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Spot on . In fact he's too soft on the wife and I dey vex for am sef . He needs to give her the final warning to cut all communication with her new man. If she goes against the warning, he should simply tell her to go be with him since she's no longer interested in keeping her marital vows. Women like that needs to be handled with iron hand otherwise dem go just make their husband become mumu for house. I wonder how she will feel if her husband was the one doing this with a lady, I am sure she won't be happy so don't see why she's doing it to her husband.

AngelicBeing:
She is not telling you the whole truth, why cant she tell the guy to stop sending her such messages because it is doing much harm to her matrimony, abegi , except she is lying and enjoying the flirty messages, you and l dont know what they discuss with each other on phone when you are not there, marriage is sacred l think and should be held so, flirting with another man or woman once married breaks the sanctity of the institution, it seems your wife is the husband in your house while you are the wife, l may be wrong, but you have to do all you can to keep your home or else another guy in the name of family friend/ church member might be feasting on your wife

YOU AGAIN; what is wrong with you? You're now complaining about your husband and turned yourself into a contentious/nagging wife. For goodness sake, allow your husband bond with his son and stick your nose out of his business as he hasn't done anything to warrant looking for trouble. You should even be happy he is bonding with his son. Uche face your work and use your time and energy to do other productive things.

At bold so true . A woman like that would never be satisfied on anything done for her. Na she talk say others were working in the house o, yet she still was not satisfied. If she had the opportunity to charge for the air that the man was breathing in her house, her type would charge and yet she'd still not have been satsified. Na her husband na em I pity pass as I can just imagine what the man is going through in his house.

Richy4:
That's really funny.....
I know she might be frustrated with the guy, but the way she did it was not good...She did not even pause to think that the guy might be dying daily in that house due to the husband's success...

His friend probably the same age with him was married>>Got a house that can accommodate 5 people or more>>Got a Job...
But Him, he got nothing<<<Maybe still coping with unemployment...

In her mind she felt he was comfortable staying in her house watching TV all day...And the little dignity he got, she felt she should strip him of it..even if the guy did all those things she wanted, the way I have seen her tone of writing, she will look for a another degrading chore for him to do because obviously he was living in her mansion and ought to say thank you to her for every breath that he takes in that house...

MINT; well said . Some women know how to over exaggerate things and don’t know how to handle issues at home discreetly. Now that her hubby’s friend is gone she's still not satisfied. Probably she should go and find out where he moved to and demand he says thank you to her. I am in no way condoning his behaviour; but she's more like a nagging wife. Now wey him don go, make she face front and park well as no one knows tomorrow and one can have nothing today and have more tomorrow and vice versa, hence we should never look down on anyone.

Richy4:
If I say what was on my mind now, You might banish me from your thread...Or even deport me to Nigeria

Here is the thing.... U-don't-like- him...Especially when you feel he doesn't regard u as the Queen of England.

>>>Do you Know if he was giving your husband some money for the up keep of the house and you were not aware of it?

>>>Do you know the reason why he was staying in his friend's house?..Do you think he was not dying of shame staying in your house...just look at it this way, his friend was comfortable and settled and he was still finding his feet...Do you think there was any self esteem left in him especially when he knows that you do not like him?
>>>when you were calling the meeting was your husband there? Don't you think what u did was supposed to be what your husband should have done?

I am saying all these Dear because things do change and he might be the one to pick your husband up when it happens....which face are you gonna use to look at him should such situation arises?....His living arrangement was temporary, u should have endured or speak to your husband........I am gonna suggest that in future, try and destroy a bridge when you are 100% sure you won't be crossing over it or in need of it again....

What are you saying? The logical thing for him to have done was to leave that environment and calm down and then he'll be in a better frame of mind to discuss issues as adults without him beating his wife to this extent.

Airforce1:
Did her husband just woke up and started beating her for no reason?

I'm not in support of woman battering and I've never hit on a woman before and may God not let that happen.


But I think women should watch the kind of language they use on their husband because not all man can tolerate foul languages from women.

Last night I stopped by to pick up a friend, and overheard couple quarrelling.
The wife was calling the husband "Oloshi Oloriburuku okurin".
That's bad.

Absolute nonsense, not compulsory to show your baby bump. I just tire to dey see all this ridiculous copying of things that don't make sense.

I don’t know what some women derive from bleaching. I really pity her o as when she begin dey smell she go no say na mistake she make.

Wicked woman. The way some women are wicked to children they did not give birth to is alarming. If you know you can’t look after the child, return them back. How difficult is that?

All this long epistle on top say una won date una sef, na wah o. Let him be, if he was really interested in you, he would have done the right thing long time ago and that’s a FACT. If you carry on, you will get burnt worst than the last one so wake up and smell the coffee.

What sort of nansense is this? Using a language not understood and signing on top each other. E be like say dem no get anything better to sing about again na em make dem release this rubbish.

You are part of those who give women a bad name. How many times as well have you supported him when he needed cash? Go get a job and cater for your own major expenses yourself and don’t be a leech as he’s not your husband yet.

It’s obvious you are enjoying the drama otherwise, you would have cut her off as soon as she went back to her ex. Don’t entertain a lady who doesn’t know what she wants. Forget her NOW and face your front to avoid stories that touch and go look for someone else.

Go and do a parternity test on both children including the one that you say looks like you. Going forward, do a parternity test on any other child/ren you have later on to avoid stories that touch.

No be all of them o, some AAs' are prone to malaria whilst other AAs' are not. Infact some of them can even go for a long period of time without experiencing malaria.

Paulpaulpaul:
AA all the way but malaria too de disturb AA

In this 21st century, no one should be ignorant and not know their genotype. Know your genotype before dating/marriage because if you ignore it, that love wey you think say you get for your partner would disappear when you see the child/ren start having crisis if born with the SS genotype. It's very sad and tearful to watch an SS child when they have crisis.

Giving the money should not be an issue as 99.9% of the time, parents usually give the money back to you. If they don’t give it back, see it as a sign of appreciation. It’s always good to look after your parents for all the sacrifices they have done as that increases their joy towards you.

This is totally wrong and to think it's exciting is beyond me. There is a reason why health and safety rules exist and they ain’t there for the fun of it. Exposing a child to this dangerous machine and calling it “smart” is irresponsible. Learn to keep your child safe from disaster at all times.

Woman, you are becoming a contentious and nagging wife. Allow your MIL bond with her grandchild and stick your nose out of her business. Based on your write-up, your MIL hasn't done anything to warrant looking for her trouble. Use your time and energy to do other productive things and leave your MIL alone. A word is enough for the wise. No say dem no warn you o.

Very true and I agree with you on that relating to the internet. Though the internet itself is used to provide reasonable and valuable information, it is also used as an avenue to deceive the gullible ones. Hence, one really needs to put on their thinking cap when viewing information on the internet so as not to be thoroughly deceived. Besides, I really had to look at some of the pictures provided as information on this thread and use logical and common sense reasoning to deduce that some of the pictures shown doesn't corrolate with the wording provided.

Thanks for your time as well.

Snow5:
Cool..

Lets scrutinize any post or pics on the Internet before placing a comment..

With common sense..we can figure out what's true or what's not.

Thanks for your time.

Good observation. The picture doesn’t correlate with the wording of the captured photograph. Indeed not everything you see or read on the internet/news media is true/factual and one needs to be cautious when viewing text and pictures portrayed on the internet/news media as true/factual so as to avoid being deceived as we are now in the era of news being term as FAKE NEWS.

Snow5:
Think twice before u start crying...

Don't believe anything everything u see or hear from the Internet..

Who captured the picture?
And allowed d man got away with the corn.. (the food there looks like corn)

And why would a sane person share this as a food to almost half dead human? Where does the good samaritan thinks this being would get stove or gas to cook this meal?

Think of these things now.. And tell me..

And if it's true(which I know it's not, the kid might be probably begging the man for food) why did the photographer or who ever took that pics not fight for the child? Cos from the pics here.. It's clearly known that a matured photographer might have been d one that took that shot.


I stand to be corrected!!

Why is your wife arguing with your mother in the first place (Highly disrespectful)? Could your wife not have waited for you to return and alert you to whatever it is that your mother did to upset her? Anyway, calm both of them down and get to the bottom of the argument without asking either of them to leave to avoid complicating the issue any further.

If she can't take care of her hair, then she'll be a very dirty woman. Just imagine the smell wey go dey comot from dat hair, disgusting. Respect and a shout out to women who keep things natural.

Wetin be this again na. I don't understand why some women still fall for this and get deceived. Is it that they just close their eyes and don't do an investigation before they start sending these guys money? Lesson learnt, treat online relationships with caution, although not all are deceitful as some do end well.

I don't know why some ladies think that if they haven't exposed their body they won't look classy. Ladies should learn that they can cover up and still look gorgeous.

Hmm fear women , some of them are toxic and can end your life without showing any remorse. This lady in question is more of a mental patient and really needs to go for a medical examination before its too late. I hope the man stays well away from her and never take her back. On top that, make him make sure say him sue her for every dime wey she get for repairs to the property as well as for damages.

I no dey play the judging card o; but I go say am again say before a fight ensues, take your leave and allow the situation to calm itself and then you come back to the table and discuss like reasonable adults.

blaise26abj:
Oga detective quit the idealism. Life is rarely ideal. So please don't let us allow our imagination to run amok. When the unbiased story comes out then and only then should the judging start.

Fighting doesn't do any good to anyone and if he had removed himself from that altercation, then the idea of one punching one to the extent that one's life is in danger wouldn't occur.

blaise26abj:
what if he doesn't punch her he would die, wld you still make this statement?

That we have not heard the husband's side of the story doesn't mean that he should beat his wife to this extent. The logical thing for him to have done was to leave that environment and calm down and then he'll be in a better frame of mind to discuss issues as adults without the beating.

blaise26abj:
Never jump into conclusions. The real story could be different. It reeks of bias already.

Abeg nah correct wife you get o make you cherish her well well . Many men are looking for such a wife with no avail. That she suggest things for you doesn’t mean you are any less of a man who can't decide for himself it simply means team work. Which would you rather prefer a woman who can’t even make a simple decision or one who makes decisions that are viable? Your call as the choice is yours.

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Maybe you should also try it by not washing his own underwear and see his reaction and take it from there. You are his wife and I don't see any reason why he can't wash your underwear whether using a machine or hands especially when you're not feeling well.

What you no fit take for courtship, sort am out before you marry o as the issue becomes double when you marry. Family no go follow you enter marriage o so tell him your concerns NOW before you say I do as what he does that you don't like can get worse after marriage.