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Soknown:
Finally i got an offer from Woodland lettings to check an apartment on Ridgeway road. So i chose a date which was confirmed with the landlord. I used google map to navigate to the terrace building. The landlord has two flats in this building but i chose the one that was uppermost on the second floor. The flat goes for £1100 with a deposit of £1200. I followed the agent to Station road where the office is, i paid the withholding fee immediately and got the required forms. I got all the forms filled, reference sorted within one week. we signed the tenancy. The building is built on a ridge, one of the highest point in the town.
Same day i sent a mail to the company managing my present tenancy that i will like to terminate the tenancy by the end of May, it was accepted and and the coast was clear for my wife and children to come over but they would need Visa of course.
In the month of May, i started buying household materials....

Lovely! Lovely!... At first I thought it was the usual boring and uninteresting threads I always read here not knowing I was totally wrong and was very much missing out.

Respect man. Keep up the good work.

RuudVanNisteroy:
It is all about getting permanent residency after you graduate. That is the what concerns 99% of students that travel abroad.

Is it easy to get permanent residency in Germany after you graduate that is the question?Germany is still better than Netherlands that only gives you 12 months post graduate work permit.

Of course Germany gives you 18 month post graduate work permit. Its a highly developed economy with one of the lowest unemployment rare in the world , jobs are abundant so you stand a very good chance of getting a job after graduating.

Skymoore1004:
Oga forget that part.
Only 1st class degree holders after 2018 gets visa appointment now. If you have 2:1 below you will become methuselah before you even get visa interview date not talk more of visa approval

Oga chill and stop making silly claims and assumptions.

Just because you or someone else application was rejected doesn't mean it was the case for everyone, ya know.

The stat that guy gave to you were factual.

ednut1:
the source is an extract from ircc website. They have a portal it is not an easy site to navigate i would have gone to copy it. Cicnews is owned by a licensed canada agent david cohen so he has no reason to lie. The stats shows over 40000 Nigerians applied with only 7585 (19%) successful

If I may ask what might be the reason for such astronomical refusal rates?

Why are African countries mostly affected?

RuudVanNisteroy:
[/b]Only Canada,United Kingdom and Australia are still left open[b]. The immigration door window is slowly being closed to Africans.

It seems you are unaware of the fact that the German route is also open and easy.

One would ask how? Its quite straightforward.

Apply to a Germany university ( Public universities are tuition-free). However, you need a block account(roughly 4.5m) Whether Bsc or MSC once you graduate, you can apply for residence permit which typically last 18 months, once you get a job you can apply for permanent residence. Live there for 8 years and you are eligible to apply for citizenship.

Giwoni:
Good day NLanders
I'm a medical student, and gf( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her . Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents. Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket, It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day ( for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.
In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.
I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life , but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022(which supposed to be 2021but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled ( this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, ( I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.
thanks

"She would leave me if I don't pass my exam" , "I bought her point and kill worth 9000"....


Point and kill kill you there... Silly dude.

mrphysics:
The environmental implication of mining Uranium lasts forever. Mining alone constitutes 72% of environmental problems of Nuclear Power. Except in cases of Nuclear Accidents, I think it's best to operate a NPP than to be mining Uranium. Little wonder France stopped all it's mining activities and focused in other countries.

Unfortunately, Africa is only good in making noise, leaving in delusion of how rich they are or how wise they are. Niger is so dumb. Nothing stopped them from exploring NPP option like SA and Ghana. Namibia too. Namibia alone takes 46% of global release of radioactive materials to the environment caused by the mining activities happening in the country.

Same thing done for oil, we don't have working refinery, yet we have oil. No one wants to take responsibility yet, unfortunately, the world is moving forward and we are spiraling full circle backwards.

Each time I see pictures taking in Nigeria, each time I see pictures coming from Lagos, Onitsha, Kano, etc, I weep. We are doomed people.

In this part of the world almost everything is politicised and not taking seriously... Just look at how the Nigerian government is handling the corona virus in an inept and inefficient manner... Its pathetic.

One word for you man: Respect

You are doing a nice job.

Nbote:
We like to dwell on very irrelevant things... Isn't Kyari d biggest victim of d virus so far? We jus luv to live in denial and bark at d wrong trees

You just deliberately choose to take one part and leave the other... The question is are Nigerians mourning?

SweetCunt97:
A house in maitama that had Gold chairs... I nearly shed tears! See opulence

You no sabi lie ... Stop portraying yourself as a dumb, silly and ignorant motterfucker.

Biglittlelois:
I once went to a big aunty's house that the interior design, curtains, wall paintings, in fact everything in that house was painted bright red and black, when I finally saw a very big picture of Guru Maharaj, I retraced my steps out of the house, it was very spooky, strange and weird.

Was it your instinct that made you feel you have to go?

AbbasJR:
Prolly the heat,The heat wey do me yesterday when nepa take light Even my body boil

Oga use your Head for once na!

Its unlikely heat was the main cause of these recent infernos we are having... Highly unlikely. If so countries like U.A.E, Qatar , Libya , Saudi and even Yemen could have been burnt to ashes. Because the heat there is much severe.

Stop been silly.

Oga naso you go carry problem for yourself... You Better receive sense

I mean she ain't interested in vaginal penetration due to reasons known to her. Its a red flag... Walk away and look for another babe who will gladly give whatever you want.

Yet you still wan go further... Continue at your own risk, because I don see wetin you never see.

And for the records, you are shamelessly cheating on your girlfriend and even bold enough to say it in a public forum. How sensible you are.

I know somehow in your mind you are feeling like a bag man for getting this...

Imagine what our fatherland has reduced us to.

lefulefu:
try and exercise as this will put u in a good mood
meet with ur family and friends and if u cant do that then share a video whatsap call with them
i am currently here in a foreign country alone but i am not lonely why cos i made few friends here and i also do whatsap video calls with my family back home. follow these measures and u wont be lonely.

The boss... Thanks a lot.

haleymoon:
Spend some quality time on Twitter reading their salvage replies, I guess you won't be bored.

Not everything is about the virtual world , ya know. Sometimes what one basically needs is that human interaction.

Eulalia:
[/b]How about having a chat buddy you can relate all your problems to and get the weight off your chest?[b] It helps you know?

that is exactly what I'm missing.

lefulefu:
try and exercise as this will put u in a good mood
meet with friends and family as well as this will help also

I appreciate your time and effort... Thanks.

frozen70:
Alright

Get a friend and be very friendly with the person

A nice person is not written on the fore head but it's hidden in the heart

Thanks for your time... Would you mind to be my virtual friend?

gasparpisciotta:
Go out every day for jogging and any other form of exercise

Thanks man.

frozen70:
What help do you need
What's putting you into anxiety

I just wanna talk to a nice person... Nothing beats a lovely conversation, that's all I need.

Loneliness is an awful feeling. It Hurt's badly. You have alot of things you want to talk about, but no one to talking to, its even more terrible when one has other health issues like anxiety.

Could anyone help?

[quote author=cana882 post=88470664]In addition to that:
- Overusing your data: Manage your data cause you might not have enough to subscribe when it gets finished.

- listening to stupid theories and notions: because you’re less busy so you have sufficient time to engage in conversation as well as listen to people’s views and opinions. However, guard your ears from what you hear as you might get convinced about stupid theories and assumptions riddling the internet.

- [s][/s]developing destructive habits: some singles can become lonely and bored which can lead them to masturbating. You need to be conscious about this deleterious act.[s][/s]

- overthinking: many people are already pessimistic about the outcome of the post pandemic era. Such act can be suicidal and depressing. Hence, my advice is try not to overthink about the negative repercussions that this epidemic will cause. Instead, be focused on the positives and be optimistic that your company will not lay you off, that your business will grow bigger, that your promotion you worked hard for over the years will not be jettisoned, that your dreams will not be bridled, and that your joy will not be truncated.[/quote

As far as I am concerned(as well as most health experts) masturbating is completely normal and healthy. Nothing wrong with it.

What a lovely thread!

Keep up with the good job Mr physics.

Ginaz:
You guys should make a light conversation about goals, likes and dislikes. Favorite colors and foods, etc.

This comment is short, sweet and straight to point.

iLegendd:
Real men don't go on dates. The woman comes to their houses or hotel room FIRST.

SECONDLY,

If he deems it fit, then he will take her to go hang out with him outside and after that, they'll both come back home or he'll see her off. Next time, she'll come straight to his house or hotel room again.

This going on a date is what betamale oyibo men invented back then and it's outdated.

[s][/s]Betamale oyibo men are good at manufacturing, computer, ICT, technology, etc., but not relationship invention. These men invented going on a date and it's for other betamales to follow. Real men don't do that — they only hang out after she has known his abode.

If you still want to go out and disobey the above, then read the book FemaleSextapes and you'll get all you want.[s][/s]

You can also read ChatDîcted. Download link of the free version https://shop.wetclef.com/download-chatdìcted/

That you want to promote you book doesn't warrant you to type nonsense.

flokii:
Compliment her look/outfit, tell her interesting things about yourself (maybe a past event, school activity or trip you enjoyed most), be smart while at it and [/b]try to make her smile with funny comments.[b]

You can talk about movies, series or novels, your hobbies, best games etc. and how you'd love to take her to the movies

Gist plenty but once the flow is there, you'll be fine.
#cherers!

I don't agree with trying hard to make girls smile or laugh. These days people are so manipulative that they can mask anger/frustration with a smile


The young man should just be himself.

beninboy2:
I'm hanging out with a girl tomorrow.. We just met on Friday. I haven't taken a girl out before this my first time. What do I say or discuss with her.. Your opinions are highly welcomed thank you

A few tips:
1. Appear your best; shower, look good , smell nice but don't be over materialistic.

2. Just be yourself and be honest with whatever you would say.

3. Ask her questions about her family, dreams or lifestyle, look for common interest you both share e.g on the course of chatting you may discovered you both love football. This is a good way to start... Also pay close attention while she is speaking.

Just be yourself bro and try not to be nervous.

Wish you a good time.

Fountainofyouth:
[s][/s]And yet you brought it here to whine, you wouldn't do that if it isn't bothering you and you don't miss her, she did right by blocking you though, cos you keep pestering her with your constant contact[s][/s].

Another unintelligent bitch drawing conclusions on something she knew nothing about... How do you know hr is pestering her?

I wonder what you bitches feel like....

Trash.

Davash222:
She blocked you cos she've realized you're not man enough. They carry food give you, you dey dodge.
It takes a second for a woman to transfer her love and affections to a man into hatred. Once you turn down their sexual advances, automatically she hates you! You were thinking marriage while the lady only wanted your dicck, Stop feeling yourself. she even blocked you shows you didn't play your game well. That's laxity on your side. Shame on you!

Shut the hell up man!... Probably the young ain't interested in that wretched pussy of hers... He needs only friendship, nothing more.

Prec1ous:
OP, get over it. I think both of you led yourself on foolishly. She was really expectant, but you goofed. She is dealing with the pseudo-rejection the best way she can, also, she is not happy to see your happy pictures. So move on.

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The Parable of the goat and the yam in the same pen!

It has been proven countless time, that there is no sanity and clarity when a man and a women with the right amount of hormonal rush think that they can stay friends. Especially when nothing ties them together, maybe business or they are investment partners.

You can speak all the English you want to speak, but do not ever forget these...

You cannot tell your body when to and not to produce oetrogen, testosterone, dopamine and oxytocin. Nature must proceed.

This is also why you should beware of girls who claim all their friends are the opposite sex. You are been fooled!

[/b]Guys, the best way to get any girl is to be her friend but once in a while, chip in romantic talks and dirty chats but do not forget to also touch her "mistakenly" sometimes, this qualifies you as a potential romantic partner.

Do this systematically and You have already laid the ground for your impending kill.[b]

Thank you.

Doesn't applies to every lady. Some prefer you be straightforward and tell them your mind. Its better. Its either she says no or yes.

It saves time and energy.

Handsomejok:
Before marrying my wife, my business was moving well. I had an appliances big shop with full of things. I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail.

Bbut since we got married, just two months and 5 days after our marriage, my shop caught fire. I have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord (the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working.

I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord, can’t afford a 3 square meals, can’t afford to pay house rent, can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house.

My wife is pregnant and due in April, we haven’t bought anything for the baby. I wish never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition, don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore.

Please what do you suggest I do?

Let's get this straight. She is already a baby mama before you tie the knot with her right? ...

Secondly, your misfortune has nothing to do witchcraft, and it ain't your wife fault. Maybe you need to tell us more.

Why don't you make some introspection rather than baselessly blaming your wife as a witch?

A lot of good advice's have been giving. Here are mine.

1. Strive for excellence in your studies. Be focused, Do your homework ,study hard and pay attention in class.

2. Stay out of trouble and anything that may ruin you; alcohol and cigarettes are not good for you. Stay away from bad people and prostitutes. Abide the law and always act responsibly.

3.make good friends; A few good friends will do you lot of good, they will be there for you when you need them. also get a girlfriend - to satisfy your sexual urges but do it safely and be responsible.

4. Do what you love: reading, playing football , playing games whatever you enjoy.

5. Live life to the fullest and don't limit yourself. Be open-minded about life. Anything can happen and anything is possible.

Explore, live, learn, play and enjoy life bro.

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