₦airaland Forum

Angelluvy:
I'm no more interested in online dating any way

Don't give up.
Just apply excessive caution.
The set of people you meet online are the same one you would find in real life, good and bad people.

I would encourage you to keep on meeting people online but don't rush into anything.

Best of luck to you

Missis:
Majority of women are not happy in their marriages, na bear them dey bear.

Did you say majority ?
Are those arranged or forced marriages?

kogi2010:
mine was in South Africa I went to train station n I was late so I was trying to me up when I ran to the 2 last couches it was occupied by whites as soon as I get in they they were scared n I ran to d nxt one the threw me out

And you call that racism ? Seriously!

Zane2point4:
I travel and do bizz alot in china,i think this is not very common in Guangzhou,the Chinese there are used to blacks there,so they interact and do bizz together,some even speak igbo languages fluently,like a chinese woman that do sale bread and a man that do sale food.

Racism might be common in some province like shaoxin and other places that arent used to seeing blacks come for bizz.

Correct, and going through this thread some people are making accusations of racism without any tangible proofs.

SaintLucia:
Read in between the lines, you will find your answer why it is the worst among the two countries used as an example .

Fact or opinion?

SaintLucia:
If Nigeria should divide, Biafra international passport will be worst and ban by many countries from entering their land. Niger Republic and Benin Republic two poor countries bordering us have international passport which have more value than the Nigeria international passport due to the bad reputation of some few minority who have tarnished the image of the country's international passport.

There we go again with the misconception.
Why do some Nigerians think the Nigeria passport is the worst in the world.

ednut1:
once the assylum claim fails you are given a time frame to leave. If you dont leave you become wanted. When nabbed you will be detained and deported. Takes about two years to finalize the assylum claims

I always wonder how do people get arrested on immigration ground in Canada given that I never come across an inland immigration checkpoint in Canada.

The only places I have to deal with immigration are the port of entries when returning to Canada.

I have seen videos of the UK border agency and US immigration establishing inland checkpoint to deter illegal aliens. France has the same system as well where immigration officers would walk around a city checking people immigration status.

In Canada , the immigration doesn't check people inland. So, how do illegal immigrants get arrested and deported from Canada?

12 year ago, I met a student from Zambia who ended up by getting deported from Canada. How could this happen? I have no idea.

Another guy from Burundi got deported. Same question running into my mind.

maternal:
That's not sneaking in. Its their right. Most have been deported or are sitting in a cell waiting to be deported. The US visa approval in which they came in from have bee reduced.

Hey maternal, question for you.
Do asylum seekers get detained in Canada?
I thought it was only in the US where a person seeking asylum could be detained.

maternal:
War and terrorism is subjective. It depends on who you ask and their position.

Very good point

Nicoswit:
Can you tell us a little about the bad side of Jamaica

You would find more opportunities in Africa than you would in Jamaica.
Jamaica relies most on the tourism industry.
And most Jamaican are desperate to leave their country

I am Congolese and I have been to Jamaica.
I am wondering how would any sane person would consider leaving Africa to move to Jamaica?

ghuzy01:
Once they enter canada like this, next thing is Youtube. Welcome ma.
One more thing, I noticed its only women that are into this YouTube of a thing..why na

And?

joy4ogba:
Black women also get killed by the cops, black women also get arrested by cops. As black fathers get killed, get imprisoned or abscond, black women have to pick up the pieces and take on the role of both parents. Black women are the least desirable when it comes to dating, black women also face racism, Black women contribute their finances to the home front and are still expected to take care of the bulk of the house chores. When do black women get a break really?

Given the train of your thoughts, I can say the same thing about white men and white women ... they also get arrested and killed by the police ...and so on.

I am afraid you have missed the point on the subject

Activist001:
Did blacks build Europe?

They built America and are contributing to the European economy.

Where are you located by the way

Eriokanmi:
I'm yelling you sincerely. They did. He couldn't his have been lying too cos he's told us the story several times especially whenever he wanted to motivate us. I worked briefly with him before I went for my nysc cos NYSC had a little delay in mobilising us then. In order not to stay home doing nothing, I had to join him. As a successful man, who had nothing to lose or gain by telling is the story, I believed him 100%

Cool

Eriokanmi:
2-Anyone who goes to one of the old generation banks would see an inverter with battery banks on one side of their banking hall, powering their atms... its as a result of an innovation brought home by my uncle. He left union bank for Atlanta in the 90s, got employed at Walmart as stores officer. One day, as he was going home branched at a newspaper vendor( a mexican) booth to read papers as usual and there he spotted an Inverter company located in Arlington. I'm mentioning it as it is so people could check it out. Its called Trace Engineering, later changed their name to Xantrex. He applied to them to be their rep in Nigeria to solve the epileptic power supply in critical sectors but they refused his application for 3 reasons. One, that the product was new to Africa and 2ndly, that being black, it would be impossible to convince his people on adopting the technology . 3rdly, that they weren't ready to expand beyond the shores of America as at that time. He felt disappointed. 2 months later, they called and told him they had reconsidered his application and invited him for 2 weeks training after which he was asked to come to Nigeria with demos to show to his prospects.

I didn't have any reason to doubt your story until I reach the bolded.
Did they seriously tell him his race was one of the factors upon which the decision was based not to hire him ?

humilitypays:
we have the same reasoning. If I had the power, I would have invited white Europeans and Americans to come back to Nigeria and take some LGAs in all Nigerian states as their permanent ancestral home forever and also give them some government slots like all heads of security, judiciary, CBN, ministry of science and technology, sports, etc

Only white? What about the black? You are discriminating against your own race. It is only in Africa that we see this type of mindset.

Very disgusting

ALEX182:
When blacks start to unite, then we can make headway. But until then....

Exactly

Knowledge

LutanFyah:
No High Value Male will waste his time and resources on the dregs (single mothers) of the female folks.


I can get virgins and sweet girls without baggages with the same resources, so why waste it on filth in the name of love and have me cater for a bastard(s).


Simps and men reeking of low self esteem can have all of them.

And what do you call baggage?
We all carry baggages in our lives.
If dating a single mom isn't for you, then keep moving without casting stones on single moms.

ivolt:
The bold is a lie.

I thought I was the only one to dee that.

jasman1:
Single moms relationship is not for every man. Personally, I avoid them like a plaque and would rather keep my distance and not have anything whatsoever to do with them. They’re complete opposite from what any man would want for a daughter. They’re not a good influence at all to anyone around them. I hope she finds love again. Good luck to her

My wife was a single mom when we gad first met. We have been married for 14 years and we have 6 kids(including the one she had out of wedlock).

The experience has been very good for me.
Personally, I don't see anything wrong with marrying a single mother given that I love children .
You are right, dating a single mother isn't for everyone.

thatthickgurl:
Wishing you the very best

Send your resume

OP, please don't contact anyone in private. Exchange with them publicly so that other people may validate what is being told you.

You are running the risk of getting scam or ban from a country by contacting people in private

@Donvictor2015

olabrinks:
Hi guys

I just want to know if it will be possible for a single mom in her 20s to find a husband. It’s just a topic I was discussing with a friend,

A mother of a son

Let’s discuss, what she should expect
Her limitations
How she should go about dating
And the possible experiences you’ve had dating single moms or being a single mom dating yourself.

Are you seen as less than and do you veiw single Moms as nothing ?

I married my wife when she was a single mother and I never regret it. We have been married for 14 years now.

I don't see any issue with raising what some people here had described as "someone's else child". A child is a child . I have 6 kids (including the one from my wife before marriage) and I am very happy with my family.

The fact is to each his own. We should avoid putting stigma on people. All single mothers aren't the same just like all black people aren't criminal. In every groups of people there are always the good and bad apple. And single mothers aren't exempt from this rule.

You never know what tomorrow can bring. Who knows if the one you are referring to as someone's else child would become the cornerstone of your own family if you adopt him and raise him well.

Life is too short. We should focus on spreading love and giving people hope instead of discriminating or excluding them. If you can't marry a single mother, that is fine but please stop spreading condescending or pejorative messages about single mom. Single moms are human too. They deserve to be happy just like everyone.

Jemiwizzy:
thank you if I ask for money they will say it's a scam that is why I want to make sure I meet them in person if not am very scared of staying with guys like you stated up they know am desperately in need of a room so they will use that a a weapon against me.
I just regret exposing my condition since that day I felt worthless and I completely feel no one care about me.

No my friend, you shouldn't feel worthless. I don't see what wrong you have done that should make you feel this way. May I please ask how old are you?

EjaikreTheViper:
Nigerian girls are not worth the stress!
I prefer girls from Asia or other African countries

Come to the Congo

obicoolnino:
It's always good to be in love with the person you're to get married to because the moment you're in love, you'll overlook his or her mistakes and let things roll smoothly... If you know you can endure, you can as well get married without falling in love if you feel the lady is OK for you and you two can build a strong relationship regardless her character within.

And once you fall out of love, that will surely happen, your eyes will open. So, are you going to divorce ?

CalliDora1:
Yes ooo... I mean... You can't allow someone you don't feel anything for to touch you.

It's very key. Don't let anyone brainwash you with talks of " love can develop After marriage" it's doesn't work.

How old are you?

JennyKadry2:
Thecongo my best commentator on intimate matters in the family section back in the day

It is your Aussie sister JennyKadry

Lol... and where have you been hiding?
So happy to see you again

Nuel4:
come to uromi, in Edo state.

I thought this thread was referring to life abroad not in Nigeria