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While I feel that this is a non issue, I understand her point. At least, I think she means the pastors should say, you may now kiss each other. Aterall, they’re both doing the kissing.

Don’t Let the guy into your home when you’re alone. There are friends that have raped their friend’s wife and threatened to turn the tables on her. Apologize to him in your husbands presence. This his so called friend is insecure and toatall jealous of your your husband.

Anyone who survives being bullied and mocked is indeed strong. When the bullying starts, those that one expects to intervene sometimes join the bullies. She is a winner!

TempleHouse:
Are you God ?
You said Tinubu will NEVER be President
You will have to relocate in 2023 because it will happen !

Again, it will never happen. Even if you’ve dashed him Lagos, he can’t get Nigeria.

Adeoludt:
Next naija presido....

It will never happen. It will not happen his dreams, daydreams, nightmares or his awakening. It will NEVER happen.

Divoc:
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while many men do not have s**x with emotions, women can’t have s**x without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have s**x while women need a reason to have s**x.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don’t equate s**x with love. A man can have s**x with another woman but still doesn’t love her. That’s why women who fall in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, s**x and love are two different things. But for women, s**x and love are one and the same thing. For men, s**x comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before s**x (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having s**x with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn’t mean he has stopped loving you. But I can’t say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why it is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinary criminals or weapons.

There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can’t detect this as the same woman tend to mourn more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That’s why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.
Women can’t handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.

That’s the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect for their husbands and try to avoid s**x with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have s**x with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable s**x with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife’s behaviour with regard to s**x starts changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerates fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Women can’t cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything. That’s why you can’t always trust their judgement. When a joke is cracked, most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke. If they don’t like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won’t laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it’s because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian. Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited s**x freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can’t wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men can’t allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but would still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.
Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/11/cheating/

I found this quite naive. Why do some men decide to speak on the feelings, reasonings or desires of women so authoritatively? Are you one? Do you know how many women have sex with no emotions involved? Do you think runs girls don’t have steady boyfriends they hope to marry? As for men cheating without emotions, where does the second and third wives come from or the permanent side chick? Cheating really hurts any relationship.

This is how hitlers genocide started. He took away the Jews freedom of speech, associations and rights to gather in a crowd. They needed permits to exercise their rights. After a while, permits were stopped completely.

Poor boy. I pray God comforts the mum. There’s a great deal of bullying in Nigeria too. Most people just don’t talk about it. Posting an ex’s picture online, area thugs, forcing people to vote for a candidate that is not their choice, police asking for 50 Naira, jealous ladies spreading wild ugly rumors about another lady....Bullies are cowards that need a crowd or other people to bully others they feel are weak or have a better life than them. I detest bullying.

the way people spend so much time focusing on the lives of others only to wake up one day to the realization that the person went on to be successful. Their own lives? Empty and fruitless. Then they blame the government, their village people or a wicked somebody in their family.

hisexcellency34:
I thought this agbaya said him mumu don do. Why is he crying like a mumu?

He is hurt. If your integrity is being questioned or people are trying to frame you, it hurts sometimes. It does not make one a mumu; only human.

Bossjakande:
if u got mind go sex a married man Hippocrates did i know pains DAT DAT woman go thru. wen she do DAT she wasnt thinking strait wat she did is wrong but she was in pains too. pray I are Neva in her shoes DAT someone sex ur hubby let see how u will react.dont .judged her till u wear her shoes

The woman who did the flogging is not the man’s wife. She is a friend to the man’s wife. So, she is a very cruel person.

A lot of Nigerians have the chronic disease of trying to tell people how to live their lives.

Madam, it is not the end of the world before you’ll let depression come in. Stay away from married men. Get your own man and marry. But some women are insanely wicked especially to other women and most especially when they are blinded by jealousy. Women who should be covering the unclothedness of a fellow woman are the ones exposing it. Shameless women. Is it not the husband that cheated on her? He will still cheat on her!

UjuJoan2:
People 'like' her because they get to ride her and take advantage of her without any resistance from her. I assure you that you have their respect more than she does.

Oh no! You read that wrong or I expressed myself wrong. She resolved the issues in a way that people were not aware she was doing it to her advantage. Most times, people did not even know they were being put in their place. I doff my hat for her. Her marriage seems to be conflict free. The in-laws are busy fighting their son and loving her to pieces.

UjuJoan2:
This is the height of passive aggressiveness . .. You almost killed someone, when you could have gently confronted the issue.

Not nice!

Nooooo! There are some issues you don’t confront. Growing up, I always believed all conflicts should be discussed and resolved in the open. No more! I always got into trouble with my words twisted until they were unrecognizable. My cousin on the hand went about gently resolving issues on her own terms all the time. She was the darling of family and friends.

jaxxy:
U read the pix being painted quite well. The Imaginary 36,000 youths and bla bla. It’s all a campaign strategy for 2023. Tonto might be crazy bt she knows this guy quite well. Churchill is looking for attention now.

Absolutely!!

ernieboy:
if all politicians and aspiring politicians sponsored humanitarian projects I think Nigeria would be a better place, so whatever his motive, a good deed is a good deed.

Seriously!!! Don’t you know that the right or wrong of an action depends on the intent? If he is not a humanitarian and is trying hard to come across as one, perhaps, it might be the national cake that he is after.

This guy is nothing but a major fraud. Probably has political ambitions and is striving so hard to come across as a humanitarian. I doesn’t work.

Wether you slept with him or not is nobody’s business. Even if you did not and you tell them until you’re blue in the face, they won’t believe you. They don’t want you to be a good girl. Don’t give them the satisfaction of an explanation.

Nairaland mods please help us actualize a new Nigeria. Don’t give credibility to thugs by allowing news of them on Nairaland.

AK481:
Did that girl who video the Warri girl do a bad thing?

There’s no room for comparison. The little girl had a thirst for education. This girl has issues probably mental ones.

midehi2:
You, can you do that, in Lagos?

Yes you can. She could have worked into a ministry in Festac and asked for the appropriate ministry to handle such a case. We have one in charge of social welfare.

Gossiplover:
So the woman did a bad thing by calling the attention of the public to the girl's condition abi. I wonder how some people think and after you will say Buhari is the cause of ur problem.

Yes she did a bad thing. She event went on to further violate the girls privacy by uploading her picture. What she should have done was to look for the appropriate authorities to handle the girl’s situation. Why is she telling the public? Why can’t she help the girl preserve the little shred of dignity she has.

valentineuwakwe:
that will be better..we need to change the entire school curricula to fit into our national and cultural values....li wish election rigging and ballot box snatching would be included too... :Dthat will be better..we need to change the entire school curricula to fit into our national and cultural values....li wish election rigging and ballot box snatching would be included too...

I agree with most of what you wrote except the cultural values part. Cultural values can differ from community to community which will make it difficult or impossible to have as part of a national curriculum. Ethics taught in schools should be devoid of cultural and religious influence. We have basic human values that can work.

EzeFund:
Misplaced priority, characteristics of a third world nation.
It's not about introducing anti graft course or whatever. Create jobs and viable business environment. That should be the priority of the Government of the day.

What is third world about teaching ethics in schools? The most expensive private high schools in the US already teach bioethics. This is usually a discussion based class about values in all fields from medicine to politics. We keep complaining about the quality and mindset of those in government as if they are not from this society. The reason why those in government focus more on wealth acquisition than on actual governance is because of not only their wrong values, but that of the Nigerian society. Fix the value system of a community and you'll fix most of its problems.

AuroraB:
Tunji once called her a witch

It was the cocaine he had sniffed that was talking.

While I agree that the teacher should not have beaten the girl, some students can drive one to the point of no return. I’ve heard of a case where a student told his teacher she was a piece of shit. He was suspended for a really long time because it was a private school. What happens when there is no room for disciplinary measures?

legendsilver:
I don't expect your comment to gather likes and shares because its of high value to sane minds like us. Try condemn this move by efcc and see how your likes will shoot up.
Thanks for seeing things rightly

Lol! Thank you too.