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LOLITAinLAGOS:
Naked homo go get yourself a man on your page abeg. You here fishing?

hm. What are you up to?

Emilia154:
U are not serious

babe. What's the update?

spencekat:
I would not have given Jane my number.

Jane fvxked you over?

Candidlady:


Your threads are always on point

My partner likes food especially home made meals

Working on my kitchen skills kos them fit use food snatch **r from me

why did you censor that shii? We already know you're a fa***ot nau. You and your ilk shouldn't exist.

Psych412:
I don't what heartbreak is.... i serve the breakfast before you have The thought of doing that....this always makes broken relationship trauma easy for me without feelings

Eya.. you're slowly losing your humanity. Its seeping away gradually. Enjoy.

Threesha:
Yes,I have experienced heartbreaks.

When? Presently, I am healing from a heartbreak. This is a situation that had me going to the Doctor's on Friday because my of my heart rate.

A guy I loved genuinely didn't only go cold turkey on me, he called me names FOR NO REASON. This is same person that begged and begged him to give him a chance. My mental health nose dived.

It is imperative to know that we ought to take care of ourselves. Pain is worse when you feel you have brought it on yourself.

I will still say, move on please.


Let keep it coming

please be strong. Its his loss. You'll come out stronger.

Condition001:
There is a difference between a quarrelsome girlfriend and a Destructive one. During the time i was dating this my ex, i couldn’t count the numbers of my shirt she Torn. Any small argument like this she will lock up my shirt that i am going nowhere and if i struggle to leave her at the spot she would tear my shirt. She sometimes go into the kitchen and pour the food i’m cooking for both of us into the kitchen sink or break plates in the kitchen all in the name of quarreling with me which is very normal in a relationship She doesn’t cook most of the time she is with me in my hostel. I would be the one to cook majority of time and she always said she enjoyed my food that i cook so well. Thats how much i endured this girls wahala because i loved her then and she gives me good sex and not over demanding. If i no get i no get ni that time and she doesn’t because of that cheat on me. I guess thats why i still held on to the relationship then. Fast forward to 2018 december when we got a break in school i went to my home town and she also went to her. I was thinking that the everytime quarrel will reduce since we are not together at that time that we are on break but it got worse. If i don’t call her within 5hours i’m in soup she will nag nag and nag on the phone which i also endured because i knew she missed me thats why she was acting that way but it got to a point that i got tired and couldn’t focus on my hustle then because of her over demanding attention so i was pushed to break bonds with her noting to her that the reason i want a break up with her is because of her everytime wahala coz a day won’t go without us arguing or fighting over something and she usually initiate them. She was begging me not to leave her that she will change but i’ve made up my mind already and couldn’t change it. About two weeks after she called me and told me that there is a ritual she has to do pertaining her departure from her Egbe (Emere) and the guy she dated last must be there for the ritual to go well, she even said her dad was aware of it then that it wont hurt me at all but i refused to do that with her because i was scared and moreover i felt like i have broken up with her already why would she want me to come to her again. I faced my life after then but noticed that in the Freelancing job i was doing then and also Gee that i was doing wasn’t paying, not that i don’t usually see the opportunity to hit big but they always turn out to be failed no matter how hard i try. The only money i’ve been seeing is small change to do eat and do small boy i was backward academically, lots of carryovers but still moved on and hoping for better days. My thoughts then was that, who school help i just wanna graduate with any grade and face my life squarely after. Moving on with my hustle i realized that anytime i want to hit big money or i smell something big is coming my way from the way i update my clients then, i would just wake up with wet dreams maybe a night or two night before the supposedly Big hit reach my hand and everything will scatter that the client will block me. I used to thing then that maybe that money isn’t meant for me that what will be will be. Fast forward to last year, things were tougher for me financially that no day will go that i wont beg people on my contact list money for food Although i had graduated then but still have some courses to clear because of too much carryovers then. I continued with my hustle with lots of Mercy Soaps (Ose Aanu) from My Alfas but still yet things didn’t change, anytime big things is coming my way it will always flop at the end of the day. So last month i went to one new Alfa and he revealed to me that there was a girl i dated sometimes ago that she is the one behind all my predicament and tough luck hitting good money from the work i’m into, he even went further telling me that i’ve been using some (Ose Anu) lately that they are working for me but anytime the work want to show that this Powerful Emere girl will always hold it down with her Tragic Powers that if i noticed that anytime something is coming up i will always noticed a strange thing on my body like Wetdreaming or cobweb fly on my body when i’m outside and on a broad day light. The Alfa told me that i need to appeal to this girl because she has registered my name in her Group as her Earthly Husband and i won’t be able to move and inch to success in life if she doesn’t forgive me and reveal somethings to me about the then ritual they were going to make for her pertaining her departure from the group. The problem now is that the girl doesn’t want to grant me an audience one on one but rather chatting and i don’t want be chatting with her with stuff like that. This is not fictitious as i am not looking to trend on NL but rather to find a solution to my life.. Anybody with Candid advice?

bro... At this juncture ehn. I am scared for you. What if she wants you guys back together as the clause in the agreement you'll sign before she lets you succeed?

Setursight:
Potential is a possibility that somethings might/might not occur. An inherent possibility.
And just about everyone have it.

That being said, if a man is heading somewhere, and he's only coming along slowly but his babe/crush couldn't wait so she left, It doesn't makes her to be a bad person, it simply makes her not to be the type of lady a man can trust when the storms blow.

I kid you not, to be a professional say a Doctor, Accountant et Al is quite easy than to be say an entrepreneur. The former can become the latter and probably a bit more easily than for one to head directly into it. But the direct path is by far more discouraging , tasking and tortous.

So if a woman is gonna judge potential, she should be looking at where the guy is headed and what it cost to get there and decide wether she's up to it or not.

hm. Facts.

Babafrayol23:
Make I see money Japa go south Africa no stress meet southafrican women

lol

Sweatshop:
omo Lesotho paypal ?... I Don't get, I"m a new Freelancer and not familiar with the Paypal of a thing.

lol. Go create a Lesotho PayPal.

Sweatshop:
So i can sell the cash from my Paypal account. Are there verified buyrs in Nigeria?

yes. You have a Lesotho PayPal I presume? If you own a Lesotho PayPal then you could send the money to a buyer. I have a legit buyer I can recommend. He'll give you the equivalent in naira at a good rate.

Sweatshop:
So i just got a Gig job, but the only payment option available for me is PayPal, and one cannot receive money directly to Nigeria bank account from PayPal. Pls how do I navigate this?

bro.. just sell your funds to a buyer nau

PerfectStranger:
You a pastor?

I'm not sadly. I'm just there... I Neva really taste life.

Persephone1:
If I find myself at this position i wouldn't date myself. Perhaps years ago when I was naive about how the world works.

I'm an advocate balance and I believe Relationship flourish when partners are equal or closely equal in what they have to offer. True Love and respect is borne when two individuals naturally come together without the 'need' to. Needs which may be materials and none material. You enjoy true companionship when both partners genuinely look out for one another and that can only come if you as an individual is satisfied and relaxed within you. If you are struggling with a demon within you, it's only a matter of time before your partner becomes your baseball stick. If you aren't satisfied with your achievement as a man it's only a matter of time before you see your partner as an hindrance to your progress. If a woman isn't accomplished within her, in years to come she would see her husband as an excuse for her failure. So what time do you have to achieve some things for yourselves if not when you are youthful and single?
Again, I do not believe in a relationship where I have to respect my man because my next meal ticket lies with him or where he would have to cope with me because I'm the least he could get. You dig?

That said, who is a ready made man? Does a ready made man have no potentials? Has he exhausted his potentials? Answer this and I would respond with my thoughts.,

damn! Insightful. So you're indirectly saying an individual be it female or male shouldn't go into a relationship until he or she is financially bouyant?

I doff my hat. But just to satisfy my curiosity, is it that you aren't dating anyone currently because you're trying to build yourself?

Rozross:
May God bless you abundantly in no distant time. Keep working hard and play by the rules of life and Godly wealth.

amen. I'm doing just that I don't believe in cutting corners. Thanks dear, I appreciate you.

Persephone1:
What is potentials?

lol. Haba. Let's say a guy working on his craft, already making a bit of money, but barely enough for his rent and feeding and sustenance. He has a huge dream and is making small small progress. Don't be mean please. I'm trying to understand you better.

I don't drink, smoke or womanize. Nawa

Rozross:
but what?

I neva get money na I wish you all the best things in life though. I admire your realness

Persephone1:
BTW why does it look like guys are seriously trying to convince ladies to "build" with them. Una no do "forget hoes chase the bag " anymore ni? Abi Buhari economy don bend una

Build yourself, get a woman that has built herself too, meet at a middle ground and get married. . Life no hard.

so you wouldn't date a man with huge potentials, even if he has all the qualities you desire?

Rozross:
Amen amen and amen. May the unending blessings of God be showered upon you and your family.May all your heart desires be fulfilled in no distant time amen.

realest G on the app. I for marry you but..

ukaface:
I no dey look for trouble

but you do look like trouble. A gorgeous trouble. You got pretty eyes. Can you see the future through those big beautiful bulbs?

ukaface:
I don't understand
So me speaking for myself is synonymous to being a feminist?
Wahaleaux. Must I talk back? Yes I must, if you talk I go talk I'm not mute or dumb.
Did I curse you? And where did I attack men?
And I'm also not a fighter.

I don't need man, and being a Londoner isn't enticing bruv.

This lady be like you go like fight for real life.

Korah67:
Wow

this criminal don't you ever give up? With your jminer app

Good day giys. Although not hard as steel..or not completely hard when I'm on my own. Just slight touch, my preek don dey rise. I don't know if it's hyper sensitivity.

Anytime I just think of erotic stuff, my dick don dey respond
Its annoying. Can't I massage my dick in peace? Just looking at it sef can trigger rising. Which kyn mumu thing be this? I used to masturbate a lot in my teen years and early adult years. I have stopped. I'm trying to wean myself off porn too. Nairaland isn't helping though.

Btw I'm a virgin.

dauntless15:
Ann

God punish Ann toto. She stingy with toto too abi

Slynation:
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OP how far this?

Prettygirl200:
I love Jason Statham movies, which I can have some.

Omo this girl Sabi o. Omo dada

Prettygirl200:
Everyone knows that when it comes to physical strength we all know men are stronger. So I see no reason why they should be brainwashing ladies like that.

e get wetin dey at play. Dem won ruin the next generation just like the LGBTQWSTRVUX nonsense wey dem dey force down our throats now.

Prettygirl200:
lol abi??

I swear. She fit dump she sharp if she fit see am

Prettygirl200:
Lol na the upcoming ones, na dem con make me no dey watch Korean film again. I wish lee min hoo can just come back to the movie set. The guy is just what I like in men.

oya find am go Korea nau the way our Naija girls like that guy. Even my babe dey make me feel insecure

Prettygirl200:
yeah thanks. House of the dragon self na better rubbish, all those kind film I no dey watch once a woman is the lead.

most of your fellow gender won't agree with you though. What mainstream media is trying to purport is that women can be physically stronger than men. Imagine a little girl of five thinking she can best her male class mates because of being brainwashed by such movies.

Prettygirl200:
yeah u know why?? He looks manly, he acts manly, he leads in movies, he doesn't behave like a woman, his Adams apple, and his deep voice. The guy is manly more than those women in form of men in the Korean movies now.

I hate how those feminine Korean boys behave ehn.. e dey be me like make I beat them to pulp. Dem fit be gays sef