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CandidNotes:
Canada is better than where? Please don't mislead people. You people should go on YouTube and read the comments on hundreds of videos titled "Why Immigrants are Leaving Canada."

I have been saying this for ages. Racism in Canada is real but hidden or subtle.
The more you live in Canada, the more you will feel it. You will never feel it as a visitor or newcomer

Papapa1234:
Hello

pls my five year old is a US CITIZEN ..pls what do i need to do to enrol her in school or regularize her stay once we land in Canada.

thank you very much

All you will need to do is to walk in a school for enrolment. Most likely the school board will recommend to enrol him in a school near your home address. But it isn’t always the case.

Will your 5 year old be 6 by the time you land ?
If he will be less than 6, you will have to enroll him in kindergarten which is also free

slydog:
Guys, finally got the TD role, same dept but two steps below, a Lil less than 65k. Resumption is on my 59th day in Canada.
I guess I'll start here and build.
Thank you for all your encouragement.

Credit analyst at TD making 65K ? Hmmm…
Anyway, congratulations and good luck.

olasubomy:
You would need to apply for a Canadian Visa even with a valid USA B1/B2 visa. The good side is having a US visa increases your chances as long as you meet all the other requirements for a visitor visa.

Thank you so much

Hello Nairaland,

Is it possible for someone on a US B1/B2 visa to visit Canada without a Canadian visa?
Information found on the US Custom and border protection website suggests the following:

B-1 or B-2 Visas: During your visit to the U.S., you may visit Canada or Mexico for up to 30 days and re-enter the U.S. as long as you re-enter within the period noted on the Form I-94 which you received when you first entered.

https://help.cbp.gov/s/article/Article-751?language=en_US

However, I am not finding any reference to this subject on any Canadian government agency website.
Please advise

Dimaya:
There's a problem with single mothers which most men who have dated them constantly report.

If she's in a new relationship, and the babyfather returns on his knees, begging to have her back. She will end the new relationship in a heartbeat.

I have counselled several who have confided that they don't love their husbands. They still miss their babaydaddy and would return in a jiffy.

This doesn’t apply to single moms only.
This apply to people who have exes.
Most people end up marrying partners who turn out not to be their first choice of their love life

Prosperity4All:
CONS:
You will be starting marriage as a Father. Because her baby is now yours. So you have to be financially ready for child upkeep also, not only wife.
Which is good in the sense that, if you find that you are not ready for kids, then you better zip up.
PROS:
1. Tested. You know she's a layer LOL. In some rare cases there women who have a 1st child but having another becomes difficult. But you get what I mean.
2 . Good woman. She didn't want to commit an abortion that's the reason this thread is open. Do you prefer marrying a lady with no child but long abortion history or one with a child but zero abortion.
3. She deals with her mistakes than try to cover it by all means. You can trust her.

Note: This is coming from someone with over 15yrs of marital experience

Being a single mother doesn’t necessarily mean the woman didn’t want to commit an abotion.

It could also mean that she had tried to commit one but the process failed.
Or she wanted to commit one but became too afraid to do it.

Newton2024:
What are the reasons for your questions?

You are asking her to pray to God to save her sinful relationship

Newton2024:
The problem is not that you are fat. The problem is that he is tired of exploring your vagina, breasts, and all. He wants a new experience.

If you were slim, he would have been clamouring for a fat lady. Naturally, human being is insatiable.

Pray to God. Three days fasting and prayer. You will see wonderful God at work.

Involving God in fornication ?
Are you serious?

So sorry OP, be very strong and courageous.
12 years ago I posted a similar subject here on Nairaland under my previous (but now defunct) moniker "TheCongo".

You can read my entire story on by following this link:
https://www.nairaland.com/466065/broken-heart-isnt-broken-dream

To summarize, I would use those following words from the Bishop TD Jakes:

[b] There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone and move on.

When people can walk away from you, let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
People leave you because they are not attached to you. And if they are not attached to you, you can't make them stay.
People leave you because they weren't born with you. And if they weren't born with you, you can't make them stay.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person, it just means that their part in the story is over.
And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over.

Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye.
It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat, I don't need it.
Stop begging people to stay.

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to, Let it Go. [/b]

MALIGNANTGuest:
Forgive me!
We can meet if you so desire!

No need to

Sirqt5:
do d white folks , their children know u took taking photos of dem ? U come snap strangers photos invade their privacy come post on Nairaland for show

Adding to that, he blurred his own picture but he didn't blur the pictures of those kids.
I fail to understand the logic of some people.

MALIGNANTGuest:
My Humble self Feeding a Tortoise!
Soorryyy ooo had to remove my face!
.... Each Meal Cup costs $5 USD.

You blur your own picture but you didn't do the same for the pictures of the strangers.
Man, you are selfish.

baby124:
You obviously have a problem reading. You don’t know people are mad in the world? Some people desire something and can fake a whole story, you will be surprised. Especially when they are envious of you!

By the way, not everybody has a drink problem like you! Maybe you get drunk and sleep with strange men. Stop projecting your issues.

You don't have to be condescending. Have a nice day

baby124:
How do you even put yourself in such a position for someone to be comfortable enough to say that to you? Obviously it is paining the idiot that your wife is happy and more than likely dumped him. That kind of statement should tell you why he’s not married to your wife. He obviously has some kind of mental retardation. I mean, even a 2yr old won’t talk like that. My dear, tell him, good for him! You also slept with his wife .

It could also be a lie. Someone has lied that they slept with me before . I didn’t and had never even met the person before, true story. You need to be so careful what you believe in this life. When I heard I laughed loud!

And if it was true, so what? She was single and had boyfriends prior to you! Protect your home and cut the idiot off.

In reference with the bolded, any possibility that you were drunk ?

Acidosis:
What's the difference abeg?

The commitment part makes the whole difference

Stricker321:
Men in the house, how will you react if another man tells you he has slept with woman you married and that he has enjoyed everything there.

Is there anything more painful than this?

My answer would be "You have slept with the single girl but you never slept with my wife".

Onetenth:
i can do this bro.
How can i contact u?

Any idea of how well he can pay?

HajiaNotu:
I read from page 1-10 and I smh for most people that contributed.I want to believe they are all virgins or are celibate..if not, Your Hypocrisy Stinks

Lets take for Instance,
I am in a relationship in my late 20s with someone for 3yrs, in fact we were already planning our wedding..All of a sudden, he opted out with no tangible reason.I realised later I was carrying his baby..So according to this thread, its more noble to abort than give birth to the baby...So that the woman will be tagged( A single lady with no baggage, or A decent lady)
Ori gbogbo yin ti gbale

This is not to exonerate those ladies living recklessly or intentionally hooking men with pregnancy...

All in all, marrying a single mother does not guarantee happinness in marriage neither will happiness be a sure bet, if you marry a single lady.

The " God factor " is very important in chposing a life partner( short , tall, fat, slim, ugly , beautiful, intelligent, dullard, baby mama/dada, single, young or old)

Please don't abort.
This thread is the wrong place to take advises.
Too many imature mind here.
Be very strong and courageous.
My wife was a single mother when we first met.

Acidbath:
Have you gotten the validation you seek now?

Something as sensitive and as personal as marriage, you bring it here for useless red pillers that have zero qualities of being good husbands to analyse for you.

That's why oyibo people are ahead of you. They stick with their guts and do it without people's opinions.

I am curious to know where you are based.
Do you truly think that white are ahead of black people?
Do you truly think that white don’t use faceless forum to seek advice on personal matter.

How long this worship of white people will last ?

inioluwaDaniels:
I know of a lady dat has a child out of wedlock and she got a second chance by marrying again with 2 children now. But she is always on long talks with dis her child's father. I wonder if dat guy won't still be accessing her honey pot

Since they have been talking in your presence, can you tell us what those talks consist of? Child support or casual talk ?

Minjim:
This exactly what I'm facing. A six year old boy and she won't even allow him do any simple chores at home

Are you married?

OkoAnike:
Personal...

The pain become more when you are struggling to raise someone's child and he is using his own money to flex around and you find it difficult to buy water to drink...

And when that someone’s child become a superstar, guess who will take early retirement

SugarGirl44:
I laugh in Chinese...
So you're listening to these clueless boys on NL before making a decision about your life?
They all don't take shit online and are alpha males, but offline they are the biggest shit takers, also very confused and immature boys.

My point is, make your decision based on the information you have about the lady, not cos of what one anonymous goat says here.

Fact …

SugarGirl44:
If your 5 friends fancy those women that much, why didn't the marry them?

Cos I don't get.

I personally don’t even believe that

1stGenAmerican:
Love child? So no single mother are widows that once had a strong husband that she decided to have a child with? No single mother was once in an abusive or adulterous marriage that she had the courage to leave?
Your lack of critical thoughts reflect your negative outlook.

Please tell them

frozen70:
That's not true, she will actually love you to be a father figure to the child

Please tell them ...

Corporate2020:
The baby daddy will forever be fuccking her. I don't want to talk too much. I have 5 friends who still fucck their married baby mamas

I doubt that.

Puskas:
She will end up loving and caring for her child more than you

So ?

MistarT:
Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks.

Itwill do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks.

My wife and I have been married for 15 years. She was a single mother when we first met.
I have never regretted it.

But then again, to each his own.

blueAgent:
Never mind.
Is Obama an achievement for blacks?

In my book yes

codemaniacs:
By telling N:igeria to legalize h:omosexu:ality.

By not selling w:eapons to GEJ administration in order to fight b:h.

By invading lyb:ia.

By calling out African Americans years after his tenure.

E.t.c

A person sexual orientation is NONE of my business.
Having said that, what is wrong with legalizing homosexuality ?