₦airaland Forum

HomeOfMe:
May God bless all the hard-working and responsible men striving to make an honest living. When I look at my hubby,brothers,nephews,cousins and friends,I respect men.

are there still sensible ladies like you?

donbachi:
guy born dat talk...na talk wey our leaders take enslave and hold us 4 work...when the rich travel it's ok...when the poor hustle by every means possible to travel out,u tag them fugitives...i like been a fugitive outside than roast and gnash my teeth in nigeria...no hope and we dont know who will be the next victim of insecurity..killings,kidnappings and police brutality everywhere...make i hear word.

oil dey your head.........leave this shit hole legally at all cost

gypsey:
why da hell would anyone put themselve through this kinda Stress Just to come.and live in this bloody cold country?

Here i am thinking i would like to live in Africa warm country.

when will you emigrate back to Africa?

emorodili:
Mail replied contact me on whatsapp

can I send you a mail please?

Just read between the lines a little and you will notice some bunch of naysayers who are either schooling in DE or elsewhere but are fond of exaggerating things; no jobs, racism, life not easy bla bla bla.......... Don't use your current situation as an excuse to dampen the hopes and ambitions of other people... the fact that you didn't do your homework well before coming to DE or were just unfortunate is no excuse for this sort of nasty behavior, neither is it anyone's fault

Even in naija you may be sleeping with an empty stomach while your neighbor is rolling in millions

That's life

Thank you

Is it just me or does anyone realize most Nigerians like been anonymous just for no good reason? I mean why covering your face? What's the big deal? To me its just a normal routine ...............It plants a bit of doubt in peoples mind and even makes the thread less interesting.

Just a honest observation with no malice intended.

Thank you.

evil1:
dont worry bro with tym u will get over it.
u re simply attached to her cos u hv stayed too long in a particular zone.

my situation is somehow similar to that of op, need your advice.

Gospeltruth01:
We’re absolutely in the same position..She isn’t hurting at all, she’s become very cold hearted to me. Seems she’s been waiting for this to happen and I just know deep down it won’t get better and even talking to her now about it she doesn’t even make mention of it getting better at all.. I happen to be an introvert only child with very little friends so basically I’m bottling everything inside me and that’s what’s killing me the most because she’s been the one who has been my best friend who I talk to about everything for the past four years now. I think you’re even a step ahead of me because you know you deserve more, unfortunately I know I deserve more but it’s vague in my eyes right now because in the past 6months I’ve been treated like shit and called shit so bad that it gets to me that I began thinking less of myself. And that’s one reason why I ended it too, couldn’t continue with someone who thinks and calls me a dimwit and a disappointment at the slightest provocation...

And one tiny little bit of me now is still hoping she realizes and fix things. Never in my life have I accepted to be a weakling but with her I’m weak and pains me more because I don’t know how I came this far

man am passing through this mess right now, its terrible, we shall pass this phase.

Niyoda:
I was going to create a thread on how to move on from a 4 year long relationship this morning but decided to just keep my hurt to myself.
Everything in your post seem like what happened between my boyfriend and i.
The only difference is i know he's not hurting. He has a very cold heart.

I'm hurting badly and don't even have anyone to talk to as he's the only one i tell stuffs. I'm always thinking about him but the only consolation for me is i know i deserve more.

am passing through a bumpy road just because of a lady.

Take heart man, some people are ingrates, however, how is life in turkey like?

Hadampson:
said it all chef

you are doing a nice job here

badmus306:
Which city are you in DE bro?

Am in Nigeria but heavily interested in German stuffs

Great job guys! ..... I have been a silent reader for quite a long time, I just feel I should appreciate the good work you guys are doing, particularly, hadampson, elder,phlift e.t.c. that said, I think people are laying too much emphasis on STEM,I know its in demand, but if its not your thing or you are not that good in it then just go for your preferred choice, as I can confidently tell you whatever you study in germany you will have something decent doing at the end of the day, there are lots of decent courses with huge potentials to land you pretty good jobs in DE.....

Tips to succeeding in DE

-have a good knowledge of Deutsche
-posses decent employable skills

And the sky could just be your starting point.

Peace.

Bevista:
People are talking about the general state of affairs which has progressively gotten worse since independence and here you are seeing it as an opportunity to display your prejudice. There is a bigger societal problem and this has nothing to do with any president. The president is only a reflection of what is wrong with the larger society...and that includes your beloved GEJ.
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Is it a coincidence that even though we've been changing presidents and governors (from one religion to another...from one geopolitical zone to the another...from one party to another), yet things are not getting any better? Go figure!

due to your unreasonable inclinement to defend bihari, you made a fool of himself. The guy was right, buhari ain't the root cause but things are terribly going bad under his watch, its clear.

tossedbae:
mumu.....

anything wrong with his act? Dont be stupid.

airmirthd1:
Are you sure it is better than Naija?

from frying pan to fire, its better you remain in nigeria than to migrate to that shithole

XhosaNostra:
Lol, the people who say "Dis" instead of "This", "Aeroprain" instead of "Aeroplane" etc.

I met a guy once. He was good looking & all, until he told me he works for "Drey" security company. The word is "Grey"! That was it for me. I was over whatever could have been because of that.

hello, am your lowkey fan, you are always being objective with your opinions, keep it up.

how long does it takes to complete a degree course in german universites? And after graduating, can one apply for permanent residence? Pls someone should answer.

PrimadonnaO:
I'm pretty sure his stories are fake. This is not the first time he's creating a thread about how he disregards his mother. But I'm pretty certain they are fabricated. However, he's a really stupid person for thinking it okay to fabricate such stories...About a mother.

are you just realising this? Any intellectual will easily detect his stories are fake and factitious, i guess its for amusement, but hey, using "mother" as the tool here, c'mon you are a dimwit, stop it, it ain't right.

wurabecca:
I seriously did not read the poo written up there.

Chi is Hundred billion better than this attention seeking opportunist.

Even with Chi Chronic Feminism, she has imparted thousands of Lifes.

Madam Kebbi, What have you done with your First lady status?.

Just free the young girl biko.

All this Women won carry Chi blow.

You have grace Nairaland front page, can you swerve now?

a typical bigot, you clearly speak from ignorance and prejudice, any effort to educate will be fruitless, thus, continue to wallow in darkness.

hello, now talking of racism, we know whites are racist in nature, but the degree varies from country to country, now between those two, germany and canada, which is the least racist?

good day guys!, are there any universities in canada that are tuition-free? If yes kindly name them. Tanx

Preshy561:
broke guys don't have the right to ask a lady to come visit them.
pad money got me.

the best thing any sensible guy will do regarding you and the gibberish you spew daily on nairaland is to ignore you, thus u will keep wallowing in your unmitigated stupidity.

Amarabae:
I have witnessed a case like this last week , the girl was rushed in as an emergency case, bleeding from nose, big wounds she sustained in the head, mouth and she was struggling to breathe.
The boyfriend battered her,
Can you imagine? not yet your husband, just a boyfriend.

If you see the the kind eye I was look at the fool,
During the course of treatment, it was discovered that she was pregnant sef but in a very early stage.

Out of wedlock pregnancy for an abusive idiot of a boyfriend?
What an ordeal!

There are some girls who find rough abusive guys attractive, to them, they have a manly sexy appeal around them and are macho.
They derive some erotic sensation when begging the abusive boyfriend and when he is abusing them.

Continue to stay in toxic relationship till he kills you.

do u think such laies are mentally sound? Despite all the glaring signs and warnings? Some people are as daft as an ass.

Shugavee:
wow so pained!!! Lol that was a joke tho!! But i can see ur grievances!! The lord will see u through

i find it absolutely demeaning replying an unintelligent lady like u, stfu!

MissRaine69:
In certain quarters of this society yes
Do you know where she is from? The expectations of the particular society she lives in? Are you the husband? What if he wants kids immediately and she does not?
By the way you are allowed to have your point of view, permit me the courtesy to have mine. Or is being objective a difficult concept for you to fathom?

i should be the one to ask u that, am just expressing my opinion objectively. To the best of my knowledge, so why trying to take a swipe at me?

Shugavee:
okay o!! Just advise urself

is that all u can deduce from my reply? From ur fish brain I thought u will throw tantrums at me just the way u did to the guy above me? Modaf**king idiot!

with such write up, one would think the op is responsible as she seem to. Plz just check her profile and u will be suprise, a typical example of a frustrated feminist, an absolute irresponsible spinster, a jenny-ass who derived fun by horsewhipping anyone who challenge her assinine feminism ideologies, nonsense, u think ure doing me, ure doing urself.

the only avenue they display their hypocritical ideologies is on the cyber space. But in real life they compose and behave normal, the whole concept is a sham. Feminism my foot. I hate u guys with passion.

GeeString:
What "dreams & aspirations" can you not achieve in marriage?

The dude doesn't have "dreams & aspirations" too?

I don't see any sense in your comment except by "dreams & aspirations", you mean sexcapades & promiscuity.

You want her to sleep around from dick to dick before she can be "experienced".

Na una way.

my thought exactly, thumbs up for u.