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Family › Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by TheCongo2: 3:20pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
peacefull: Hello everyone.
Thanks for open this topic. And sorry about my English is very poor. Coz I'm not English speaker.
I really need advice from who is Nigerian(Igbo) and who is marry with Nigerian(Igbo)guy.
I'm married with Igbo guy more than 10years. We started relationship totally almost 15years.
But I'm still dont know lots of things about Nigerian culture.
Now we are living separate. Coz he got new work in far place. That's why he is only pay for house bill where I living. I also working. But my wage is very small. He always demind me to pay for lots of things more than my wage since when we married.
In suddenly he leaved our house w/o any discuss when after he spoke his friend who is introduced him to new work.
Get new work is ok. But what I dont understand is always he decided by himself about all of things.
My health is no good. I suppose to be go to hospital what doctor said when I went to there @ last time. But I still cant go there more than 4month. Bcoz of money.
I told him that how much so hard life. But he always ignoring me.
I know that he has money. Coz every year he go back to Nigeria.
He can buy air ticket and many gifts for his family but he has no money to take me to hospital.
Is it his culture?
Wife must pay for life more than wage? Husband salary is more than wife. But still must pay half and half or more than him? I know that not everybody same.
If wife have sick,still have to go to work and have to make money to go to hospital by herself?
Is that Nigerian common marriage life style?
He started stay in Nigeria more than 1month when he go back to Nigeria. He told me 3months by this time. Now he is in Nigeria.
I can understand that everybody who is stay in abroad want go back to own country and missing family. But why always w/o wife?
People who is married and living in Nigeria,every year take holiday 1to3month? No work,no pay,w/o partner. Is it common?
And my husband dont wanna give me any gift and dont wanna spend time with me on any celebrate day. So I also stopped gift for him. I have no experience about dating with him as like common couples. Is it Igbo culture?
I know that I decided marry with him. But I didn't know kind of hard and lonely life Iwill get.
I still wanna ask many things. But already too much writing.
Sorry about my poor English once more time.
I hope many people can understand what I'm trying to tell you. PLS I NEED HELP.
THANKS. I am afraid you are married to an akudaya |
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I am Congolese and I have been on Nairaland since 2009. My First moniker was TheCongo before switching to TheCongo2. Here in Canada, I have never met a Nigerian who know of Nairaland. But I have met people from Nairaland |
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haslaw: Most hypocrites would kick and raise hell if the tables were turned or if it was your blood brother Lol... lol  lol ... I guess you were born in the Congo just like me ... lol |
Family › Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by TheCongo2: 6:23pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
StDonE: Clap for yourself! How come you already have a second wife so quick? Could it be that you have been sleeping and messing around that made your wife put up those attitudes. Mr Perfect, you exonerated yourself from any wrong doing in your marriage. You must be a bad ass overgrown baby. Exactly |
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Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt : 2022 World Cup Qualifier (3 - 1)pens On 29th March 2022 by TheCongo2: 7:43pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
I guess Senegal will be the first African team to qualify for the world cup. |
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madridguy: Bros, na Oyinbo land you dey live?  Please translate |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by TheCongo2: 1:25am On Mar 14, 2022 |
airsaylongcome: What is wrong with him bringing them to his house for better monitoring and supervision and probably also better living conditions? Be careful with the people you intend to bring in your house. They may be wolves. Should be wise to help them from a distance |
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madridguy: Men of today lack balls like our papa then.  Please elaborate |
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crisycent: Let’s agree to disagree. Wisdom at its best |
Travel › Re: Experience My First Racism In U. K From Someone Who I Thought Was My Friend. by TheCongo2: 3:45am On Feb 21, 2022 |
Dawn91: But you yorubas do worse to other tribes here in Nigeria.. I have been visiting the UK since childhood infact my sister and 90 percent of my family live there as citizens we have never experienced racism.. Bros it is the karma you sow you are reaping
Goodluck And you think your tribe is better than the Yorubas. You have never experienced racism but you are a bigot toward black people. |
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In summary, avoid wahala. Stay away from both of them. There are plenty of fish on the planet |
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TheOgaBoss: the Senegalese coach has been in charge for close to 8 years, the key to building a team is patience, hope Nigerians can be patient. Congrats to Eguavoen and Amunike. That is the reason why I always believe you should have given 10 years to the late Keshi. |
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Ladiesdoctor: Better
We need local coaches than the foreign coaches Louder please |
Sports › Re: Amunike Joins Super Eagles Coaching Crew by TheCongo2: 3:38am On Feb 08, 2022 |
Sonnobax15:
 Good....we don't need any foreign scammer any more to be the coach of the Super eagles. Louder please |
Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt : AFCON 2021 Finals: 4 - 2 pens On 6th February 2022 by TheCongo2: 1:15pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
Decacrown: Because Senegal is a West African country and a better team! Comparing to Senegal, Egypt is home to Nigerians. |
Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt : AFCON 2021 Finals: 4 - 2 pens On 6th February 2022 by TheCongo2: 11:30pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
pargelenis: My guy … I had to google translate your Chinese but you make a great point below … Exactly. More with an African coach while some nations waste millions on white coaches who do absolutely nothing  |
Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt : AFCON 2021 Finals: 4 - 2 pens On 6th February 2022 by TheCongo2: 11:27pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
pargelenis: Les Champions Afrique Exactement. En plus avec un entraineur Africain alors que certains nations gaspillent des millions sur les entraineurs blancs qui ne fouttent absolument rien. |
Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt : AFCON 2021 Finals: 4 - 2 pens On 6th February 2022 by TheCongo2: 11:20pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
kawkab: I am particularly impressed with the Senegalese FA for keeping their Coach Aliou Cisse for 8 years. Even when he lost the last final they still retained him.
If it is Nigeria they would have sacked him with a second thought It always break my heart each time I see a white man coaching the Nigeran national team. Your country is the giant of Africa and very rich in terms of human resources. I am sure there are Nigerians who are able to take the job of coaching the national team. |
Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt : AFCON 2021 Finals: 4 - 2 pens On 6th February 2022 by TheCongo2: 10:55pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
phemmyfour: Another one for local coaches...Africans should believe in their own Speak loud please |
Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt : AFCON 2021 Finals: 4 - 2 pens On 6th February 2022 by TheCongo2: 10:54pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Enoch3721: Egypt will win the AFCON this Year and if you want to know what the full time scores is it is binary as in 1-0 win for them Say that again please |
Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt : AFCON 2021 Finals: 4 - 2 pens On 6th February 2022 by TheCongo2: 10:54pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
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Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt : AFCON 2021 Finals: 4 - 2 pens On 6th February 2022 by TheCongo2: 10:50pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Reussite: I was tired of Gabaski & his cohort feeling like they got this AFCON under control especially when it gets to penalty. Very proud bunch.  Reasonable |
Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt : AFCON 2021 Finals: 4 - 2 pens On 6th February 2022 by TheCongo2: 10:50pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Onyeka2019: Broski Senegal won on P.K Well deserved to mane and teams
Make Senegal carry am for once’s Abi nah
Mane my man but salah too nah my man � Wow... thank you so much bro I am so happy |
Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt : AFCON 2021 Finals: 4 - 2 pens On 6th February 2022 by TheCongo2: 10:47pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
What is the score? How many more minutes to go ? |
Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt : AFCON 2021 Finals: 4 - 2 pens On 6th February 2022 by TheCongo2: 10:46pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
pargelenis: Senegal wins their first AFCON CONGRATULATIONS Senegal Happy from your fellow West Africans But West Africans always run to Egypt. And never to Senegal.. lol |