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Family › Re: Worst Make Up Ever by TheeDetective: 9:35pm On Apr 15, 2017

Hehehehe I don laugh sote sote, nah real wah o grin

MrMoRitz:
lol the groom loves it i presume lmao...it could be their culture tho...thats the only logical explanation to this bs lol

abi @lalasticlala fit get another explanation? Lol

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Family › Re: I Am Confused by TheeDetective: 9:33pm On Apr 15, 2017

Abi o no mind am jare. I don’t understand why people deceive themselves about the profession they are into. Some will claim they are doctors and yet don’t know what an operating theatre looks like. Some claim to be lawyers and yet don’t know what goes on in a court room. Some claim to be accountants and yet don’t know what a financial statement looks like, I just tire for some people sha.

The other day it was a poster called Amelian that claimed she was married on a thread and yet she was not married as she said that in another thread until she came out to say she just wanted it to be a make believe that she was married, I just SMH for her. People don’t realise that they will always get caught out if dem dey deceive person, nothing as good as being honest.

Viking007:
I knew he was just seeking for attention from desperate nairaland females. I'm very sure some gullible members already sent him pm.

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Family › Re: I Am Confused by TheeDetective: 4:14pm On Apr 14, 2017

This is the internet where people say things and want everyone to believe that they are this and that and the opposite is the case sometimes.

2mch:
A chartered accountant that cannot spell chartered. A chartered accountant that posts job vacancies on Nairaland as his known profession. Mr Momoh, this post is a lie. You begged for teaching job and customer service job in November.

https://www.nairaland.com/2980455/im-need-driving-job-within

freshyabstel:
My name is Dierrick, a young and abled man in deer need of a driving job within Gwarinpa, Jabi, Maitama, Asokoro or just any where in Abuja. I am a professional driver with about 6 years experience. plsss prospective employers could kindly reach me on 07016071706. Thanks

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Family › Re: I Am Confused by TheeDetective: 4:06pm On Apr 14, 2017*

In the link below you asked this same question about AS+AS and you were given a lot of advice not to go ahead with her and you responded as below so not sure why you are asking the same question again. angry

freshyabstel:
Wow! Thanks everyone, I am super grateful and I've gained a lot from you incisive contribution. I will heed to the advice and will put an end to the relationship, thanks once again.

https://www.nairaland.com/3573991/please-should-go-ahead#down

As for the lawyer, you already know that she doesn't fit your criteria, so i don't get it why you are still hanging on to her undecided

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Find yourself someone else as neither fits the bill and whilst you're doing that strive to be of marriageable material yourself (No offense) cool

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Family › Re: Worst Make Up Ever by TheeDetective: 3:59pm On Apr 14, 2017*

What level of bleaching is this again o shocked

see fanta face and coke hands. See makeup o, I guess the man like am like that grin

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Family › Re: Is It Reasonable Request? by TheeDetective: 9:17pm On Mar 31, 2017*

What sort of nansense is this? YOU WELL SO? Its men like you that give other men a bad name and you’ve brought disgrace to other men with this your silly attitude.

You have the effrontery to say you cheated and also a wife beater

You have the effrontery to say you won’t give your estranged wife any money to look after the children you both produced

You have the effrontery to be angry at your wife without even showing any remorse to your disgraceful character and bad ways

You have the effrontery to justify your actions as ok because you are her husband and you married her therefore she must accept anything that you do as ok and she should not think for herself and protect her health and safety and that of the children

In fact I don’t even know what to say again with the word effrontery

If you have a daughter would you tell her that it’s ok for her husband to put his hands on her as well as cheat on her? If you have a son would you tell him that it’s ok for him to put his hands on his wife and cheat on her?

Dude, you’ve got to change this mentality you have and do it quickly Mate; otherwise you’ll regret it for a long time to come. ENOUGH SAID.

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Family › Re: What Do I Do? Go On Or Quit?? by TheeDetective: 7:53pm On Mar 30, 2017

Why are you so much in a hurry to marry somebody you met only yesterday? undecided

You have not been long in courtship with him and you have allowed desperation to set in to settle down. You better follow the @bold advice your uncle gave you and don't be in a hurry to settle down.

ivylyn:
I am a fresh graduate awaiting service. I met a guy last year and he asked to go see my people so we could start the marriage process. Since both my parents are late, I went to my mum's sister and she referred me to one of her sons who is a prophet and he said the guy is not my husband. My aunty's elder son is the one who sponsored me through school and his opinion is that I complete my service and get a job before talking about marriage. Again one of his(my big cousin that sponsored my education) in-laws has come up to say the said guy is not my husband that I should stop seeing him. It is pertinent to note that these people know nothing about the said guy, they've never met him or had a conversation with him, plus they have not given me any tangible reasons yet. Am at a cross road now, don't know what to do. Your advice will be well appreciated. thanks.

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Family › Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by TheeDetective: 11:27pm On Mar 28, 2017

Why are you allowing a woman to ride all over you like this? I really pity you; as this kin woman nah to handle her with iron hand na em fit am. She currently sees you as second best and since the rich men in her class refused to marry her, she decided to hook an average guy so that the title MRS won’t leave her behind seeing that she’s getting old. Put your foot down NOW otherwise you will regret marrying her as she’s the one already wearing the trousers in your relationship. Anytime she ever compares you again to any other rich man, simply give her the choice to go be with them. Make you no play the mumu card in this your case o other wise nah sorry go be your name.

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Family › Re: . by TheeDetective: 10:01pm On Mar 25, 2017*

I don’t know what is wrong with some of you ladies. You have come up with an estimate of 1 million naira to do a wedding and your BF is still struggling in his business and you want him to spend 1 million naira on a wedding? undecided

YOU WELL SO? That 1 million naira, if he puts it into the business he is doing do you know that it can help his business further? You want to go into unnecessary debt because you want to marry abi? Currently you are making 20 thousand naira and you want to spend 1 million naira on your wedding, you got to be kidding me. E be like say you no know wetin your priorites be. Its not compulsory you do introduction, traditional and then wedding. You can do a court wedding and make it simple. Your parents and siblings, his parents and siblings are sufficient enough to be in attendance in the court wedding and start your life together. There is a thread in the family section of a woman whose mother made her marry a rich guy and the guy is showing her pepper to the extent that he beat her in her pregnancy. Make sure you go and read that thread and learn from that ladies experience as money is not always the answer to a happy home. If you know you really want to marry a rich man then free your fiancé and let him be. ENOUGH SAID.

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Family › Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by TheeDetective: 7:46pm On Mar 25, 2017*

So you want to deny your child because the guys that want to marry you would not do so again once you mention your child? undecided

YOU WELL SO? From the look of things, you are limiting yourself to only single guys and the truth of the matter whether you like it or not is that the bulk of single guys won’t marry a single mum FACT as they will only deceive you. Don't get me wrong as there are still some who would but they are in the minute minority. Expand your search by dating men who already have a child of their own as well as it will be more understanding and acceptable to them to marry a single mum than it would be for a single guy without a child of their own to marry a single mum. I am just stating the obvious FACT and let no one deceive you otherwise at least you yourself have seen it that once you mention your child, the men leave you which is what made me ascertain that it might be single guys only that you are going after. Lastly, never ever deny your child nor hide the fact that you already have a child because you want to marry as marriage is not the only thing that makes one fulfilled in life.

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Family › Re: I Feel My Father -in -law Is Trying To Control Me by TheeDetective: 11:19pm On Mar 24, 2017

It’s not compulsory that you should visit him every week or every month. Go at your own convenience and I don’t mean only go once a year o, but keep in regular contact with him but let no one determine how often you should go as that should come directly from you and you only. In all, don’t neglect visiting him as he’s like a second dad to you now.

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Family › Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by TheeDetective: 11:08pm On Mar 24, 2017

Dude, don't let a woman dictate for you when to disclose facts. Let your family be in the know that your GF already has a child as it seems your GF is the one who is wearing the trousers in your relationship. Man up mate, and dont let your GF make that decision for you.

olaszydaruma:
This is exactly what is going on in my life too. Although my family is yet to discovered that she already had a child before. She said I should not let them know yet, that when its time she will let me know.

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Family › Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by TheeDetective: 11:05pm On Mar 24, 2017

Not playing the blame game o, but at 15 years old she already has a child, that means that she probably was 14 when she got pregnant which is a very young age to be a mum. At that age, one would expect her to be concentrating on her school work and not having a baby. That said, she’s 22 now which means the child is about 7 years old. The question is can you accept that you have a 7 years old step child? When you eventually have your own first child with her, how would you feel? It's understandable if you already had a child as well but for your case, you never get pikin yet o and you think its child’s play to suddenly become a father to a step child? No offence o, but e go hard small, so make you pay careful attention to wetin your family wan talk for this matter o. No let anybody deceive you say go ahead and marry her it's all in the past so nothing happen o, cos when everything blow, dem no go der there with you o.

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Romance › Re: If My Bf Doesnt Beat Me A Day, I Will Be So Nervous Truout That Day- Naija Lady by TheeDetective: 10:57pm On Mar 20, 2017*

Something must be wrong with you dude, you need help if you are justifying domestic violence. Learn to change from this mentality you have of beating women; it will do you no good as only weak men beat women. Domestic violence should not be encouraged in this day and age; rather it should be frowned upon and the earlier you realise that, the better for you.

jakandeola:
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My comments in my previous post to you below remains the same. Enough said.
Are my eyes deceiving me? Or did I read this wrongly? You not only beat your lady once; which is bad enough, but you went ahead and did it twice and you are so proud of it that you come on social media to announce to the whole world that you beat her and now she’s in total submission? Listen mate; putting your hands on a woman to make her submit to you will only make you look like a weak man i.e. one who can only use his fist to explain things and that’s not good. On a side note, is that how you will train your son to beat his woman as well? And is that how you would tell your daughter that its ok for a man to beat her up? It’s a small world, hence be careful how you put your hands on people as violence is not usually a good option in solving a problem.

jakandeola:
my dear I hate wen a man beat a woman I neva like it but we av to do it u women ar like children dat u nid to handle wit strong hand or dey neva respect u. if u dont dicipline ur child he lack manners. I dont support a man dat beats his wife evryday dat turn her to pounching bag but is good to ddicipline ur woman wen she go wrong. I date a girl for 2yrs and 3moth. I remember I told her 2tinhs dat she stay away from her sone of her bad friend and dat wem am around she shd neva speak her lang wit her friend she disobey be and a mnth after I beat her she change her ways but still did it again after 2mnths. den I beat her again u wont belive dat after I beat her she now changed to a better person and for d next 2yrs we were together I neva beat her again and treat her like a queen. women nid force if u dont beat her she will disobey

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Family › Re: Depressed Wife Needs Your Urgent Advice. by TheeDetective: 9:55pm On Mar 19, 2017

@bold what type of advice is this? So its ok for a married man to cheat as long as he protects himself, then nothing is lost? FOR REAL? If the wife was the one doing exactly what her husband is doing would you give this same advice? Sometimes it’s good to give advice that we ourselves can take and not one that we can't accept.

holocron:
Madam, u have no problems. Your husband loves and cares for you. Give him his private space. Stay off his phones and stop snooping around him. Eavesdroppers never hear good of themselves. You are 7 months pregnant, and such can hardly satisfy the sexual needs of your virile husband. At least condoms confirm that he practices safe sex, and nothing is lost. Things will normalize when you are fit again. Create a conducive atmosphere in your home and watch your marriage flourish. Stop making your home a hell on this earth.

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Family › Re: Lady Gets 9 Stitches On Her Head After Being Married To Hubby For One Month by TheeDetective: 1:34am On Mar 19, 2017

Are my eyes deceiving me? Or did I read this wrongly? You not only beat your lady once; which is bad enough, but you went ahead and did it twice and you are so proud of it that you come on social media to announce to the whole world that you beat her and now she’s in total submission? Listen mate; putting your hands on a woman to make her submit to you will only make you look like a weak man i.e. one who can only use his fist to explain things and that’s not good. On a side note, is that how you will train your son to beat his woman as well? And is that how you would tell your daughter that its ok for a man to beat her up? It’s a small world, hence be careful how you put your hands on people as violence is not usually a good option in solving a problem.

jakandeola:
my dear I hate wen a man beat a woman I neva like it but we av to do it u women ar like children dat u nid to handle wit strong hand or dey neva respect u. if u dont dicipline ur child he lack manners. I dont support a man dat beats his wife evryday dat turn her to pounching bag but is good to ddicipline ur woman wen she go wrong. I date a girl for 2yrs and 3moth. I remember I told her 2tinhs dat she stay away from her sone of her bad friend and dat wem am around she shd neva speak her lang wit her friend she disobey be and a mnth after I beat her she change her ways but still did it again after 2mnths. den I beat her again u wont belive dat after I beat her she now changed to a better person and for d next 2yrs we were together I neva beat her again and treat her like a queen. women nid force if u dont beat her she will disobey

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Family › Re: I Can't Resist My Secretary by TheeDetective: 9:46pm On Mar 17, 2017

You are encouraging a married man to carry on with an affair? huh

Are you kidding me? angry

segzy0i:
My submission is different I wl just advice u talk to her abt ur family if she s ready to cooperate go ahead wt her bc u ve woken her up emotionally u dnt knw d trauma.nd d challenges pple like dt are goin tru if shes decent nd resoonsible
u can go ahead

@Op, I wonder how you will feel if it was your wife that did this? Would you be happy and tell her “IT’S OK DEAR CARRY ON WITH WHAT YOU ARE DOING, I AM FINE WITH IT” is that what you would say? Do on to others what you want done to you. If you know that you would be angry with your wife and feel hurt that she cheated on you with her co-worker or any other man, then STOP THIS YOUR AFFAIR WITH YOUR SECRETARY and don’t hurt your wife and in the process hurt your kids as well. Develop self control and keep your marital vows sacred. Make you no talk say dem no warn you o, as you will bear whatever consequences that comes out of this affair. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE .

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Family › Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by TheeDetective: 2:25pm On Mar 03, 2017

Really?

then call a spade a spade. cool

Dyt:
I know it can be really annoying

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Family › Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by TheeDetective: 1:55pm On Mar 03, 2017

Dyt:
K

Family › Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by TheeDetective: 1:40pm On Mar 03, 2017

Sometimes it's good for one to keep quiet when they have nothing useful to contribute on an issue instead of typing nansense.

Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job

Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans

Y'all should take a chill pill
And stop quoting me

Y'all condemning her
Yes we all make mistakes
This is hers and she's willing to correct

So easy to throw jabs at people looking for hope
Like they haven't made mistakes once or twice in their lifetime

Typical!!!

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Family › Re: I Want To Die, 85-year-old Woman Rejected By Children Cries Out by TheeDetective: 4:23pm On Mar 02, 2017

What a pity. A woman who should be enjoying her old age is being subjected to this kind of treatment and she has not 1 but 5 children and none wants to know about her welfare and upkeep. They're all missing a mother's blessing and I pity them.

1) The children would grow old too and if their children treat them the same way they treated their mother they should not complain.

2) The children's wives would be MIL someday too and if they are treated the same way they treated their MIL they should not complain.

Their mother stayed with someone else for a good few months and there was no complaint from the person that she was troublesome. It just shows that the children are the type who don't care and I SMH for them as what goes around, they say comes around.

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Family › Re: Please Advice Me by TheeDetective: 2:52pm On Mar 02, 2017*

I don't understand why some women don't have self respect for themselves. You don't need anyone to tell you that it's either he's married or he's interested in someone else. Find someone else and stop forcing yourself and wasting time on someone who's not interested in you.

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Family › Re: Photos Of A Father And His Five Pretty Daughters by TheeDetective: 12:24am On Mar 02, 2017

Wow they are pretty with nice skin tone and less make-up. Their father must be proud of them all. Hope they'll all settle in good marital homes.

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Family › Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by TheeDetective: 8:02pm On Mar 01, 2017*

Something is really wrong with you huh

if as a married woman you go about giving your number to men when they ask for it whether right or wrong angry

. If nah your husband dey do this kin thing you go like am? STOP GIVING OUT RIGHT OR WRONG NUMBER as it makes you look cheap.

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Family › Re: I'm Pregnant Again!! Need Moral Support!! by TheeDetective: 11:19pm On Feb 28, 2017*

There are women looking for the fruit of the womb and they don’t have it. You have it and you are here complaining again. Don’t you ever get tired of complaining? Pay no attention to what others say about the pregnancy being so soon. Carry your pregnancy with happiness woman and never ever say a pregnancy is an accident. Be careful what you say as I’m sure if the child gets to hear it, it would not sound cool to the child.

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Family › Re: Is 70,000 Enough? by TheeDetective: 6:24pm On Feb 28, 2017

Whether you have 70K, 300K or more if you don't plan properly and be content, money would never be enough. Does his intended wife have a job or business she’s running? Its advisable for a wife to have a means of finance and bring something to the table to keep the home afloat.

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Family › Re: She's 33, I'm 33. by TheeDetective: 7:29pm On Feb 25, 2017

Stubbornness is not age restricted. You're seeing that she is stubborn and you never marry her yet o. Her subbornness go increase when you marry her. Run before you create another thread after marriage saying MY WIFE'S STUBBORRNESS HAS DOUBLED. No say them no warn you o.

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Family › Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by TheeDetective: 10:32pm On Feb 24, 2017

The ideology that all men are polygamous in nature and are cheats is a TOTAL FALLACY. A man cheats because he wants to and not because he has to. If you have self control and respect for your spouse, then it would be hard for you to cheat on them. ENOUGH SAID.

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Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe's Valentine Gift & Letter From Her 6-Year-Old Son Got Fans Talking by TheeDetective: 10:14pm On Feb 15, 2017*

Politics › Re: 11 Proofs That Show Recession Is Almost Over – FG by TheeDetective: 4:34pm On Feb 15, 2017*

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Family › Re: Man Discovers 32-year-old ‘son’ Isn’t His Child (photos) by TheeDetective: 1:38am On Feb 15, 2017

So true

. FEAR WOMEN as only a woman knows who fathered her child but a smart man would know if the child is his or not. Physical resemblance, certain traits displayed and even the child’s temperament may determine that. This man in question was not smart enough as you can clearly see that both of them have no resemblance and that alone was enough to have raised alarm bells. Sadly he did not take note and raised a child that was not his for 32 years, very sad. I hope other men learn from this man's bitter experience as his wife was wicked and evil.

chronique:
Exactly! All my father's children have certain traits that we all picked from him and from all 15,no one is an exception. Just that some of us have either all, or some of these traits. From allergies, to way of talking, to looks, etc. We all have a particular kind of allergy that is hereditary and all react to it the same way. That is just one. At times when one of us does something, others would laugh and say "na once dem go know say na ur papa born you".

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Family › Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by TheeDetective: 5:01pm On Feb 14, 2017

You have no business with the man. Na your wife you get business with. Make it loud and clear that you will not accept this nansense going on any longer and let her know you mean it. I hope you yourself have not cheated on your wife. If you have, then you both deserve each other.

brasilia:
.But she us angry that i asked her abiut it, and she has said i should think watever I like, she doesn't care You see that is why I am thinking of confronting the guy to stay away from her.

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