� don't abuse us na It's as the spirit leads we do it.
Wawelexy: I don't know why Nigerian tailors write down your measurement, when they know deep down their mind that they are using the measurement they want.
This is my sister n she knows how to say thank you �
Skyfornia: Savage Children are gifts, so pure in heart . I have a neighbour, little boy of 3, even after scolding him anytime he did something wrong, he will still buy his favourite biscuit and bring to share with me.
legallyminded: In the end you only have yourself and God. That's why life is per head. There are situations that will isolate you. We only pray not to fall into dire situations because nearly (if not) everyone will fail you.
My dear people would bring different suggestion...go for the one you have interest in else you'll waste months on the wrong thing. And pray to God to bless it for you.
nastyking: Hair dressing vs Tailoring which is advisable to learn for a 20 year old guy. All opinions are acceptable
Don't be a Pussy asss niggarrr and a coward...be a real niggarrr.. don't scare people from applying Everybody go die...our tomorrow nor dey guarantee and sure..... I remember my grandfather will always say to me Son.....for every day we wake we are faced with more than a hundred ways to die Soldier or no soldier.....we all are going down...
Ogbeni which one be i do dey lie... You dey inside house.. building fit collapse on top your head... electric fit shock you die... You enter train....the train derail You enter plane he crash You enter boat or ship...he capsized You dey waka for road...stray bullet hit you You dey on your own lasser fever or any other better fever fall you( check hospital) You dey open space or field on a rainy day with umbrella then thunder strike...the umbrella act as a good conductor to shock you die Ogbeni.... check am na..na just few i name so.... anything fit kill us for every day we wake
E shock you? So, you are part of the many who don't know how things are being run in this country? No wonder I read some comments here and just shake head.
You said 8� pls I'm waiting for the remaining 6... Thanks in anticipation
uprof: Is there anyone who doesn't like better things ? indeed!
Everybody loves to drive in good cars, live in mansion, fly in first class,making money while asleep and many more good things of life.
However, setting goals without actions and definite time frame of accomplishment t is just a mere wish or discussion.
Unfortunately this is what most people do
For you to accomplish your desired goals, you need to get out and get your hands dirty .
Steven kings once said, "Talent is cheaper than table salt. What separates the talented individuals from the successful once is a lot of hardwork "
To be successful financially you need thousands of hours or learning and practice. As you learn new habits that can make you rich. You must also learn to unlearn some bad habits that can make you poor.
To make my point clear and simple to understand, I'm going to share with you 8 habits that make the rich different from the poor.
1. The rich set long term goals,the poor don't.
Albert Einstein said and i quote:
If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.
If you want to be successful financially " you have to project forward in 5 years or more and imagine the type of life you want to live, the amount of money you want to earn, the number of investment you want to have, the type of family you want to have, among other goals.
After doing this, you have to look backward into the present and ask your self " what should i stop doing or start doing that can make me move faster my goals.
This seems to be difficult for most people.
So, they set only short term goals by living from pay check to pay check
Forgetting that they cant be working for money for ever......
2.The rich are committed to their goals.
Formal Us president, Barack Obama,once said
" A change is brought about because ordinary people do extraordinary things"
What i have learned from this is that "success is not an accident, you must be ready to commit yourself towards achieving your goals.
Whenever you set a goal you must be ready to give it all it takes to achieve it. Don't just get goals and go to sleep
If you fail to commit your self to your goals you will not transform them into reality.
Even the easiest goal will be difficult for you to achieve without commitment....
wale377: Hello Nairalander, I trust every one is doing fine.
So I came up with 10 jobs that looks poor but are actually lucrative.
I hope we learn from it
Disclaimer I do not advise you to leave your respective Job’s to start any of this business. If you have capital for this, you can go ahead.... if you don’t, hustle more to get capital.
1) Barbing: barbing is one of the most lucrative job out there in the streets. Lol I remember in primary Sch when we dey yab our sef say “you will be a barber in future” .... if I had known then I’ll claim that prayer o
As a barber, you can earn nothing like 8-10k per day if you know what you are doing
I have a profession barber friend who is now in the U.K he cuts footballers, actors, musicians hair and my guy is seriously balling with barbing money.
2) Fitness Trainer: Lot of people now are days wants to lose weight in other to live healthy. As a fitness trainer, you could organize probably a weekend session at probably #1000 person. If you can gather at least 20 people, that is 20k just in one day.
You can also become people personal trainer at your own price. Start a vlog about fitness and all too... that’s an extra income.
3) Cab services: this is The easiest and the fastest way to make money. Everybody moves from one place to another making transportation really important.
In a day, cab (included likes of keke, okada) can make a some of 5-10k per day depending on how long they work.
4) Photography: back in those days during my primary Sch party, I always thought photographers were poor.... but trust me that’s is the biggest lie of the century. As a professional photographer, you can make at least 30k per shoot. I know of a photographer that shot one of the commissioners in Lagos state..... he was paid 150k (just for portraits and framing O)
Even Buhari Personal photographer built a house just from photography.
Although, it’s connection sha.... but still try meeting people cos you won’t know who knows who. Also be nice to them so that the will rate you.
5) Car wash business: As for this, you basically just need soap and water lol. Although it’s quite hard to start..... because you need land to wash and all sha. If you have a friend, relative that has a land and wants monitoring.... you could just cajole him that you will monitor for him blah blah blah.....
Car washing business Can pay 5-10k on a good day tho.
6) lesson teacher: No parent wants a child with a burnt brain . You can meet with kids parents and tell them abou the lesson. You can gathered at least 10-20people for the lesson and maybe charge 3-5k in a month per head probably just for 2-3hrs.
You can also take gce lessons, waec lessons etc
7) Poultry business: trust me poultry is lucrative tho. With the right feeds for your animals you can make a huge profit of the lil investment you made on them.
I remember in jss3 when we had agric practicals, we had about 10chicken(layers) and in a week we could pick like 10-15 eggs.
8 ) Buka: Buka!!! My first time of eating bukka was when I went to live with my grandma in Yaba (kufeji street) when my mum travelled.... I remember vividly it was agoyin beans and bread
I noticed the womans shop was always crowded with at least 10 people. She cooks from morning to evening.
Let’s say you buy 100 bread 200beans 100meat 100soda/water =500 per head..[/b].. that is maddd
[b]9) Laundry business: With just soap and water(like the car washing business) you could earn cool cash . But this one, the labor is movable. You could meet people and tell them you wash and iron cloths ..... gather potential costumers and begin
Let’s say you have 10-20 people you dry clean for 200 per cloth. Nobody will want to just dry clean 1 cloth ... they will give you in bulk.... you can make cool cash tho (but you go wash tire ehn ehn ) at least washing machine dey.
Lastly
10) Trader: my Igbo brother and sister are the king of this hussle. They wake as early as 4 go to their place of work do their thing. In a day, depending on what you sell, you can make 25-50k sales .... truss me.
I have a friend who trades in Balogun and with the. Trading profit, he sent his younger brother to turkey to Sch.....
I hope with this point of mine I have been able to convince you but not to confuse that business can pay more than 9-5
goodman41: I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work. One day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.
One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted. I told her that l'm not looking for a girlfriend but a wife. I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.
I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and fail. I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me. She said okay, that I should send transport money, I tried using my phone to transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so I told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but I told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day being Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.
When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self busy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we knew it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex. She might be using you as the side guy���. Enjoy the sex but remember to use protection. After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious. She said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.
After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay. So am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me.
I asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.
Am not the type that use to call every day but she asked me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me one day without telling me to see if I have another girl.
Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just wants to use me?
healthserve: Allow me tell a tale to reply.. To the question
1. The old man who acted in the matrix trilogy acted the top three films of his career at when he had almost considered retiring, at almost about 70 years
2. A British woman, a grandma was trying to swim across the Atlantic to make a world record. As she was engaging in the act, the tides became so strong, that she gave up, when she was pulled out of the water, she noticed she was just 15 minutes away from her desire. Guess what she did, she tried again the second year, when she reached around the same spot she experienced a tide, she thought it to herself as a challenge and put more effort. She ended up making it. When she came out, she said never too old to chase your dream. She was around 60-70.
Obasanjo became president at an old age
Point is, you're the one checking your performance against the calendar. If no one has placed limitations on you, don't place them on yourself.
Go for it. I have cousins signing up for medicine even at 25. So you're not too young, not too late. You're where you're ready to be to make the most of your life experiences towards your objective
And do remember, life's a process, just like a bicycle, to maintain balance, we must keep moving
Don't tell me you've not seen different videos where white policemen pointed guns on innocent black guys even arras ladies and innocent children. If you wish to travel out you say it but don't say it's safer over there either.
ernieboy: and u are getting the respect now in Nigeria abi? where Sars and army can molest u at anytime, have u seen where Sars beat up innocent citizens like criminals I am sure u won't be treated worse in any organised society
sLentlover7778: Although Dog and DSS are both three letter words..but i think it's an insult to compare dog to DSS.. for crying out loud.. a dog was honored by US president ( Donald Trump )
sLentlover7778: Although Dog and DSS are both three letter words..but i think it's an insult to compare dog to DSS.. for crying out loud.. a dog was honored by US president ( Donald Trump )
Emmiasky: [s] If wishes were horses, beggars would ride[/s]
Have you ever randomly included the term MOTIVATION on YouTube and how were the results? Astonishing right? While they might not be reaching the Gangnam Style numbers, getting up to 4–5 million views is actually quite a milestone and what do these vlogs or videos usually on? Change, Impact, Personal development, Self-Improvement, Motivation, education and the likes but what is the problem and why does it seem like so many or most individuals around the world are only listening but are unable to carry out what they want to in themselves or they are just able to wish for the so-called change in their lives but unable to make it real and tangible?
You just need to take a stroll on the top podcasting platforms – and you’ll realize that truly, and daily millions upon millions are desperately trying to get that change or improvement in their lives, desperately wishing and many; actually working towards that change in themselves, their doings, work, education, relationship, family, life and in all other facets that one columns as an individual and a brilliant one as that but the question is and will always be ‘Why do people still fail after spending hours staying motivated to change their lives?’
While changing one’s life (or should I say improving life) is not a day’s job but might be more demanding than most other things people do, doing it is actually one of the hardest decisions one will ever take as a human, really it is not easy to find discomfort in comfort and seek change in normalcy, so even after listening to all that talk from Billy Alsbrook, Eric Thomas, Tony Robbins and so many other motivators and impact makers, it’s become a norm for most to think about what they’ve just been taught or educated on, make the decision to take up the challenge, (a few of the lot) follow it up for a few days or weeks, get worn out and finally go like ‘arrgh, this is not my thing’ quit and end up going back to their previous lives, the life they’ve been living in mediocrity and gotten tired of previously, but why do they do this? It’s not like Tony Robbins forced them to listen to his podcast or visit his YouTube channel anyways? (Permit me, he does irate our eyes with ads on YouTube sometimes) but people hear of such platforms somehow and go visit to learn, to seek knowledge and when they do, they end up backing out and going back to their ugly lives so to this, I’ve decided to couple up the reason I think and have associated with many individuals why lots do not usually get the change they seek in themselves or their doings.
Inertia/Inability to take the first step
A state of unwillingness to move, or change position, that is basically the definition of inertia, a term in physics, defined as ‘the tendency of a body to maintain its state of rest or uniform motion unless acted upon by an external force’, it is the unwillingness of a human being to achieve change or difference without a push from others, it is that heavy burden that stops people from taking the first steps towards their goals, aspirations and desires and keep their backs sitted in their benches at home or at their so-detested place of work that takes the chunk of their lives by the 9-5 of drudgery but to take that one step, just the first one towards a new life of lifestyle usually is what have held lots and lots of individuals from actually achieving the change their desire in their lives and while the eventual result of inertness is stagnancy in life, detestable career, relationship and various other facets of life, just the one step to change seems like the most arduous of all but as said ‘the journey of a thousand miles begins with just a step’, not willing to take that one step eventually leads a lot the way they never intended and they have to live with that.
Comfort
This should make a lot of individuals wonder ‘How does comfort relate to change, impact and development?’ but rather unfortunately, so many people are actually comfortable with their so-dreaded life and lifestyle, they’d rather suffer and smile than break the chain and truly be free. Being so into the norm actually has a lot of people not seeking change or discomfort, not even for a second, many would rather stay unfit and unhealthy than work out a while and improve both their physical appearance and general well-being (health). Comfort puts people in a state of stagnation and imposed dogmatization but seeking discomfort and development which many dread on the other hand places move an individual into a state of constant development and improvement. Ask yourself truly, ‘Am I being comfortable in this position I am in life or am I pushing for more and better things?’ or better still ask ‘Am I influencing things or am I only being influenced?’ The impact makers of the world were once normal individuals who broke the norm only because they felt uncomfortable with the happenings around and within them, most fail to realize they live a too simple, ruled life and they tend to follow the rules, not say much (not to be confused with introversion),not shake the walls but be the square peg in the square hole as said by a speaker and do not realize that everything they are actually desiring in on the other side of where they are right now.
Dogma
So many individuals have been indoctrinated by their main influences while being nurtured usually parents, schools and other environmental factors into a belief system that places a demarcation on their lives and the achievements therein, and this enables such people into casting a restrain on themselves and forces them to live in a state of mediocrity, less than what they actually can because they’ve been forced into believing that the 9-5s, the save-till-you-die mantra are what they can achieve and the things they get to watch on T.V or listen to on radio, the record-breaking achievements, thesis breakthrough, the 5.0 GPA scores are the things they cannot, why? Because it is not for them (the victims of dogma) but for those ahead of them and with such belief at heart, millions are forced to lay standards that should be under-achievements for themselves and tag these their life-goals and ambitions
Usually, it is one major factor affecting the middle-class (if there really is something like that) and those who basically lack things they want in life.
Lack of Commitment
In this world of today where everything seems to be all about the instant things, the YouTube views, the Facebook likes, the IG likes, Retweets and all of that, disciplining oneself and committing to focus on needed things and finding a way to neglect the disturbances seem like a really big trouble for so many......
I see no reason prolonging matters when things like this occurs. If the girl were to be a lady you guys will start shouting its her way of dressing and start calling her names. Why rape for crying out loud?? Those people beating him are just wasting time. You guys should just look for sharp object and cutoff that snake under his two legs that his using to rape up and down. I won't say much.
Lisa4nairaland: Man caught raping a little girl inside a bus in Aba, Abia state, Nigeria (photos)
A man has been nabbed for allegedly raping a little girl in Aba, Abia state, Nigeria.
The incident reportedly occurred on Wednesday, December 4, around Hightaste Road by Ibere Street of Ngwa Road in Aba.
According to Facebook user, David Osinachi Nwankwo, who shared phots from the scene of the incident, the suspect lured the girl into a nearby bus and covered her mouth his with his hand to stop her from shouting for help.
“He was caught having carnal knowledge/raping the little girl on the picture after luring her into a nearby bus with his hand on her mouth to stop her from shouting somewhere around Hightaste Rd. by Ibere Street of Ngwa Road in Aba, Abia State today.
Am single and searching in case � besides the bonanza is I base in ibadan
efex01: Good evening to you my lady, am Felix by name, Yoruba from osun state that was the introduction that led to another thing.
Less I forget, I started a new job in Ibadan as an accountant for a pharmaceutical store on Monday, in which I was introduced to all the staff in their branches but there is a particular lady in one of their branches that ask me a same question, can I meet?
After introduction the next thing she said is, you are not my type, you are too ugly to be my boyfriend.
My people, pls am I too ugly to be this lady boyfriend, cause I need to ask someone because I don’t have any girlfriend that I can ask
I don't even near them cause no good can come out from there...as a lagosian I dey lookaway...if you no fit wise for Lagos oh boy let leave that for another day lol
lumiday: You're quite lucky, to watch their show dey fear me sef.
IntrovertedK: i just have to reply this mention. I empathize with you dear. What you are going through is what broke guys mostly go through. Nobody wants a liability you know. Buh all the same, if office jobs ain't coming through, kindly try and at least get some one man job or anything at least to feed and all, things will get better at the long run. Don't starve and don't give up.
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