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This is what love does to people. It makes them become emotionally weak and feeble. Pathetic.

Dump their silly asses. A decent guy is out there waiting for you.

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9gb just like that,

I can see some overly entitled lazy Nigerian youth still complaining that the gesture is not enough.. i mean Abike and FG helped you sort your Visa overstay issues with SA immigration, Airpeace gave you free air ride worth some hundred k, while Abike again welcomes you with soft loan , data and other packages... naija lazy youth are still complaining

Meanwhile, shame on Goodsfrey INyamakata ... this is a woman who has been traveling everywhere from saudi to southafrica saving lives doing goodsfrey inyamakata's job as Foriegn minister, but whenever western countries are coming to visit you suddenly see goodsfrey or when buhari is traveling he turns himself into luggage bag

[/b]In as much this is a goodwill gesture but to be honest 40k is Nothing to actually write home about. Infact their future is bleak. And don't forget this is even a pledge. You know how notoriously unreliable FG are. So get a grip mate.

missjo:
You didn't even post beautiful Latino women up there,but yea, they are probably the most beautiful race of women on the planet. The only other women i can turn lesbian for apart from them are Russian women.

i am naturally attracted to Latina ladies.

When you mention Jeff bezos ex-wife then I realize where you are heading to. You are silly. Tons of answers and clues giving and you are still showing how clownish you are.

Beside the only way a guy would ask a lady that question is if he is generally unsatisfied and skeptical about the value she is adding to the relationship, especially if she is a leech with a sense of entitlement. And the only thing she offer is her punany.in essence she takes way than she gives.

But to be honest its a condescending question and its better not asked.

spongeisback:
The fact that a married man is reading, digesting and applying what is written here by a bunch of people that cannot even keep a relationship is shocking. Do you know most of this boys here have nothing going on in there lives so they come online to bash women?

Don't destroy your relationship with people around you because of what you read on a faceless forum.

Not as faceless as you think. And your silly assumption that guys here have nothing going in their lives shows how incredibly stupid you are.

I bet you have never seen this moniker . lots of my kind hardly comment, we choose to be on low key.

I have been observing your comments for a while and you rarely make sense. Always Bla bla and full with tons of nonsense.

You must not comment to every post you freaking tool.

Nothing is wrong with you man! Be yourself and express yourself as clearly as you want. But as Robert Greene says author of 48 laws of power "think as you like but behave like others".

panafrican:
A jealous White man is behind this article you bet .
How many mansions did your greedy kings and queens out there in Europe took with them when they departed ?

silly comment. Dishonestly amassing material possession is rarely heard of in Europe . particularly western Europe.

About time!... Reversing this silly policy is long overdue.

This hard time is an experience most people can relate to. In fact yours is a joke compared to what others are facing. Its a shame the government has failed its youth

Listen you can't keep on complaining. You have to sit down and figure out how to logically solve your problems. Its the best.

As to your girlfriend... If she really love she will stick with you in this time of trial. Otherwise dump her silly ass. You don't need additional problems.

SaintHilary:
And what are the better options at a cheaper rate like Turkey

Nothing good comes easy!. Remember that.

1300$? A big fat lie. Even in the US not every worker earns that. I have forgotten turkey minimum wage but goggle is your best bet.

That guy will scam you. Deal with him at your own risk.

However, turkey ain't a good option due to its struggling economy. There are better options.

ednut1:
i spent over 700k on ielts . 7 times, 5 remarks. God forbid i remain here

how much does writing IELTS COST?

excessmon:
When I read people’s comments I marvel
However in 300level I can’t actually differentiate that the discussions between male and female at certain age isn’t really progressional

At a certain stage in life u have to pick a same sex as u bestie so that u can be challenged to achieve ur desired goals.

Funny when men share secrets with ladies and expect to be advised by people that look up to u for same

Tufia oga learn to become a man fully

how does having a female bestie equate to unmanliness?

Back your assertion with credible evidence otherwise don't bother replying at all.

Nothing wrong in either male or female bestie. Some people are currently enjoining such friendship. However, the girl on the isn't really your bestie(you might argue this)
But its obvious she doesn't really respect and value you enough

Don't you have self-respect ? Why stressing yourself over someone who doesn't give a toss about you?

Nwaohafia1:
Armed robbers, Kidnappers, Rapists, Murder = Execution

Manslaughter and other crimes = Life Sentence

that is not how justice works.

ubcandid:
Being in your shoes before and the best advise which every one might run from telling you is GET YOURSELF bleeped!!!!! you obviously don't have a girlfriend to give you sex and with time it could lead to you being shy to approach a lady for intimacy, sometimes being broke in school can deflate your ego, but, I would advise you lower ur chase class, take your mind of someone you like but know would cost to move with and think of someone that would be lighter for you to bury your shaft in. Sex can do wonders to your brain bro and masturbation can become a psychological nightmare that would hunt you for years . You are within the right age bracket for high sex drive. Don't visit a prostitute, get a girl, seriously work on it. That's the bitter truth. All those giving you transparent glass advises, ask them if it ever worked for them?

Exactly bro! I clearly get this young man. He is somewhat romantically and sexuality frustrated. Sex with the right girl will work wonders.

He might decide to tow the abstinence path but am afraid he might weaken his resolve in the heat of the moment.

My advice; Being studious to graduate with good grades is really a good thing. That should be your primary aim. Don't be distracted. You will be pleased and proud of your self for your accomplishment.

As to your sexual urges. Its absolutely normal. There is nothing abnormal in it. Its a stage all adults pass through. Masturbating ain't a bad thing, you can also get a girlfriend whom you trust.enjoy some fun but play safe. But this depends on your religiosity.

All the best mate.

Richdad50:


When I see young people take the road outside this country not to sell drugs, engage fraudsters, or wash toilets, I feel so happy. Young minds should explore dreams and opportunities outside this hell. You got age, stamina, strength, agility, temperament, focus, vision, all in your possession. I haven't seen any reason why you should be here in Nigeria.

Pursue scholarships, write Grants, apply for sponsored seminars and conferences, socialize, volunteer, and bang every good door outside your country till one opens. Opportunity of a lifetime must be seized in the lifetime of the opportunity.

If Nigeria eventually begins the process of restructuring, developing policies, and harnessing transparency and transformation, it will take an average of 15 years to gain stability and see results. At that time, your youthfulness would have gone. I feel for you.

Life is not in the amount of breath we breathe, but in the moments that take your breath away. When you go above 50, your achievements in any field of endeavor becomes your moments to relish. They form your core strategic source of happiness. Find life and in so doing, discover happiness.

Richdad

wise words. Thanks

lilianofentse:
I used cannabis for a month. It helped in relieving the stress. I don't do alcohol or hard drugs. Also xxxtentacion and juice wrld's music helped a lot. But my issue is that I just get back to being sad after sometime. I want it to go away totally not going and coming back. But thanks anyway

yours is a joke compared to others

No matter what stay away from drugs and marijuana.

amaniro:
Because you are not happy or satisfied with something i don't know.




BTW... i sell snipers and ropes.

you thought your last sentence is funny. Its not. You have no idea what this lady is passing through.

Be careful with your words chap.

You are naive and inexperience. Firstly, these ladies are likely sluts and whores, they will mess your life up. Secondly you sound like a weakling to me who lacks the courage to say no to requests. Lastly you might be sexually frustrated if so find a decent girlfriend.

Roll with any of this sluts at your own risk.

You will learn your lesson the hard way.

madenigga:
Come To Nigeria we just want u to mc a show for us

Come to Rivers state in particular. we want to also give u award

A beautiful award

nextstep:
Let's be rational here.

Police, kidnappers, ritualists, fake medicine, bad hospitals, and truck drivers waste the lives of innocent Nigerians everyday. What's all the noise now that South Africans are wasting lives? Is it because of a few lives lost in SA we will now protest? What of the hundreds of lives lost every day in Nigeria, caused by Nigerians and our government? Why don't we protest that?

Please don't say: "what if it was your relative killed in SA?" I have lost relatives in Nigeria to the aforementioned, and nobody protested for them, or people like them.

The protests/killings started because a (SA?) taxi driver was shot dead by a (NG?) drug dealer. Now everybody and their uncle is "reacting", losing perspective, and swearing up and down, yet doing nothing to back it up or cause for real change. The person who last called for a revolution protest march is cooling his heels in DSS custody, all but forgotten. As usual, I give these reactions 3 more days before we're on to the next distraction. Mtchew!

I strongly disagree with you about your claims on the genesis of this violence. Could you tell the reliable source you cue this from?

XhosaNostra:
That's my "hood"

Am terribly upset about the happenings in your country.

magicminister:
I laugh at the ignorance of Nigerians that call for Attacks on South African businesses in Nigeria. Their false sense of pride has made them delusional.

South African businesses are some of the highest employers of Labour in Nigeria. They hire Nigerians.

Mtn, multichoice (dstv) and shoperite are some of the more popular South African owned businesses that have generated billions in taxes, employed thousands of Nigerians which in turn has made life better for millions of Nigerian families that rely on the income of their family members that work In those places.

South African business pay rent to us, they pay taxes to us and most importantly, they employ us. The fact that you are so stupid to think that attacking a few Nigerian branches of a Multinational company will hurt them more than it hurts us is just amusing at best.




Having said that, it’s time to hold our government accountable. Nigerians are like the pariah of this world. Nobody wants us. We have to fix us to and liberate the black nation. The biggest Black Country on earth should be on a global pedestal as the leader in everything.
We should be the leaders in this world!! Let’s rise up!!

Xenophobia in South Africa, hate and discrimination in europe and America are all off-shoots of human ignorance and lack of respect for Nigeria and blacks in general.

We have to hold our government accountable, we have to hold ourselves accountable, we have to build a great nation that other nations will want to deal with. Then, we’d turn them away!!

The biggest answer to hate is success. Nigeria has to succeed if we must be feared and respected!!

Our house of rep and senate will spend over 5 billion on cars alone this year.
Our president took over 3 months to appoint ministers.
Our cost of government is too high.
Our poverty and unemployment is one of the highest in earth.
Ignorance is rampant........
if Nigeria was working, no Nigerian will be in South Africa. We have to succeed!

I agree with you. I also think bloggers are misinforming Nigerians on the exact happenings in SA.

pansophist:
You acted emotionally. Even if you have to send her out, you should have took a sip, to clear all doubt. Now, she will be convinced that she dodged a bullet, and your refusal to taste it is the evidence to prove that. And anyone she tells about this scenario will praise her for not sipping the drink.

Furthermore, there must be something suspicious about your lifestyle for her to behave in such manner with you. But again, she should not be dating you in the first place then. What's the point going to bed with someone you have fear that he may potentially kill you? Perhaps she needs money and you're a vehicle to fulfil that need?

In fact both of una de mad

furthermore, its possible she had been burned in the past or probably something terrible similar to this happened to her friend or a relative, hence the wariness.

That said, by the way am your low-key fan mate. I adore you.