₦airaland Forum

Fhemmmy:
I think anyone would be better than this fool

MRbrownJAY:
a man backed up in a corner like an animal would do anything to save his marriage even abandon a child that could spell THE END to his happy life.
it was either tell your wife, get busted and probably loose your marriage OR hush up about it and live happily ever after.
these people were unscrupulous, if they had the guts to do what they did then who know what atrocity they could have done more.
you hear everyday about people paying child support for years, only to discover through DNA testing that the child was not theirs. you really believe that all women in these cases just didnt know?! some women dont care and cunts out there knows fully well who the baby daddy is but some would decide that this man would be a better daddy than that man so "thats your baby".
cheating goes both ways, we have all seen the Maury Povich show. i remember there was a woman in there who brought no less than 15/16guys and all failed the test. to this woman, anyone was good enough to be baby daddy and if any of them believed they were the father, then that would have been the end of the story.

davidylan:
perhaps she didnt really want ice cream . . . perhaps she wanted so quality time with you

MRbrownJAY:
you know, these hormones makes some of these women do some very insane shit.
i guess this lady thought that she could go on with the lie, and that, no one would ever know about it. i am sure that the baby daddy didnt want his wife to know about it either so they(baby momma/baby daddy) probably had some deal to keep it hush hush but something derailed their evil plan.
some people just dont think right  at times and these guys were only thinking at the short coming future not long term.
also for a woman to be so weak and  go sleep with her best friend's husband, let alone for that foolish husband to shag her is madness. it was just a matter of time before they got busted.

Fhemmmy:
So how come Yar"Dumb still keeping same agency then.
he is a lame duck anyways

kokoA:
True word. The guy is the most respected Nigerian to me.The only problem I have with him though is his position on cultism in our higher institutions.

kokoA:
love doctor! !

Love observer

Fhemmmy:
i am sure they have given it to those that do sharing and slicing.
Cos i am yet to see the effect of that agency impacting ordinary live or that of the nation
They just make noise and rant

MRbrownJAY:
although i would understand why she decided to hide the baby daddy's identity, i wouldnt be so keen on the fact that he was coming around and smiling at me knowing full well that the baby i was going to take care of was his.
there is some deceit in the air and it would take me a while to be cool with it all.
if i had been man enough to marry and take charge of the baby then i should be man enough to accept whoever the baby daddy is and live with it. i knew i wasnt the baby daddy anyway so that it is him or another guy wont change much in my attitude towards the "family".
i would demand that her best friend know the whole story in order for my "new wife" to regain some few points in my heart(if they were tough enough to tell me, then they should be tough enough to tell her too)
i will move on with married life knowing that what she did once, she could do again.
the day she makes [b]ONE [/b]mistake related to cheating or something dodgy that involves another man(or woman), i am out of there!

Fhemmmy:
EFCC is just another waste of money and total nonsense.

agathamari:
knowing the truth hurts less then not knowing. if you see your gf walk out of a hotel which hurts worse the ideas racing through your head of all the things that may have happend or knowing exactly what happend? the truth is never as bad as what your mind can think of

gen2genius:
Tales by moonlight

I doubt if things would ever be the same again between us

Anyway, only lunacy would make me accept a pregnancy that comes without any reasonable explanations. How would a grown up woman say she doesn't know who impregnated her?

mccloud224:
9ja police as wives?

As someone said earlier on, it depends on the country.In any other country especially the western ones, i'd say yes, they can and they do make excellent wives but in 9ja?Hmmm

Anyone who has spent some time around any police barracks would know that infidelity among them means nothing.Name one police woman who has attained the position of inspector without sleeping with at least 3 top police men and I'll give you my life savings.I'm dead serious.

This is not restricted to the police force alone.It's also in the army,navy and air force (its more prevalent in the army and police though).I'll give you an example.There used to this couple that lived in my gf close in festac.They were both top army officers although at some point, the woman's rank got higher than the husband.Before this, the husband had been getting some many stories of her infidelity to which she constantly denied (which is normal, lol).After her promotion, she got sick of his accusations and owned up to them and also had the audacity to tell him there was nothing he could do about it.He continued to talk on this and she showed him the full wrath of her "power".He was picked up by junior officers and tortured for days without food for having the effrontery to "insult" a senior officer.To cut the story short, they are "happily" separated and probably divorced by now.

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guseman:
Girls will be the one paying dowry like its been practised in northern parts of india, even in Ghana, its happening

guseman:
@TheSeeker
Dont mind her,her MAMA is part of the problem. Who dosent want to have a Medical doctor as in-law? oh oohhh. Me wey no be medical ogini, na to relax na. Now the guy is through with NYSC and has moved out. what did she stand to gain? Because of today,girls mostly forgets tomorrow especially these girls of nowadays.

Yes they need to treat us like kings. A friend of mine use to say this to me that "Most girls of today during courtship/dating period has collected their bride prize and spent it themselves instead of their parent, on the wedding day the rest is formalty"

I have heard of a case where on the wedding day, the groom was asked to postrate for his in laws, the guy said never cos they way the girl has been presenting her parents like king and queen and collected enough money on their behalf cos the guy lives overseas before. bros come and see serious persuations/pleads before the guy did it once, why becuase, the girl has over praised her folks.

So girls, they are neccessary evils. We have no options

wanville:
Lol, Oyinda u sound bitter abt r/ships. . but I feel u ma sista. . .I gbadun. Relationships are something else these days.

Hey! me! me! me!
Howz a normal relationship for the 5th one?
The ones that don't involve drama on facebook

guseman:
Undergrads, dating one now seems to be a distant reality as far as am concerned. I can't easily forgive my ex-queen, lol, I was serving in the Cold Jos and I kept my promises and Walahi I was faithful, where as a corper medical doctor was helping me back home taking care of my Civic duties .

All these small small girls dem own too much. A[b]nd the funniest thing is that she has the gut to say to me that "Do i want to tell her i wasn't dating anybody"? imagine![/b] They are very flexible and this youthful blood in them will make them to want to do some dejavu stunts! If you can't witstand that pls stay off them.

Catch them young and they shall be yours forever, man na lie o.