₦airaland Forum

fairfora:
I drove past the passport office in ikeja today and was like....so people still wan travel? The crowd was unprecedented.[b][/b] Meanwhile some young chaps are busy raking in millions monthly inside same country. [b][/b]What we are all looking for in sokoto is right inside our sokoto

Just a few lucky dudes? OK man, you've got to u understand the dire situation of unemployment In Nigeria is alarming.

JewelStone:
I'm not gonna lie...I miss Nigeria sometimes which makes me flirt with the idea of splitting my time there when my kids are older. I miss my family, my friends and the sense of community.

But then I remember lack of internet and electricity, horrific healthcare system, bad roads, bigotry, lack of value for human life, insecurity, police brutality, immense corruption, tribalism, crumbling or non-existent economy and a million other horrible things. This quickly resets my mind.

My solution which I'm currently working on is to bring my sisters and my best friend over to live in Sydney with me and make good living for themselves. Then I won't have any business with Nigeria anymore except to visit my parents every two years.

So to answer your question: no, nein, never!!!

An Aussie! You've got a lovely country.

Numero9:
Well, I dont always have anything to chat with girls I do not know. I don't even know how to woo girls sef.

My personality attracts the reasonable ones to me. They feel free and have this sense of security when they are with me (I know this because some have told me).

Mind you, I'm not the "meet and have sex" kind of guy, neither am I holy holy (religious).

I govern my life by [/b]principles and moral code.[b]

Care to share what they are?

[quote author=rosy1992 post=89858103]You can get it in an hospital, preferably General hospital. [/b]Abstinence remains the best option. [b]/quote]

Easier said than done.

Little changes from day 1 to 20, look somehow the same.

Its unlikely to work due to:
1. Both parents are unlikely to be on the same page.
2. Religious and cultural differences.
3. You both are young and broke.
4. Peer pressure

Best decision - let her go or probably remain friends.

Good news - you are likely to find Someone like or even better than her.

Be wise.

Modified: since you have already decided to stick to her why bring it here? Smh

What do you guys gain asking such utterly ridiculous silly questions? So stupid

No reasonable girl/woman with brains would allow her boyfriend/husband to wash her undies, its coarse, crude and uncool.

Only disrespectful and morally deficient ladies do such an anomaly.

janedonez:
Congratulations Dr. I celebrate with you. Mine is next but won't take years in applying. Just an application and it clicks and everything falls into place to make it a huge success. No stress

Clueless... You are literally under false delusions

Slimzjoe:
You Spent 300 thousand dollars to study medicine??

It might even more.... JHU tuition is around 53k on Average so do the maths.

[quote author= post=89824673]Winners don't quit,

Quitters don't win.

Moral of the story : NEVER GIVE UP![/quote]What's up with your God bless Nigeria daily sermon?

Tired and frustrated? Realized it doesn't Worth it

Dude is probably feeling the heat

Only legends do this.

babyfaceafrica:
Has its advantages and disadvantages......

I am literally interested to know the advantages, do you mind mentioning them?

Christthesaviour:
Good morning guys

What do you think is wrong about the Nigerian/African style of parenting?

To me, I think [b][/b] Nigerian/African parenting is the best but African parents think they are always right even when they falsely accuse you which I don't think is right.

What else do you guys think? Let's discuss.

I disagree with this ignorant assertion.

Tonylyte:
I don't know if those of you teaching in private schools, like my humble self are facing the same difficulties like me too.

Are you getting paid by your employers during this lock down?

Our case is different here, ever since the lock down began we have not been paid even a dime or reached by our employer to know how we are coping during this tough period.

Those of us that understand better how things work, is it proper that way? What are your thoughts on this? Share your experiences too-those of us in private sectors.

Prior to the lockdown, my boss gave me 65%/of my salary - balance will be paid when school resume. However, am lucky to have a side business i co-manage else sorry would have been my case.

Australia

It has the the benefits of both world's

Babyjoyce:

What happened? There must be something you know which we don't.

08163507090

Cheers bro

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents , we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old , she’s 22 . I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village . My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends . My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me . And I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes .I’ve spent even more than her father for her school. Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material . She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her . Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues . I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type . I don’t like hitting a lady expect once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone . Not me , not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her(we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel ) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign . So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over . So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry .
My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself . Then my mom(she the type that always shouts at every body . The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na(If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) .
That was the only thing my mom said . Then she sparked . Started shouting my mom . That she should stop talking to her like that that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home . So she carried her bag and started going home . Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way . She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry(na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry . At least she should have waited till we got home(this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me . Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said . After all the fracas . She went inside the room till we left . I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue . But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) . And that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue . My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom . But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)


I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her . In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allows his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat , a guy who takes care of her . Does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house .

What the hell did I just read? Is this some nollywood script BS?

Anyway just know that your GF has;
1. Serious anger issues
2.has low IQ
3. Doesn't know what respect is

SHE IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE AND THE BETTER YOI KNOW THIS THE BETTER FOR YOU.

And did I read somewhere "I scolded my mum bla bla" damn mate.

Am puzzled here

A lot has Bee said but here is my take: you are an undergraduate, right? Aim for a Good result focus and work hard. Don't leave now,life out there is not as easy as you think.

As to your mum,consider imitating this strategy - spacing. Give her space and try as much as you can to avoid any confrontation or argument with her.

Nysc is the perfect time to make the bold move.

sunshineV:
Wizkid, davido, dj cuppy, dj Nana they all smoke and still doing well for themselves than some non smokers

Lamest reason I have ever heard? So if these nonentities smoke, so? Who gives a tinkers damn?

Bullshit.

From experience i say yeah some ladies could be so irrational but beware of stereotype.

Don't generalize, its unfair as some ladies are absolute gems.

unite4real:
Below are roads in US, CANADA and Europe.

Everybody get his own headache until LANDLORD TRAVEL AND SEE before knowing

Your stupidity is becoming interesting! Like seriously you are comparing Canadian roads to that of a shit hole

Keep living in your little bubble.

unite4real:
You don't talk about marking nigeria but roads. Roads with traffic. The essence of road markings is to guide traffic. Some roads do not fall into that criteria and so require no markings.

Your 99% still leave me with LANDLORD TRAVEL AND SEE.

Check out Kaduna below

You see how stupid you are? That road is called sokoto road in Kaduna city(I am KD resident). Its one of its kind in the whole of Kaduna.

Stop spewing nonsense as if we are aliens and not Nigerians.

Stop supporting mediocrity and bad governance.

I stopped reading " I like Mary then Jane then Mary" or whatever confused stuffs you wrote up there.

Man you are confused and don't know what you want.

justine94:
bro chill na..if I was a woman beater I bet she won't stay 3 years with me...she knew the only reason that triggered the anger was because the issue

A lot of cool guys (including me) have pointed out to you that - its highly likely she has lost interest in you and even if mask it for now she will eventually leave you in a pathetic manner, but yet, you are bent on repairing the already weak relationship despite all the signs its crash is imminent.

Believe it or not she will leave you sooner or later.

Believe it or not quit and you will find a better girl out there who is way better than her.

justine94:
I slapped out of anger something I have never done for more than 3 years. .which i apologised for ...yes she's not my property. .but let's be honest when u have been with someone for a long time...u get really attached to them

Will you shut the hell up? You obviously lack self control. Imagine your whole GF? Someone you should cherish with love and care.

We are all muscular guys who can turn monsters if we wish, but hey, its uncivil.

Better to quit and let her go than bruising her for minor offences.

Such bullocks! Such a control freak... It annoys me when guys become domineering and overbearing just like you are doing, its uncivil. Its a waste of energy and time. Your GF is unlikely to change her attitude ( can't even see anything wrong in her).

Why can't you quit the relationship and let her go? Instead of being abusive and controlling? It doesn't worth the stress and energy.

There are lots of pretty ladies out there. Go check and stop disturbing our peace with crappy post.

Dreyton36:
I've dated up to 4 different very rich and influential girls
And I'll kindly share just one of their stories, I mean the first of them

It was 2013 mehn life no be moi moi ooo
I lived in Lagos , Maryland to be precise so I got a job at a catering company then at ikoyi
But not like other catering jobs oo , this one is special into big boys way
We only serve the NNPC_NAPIMS workers
Men go garge up with full swag to go serve rice
But it was fun cuz I had my cool Calabar friend with me
I finally had a friend who happened to be an auditor there (female)
Name withheld , she's absolutely gorgeous but a lil older than me i guess
She rides a range Rover , the company has a car park called Park view, for those who knows bayo kuku area in ikoyi you'll know there , big men area

One day I went to serve as usual , I was cashless , after closing hours I almost lost it cuz I had no penny to go home , mehn I trek from ikoyi reach Maryland gan life tire me, no lies i did..
The next day again I went to work after borrowing money from my own younger brother chai
And after serving , I was just thinking of how to go home , but I no too fear because that day was Friday and we don't work during weekends
[/b]As i went to pack up the used plates, this damsel asked me to pass her bag to her, she gave me some $ upto 15 pieces
I mean dollars not naira ooo , 100 dollars each[b]
Mehn my prick sef stand
I was dumbfounded , to say thank you sef tire me gan
Anyway I left , but I thanked her Sha , but I didn't even know the actual figure of the cash but I know say na load
Trust poor man na , I arrange the dollars inside my wallet and went to a nearby bar to get some cold Heineken and catfish peppersoup
I changed few of the notes to naira in our estate
After that I headed to obalende park , as usual the conductors don know me as a wahala boy who no they always get money complete grin
I stepped into the bus and put on my headphones in it's loudest volume , listening to I'm so paid by Akon ft lil wayne ,,,,,, as usual the conductor started shouting (owo da)
Because I see fine girls inside bus I start to speak phonetics grin and brought out some dollars that i dont have change , conductor shock grin grin
To cut it short I went home
And I made my biggest mistake
Drop ur comments if I should continue cuz this is the funniest partt

Just to pass her bags and she gave you $1.5k?

Hard to believe as even in America that's more than what people on minimum wage earn.

Even as at 2013 its a huge amount.

Incredible!