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Politics › Re: Uju Kennedy Threatens To Jail UNICAL Student Over Sexual Harassment Allegations by TheGift: 10:13pm On Sep 12, 2023
nlfpmod:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/09/12/women-affairs-minister-kennedy-threatens-jail-university-calabar-female-law-student-over
There is nothing incriminating in this call, rather , Her message was that the young Woman should not go and lie against somebody.
Family › Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by TheGift: 5:11pm On Sep 12, 2023
ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...
Why ask Her to live? Just get a second Wife that loves sex and will commit to giving it to you whenever you want.

You allowed it to fester for too long, and you guys got into a rhythm. If someone doesn't enjoy sex it may most likely be the way they where introduced or the way they are having sex. You guys need to switch things up one way or another, but first you need to talk, it's Her duty to satisfy your urges and you hers, but it's never going to be by gra gra.


Meanhwile, you need to increase that monthly allowance to like 300-350k esp in this economy. Abi no be you and your children go still chop the food?
Education › Re: First Class Graduate by TheGift: 3:59pm On Sep 12, 2023
EmdRizy:
My name is Gba Peter Ternenge, I just graduated with a first class in Industrial Physics. The only student with a first class out of over 200 students in the department.
Congratulations. 🎉🎈🎊🍾 Industrial Physics, your brain dey work.

May God grant your more success without sorrow. Amen 🙏🏽
Celebrities › Re: Moyo Lawal Leaked Sex Tape: Actress Reacts by TheGift: 9:57pm On Sep 10, 2023
carl90:
A.I is to blame.
Someone can put my face on a IndecentStar making it look I was the one in the porn.
Let's move on from all these celeb porn and leaks.
A.I is taking charge
Do you still think A.I. is to blame? In which case you know more than Moho Lawal Herself
Romance › Re: I Regret Having Sex by TheGift: 3:16pm On Sep 10, 2023
Proverbs 5:3-22

3 For the lips of a harlot are like a honeycomb dropping, and her throat is smoother than oil.
4 But her end is bitter as wormwood, and sharp as a two-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down into death, and her steps go in as far as hell.
6 They walk not by the path of life, her steps are wandering, and unaccountable.
7 Now, therefore, my son, hear me, and depart not from the words of my mouth.
8 Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the doors of her house.
9 Give not thy honour to strangers, and thy years to the cruel.
10 Lest strangers be filled with thy strength, and thy labours be in another man’s house,
11 And thou mourn at the last, when thou shalt have spent thy flesh and thy body, and say;
12 Why have I hated instruction, and my heart consented not to reproof,
13 And have not heard the voice of them that taught me, and have not inclined my ear to masters?
14 I have almost been in all evil, in the midst of the church and of the congregation.
15 Drink water out of thy own cistern, and the streams of thy own well:
16 Let thy fountains be conveyed abroad, and in the streets divide thy waters.
17 Keep them to thyself alone, neither let strangers be partakers with thee.
18 Let thy vein be blessed, and rejoice with the wife of thy youth:
19 Let her be thy dearest hind, and most agreeable fawn: let her breasts inebriate thee at all times: be thou delighted continually with her love.
20 Why art thou seduced, my son, by a strange woman, and art cherished in the bosom of another?
21 The Lord beholdeth the ways of man, and considereth all his steps.
22 His own iniquities catch the wicked, and he is fast bound with the ropes of his own sins.
Career › Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by TheGift: 10:49pm On Sep 08, 2023
Oyerinde16:
In all, it boils down to a dysfunctional system...

A functional system will detect issues like this almost immediately... but once the system is faulty... that's what you get...

The Nigerian system is so faulty, it will take a miracle to fix...
I agree with your point.
Career › Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by TheGift: 2:11pm On Sep 08, 2023
Oyindamolah:
As an entrepreneur trying to build something you cannot pay that high for the first 1-2 yrs
What about the overpaid politicians that are still looting underpaid workers salaries?

These things usually come down to ones fundamental values. He that is faithful with little will be faithful with much. Thieves dont automatically stop stealing when they have stolen a lot of money.
Career › Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by TheGift: 2:09pm On Sep 08, 2023
Khallicopyro:
Stop it now that you can. Invest the one wey you don achieve so far. If e cast later money go dey to solve am
If He likes He should invest, Ill gotten wealth will still find a way of blowing an ill wind. What we sow we reap, one way or another. May we find mercy.
Politics › Re: Power And Money. Which One Is Greater? by TheGift: 11:01am On Sep 08, 2023
DaveHarry:
Between power and money which one is greater. For the deep thinkers!
Go and ask Putin and the Russian Oligarchs, they will tell you that it is Power.
Politics › Re: Power And Money. Which One Is Greater? by TheGift: 11:00am On Sep 08, 2023
DaveHarry:
Between power and money which one is greater. For the deep thinkers!
Power!

Go and ask Putin and the Russian Oligarchs, they will tell you that it is Power.
Family › Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by TheGift: 6:40pm On Sep 07, 2023
gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him
Why does he not ask His Wife? Is She a foolish Woman? Or is She an untrustworthy Woman? Or is She a Woman that doesn't know how to cook? Or is it just the fact that She is a Woman?

If yes to any of the above, then why did He marry Her?

He should give Her enough to make a soup that is befitting of His clueless "alpha Male" self.
Travel › Re: First Time On A Plane Where Did You Travel To? by TheGift: 5:40pm On Sep 06, 2023
Visman:
Myself i traveled from Abuja to Lagos in December 2011
1988 Warri to Lagos, Aero Contractors
Politics › Re: If You Sell Handkerchiefs/Tissues Expect To Profit From Obidients Today - Omokri by TheGift: 11:21am On Sep 06, 2023
Peterobiisathie:
https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1699333169143509040
What is Reno Omokri's job again, apart from whipping up sentiments in the most unintelligent ways?

Somebody that started kissing Peter Obi's ass when it looked like He might win, before INEC came and did their thing.
Politics › Re: LP To Odili: Your lavish praise On Olanipekun, Fagbemi Is Undignifying by TheGift: 9:58am On Sep 06, 2023
fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pv3aYzIgtu0

Olanipekun SAN and Fagbemi SAN (AGF) are Senior lawyers representing Bola Tinubu and APC respectively, at the PEPT



SOURCE: LP

Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7827401/dont-blackmail-judges-losers-should#125558953
I watched Her speak and as someone who is trained in and appreciates such aspects of the Law as the Independence of the Judiciary, it was shameful and embarrassing to watch.
Politics › Re: I’ll Break All Bottlenecks — Investors Will Make Profit In Nigeria - Tinubu by TheGift: 9:50am On Sep 06, 2023
Politics › Re: Strike Flops In Lagos As Workers, Banks Shun NLC by TheGift: 9:47am On Sep 06, 2023
Melezenawii:
https://guardian.ng/news/strike-flops-in-lagos-as-workers-banks-shun-nlc/?utm_term=Autofeed&echobox=twitter_post&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1693973005
I guess people in Lagos are not feeling the economic heat? Or the cartel-like powers that be have threatened workers? Or people are just so beat down by the stress of living in Lagos that they don't have strength for such.
Politics › Re: Presidential Election Tribunal Judgment Won't Favour Peter Obi – Primate Ayodele by TheGift: 10:15pm On Sep 05, 2023
thegeniusmedia:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailypost.ng/2023/09/05/presidential-tribunal-nigerians-must-lower-their-expectation-primate-ayodele/%3famp=1
Primate Ayodele, the forecaster, Guess master, estimator, the Guesstimating Prophet. Back with another one.
Politics › Re: Bola A. Thubv: Farooq A. Kperogi, & Body Filling Of Rusted Image By Barth by TheGift: 10:13pm On Sep 05, 2023
complexstuffs:
You go dey alright las las
I am already alright, thanks.
Family › Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by TheGift: 10:12pm On Sep 05, 2023
If you were a little more sensitive to the needs of Women or your wife, you may have educated yourself on something called Post Partum Depression. it has the capacity to bring drastic changes to a Woman's personality.

But you are more caught up in you false sense of Manhood, which is tied to your ability to tame a Woman into submission, as if She is a wild animal from the Bush, or a Pet dog. Rather than a fellow Human Being ,a partner, friend and companion.

Now, the child birth experience has broken the hold of your forced dominance , and She is showing you shege. And you the Man, who was able to tame Her, cannot tame Himself, or His emotions, cannot realize that right now what His Wife and the mother of His children need, are not is frustration fuelled angers, but His care, patience and understanding.

Drink, to forget your sorrows, for the night, you will still wake up to it tommorow. I dont think you should drink and brainstorm with your alcoholically enhanced furstration and anger though, so you wont go home and make things worse.

The first battle you need to Win , is the battle with yourself. Put your ego aside, and take responsibilty for building and keeping your family. Be a Man, your Children need you, your Wife needs you, and you, need you. All the best.
Family › Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by TheGift: 10:10pm On Sep 05, 2023
thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.
If you were a little more sensitive to the needs of Women or your wife, you may have educated yourself on something called Post Partum Depression. it has the capacity to bring drastic changes to a Woman's personality.

But you are more caught up in you false sense of Manhood, which is tied to your ability to tame a Woman into submission, as if She is a wild animal from the Bush, or a Pet dog. Rather than a fellow Human Being ,a partner, friend and companion.

Now, the child birth experience has broken the hold of your forced dominance , and She is showing you shege. And you the Man, who was able to tame Her, cannot tame Himself, or His emotions, cannot realize that right now what His Wife and the mother of His children need, are not is frustration fuelled angers, but His care, patience and understanding.

Drink, to forget your sorrows, for the night, you will still wake up to it tommorow. I dont think you should drink and brainstorm with your alcoholically enhanced furstration and anger though, so you wont go home and make things worse.

The first battle you need to Win , is the battle with yourself. Put your ego aside, and take responsibilty for building and keeping your family. Be a Man, your Children need you, your Wife needs you, and you, need you. All the best.
Family › Re: My Woman Wants A Blood Covenant by TheGift: 2:15pm On Sep 05, 2023
BItt:
I had this girl I met in year 2020 during the covid period. It was hard to get her. She was much younger and had more attention.

During that period I was out of jobs and was struggling. I hardly had enough to take care of myself but she did not trouble me much. She was in the habit of buying things for me no matter how little it was. I was also reasonable enough to buy her more.

At a point in 2021 I got a job in another state. It took a while before I could save up and asked her to come.

She's asking us to get married but I am trying to explain to her what I am earning is not enough to start a home yet. Apart from that what she has is an olevel and some business she does online. She is still dependent on me for alot.

Yesterday, I took her out to an eatry and when we got back home, she suggested we took a Blood oath. Blood oath that neither of us will leave each other.
How do girls get to know and believe all these stuff?

She said we will pierce each other's left thumb, press it against each others thumb and say the oath. I don't know if it works but I feel strange about doing it.
Tell her you don't believe in that type of none sense.

Tell her that your future together will be better if you focus on nurturing it today than if you focus on meaningless oaths.

Only immature people want to demand that the future plays out exactly how they want, even though we all know it doesn't happen that way.

If you like go and do blood oath, that you don't believe in. Na you sabi.
Politics › Re: Bola A. Thubv: Farooq A. Kperogi, & Body Filling Of Rusted Image By Barth by TheGift: 10:40am On Sep 05, 2023
lolu2019:
if I tell u my story,u will know that anybody can make error.
And if you follow Tinubu's story, you will know that almost nobody makes the kind of fundamental mistakes that Tinubu makes
Politics › Re: Bola A. Thubv: Farooq A. Kperogi, & Body Filling Of Rusted Image By Barth by TheGift: 10:38am On Sep 05, 2023
complexstuffs:
The mystery and secrecy are in the minds of IPOB who also believed that Buhari was dead and that Nigeria was being ruled by a clone and/or Jubrin from Sudan
Keep on avoiding the issue and distracting yourself with non relevant matters. As they say, Everybody go collect.
Politics › Re: Bola A. Thubv: Farooq A. Kperogi, & Body Filling Of Rusted Image By Barth by TheGift: 10:36am On Sep 05, 2023
[quote author=Racoon post=125584970][/quote]Tinubu is either a serial liar, a serial mistake maker, or both!
Politics › Re: Tinubu Definitely Graduated From Chicago State University By Farooq A. Kperogi by TheGift: 8:44pm On Sep 03, 2023
richie240:
Atiku was d one bombing CSU's twitter and linkedin pages okwea? grin

Ndi-obidients una nor fit hear word lailai.
grin
I don't know about Twitter. It is here that I am seeing people call out Obidients and it is here I am commenting.

P.S. I am not an Obidient , just an election observer.
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Is Undeserving Of Being Labelled Great - Patrick Doyle by TheGift: 8:42pm On Sep 03, 2023
shonepa:
Whatever u think of em...his parents just celebrated 33yrs wedding anniversary.

Em no owe anybody duty to satisfy their imagination. Make em live em life
So what?
Politics › Re: Tinubu Definitely Graduated From Chicago State University By Farooq A. Kperogi by TheGift: 4:38pm On Sep 02, 2023
Sheggy13:
Atiku has done the honourable thing, which is going to court. He's not the one on Twitter harassing people and institutions because of Tinubu's certificate. Except you want to live in denial as always, you and I know it's the these same obidients whatever group that have constituted themselves nuisance on twitter harassing CSU and Illinois governor there.
I don't live on Twitter. The world does not begin and end with a few people having a thousand retweet's on Twitter.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Definitely Graduated From Chicago State University By Farooq A. Kperogi by TheGift: 3:12pm On Sep 02, 2023
Racoon:
https://www.farooqkperogi.com/2023/09/tinubu-definitely-graduated-from.
So many lines to defend one alleged truth from a perpetual liar. Ok.

Meanwhile so many here attacking Obidients, forgetting that it is Atiku that has been dragging this particular matter in Nigerian and foreign courts. Cornfused people?
Travel › Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by TheGift: 12:38pm On Sep 02, 2023
felixzo1:
If I may ask what was your motive for sending your wife for studies? Why do you think at 48 you change profession or starting a different Field. You are still young, Nigeria makes one feel too old
Not to say someone can't start something new at 48, but throwing away all the time and effort invested before then to start from scratch is not necessarily a smart thing to do at that age.
Politics › Re: FG Recalls Ambassador To The UK, Sarafa Tunji Ishola by TheGift: 9:04pm On Sep 01, 2023
STEWpid:
Chai..

May be he was just using his ambassadorial position to claim big boy and to be snapping pictures in the UK.
Why are you imagining things that are not based on facts? This is how fake news is born and begins to spread.
Politics › Re: The Last Time Nigeria's Economy Was Stable Was A Decade Ago - Wale Edun by TheGift: 6:01pm On Sep 01, 2023
Nemere2020:
https://nairametrics.com/2023/09/01/the-last-time-nigerias-economy-was-stable-was-about-a-decade-ago-wale-edun/
In other words, the last time the Nigerian Economy was stable was before APC was formed and came into power.
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Is Undeserving Of Being Labelled Great - Patrick Doyle by TheGift: 8:10am On Sep 01, 2023
shonepa:
See ehn all wetin u write for here just shows u one of those people dat keep on spreading fake news.

Who tell u say na burna boy bodyguard?

Na people like u Burna dey talk too, una no give am chance to talk em side....una just conclude say dey shoot person because of woman.

All those things wey una talk about am, em don address am for em new album.
I think you must be mistaking me for someone else.

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