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waoh. Amazingly Amazing!

You are not married & you cant do stuffs for him, yet you have the effrontery to collect his money as well as sleeping with him.. Stop hiding behind not being married yet and using that as an excuse for being lazy and irresponsible. It doesnt take anything out of you when u behave like a woman trained to be responsible even in a common relationship. These are the qualities Men watch out for before taking a decision to live with you forever.

@ OP. Am sorry but if everything he posted was true, then HE IS RIGHT. I doubt how he will know how good u can cook when you wont even go inside the kitchen. How will you make him know u can take care of the home when you cant even lay the bed u both slept on overnight? The fact that you are both in the room, u know it s unkempt and the woman in you couldn't wake up to make amends shows how dirty you might be, doubt if u even clean your own personal room anyway.

Being responsible is not a thing you can reserve, it comes out naturally. When you are not, you are not.

My advice, kindly turn a new leaf before your next relationship or else, you are on your own

Well, if she is just being lazy, I say "Hell to the No" But if she is stressed, sick, tired or weak, there is nothing wrong, that doesn't include Undies o, u should rather shoot me instead.
if she is too weak to wash those, then I better get her new ones.

sekzy99:
she added 30k plus her samsumg s3. Tnks

Jesus christ. 30k and Galaxy S3 is worth 2 Different iphone 5s. How did she manage to do that.

Dude, both of u should just let go otherwise if u push it harder, u will definitely find someone who tells u he knows the exact person who duped u and then u ll pay him so u can get back the phone or the money, then you will end up being duped again this time. Ask the experienced ones.

Acidosis:
...and some people will say it's wrong to check or read their partners' chats.

Trust is an intangible word. Check that damn phone and chats before she gives you AIDS & truncate your destiny.

After all there are many decent fishes in the ocean, so why expose yourself to AIDS & other spiritual diseases in the name of "trust"?

God bless you bro! U v just poured out what I had in mind!!

Blackett:
This is what happens when you two are too holy to discuss sex, your sexual fantasies and sexual expectations before getting married.

You are so on point!

lol. like seriously? The sexiest? but i dont see anything special in her physically na. wait a minute, did you just call her "Bola Yorkie" . Ladies sha, always a different being entirely on the socials. where is my phone, make i refer her to nairaland, she don becom celeb for here. lol.

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lol. he took it personal no need for the ill words dude, cool your a$$ down. You wrote your opinion while I wrote mine. For the record you shouldnt have quoted everything I typed, u should pick the one that was directed to your own original post. lol.

#Peter. (With the Red tie) it looks good and smart on him

@Op. Sorry about that, but i have you to blame. It appears your wife caught you doing something not right and unfortunately for you, she is hot tempered. You know your wife more than anyone else, if you know you v got some incriminating stuffs anywhere including your phone, be smart enough to wipe them, better still avoid creating a room for devil in your marriage by bn faithful.

Firstly, I dont get the basics of people hiding their phones from their spouse, why will you do that if your conscience is clear? As a matter of fact, the more you stop hiding those gadgets, the less you commit infidelity and any kinds of dirty habits you feel isnt right.
Doesn't it feel so sweet when she checks your phone and she couldnt find anything incriminating? when that natural smile and self confidence hits you naturally?
You are a Man, u v grown up, you decided to get married, no one forced you into doing so. U eventually did. Now u decided cheating is your next agenda. Madness. Am sorry but was your brain on holiday when you were planning marriage earlier and you knew you haven't had enough fun yet? Or is it something u saw on the other lady? Probably the way she packages herself, her makeups or what she wears? Why not get the same materials for your own. Help her & make her exactly what you want in a woman, am sure there are still some understanding wives out there who would understand you.

I found some comments on the thread which i found quite uhmmm, oh well...

seangy4konji:
COUPLES should learn to respect privacy as what you dont see you dont get angry about it...Nor try am with me ooo,you wont enter the house again and if you will,you will stay in your parents house or wherever you are for a while as if kids are not involved?i will lock up the place and go continue leaving a stress free life in another state or hotel for a month...i will never beg you back no matter what you saw on the phone

Like seriously?! Why? Cos you are the husband? cos you own the right to do whatever you like without being questioned? Dude, easy. If she catches you cheating on phone and she gets upset, it s her right. U owe her an explanation and an apology. It s left for her to determine if she will forgive you or not. You ll lock up your house and continue living a stress free life in another state/hotel for a month? Lolz. You watch too much movies dude, where the actor owns his own company and resources, decides to chill and enjoy life in an hotel out of his city because something went wrong and he couldnt fix it. This is reality dude. your family, your life, imagine yourself as an official worker and u were absent for a whole month. And what happened afterwards? You come back to the situation you ran away from right? You just wasted ur time for a whole month and threw away your career plus your family all in the name of not admitting you are wrong and reefusing to apologise because u felt u are the boss. A Simple problem that can be avoided turns complicated.

That is one major Nigerian disadvantage of marrying your little sister instead of your friend, yeah..when you marry someone 10yrs younger than you and after some time, her opinions doesn't seem to matter anymore and you begin to act bossy, treating her like your little Kid and at the long run beating her. Shame!

seangy4konji:
you women are like devil and only a foolish man will let his wife,mother or anything woman know all about him because no matter how a woman have asked you to trust her?a day will come when that secret that she knows or little she knows will be turned into your weakness and you will be caught off guards...respect your wife but not a foolish way...Just like having a joint account with a Nigerian woman...The moment she goes to a party with her friends envious of her and she takes a bottle of origin just to cool off and they discuss,she says and my husband has 60 million naira in our joint account she you know,those ones will say and he is driving a range rover and bought this rickety corrola sport for you then wahala have started knowing that that money is your retirment pension funds...

Some Men can be so funny, A woman you live with, sleeps with on the same bed and have intecourse with, cooks your food, Knows almost everything about your existence day by day and you really feel you can outsmart her. I laugh in Hindi. A woman who has the tendency to murder you will definitely do regardless of how smart you think you are.

Bn in Marriage is one thing, bn intelligent enough to make it a success is another thing. Everyone has got their own shares of problems, trials and tribulations in their own marriages, but the ability to turn those crises around successfully without a third party's consent is what makes a successful home. Pray for the Lord's guidance and never to end up with the wrong choice. A good woman will do anything to make you go higher, cos she knows when u reach the high places, she is automatically there as well by default settings.

Marriage is one sweet thing that can ever happen to anyone except you make it a complicated institution yourself.

Some people be like.. why must he/she go through my phone? it is my personal property.
If you have got nothing to hide, then why get Upset, scared or complain when your partner is with your device?

ItsAnderson:

Today i went to pick my lil niece back from school. She is about 7 years old and very troublesome to me. As we were walking back home, she looked at me with all seriousness and told me ''that my head is shaped like brown beans and that i'm lucky she even talks to me in public''.....

DotaOfAKnig:
It happened to my female friend dat came 2visit me...my neigbour's dota of abt 4yrs, ran in2 d kitchen, where we were and jst looked at my friend and said "aunty u look like a cow"
I cudnt help it, I jst bursted into laughter

blymy:
It happend several yrs ago wen my dread locked kid bro abt 4yrs old den saw a mad man across our street nd he turned to us saying: see Dada agbalagba (elderly dreadlocked man) nd b4 we culd correct him, he started shouting Dada! Dada!! Dada!!! Whooosai! Come see race dat day.

Dear sis, I understand your situation. guess what? Mine is complaining exactly of the same thing, trying to change though
The truth is I was a gadget addict before we met, meeting her changed everything and sometimes I dont even remember my devices for a whole day.
Then she started this new attitude of sleeping off throughout the day which normally gets me bored especially during the weekends when am home fully, complained about this a lot, she tried changing but sometimes nature is so hard to cheat, I just found out that I started gettin addicted to my gadgets again afterwards. the issue now is she has stopped the over-sleepin attitude but am just so into my stuffs.
Ask yourself, what do u really feel has changed in you that made him embrace his gadget? when you find out, just make sure you drop that and go back to your old self, then he will gradually leave his alternative love.. with time.

Wale112:
Nigeria Girls And Big Stomach.

You will see girls as young as twenty one looking like they are 6 months pregnant.Just imagine if these girls are seen lying on their stomach in a bikini under the sun.
Please my people what is the cause of this big stomach?is it too much alcohol,too much sex,too much BJs or they have actually aborted before if they claim not to be pregnant.I have met many pretty girls but looking at their stomach is perplexing and enough cause for any reasonable man to infer that it is due to the afore mentioned reasons.

now this got me laughing. like seriously? have you seen a nigerian girl before? you just mentioned all the attributes of Ghanian women. Protuding stomach! Too much alcohol, too much sex, oh the last time I checked, prostitution is legalised in ghana. I have been to Labadi beach couple of times so I know what Ghanian girls look like in bikinis. quite funny looking statures. lolzz. compare a nigerian girl in her 20s with a Ghanian of the same age with sincerity bro.

waoh. interesting. I ve had a taste of both world. am sorry but I might have to be strict towards Ghanians here, not because I am from the opposite country but because it s the truth.

Godson201333:
Ghanian girls are always endowed both front and back ..

My God! you call that endowment? those your over weight ladies??
70percent of Ghanians ladies are Fat! Jeez, forget about the Nadia buharis and the other few pretty ones you see in the movies, sometimes I wonder which part or breed those ones are, in reality, it isnt so. what is with you and those extra weights huh? Curvy women are attractive but when it comes to bn too fat, puting on weight on each and every part, that is ugly and disgusting.

In terms of looks, hmmm, anyone who has been in both countries will testify to it that nigerian ladies are way too beautiful compared to the other country, except if you wanna be bias. the attraction on the face or stature of most nigerians will make you melt.

Something that still baffles me is d fact that large percentage of Ghanian women don't know how to cook, the only few ones who does uses this as a source of makin money. maybe 10% cooks real food and another 10 cooks indomie. I was so surprised seeing women queue at a food vendor's shop very early in the morning with their plates, I busted into an uncontrollable laughter. it doesn't speak well of an African woman. am sorry

I know black is beautiful, but I prefer moderately dark to bn so very black. people go don understand.

hmmmm. nigerians, how I wish we realise how blessed we are.

nuelzy:
just wondering

domestically
economically
socially
"climatically"
industrially
educationally
medically...etc

....broom or umbrella,which is more related,needed and a must have to us than the other??






VOTE WISELY

Keep judging your future with the importance of broom and umbrella. Don't sit down and do your maths well before choosing who to cast a vote for.
If you are over 18 and still judging your vote by the importance of A broom or umbrella, then I don't know what to say to you.

This is Ma.d.ness
Which of the car brands makes the car model Buhari again that is to be disqualified
Abi I miss thread enter ni

englishmart:
shiiit! She lost the pregnancy. Hope the baby didn't die?

Oh not at all, the baby is living in your sitting room.

She was my primary school mate . Faith I tell ya

Prodeegee:
When next your dog sees a stranger and doesn't bite or bark


Grab both his jaws, pull the stranger in-between his jaws and close it!

Press it well o.

Do it like 50times and your dog would get used to it.

I hope ds helps

Lol. clown.

hell of an ugly dog breed. Jesus! always looking sad and old. even at the very first minute of giving birth to them. Their facial appearance is enough to send visitors away, even before it barks. pls forgive me op. happy sales.

OLX isnt bad, only some of the people that posts ads.
@OP. I have made so many dealings on OLX and Tonaton (Ghana) and I havent complained yet. my advice is... know exactly what you want to buy precisely and go there to check before making payments. This is naija, making part payment for an online stuff from a public ad site is the greatest risk you can ever think of.

lofty900:
nobody sell stolen carz anymore, too risky

Oga how did you know this are you into the business. no hard feelings

BANGERLEE1:
oppss guess dem don snatch yur gf recently...... don't transfer the aggression on mi na brova.....

Lolz. dont take it personal na. it s just a general advice for those who do that. by the way am Married.

lol. so na to dey snatch othe people's gf dey reign now? Hmmm. continue, single ladies don finish for earth ni you will soon meet your Waterloo when you meet that tough dude that will probably remove one of your eyeballs. O.L.E

Butts here and there. Maka why? Must you? Why not leave their butts alone for them and post yours or your gf's
Keep comparing people's boots when others are out there trying to be successful. Boot kor, Bonnet ni.

ruggedtimi:
check how fast the touch response is, The camera quality, The music player..if u see sound effects instead of equalizer then is fake.

seeing "Sound effects" on the music option doesnt mean a phone is cloned. The equalizer names changes in different firmware releases. even the 4.3 android version of Samsung devices carries "Sound Alive"

Electronzeez:
To identify any original samsung phone kindly type this code *#1234#, if nothing pops out on the screen...then it's fake.

When you try that code on any samsung phone...it would give you the device version(model-code)......thank me later.

Bro, chinese galaxy clones have gone wiser, all the codes works now, trust me.

@Op. The first and easiest way to check if your device is fake or not is the camera/picture quality, especially in a low light condition. Even a Tecno picture quality is superb compared to it. you will notice the picture taking a small amount of data size in KB even at the maximum camera resolution, for example, if you snap a picture with an 8megapixel resolution and its size is around 400KB or below. then you have just been cloned.

Download an app called GENUINE GALAXY from the playstore, install and check, the app checks the device hardware and tells you if you have got the original or the opposite. ( note that it only works for S3, S4, S5 and and note 2 devices)


If you are an experienced Android user

A cloned Galaxy will boot into recovery but will never boot into Odin/download mode. I wont consider doing this if you havent paid for the phone simply because if you try to boot a cloned device into recovery/Odin and it fails, you will end up bricking the device and when you do a hard reset, the SAMSUNG splashscreen and startUp image is gone leaving you with the Open source "Android" logo. simply because the samsung items were placed manually into the phone via rooting and not an original Samsung firmware. Trust me, you might have some troubles with the seller if he noticed and you will be forced to buy the device.

Thirdly, if you have a laptop, connect that phone into the PC and check for the drivers that begins to install (at the bottom right corner of your pc) automatically your PC should start searching/trying to install a driver with the tag SAMSUNG. if you get something like "MTK" or a chinese written letters, you are holding a fake device. and it will never connect with any samsung/ODIN Software.

Joshrob:
I once dated a girl that can't speak Good English,am always scared whenever she want to talk cus I know she must Bleep up,
Funny enough she have a good waec result failing only chemistry

Funny enough, she has infected you with her flaws (The bolded parts) No hard feelings bro.

BreezyRita:
I'm not sure where to post this. Mods help me out please

She's about to be married. The marriage requirements or 'lists' have been given to the husband to-be. Of course, he must have prepared for this. But the list is somewhat exorbitant and paying all these things will mean a less posh wedding........

My question: Should a woman who's financially stable assist her to-be with money for payment of the bride price or completion of the rites??

Is it advisable??

Sis. that is the first important responsibility for a Man. why get married when you are not yet able to pay the Bride price or probably the bride doing that for you? There will be this confidence of "Yeah, she is my wife now" when he does that, even if it involves having to to odd jobs just to get the money. Trust me, he will be proud of it later in the future if he could try and raise it on his own.