to have a good body image, but if your weight poses health risks, then for goodness sakes change your diet and lifestyle.

That being said, I came out of the womb chubby. It was really tough growing up in a neighbourhood full of skinny kids. The funnny thing is the taunts by kids and adults alike only helped to toughen me rather than break my confidence. Now, as an adult, woes betide anyone who makes fun of my size. When I'm done chewing their head, I usually leave them shaken and sober.

No time for iranu

safarigirl: this thread is nonsense. As far as I know, unless you look like Eniola Badmus or you don't know how to package yourself well, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong in being fat in NIGERIA.

This country WORSHIPS fat people. More people think Toolz is sexy in Nigeria than they do Eku Edewor. It's the skinny Naija girls that are agonised. It's the skinny naija girls that can't find their cloth size and have to slim fit everything. This article is a lie

teeo:
No mind those anti better things. Growing up anorexia was a common thing on TV, you see teenagers wanting to be size zeros, Biko for what na. When you can have a babe beautiful in all places, beautiful for all situations fa.
Front some no get, back mbanu and they say they are beautiful.
No way those ones are beautiless

better pikin you're joor

teeo:
Clearly differentiate between a fat and a chubby Lady, nonsense

I hate when slim things try so hard to make it seem like been fleshy is not fashionable, forcing young girls to become anorexic.

We are all made in different ways, my advice to chubby ladies, eat good hygienic meals and do some exercise to keep fit. Have some self esteem and confidence. Believe in who you are and don't look down on yourself.

You're beautiful the way you are.

God forbid I date a toothpick. Chubby babes Na them sure pass.

BananaBender: Are you lot crazy??!!






This is one of the few times where she actually looks good. And that lace outfit is gorgeous.

oyeakd: The video for EJEAJO music video featuring Rapper, T.I., filmed by Clarence Peters and directed by Jude Okoye finally drops

DOWNLOAD HERE - http://www.360nobs.com/2014/08/video-p-square-ft-t-i-ejeajo/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CxoJ7rkiktQ