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Techengine:
My friend Bnimz has always wanted me to leave Nigeria/Africa since he was in the UK but I didn’t take him seriously until sometimes in August 2017 when he told me that he’s now a permanent residence in Aussie. My brain opened immediately. He gave me options of studies, Canada and Australia and because I was desperate to leave, I started working on all the options.
My first Ielts (LRSW 8,8,7.5,6.5) was in September 2017. I did Academis because I thought I could use it for the three options but the result could only work for school. I got engaged the same month and dropped the idea of school because I was not ready to leave my babe behind.
I worked on my CDR and paid for Engineer Australia Assessment (Fast Track) with materials and guidance from Bnimz and my babe as proofreader in November 2017. I did my best on the CDR and was expecting a direct positive assessment. Also with counsel from Bnimz, I paid for PTE and was preparing. I got late to the exam hall for my first PTE and was not allowed to take the test. 52k wasted. I almost wet my trouser with wee wee. I gathered another 52k and paid for another PTE the following week. The result was terrible. The same week I got the result, I was contacted by my CO from EA and he requested for two additional CDRs. I literarily gave up at that time. Nothing seems to be working.
I gathered courage again in January and decided to prepare for IELTS because it appeared simpler to me. I wrote 2 more CDRs and submitted (not expecting anything good). I got positive assessment from EA on lovers day 14th February 2018. It rekindled my hope again in Australia but I was more focused on Canada.
My second IELTS was in April 2018 (this one pain me enhh). I had LRSW 8.5, 8.5, 8, 6.5. I almost ran mad. I was never good at English, especially writing but I thought I prepared well. I was sure my marked would increase so I sharply requested for remark (na IDP so it cost 45k). Painfully dem chop my 45k laidat. I cried liked David of the bible and encouraged myself in the Lord. I registered for another IELTS immediately and got May 12.
I need a new paragraph for this story… I didn’t mention all along that I’m working in Ghana and have to travel to Nigeria by road (as I no get money for flight nko) to take all of those exams. IDP did not fix date for my speaking until less that 24 hours before the test and I was in Ghana. I had to beg my boss and colleague to cover for me and travel that very night (night bus). I got to Ikeja around 11am or so and was given just 10 minutes to rest before going in for my test. I sha did the speaking test with a very tired voice and forced smile. Shebi it remain LRW laidat. It was May 12 and it was a bad day devil drink water (Yoruba people will understand). I got to the exam hall as early as 7am and the exam didn’t start till about 10:30am. Meanwhile I spent most of the time standing on queue. I was already tired when I entered the exam hall. We couldn’t start with listening because their speaker no dey work properly. They sha forced us to start with reading after which we did writing because the speaker was not ready. About 12pm when we wanted to do listening finally, rain started falling so we had to wait for rain to stop. No food lataaro, everyone was tired and agitated. In fact a pregnant woman passed out while we were waiting and was rushed to the hospital. We sha later did the rubbish listening like that and I was sure I wont get up to 8 because the speaker still didn’t work properly. I cried at Ojota bus stop that night because I thought I’ve wasted another 68k. But the miracle working God I served stepped in and helped me. I had LRSW 7.5, 9, 8.5, 7. Ni 10 point ba pe.
I didn’t know much about 489 so I begged for help on nairaland and god sent an angel, IFUNNAYA. She introduced me to this wonderful group. Spongbob was beyond helpful. He gave me all the things I needed to apply and encouraged me all the way. I applied on 11th of June. I quickly organized a small registry wedding with my babe on 5th of July and was nominated on 23rd of July. Lodged visa on 15th august and medicals 20th August. With prayers and a lot of prayers, We got direct grant yesterday 7th August 2018 and IED is 20th August 2019.
I hope my story will help/inspire someone. PLEASE DON’T GIVE UP. If I could do it, YOU, yes you too can do it

Inspiring

mannimakerjnr:
Congratulations!!!!!

Inspiring.

IamD18:
Chioma just dey use this boy dey do ponzi scheme.

He loves her really.Its his human right to choose whom to love regardless.Allow them

ednut1:
When a woman says i dont need a man, i dont need kids. Just know she dey lie

Biko I need a good and and wonderful kid.I can't deny.I can't wait to have a child

TOPCRUISE:
Dis one weak me

Heat too much

JasonScoolari:
If only Amarachi can give us her own side of the story....

Before you say "I do" quickly run a background check on your spouse, don't just "assume" everything will be fine as the marriage progress.

I believe the late Amarachi will be regretting wherever she's.

The family of the late Amarachi should not just lay curse, proper investigation should be carried out.

This is not ordinary.

Exactly

Wiziman:
That's what you get when you leave your boyfriend and marry another guy. Compatibility is lacking; go and fix-up your life.

She needs advise on the matter she is facing right now.

IamD18:
Who's the bitch? Someone's wife?

Are you MAD? What right has he to even send her on an errand in the first place? Is he her boss at work, husband, father or elder brother?

Are you FOOLISH? Why will he even visit and stay with her when the husband isn't around? I'm asking you!

Are you that DUMB? Don't you know what it means to set boundaries and mode in which you should relate to a married friend?

According to OP, she politely suggested another alternative but he turned it down, proving he had something in mind.

And here you are, typing about bitches!

Should I blame your father for this statement you made on someone's wife or should I blame your dusty brain?

It's so pitiful and shocking that after all the promises you made to your parents to be responsible, reasonable and sensible, you ended up as a shallow minded BOY who is ready to suck the scrotum balls of his friends than to protect his wife in cases like this.

C'mon! Will you take your pathetic self out of here!

Nonsense and turninoninown!

Exactly.I can see someone that thinks far like me.This is how devil plots cheating.Small time now,the hubby will claim she is becoming too close to his friend.

IamD18:
If this story is true.

Then,I'm sorry, you married a man who cannot respect and protect you before his friends.

A man who's not worthy to be called a good husband or father.

You did nothing wrong, but my advice is; If the happiness and unity of your home is so important to you, do as he has insisted by apologising to his friend.

After doing that, make sure you avoid and stay clear from that his friend. He's not happy with your family and can do anything possible to get rid of you by breaking your home. A loyal friend will be sensible enough to know that it's somehow disrespectful to send his friend's wife on such an errand.

Be careful!

So true.The truth is the man couldn't reason well.What if his friend wanted to plant an incriminating evidence in his house.What if he wanted to do something bad.People need to think.To me,op your husband is done emotionally with you.He has been looking for something to hold on to.You are on your own at this point.

LibertyRep:
Where was the husband when the whole drama was unfolding? Why would he even invite his mistress to his matrimonial home in the first instance? Could it be a planned blackmail and extortion scheme?

While not supporting the self help the woman resulted to especially the extortion aspect, I'll have like the judge to consider the emotional distress of a woman who came in to find another woman in her matrimonial home. If na man enter him house con find another man on top him bed, we know say one man go go down

Lesson to partners of adulterous spouses: Your spouse is your headache and not his/her partner in crime. Direct your grievances to the appropriate quarters

I don't agree.No body is your headache.This is why people kill their spouses thereby committing a crime.

Bruno531:
Failed nation. If you ever get opportunity to leave naija, no ever dream of coming back.

I believe you.Those girls went in through a helper and are obligated to repay back.Am not going to Australia through a helper.

I sold sharwarma too.God said he will bless the works of our hand.

midnighter:
he is trying to leave her with her conscience.. silent treatment

I heard a case quite similar to this. But the lady referred him to the authorities and they had to go to court

People should try to follow procedure though the revelation is painful. Cause at times, taking the law into your own hands backfires, especially where there were children involved

He could have gotten away with this if they didnt have children and he just disappeared to Australia

the kind of men that have the heart to do this are too cool and calculated. imagine waiting how many months, collecting evidence and not saying a word..

she should have known him.. i guess such guys can kill

Am speechless.I don't support cheating.If am with you, just believe that am so in.The woman if truly she was cheating didn't do well.But for the Man to take laws into his hand,it's a no no to me.

Forreellinc:
as she fine reach na animal she go marry

Exactly.God help us

You welcome

decatalyst:
Awwww..thank you dear.

You funny.My reply is now put as an image? Thank you for agreeing with me

jezuzboi:
Let me reply you with this comment on this thread. It should serve.

Email your building plans to me.Am ready.

Modarun:
come and build castles witb me dear.

Exactly.A GLASS OF WATER MELON JUICE MIXED WITH CARROT AND COCONUT FRUIT is all i have to offer you.I like your person.

decatalyst:
Look beyond the physical shortcomings.

Equip yourself...read a lot, when you talk it would be filled with substance and people would be amazed and respect you.

Lastly, surround yourself with people of substance and like minds.

Peace.

Kendumazy:
Chai! See his dry cheeks. Not different from that of the corpse he exhumed.

There is no peace for the wicked.

Built2last:
Nigerians are evil

Since this guy tried his luck at the BBnaija show and didn't succeed, he has gone solo to make ends meet and avoid the unnecessary pressure our yeyebrities face in the name of showbiz.

Still, we have called him out to ridicule him. If he does Uber and so what?

Would you rather he joins the pant gang?

True.The most important thing is that he is doing something legal that will not tarnish the image of his family.His children will be proud.

Davash222:
TTT is not above to be Uber driver!! Nothing special here.

Na for this same Lagos I saw my Neighbour selling Omo Osun herbal cleanser for oshodi but he claimed to be a medical doctor.

But he is a medical doctor.If you don't believe it,it's okay.

XhosaNostra:
Because they're simpletons who don't take time to study the character of a person before jumping to stupid conclusions.

Take it easy on some guys tho

ThothHermes:
Why are the men looking younger than the women these days

Because some women can't leave makeup alone.It makes one get older quickly

I quite agree with you op.Most of these ladies feel it's an entitlement.If you were dating him while he was poor, work on yourself as he works on himself too.You are supposed to partner with him to build castles.What if he didn't make it or something happened to him, won't be able to to survive still? Build castles together and stop looking for someone to drain.The blessings of God for a man is the same for a woman.He said he will bless the works of our hands.Women should learn how to grab the bag too!

mosho2good:
Plz can someone recommended a phone that has 3Gb ram and 32Gb rom to buy within the range of 30k to 40k

Go for Royale X2.A product of fero.

Stay away from married people.Respect yourself.

Realtord43:
No pregnacy till now

Allow them nah! Nigerians and their Wahala.

Chimaokigwe:
There are fingerprints on that body
There is semen on the body.
There are DNA deposits in the areas of pressure where the rapist struggled with the victim.

Those fingerprints in the body registered for BVN
The BVN have accounts that can be traced.
The fingerprints on the body can be traced to the BVN.

With less than 400k, those fingerprints can be picked and run against the CBN database for BVN holders.
The names, addresses and details would pop up.

Obtain semen samples from the most prominent male names which showed up in the BVN database and match it with the semen found on the corpse.

No need to start to look for the owner of the DNA. Use his BVN to remove like 5k from his account and send him like 4 alerts. He would come running to the bank and they would arrest him there. Bait him to come to you.

Solving crime is not rocket science, we are just cursed with unseriousness in this country. The country is being run like Nairaland. No improvement, no innovation. Abject stagnation.

You made a valid point.

IamD18:
I find it difficult to believe this kind of news.


Like, a lady you proposed and got married to, made vows to take proper care of her, spent romantic time with and made love together.


Next thing, you'll kill her.


Nawao!! This is just shocking.

Forget it.Many people just receive this vows.It is not coming from their heart.That's why singles should widely open their eyes and pray to God for guidance.

People need to learn how to quietly delete themselves from trouble.I do that and it keeps me safer.

I was thinking of what and where to invest my money.This might be considered.I have practical experience on business.But I believe leaving the country for now should be a better and profitable risk.

Olalan:
Thou what happens in most of the immigration offices is abnormal it is wise to go to a state with less population, thou you might pay 30k but you are likely to get your passport in a day.

I paid 36k totally for mine.