Lawl!

Abeg bros no vex. Since you have bought a shovel and started digging, send me the invitation to your upcoming obituary. Oloshi, of all the women to sample it's another man's wife. It's your kind they talk about in Nigerian gossip newspapers: "Died in a hotel under strange circumstances with another man's wife"

Yes o,borrow money. Borrow as much as you like,three months come here and whine about how you're contemplating suicide because of money you owe and the fact that you can't afford the latest Mercedes that your wife wants so her friends will know she married a husband. Olodo, after all her friends must see the wedding in Ovation or Citi People. She's getting married for her friends sake abi? Why doesn't she stand on Sanusi Fafunwa and hawk herself to get money for the wedding.

Ignorance is bliss. There is nothing new under the sun,so what's the big deal as long as you didn't star in a porn video, stop thinking of your actions in terms of guilt and live your life. Everyone makes mistakes and we don't own up to them all.

Nope, you won't. Nigerians don't do xenphobia, period. We're fun loving, welcoming people even in the worst of situations.

Lol,

My bad buffoon is a double f but my analysis of your mental state remains the same.

^^^. Learn to spell the word bufoon before you try and use it o cretin. If you are male then you're even worse. You're a disgrace.Begone o cretin.

The wise words of Solomon. Never get yourself involved in what does not concern you. How is this your personal business? Do you know the one she has done? If they make up, na your name them go take settle. Ignorance is bliss, leave them alone before they rename you 'Amebo'.

Broke up with you twice in three months. He's an immature sadist who can't control himself. Follow the wise words God gave Lot when he left that cursed city behind : “Don't look back"

Good. She has dumped you abi? Now that you have learnt your first lesson go and learn how to find control. Forget her, for a woman to say she wants to leave, she wants to leave. Learn to be a better boyfriend the next time around.

My friend will you stop whining and relax. He's the ex, you're the one who got her in the end. She can keep all the pictures she wants. In fact go back and tell her he looks cute that you think the pictures should be in the family album. Control my man, control.

^^^Trash yet you're still here commenting. It's nothing I scooped up from the net dear. Just hard earned experience and I intend to share it with all potential Mugu's until they find the way of wisdom. It appears the message is getting across else you would be here ranting.You're the one ruining the lives of young men, telling them to be stupid instead of wearing the pants like their fathers before them.

^^^Mugu. Wake up and smell what's cooking get your butt out of the land of fairy tales and step into the real world.

Classic case of a man of no control trying to buy his way to love through artificial control only to find himself in the land of Mugu-hood where he will die a lonely death and none will come to mourn him even the women he spent his money on. He is not a hustler but an ATM machine, a local branch of UNICEF buying recharge cards for girls to call their Chairmen. He should seek the path of wisdom before it is too late for him.

Drink the Panadol and move on. Be a man, there is no corrective step, babe that wants to go will go.Learn the way of true control and move on.

Lol, all these women watch too much Africa Magic, too much Rita Dominic on TV and some mugu's want to let them get away with it. Brethren spread the message, those times are over.

Lol, I have true control so I get love and don't need pity. I sleep well @ night knowing I am the master of my domain. The peace I feel can only be described in Buddhist terms, perhaps as Nirvana.Most of the women shouting here do not have men and the rest are in true control relationships but are here fronting like something else. The few who have succeeded in trapping mugu's well more grease to their elbows. I only came here to share advice and teach my brethren how to avoid the road of MuGu-hood. He who has eyes let him read.

@tychee69

Congratulations on your freedom. If she cries forget it. They cry one minute you pity them reel them back in and its the same nonsense all over again. Better you cut her off now than spend your life in misery. Focus on your goals and relegate all the emotional wahala to the back seat. In the next relationship seek true control. Forget the text messages she's sending and calls she's making. They're mostly out of self-pity. I admire your guts choosing the Feb 14th date, you're on the right track. Scorched earth policy all the way. Some fool is on another thread talking about how some chick wants to ruin him financially. A perpetual mugu! Please brothers enlighten him in the way of true control and the rule of 10%.

Lol, whatever you say, true control gives me my own peace of mind @ night.It's men of no control and artificial control that end up pulling an OJ or Mike Tyson, when they fail to see the woman for who she is and think with their hearts, then give reformed ambulance chasers and apprentice divorce lawyers cannon fodder for the courtroom. Ask Chief Fernandez how much his American lawyered up wife left with, yeah nothing, cause he had the sense to tie up his assets and divorce plans before he "married" her. A man of true control thinks practical and plans based on the worst case scenario. Would she love me if I had an single arm and was blind in both eyes? I guess not. Love is convenient when it's convenient. When crap hits the fan, it's everyone for themselves.Any cretin who wants to lose his life to no control should go ahead. Lose control then lose your mind then come here and whine about how she slept with your best friend.

@Zina

Deal with pain? I done did that , lol. I guess as Nietzsche said, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. As for that legal thing, f@ck that, true control men get their prenuptials signed, if she leaves, she leaves with squat. As for the artificial and no control men telling their women where they hid the cash, that's their funeral. Pray your female clients don't come to you trying to hang men like me, you'll end up broke doing pro bono work for juvenile offenders.

Lol, women

Go and check your dictionary for the meaning of celibacy and FYI virginity is overvalued and I'm telling you that from a male point of view.

Lol

I assume all the women offering advice and hissing at my two cents here are virgins or at least were virgins before they married.If not you are all a bunch of hypocrites misleading a young man from doing what you all have already enjoyed.

It would be advisable you try before you buy.She's 20 so she's probably thinking from an idealist point of view and thinks virginity is some fairy tale religious prize. Get real and get her laid lest some other sweet talker claims this so-called prize before you and you become a cuckolded f00l.

I don't see the big deal. If the pain is too bad, tell the crowd your wife isn't feeling too well and take her off to get some rest. You're marrying the woman not the crowd.

You just don't get it, perhaps it's the title of the thread, it's actually more about self-control not controlling a woman with some magic wand. Through true control you guide the way your woman treats you. This is not a thread for wife beaters or some other such notion you have all probably cooked up in your heads.

***strolls in shakes his head and laughs, exit stage left***

A woman who wants you has no time for what her father or mother says. She's giving you funny excuses and the more you try to talk about it the more she'll hate your guts. People die in seconds, 4 years in a relationship is nothing. Cry in your bedroom, wake up, go get laid and move on. Follow the advice God gave Lot and do not look back. No calls. No messages. Nothing. If she calls cut her fucking calls. A thousand other women will love you and one woman wants to give you grief.Learn the way of true control and move on with your life.