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chichi234:
I think I agree with you... I guess I have a lot of inhibitions. E.g. I cant give head nor receive. It's disgusting. I can't initiate sex I'm just reclusive when it comes to sex

You need to talk to yourself about where these inhibitions are coming from.
I don't believe orgasm are an ideal before you enjoy sex...so the issue isn't with orgams.
You don't enjoy sex. That's what you need to undo...the route cause. Sex starts with the mind

Discover what stimulates you. Is it smell? Then make sure when and where you have sex is pleasant to you.
Is it ambience? Then plan a trip and prep for sex.
It makes a world of difference

Body stimulation is nerve endings so which do you respond to? Clit? Ears? Lips? Inner thighs?the small of you neck?

Please sexual intimacy is tres important and sex should not be endured . (There's actually a book called sexual intimacy in marriage )

cecegorz:
Our hotel in Frankfurt- Hampton by Hilton is a stand-alone building. Cost was about €80/night and the facilities are quite impressive.
You can see that breakfast room picture for an idea. The environment, the ambience, the rooms- Everything was just tight!

So, as we planned to head to Paris, I used the same price range on Booking.com to look for a similar hotel. To say that we were disappointed on arrival will be an understatement. In fact my wife was asking If I'm sure we are in the right hotel. Lol
This hotel is just a basic bread and breakfast stuff. And the breakfast is NOT FREE! We pay €6/ person. They have no fresh fruits servings, no baked beans. Just tea, coffee, cereals, croissants and fresh bread.
Situated in the middle of a 7 floors giant apartment building. The lift that takes us to our 4th floor room takes only 2 people at a time as it is so small. The same building houses like 4 or 5 other similar hotels- you know the way we build shopping plazas in Nigeria - those U shaped buildings.

This hotel is a disappointment guys- but there is a silver lining...

Haha! Welcome to Paris
The lift can't take 2 people it takes 2 skinny people standing in L shape minus luggage

cecegorz:
Guys, something funny happened during our shuttle from CDG to Paris city center.

As we drove through the high way, passed the Stade the France (France '98 Finals stadium) and got to the first traffic stop, our car was swamped at the sides by homeless African immigrants begging for alms, typical of Lagos traffic.
The whole environment was littered with trash, and for us coming in from Frankfurt it was quite shocking. Frankfurt is sparkling clean! Asides the leaves falling off the tree-lined streets, you can't see a drop of nylon or paper on the streets.
So, I called some of my guys that live in Paris to expresse my disappointment as the sight falls short of my expectation. They said we should chill, that we will be wowed when we enter the city...

Wait till you get to the Eiffel tour. Hold your valuables, use a saddle bag that you put in front of you

Vuitton007:
Hey guys GoodAftn...

Been awhile but i been a silent reader...
I am abit worried on Dropbox renewals from this experiences that has been shared here in recent times , cos this year i had chose not to renew until i am sure i have a travel plan to visit, to avoid un-used visas that i end up with...
My B1/B2 expired in Sept and its definitely looking like i would be travelling to the US first week in Jan but from London.
I haven't violated any visa usage/rules, so i am hoping i wont be slammed with an invite for interview..
When is the best time to drop my application for renewal, if i am to leave Lagos for London on the 21st December, and if all goes smoothly with the renewal, how long does it take to have the Passport&Visa ready for pick up? *trying to avoid December backlog stories that touch, hence my double checking with you all*
Does 1st week in Dec look ok to submit?

Submit now.
If you're fortunate then no interview, if they do call for interview the backlog for dates is already in 2019 so submit now.

lanrems:
With the recent rate of revocation, I did advice you use your visas first, cos at the interview you might/will be asked why u haven't used it for the earlier stated purpose. It does pinch the vos to revoke visas this days.
You might want to weight your options here, and decide what's best for the family. And if you must go for the interview go with the copy of your visa n not your passport, be smart.
This is my deduction after so much research on happenings at the embassy right now.

You do realise they don't need your passport to revoke your visa

lanrems:
Guy the problem with Nigerian not getting visas lately is all political, my wife paid $3ooo after birth at a Chicago hospital and equally made payment plans for the balance, but on the flight home to Casablanca she met a lady from Sierra lone that claimed she paid nothing as in nothing at the hospital after delivery. Think this supports the Asian theory sited up there.

She used Medicaid of course...that's not new. She knew exactly what she was doing...and she didn't do it alone either. She'd only give your wife one side of the truth.
People had done runs on that for years which is why the crackdown on it.

[quote author=toyeengbemi post=72785339][/quote]You are wrong. Interview after Dropbox has ALWAYS been an option at the discretion of the embassy. That has been on the EMBASSY site since inception of Dropbox a few years ago.

Those discounts are not simply because you are self-pay. A lot of discounts from certain hospitals in some states are such because they are to cater for the UNINSURED legal residents . It's more than likely that's what Atlantic medicals offered you. So although it's self pay on the back end someone or govt is paying for the difference.

Not all discounts are like this for self pay but those with large discounts usually are. Unfortunately most hospitals won't tell you that neither do they know the challenge foreigners on birth tourism have with renewals.
Very little you can do....travel somewhere else


On a side note US HealthCare is ridiculously expensive which is a topic for another day.

The fact that you are bald from birth means any of you kids could be too even if you marry a man with full head of hair

mumzt:
Good day everyone, please if one applied for visa to give birth, used it appropriately and came back. Then after expiry drop box application was done and granted. Does this mean the renewed visa still covers delivery. Because while filling the form, it asked if you're renewing the same type of visa.
I'm just curious, I'm not pregnant just want to know if I'll need to apply for another visa if I want to use my visa for another delivery.

@Ladygunivere, @seyewest, @omobendel24, everyone. Kindly help if you know.

However in filling your ds 160 it asks for purpose of visit and when you intend to travel....so if your intention for the trip you indicated in your application is vacation then that is what is in your record. After you have gone on that intended trip then any subsequent trip should fall under what your B1/B2 visa permits.

In the end it's border patrol that grants entry

seyewest:
I see no reason why they will deny ''Papa'' unless the father did not pass his answer across well... Papa should go ahead with his application.. he's not a travel risk.

Of a truth all Nigerians are flight risks, we are all just on a different rung of the ladder

Beautyaddy:
Huh, I hear you.

Unfortunately, the current Republicans in congress, most of them are cowards when is comes to making any drastic changes with immigration.

Sadly true.
Real reform is being traded over red/blue childish bickering

lillaowow:
I don't see a big deal about it. It shouldn't even be a talking point.

They turned themselves in at the boarder, fingerprinted and their details taken

Asylum claim filed.

Asylum accepted or denied.

Ones denied go back home. Anyone that stayed is violating immigration law. Simple.

People that cross the boarder illegally don't come in a "caravan"

So, why is it a talking point?

How does that work though?
You can't compare
Where do you house that many people coming pending asylum case approvals? The costs for verifying and vetting cases who bares that? Even deportation (if they ever find them) comes at a cost.
The filing burden nko? The backlogs for USCIS and NVC are bad enough.

People are organising themselves via whatsapp groups and Facebook, so this is just the beginning it's a very erious matter that will soon become a security and healthcare burden for the countries in between.

Beautyaddy:
Wow!...what about those kids who were born in the US by a parent who has either a green card or are one of those temporary resident visas like HB-1 and the likes?

It's not rocket science. Other developed countries have work visas temp visas and resident visas and their kids don't get citizenship by birth.
It can be done. Jus soli in other developed countries were mainly stopped for 'birth tourism and anchor babies'

seyewest:
you will not be able to leave the Airport.

Actually you may be. People are allowed on discretion of immigration usually for upto 4 8hours as omobendel said

elderken:
From mile 2 get a bus going to badagry round about or sème, walk through immigration and get stamped. Mind you if it's your first trip be prepared to pay wella. They might charge you 2k to stamp your fresh passport @ the Nigerian side , yellow card 2k , at the Béninoise side 2k this isn't fixed though, depends on your negotiation skill. Cheer. Have a nice trip
NB: the prices might differ. This is what is obtainable as at last month I went through, saw how some first timers were treated

Thanks!!
How much is the typical bus ride then? Do passengers pay anything along the way before getting to Seme?

Amoj4682:
Thank you for sharing. It is Better for the embassy to be scanty. So that VO's become less busy this days. If they don't see anyone at the Embassy. They would value us more

Makes no difference. They won't value us anymore simply because fewer people come for visa appointments
Embassies and consular series are here based on a country's diplomatic and business interest in the home country's NOT because of visa applications. Visa services are a just a small fraction of work done. Visa application cash is the same worldwide. It's our exchange rate that makes ours seem like a lot of cash

elderken:
The school admin can help you get that sorted.

Hello,

Im looking at visiting Songhai Centre in Cotonou.
I wanted to take ABC but they won't confirm to me how long it would take and i have heard it can take 8hours plus with long buses and they are quite expensive at about 16k
I heard I can get a car at mile 2 but that I'll be taxed badly.
What do you suggest for a 1st timer like me, I have passport and yellow card.

lafad11:
Hi guys, you all are going a great job here in guiding applicants through the right path in obtaining the a US visa. I have a US visa which is due to expire in Jan 2019. I am yet to use this Visa because have been busy with studies in the UK. My question, if I don't use this visa, will there be any problem when I want to renew it?
N.B. I have visited America 3 times in the last 4 yrs.

Thanks

No issues. It's not a crime not to use it. Travel trips are optional
You can even renew by Dropbox since you are eligible. They may or may not call you for an interview.

Pipedreams:
There is a valid job offer..the job is in a factory

You'll be back here when they've scammed you

Idanre in Ondo or Shasha in Oyo

femorocafella:
Thanks for the comments guys.I planned to spend 10 days there with my family and it's a family of four.my self ,my wife and my twins.
So pls how much can I budget for the trip and pls ,I will like to know whether I can apply again and when to apply.

You see if you have to ask people what you should budget then that's the real problem
Did you really plan to go to Disneyworld? The average person that wants to travel will find out how much it would cost. DIY

Wumzybabe:
Please help a sister, I will be travelling to the US to have my baby by February, 2019. EDD is April,2019. My US visa will be expiring by May, 2019. My Intl passport is still valid.My question is Will they still give me up to 6 months for the period of stay?
Or should I go ahead at apply for drop box to extend my us visa.
I will be waiting to read your responses.

No one can tell whether they stamp 6 months for you .its upto the CBP at POE.
Doing Dropbox makes no difference it is still CBP at Port of Entry that will determine how long you stay

Colouredgirl:
Fam,I need answers plsssss...

The 'approriate' answer is the truth

YOLO1:
Good day house.
Please, my girlfriend is having her birthday this month. Aside the normal birthday gift, I would like to get her some books on Family and Marriage. Would like to have some suggestions about nice literatures that covers marriage, family, treatment and understanding of the husband, the children, her role and duties as the wife to be, finances in the family and so on.
Thanks

Buy her the same book you buy for yourself. Read on how to lead, treat a wife and mentor your children.
Pscheww

Also consider that he may have chosen someone as young as her because he thinks she would be more fertile due to her age
She may want to find out
1. What was the reason for the lack of kids
2. If she is unable to have kids for a number of years will he stay?

I'm pretty sure if he had kids already he may no have chosen a gf that much younger than him.

If he lives to 60 she would be 42years...she may want to check out the lifestyles of 60 year olds

Ziniora:
Hello folks,

new to nairaland and found out about it while searching for information about migrant visa. would love to learn the necessary information required for a migrant visa. my spouse applied for me recently, seeking to learn and understand the hoops.

thanks

Try visajourney it will give you full details especially on your category and wait times


This thread is specifically for those who got to the NVC stsge that is they have welcome letter and are waiting for interview leteer.

bayobro:
Good day my people, I had like to find out some information as regard a b1/b2 visa, I am married with a set of twin whose aged are two, I had apply for a b1/b2 visa for the whole family.. Our Interview in in October 11, we had hired the service of someone to help with the processing.. I had notice a mistake on my wife application address slightly different to my own. How can we correct this mistake, what are the things we should look to prepare for while going for the interview.. Thanks

If someone is helping processing then why are you asking here.
You hired someone let him work for his pay

I thin

OME1:
I appreciate the response.

The conference date is fixed and it's not in my power to re-schedule it, but can my interview appointment date be scheduled to an earlier date?

Thank you.

k


there is an option for emergency appointment. Try it.
Bear in mind that this period is busy cos of summer holidays and school starting in September

Bisolanio:
Dishonesty when I'm thinking fund management ? So you think you can mend people by stoning them(like you are all holy) , I have read most of your posts here and a I'm not surprised to read this from you. At the end of the day nothing can be taken from your post except leaving the reader with the perception of you playing GOD!

I hope you feel this righteous when you look at yourself in the mirror ?

Biko how is this fund management?
How is this not dishonesty?
If it wasn't dishonest you would not be here asking for 'help'
If your organisation officially permits you to use the funds for any hotel you want then why are you here?

You want to go for US visa application with one hotel booking saying 3 days then enter the country, face POE with another hotel saying 8 days.

Please this matter is not hard so I don't understand all these gimmicks under they guise of fake honesty
Go for your conference
Leave hotel after day3 then book whatever otel you want for your personal trip.

It seems some of you think this is an anonymous forum. Embassies read these posts all the time

[quote author=Tripletmom post=65395687]Pls guys,i told her as advised to fill another form which she did but d information stil came up.visa caterogy is B1/2.[/quote
Can she send the screenshot to their email? Just to be sure. They typically respond on time]