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Romance › Re: How Can I Take Revenge On My Cold Boifriend? by TheSeeker(m): 6:38pm On Jul 12, 2009
Nesia:
i am not a cheap ho, there r other ways than sleeping around b4 i infect my own self.
Are you still bent on taking this revenge? Why don't you forgive him and let your mind be at peace?
Romance › Re: How Can I Take Revenge On My Cold Boifriend? by TheSeeker(m): 4:56pm On Jul 12, 2009
eyonigger:
C2H5OH, be careful wat u say about me.
Really? And why should he be careful? The other day you called me a pervert on sistawoman's thread and here you're whining like a shot puppy in a vet doctor's lab. Maggot! grin grin
Romance › Re: Craziest Thing You Ever Did For Your Partner? by TheSeeker(m): 4:47pm On Jul 12, 2009
190:
and i guess u missed the kitten
dont count this against me abeg
Why should I count it against you when I know it's the typical you? The day you make a reasonable comment I'll braze myself for the second coming of Jesus Christ. Lord Jesus don't let him count this against me too
Romance › Re: Teen Pregnant After ‘swimming In Pool’ by TheSeeker(m): 4:27pm On Jul 12, 2009
No2Atheism:
grin grin grin that must be the most potent sperm on the planet. I bet that baby would grow up to be the best swimmer in the world considering that sperm was so powerful it survived in the swimming pool and even managed to swim and catch up with the girl grin grin grin and then enter the girl (i never knew sperms had penis) through her panties, then impregnate her all in the water.

shocked shocked shocked


Wonders shall surely never end, I am sure CNN would never carry this kind of story as an example of weird white people.
Just what I've been telling iice that the baby will be another Michael Phelps. I thought I was the only one thinking in that direction. Some of these people are so crafty, they keep blaming Africans as being manipulative but their records to me have shown they lie and say whatever just to get money from a rich person or even on a bigger pay rate, a company. People did it to Michael Jackson, and this woman is sure pulling that against the Egyptian hotel. The stupid woman wants money from the hotel and doesn't know how to get it but use the advantage that her daughter is pregnant to work on them. She isn't smart enough, she should have asked her daughter to point out a staffer there as her rapist and it'd make much more sense. Lazy ass cunt!
Romance › Re: How Does Fame/paparazzi Affect A Relationship by TheSeeker(op): 4:17pm On Jul 12, 2009
MRbrownJAY:
yeah the trend is more that politicians etc tend to cheat on their long time spouse and therefore most would stick with them due the time they shared together while the artist are the ones who usually stick to a couple of year union and then divorce. i guess after being with someone for 10+ years, you know what kind of man you got and therefore these women know the drill. apart from that senator who turned out gay, most wives stick to their man and stand by them. to divorce a powerful man is a big step. no more perks for these wives. being the senator/congressman's wife brings a LOT OF perks.
the attraction of money is also very real. the wife of a very successful artist is in line to get a massive pay check when she divorces while the wife of the cheating senator is getting very little if only her pride.
so we can safely say that some wives out there divorce and take their husbands for everything they got (if they have anything to take at the first place) and if not, they are better off brushing that cheating slip off under the rug.
we all know that to be credible in the eyes of the masses, a politician"should" be successfully married. then when he get elected he can divorce and fool around "Sarkozy style". this guy was already separated from his wife due to extensive cheating but they pretended to be together and happy so that he could be elected. as soon as he got elected, he safely divorced his wife and married that Bruni chick. if he had divorced his wife and married bruni before election, he would have never been elected.
Yes you are right. May I also add this chip that these politicians' wives tend to show more love, not just for the money, but because they know the kind of man they got like you have highlighted. I still have cause to believe that no matter how long these artistes have known each other, they still love the divorce stigma. The problem with most of them is that they want to be in the public eye and don't ever for any reason want to stay down. There are many dimensions to it though, but whatever it is with the marriage for these artistes, it is all about fame and the money. Fame while the marriage lasts and the money when the whole deal is done. Also, I think their relationship cum marriage aren't well thought carefully before the jump into it. They are in a relationship in a year and the next they end up in Las Vegas exchanging rings. I do believe that sometimes when they keep their relationships off the wire, it tends to become successful as long as they introduce much efforts to keep it alive --- just like Beyonce and Jay Z. They ostentatiously denied their relationship even when they were both spotted everywhere together, worst of all, they got married very very secretly, the same goes for Nick Cannon and Mariah Carey. But both marriages largely depended on how they got along well and the respect they both share. I do also have an idea how much Jay adores Beyonce(when he sent thugs to beat up Sean Paul because he hung with Beyonce) and how Nick is protective of Mariah(he publicly wanted to diss Eminem about a track he made to mar Mariah). Without having to become nosey, you can tell what they share and how they respectfully go on about each other. The opposite was with Usher, though people including myself didn't support his choice for marriage and no matter how low they kept it, they are getting a divorce. They both denied having problems but not long enough and it blew up in Usher's face. That I can tell she was there for the money and no one knew her anyways. Lots of these female artistes who go into marriage or relationship with fellow artistes are always money conscious --- Look at Kalis and NAS. She's requesting $80K from NAS for as her weekly expenses. That's so annoying. Paparazzi, I think doesn't affect them sometimes because they bring the attention of the press on themselves by their actions which most times aren't called for. Howbeit, I still think it helps them in most cases but they do more harm than good.
Romance › Re: How Does Fame/paparazzi Affect A Relationship by TheSeeker(op): 5:27am On Jul 11, 2009
MRbrownJAY:
no no, their relationships are with genuine feelings but the problem lies in what the opposite side can see.
do we know everything our women do when we are not there. do we see who they chat to and talk to. if you find something out from the media that she forgot to mention or disclose then the relationship is going to take a hit.
of course, if your girl is totally honest with what she does when you are not there then fair enough. the problem lies with what the opposite partner can take.

Hilary Clinton used that scandal to her advantage, she was seen as a "strong" woman due to the fact that not a lot of people saw what Bill did as "wrong". that guy was still high in the poll in well after his scandal. if she had divorce him, she would have never had the chance of running for office.
although they are still "together" its all a charade and they dont even sleep in the same bed any longer(they sleep in the same house less than 60days a year).
i mean this is not the first bimbo that Bill had, the list is endless and she would have to be either very stupid or just out for something else.
every people have different views of it but  i think many A list people listen to their publicist before all.
look at Mel Gibson, he is in deep shit with divorce thanks to the media. his wife has now all thr proof that their was cheating in his part (a great way to have the judge rule in your favor) and if that wasnt enough, the media reported.still reporting that the russian beauty is pregnant. all this wahala could have been avoided if the media didnt snoop around or if Mel Gibson was just some random rich guys.
That is right but considering the word "fame and paparazzi", politicians and artistes are best fit in this group, but, why does it seem that artistes tend to divorce more than the politicians? There have been so many scandals lately --- the ex NY Governor Spitzer, the SC Governor Mark Sanford, John Edwards(even when the woman he's involved with claims she has a child for him), lots of republican and democrats reps-- yet, their wives haven't divorced neither are they separated from them. What can we attribute this to? They love their spouses more than the wives or husbands of artistes do? Or is it because power + fame + money is much better compared to just fame+money?
Politics › Re: 2011: Pdp Senators Asks For Automatic Ticket! by TheSeeker(m): 4:24am On Jul 11, 2009
Say whathuh?
AUTOMATIC MADNESS. That is why Nigeria will never progress. Every other part of the world are thriving to represent better images of themselves but Nigeria is getting deeper into a classy shame and the foolish politicians we have don't want to bring us out. Nigeria is a shame to Africa. Stupid senators who can't even present a proper bill are seeking automatic tickets. I wish there was unity from other quarters of the political scene to combat these pigs and put them where they belong --- PEN
Romance › Re: How Does Fame/paparazzi Affect A Relationship by TheSeeker(op): 4:10am On Jul 11, 2009
MRbrownJAY:
it affects a great deal,  i mean wouldnt any relationship be affected if there was a guy taking photos of everything you did, everywhere you went, every people you talked to in the clubs, everyone you left the club with, every time your nipple slip AND PLASTER IT ON THE MEDIA?
i mean, a woman could forgive you some little mistakes but if the whole world knows about it, then her actions will be judge by the whople world and therefore even if she doesnt want to, she will act accordingly.
there are millions of women who forgive their men after they caught them cheating but if the whole world knows about it and you are a star then staying with him might send the wrong signal to fans out there etc.

also lets not forget that some people use the media to keep their name out there because fame is addictive and people need the whole world to talk about them, for whatever reason. some few "sexy photos" supposedly stolen from a laptop can bring google searches with a star name to unexpected level.
its all about star power, the more you are out there, the more they think they are still famous. so unless the other person in that relationship is numero uno, it is difficult for anyone with genuine feeling to stick with it.
Are you saying their relationships aren't absolutely stocked with genuine feelings? I'd say some are with genuine feelings but with just a minority of them. Nevertheless, for those who have involved their true feelings, don't you think it'd help them more if they concentrate on their relationship without having to worry about what the majority thinks? Well, I do get your point -- if they are concerned more with the public, then their relationship to me, is built on falsehood. I still remember, despite scandals, some wives have forgiven their unfaithful famous husbands, Hilary Clinton is an example. t
Politics › Re: Why Did Obama Visit Ghana And Not Nigeria? by TheSeeker(m): 4:00am On Jul 11, 2009
Beaf:
Calm down, Obama is just coming from Russia. Land of Putin. . .  shocked shocked shocked
In what capacity was he there for?
Romance › Re: How Can I Stop Comparing Other Men To My Ex. Thank You by TheSeeker(m): 3:45am On Jul 11, 2009
lady kool:
when u have gotten over your ex first then u will stop comparing other men to ur ex simple as that
You can say that a million times again
Romance › Re: How Can I Stop Comparing Other Men To My Ex. Thank You by TheSeeker(m): 3:39am On Jul 11, 2009
MRbrownJAY:
also poster
if you are still in love with the past BF then you need to sort your life out before engaging in other relationships. there is no need to start something where you are not fully giving yourself 150%. if you aint opening yourself fully then there is no way that this new guy can know you as the others did and therefore have a great, if not better, relationship as the others did.
I still think she hasn't got over he ex and should work out her relationship with him before she engages in another relationship with anyone else. I'm curious though, how did the relationship end? If he was such a great guy why did they break up? Or was she the one at fault? We have to get a clearer glance of how her relationship with the ex boyfriend ended then we can ascertain what is going on with her attitude towards other guys.
Romance › Re: How Can I Stop Comparing Other Men To My Ex. Thank You by TheSeeker(m): 3:29am On Jul 11, 2009
MRbrownJAY:
there is nothing wrong with comparing your ex with others. if your ex was that "good" and your relationship was that great then it is a normal thing to do. the problem is that it shouldnt impair you in your view of that new relationship.
you have to always remember that if that ex relationship of yours was that GOOD/GREAT then you would still be with him. since you are not with "ex" anymore, you should look for the future and expect to find someone even better than ex (if you can give the new guys enough chance/time to show it to you).
also comparing an ex is ok if the relationship is still fresh in your mind, after a few yrs, if you still comparing every little things from every new guys in your life with that same ex then you probably should go and have a an appointment with a psychologist.
Damn right
Romance › Re: How Can I Stop Comparing Other Men To My Ex. Thank You by TheSeeker(m): 3:23am On Jul 11, 2009
The moment you start to realize your ex is in the past you will get over it. It's a state of the mind you need to control -- you have to control how you think and not the other way round. You obviously, still are fixated to your ex. The earlier this is worked on the better for you. If you don't work on this, you will find it very impossible to see other men for who and what they are whether or not you take it one day at a time. I also will advise that you get over him before you have any relationship at all. However, if you can still work out your relationship with him(without losing your esteem), try it one more time to be sure. You never know what manner of man comes your way and you sadden them with your attitude. Always remember, people can't be all alike. As much as you think you're good, when compared to others by other people, you're still found wanting.
Romance › Re: How Does Fame/paparazzi Affect A Relationship by TheSeeker(op): 3:03am On Jul 11, 2009
Beaf:
My friend go and sit down! Are you looking for Holywood sugar mummy? grin
Like there's any on NL. Try harder
Romance › Re: I Am An Intelligent Woman, Why Am I Addicted To Unavailable Men? by TheSeeker(m): 3:02am On Jul 11, 2009
Another puzzle on NL!

How can you possibly be entangled with two men who definitely have their women? How are you proposing to make them yours even when they have demonstrated to you they can't leave their women for you? You said you are an intelligent woman in your topic, but how intelligent has this situation projected you? I'd say it didn't. Why can't you just walk away from them and have another man who's probably single and take it slow with him? You said you have good self esteem but I don't see any oozing from you -- if not, are you insinuating that you can't find someone else better than these men who have been taken?

You need to get out a little bit more and experience a human to human relationship because it seems the online dating scene is not panning out to be better for you. When you do meet a single man you like try not to be too desperate. Take it easy on yourself and there's nothing absolutely wrong with you. The problem you have is testing new waters and that's exactly what you're to do to get out of this mess because the relationships you have with these two men is militating against your pride as well as your self esteem
Politics › Re: Why Did Obama Visit Ghana And Not Nigeria? by TheSeeker(m): 2:50am On Jul 11, 2009
US is all about democracy when it comes to dealing with other nations. US refuses to be associates with countries with questionable democratic stances, a group where Nigeria falls and tops it. The same applies to Kenya and Zimbabwe. You can imagine a country where there has been successful transition of power for the past 17 years -- it's a commendable situation and those are the kind of nations America associated with. It has nothing to do with their gold or whatever they have. Ghana will gain more international recommendation to what they already have. Nigeria is a joke on the African map
Romance › How Does Fame/paparazzi Affect A Relationship by TheSeeker(op): 2:41am On Jul 11, 2009
I need opinions on how fame affects a relationship -- the paparazzi might range from being a local star to a world class -- but the overall picture of what I want to know is how it affects a relationship. Does it help? Does it mar?
Romance › Re: How Desperate Are Women These Days? by TheSeeker(m): 2:37am On Jul 11, 2009
MRbrownJAY:
the point is not that the girl is coming to his house. have you never had friends coming to your house to spend the weekend? dont you have female friends that are platonic friends. are all your women friends fukc buddies, lovers, gf? i guess we first have to separate the men from the boys. if you have a welcoming house (swimming pool, bar,ample guest rooms) and a wide circle of friends then having friends over for the weekend shouldnt be a cause to celebrate anything other than two friends or more getting to know each other, unless he is going to RAPE her the minute she says no.

the problem is that he is the one who invited her there at the first place and then he comes here and talk shit about her. if he was expecting her to say no to his invitation, then why ask at the first place?!
the same thing will happen when he will "beg "her for sex on the first night, and (god forbids) when she agrees he will call her a hoe, not knowing that he is not better than her.
and to make it even funnier, he is talking about"sharing the virus" like he is 150% sure that he will have "access".
this poster is fooling himself to the highest level.
if she is a skank so he is. if she is a rat, so he is. and if she shares the virus and he is dumb enough to "receive it" then dead he is too.
You're right on bro. The problem with these boys is that any lady that visits their house has to be bleeped. It just doesn't make sense to them anymore to respect women and what they stand for. We all know some women do not know how to say no and he made it entirely look like the lady wanted him but had to pretentiously go by it making him pull the request. I still do not see anything wrong with guys having platonic female friends unfortunately these boys have a problem with that. They always have to make stupid comments about how they bleeped a girl and how diminished her self esteem is. Bullshit!!! I can't even read the post, too upset already
Romance › Re: Craziest Thing You Ever Did For Your Partner? by TheSeeker(m): 2:07am On Jul 11, 2009
Craziesthuh?

She was supposed to hook up with me at this restaurant, I was there 20 minutes earlier before the scheduled time. I had to wait for 4 hours. I kept calling her at intervals of 30 minutes and she did not answer the phone. I then went to used a prepaid phone I just bought that day and called her with it, guess what, she answered. When she heard it was my voice, she hung up -- this was the fourth hour(I probably thought she was testing my patience).

When I was out the door, she was walking in and I acted like I didn't know or ever seen her. Just headed towards my car and she followed, before she got any close I had lock up and ignited. Tried to make me wait but I sped off. I was upset because I had earlier ignored my best friend's request to help him move just to spend the time with her and she had the balls to keep me waiting for hours and worst of all, didn't answer my call. When I saw her coming as I was out the door, I asked myself "what's she doing here anyways?"
Romance › Re: Obama Caught In The Act! by TheSeeker(m): 1:45am On Jul 11, 2009
bluespice:
lol grin
i love the french tongue
Always obsessed with french antics as ever. Where have you been anyways? I just got back on here, been busy all day. I missed you though kiss kiss
Romance › Re: Do You Classify This As Defacing Of A Woman's Pride? Please Ladies And Gents! by TheSeeker(op): 1:42am On Jul 11, 2009
bluespice:
LOL!!!!!!
i wonder if men ever get the same rooted to the spot feeling tongue

love ke?
as if u no know se i be omode
no love in this zone oh
just innocent convo cool tongue
Did I mention it to you as a compliment that I find you absolutely romantic when you're in denial?
Romance › Re: Teen Pregnant After ‘swimming In Pool’ by TheSeeker(m): 5:39pm On Jul 10, 2009
iice:
[color=#9900ff]Tufiakwa! angry grin grin[/color]
When was the last time you were dazzled? Braze yourself cuz in 2010 another Michael Phelps shall be born grin grin grin
Romance › Re: How Can I Take Revenge On My Cold Boifriend? by TheSeeker(m): 5:36pm On Jul 10, 2009
Keep up your first line of words. KILL HIM! Don't just kill him with anything --- there are two things to kill him with -- either be a close friend to his friend or dating him(NO SEX OOOOOO) or Kill him with a new sharpened hoe-head-like cutlass
Romance › Re: Teen Pregnant After ‘swimming In Pool’ by TheSeeker(m): 5:28pm On Jul 10, 2009
iice:
[color=#9900ff]Name and the person himself/herself are different oo.

Long live Phelps! tongue[/color]
Yeah and another Phelps will be born by a mom impregnated by sperms floating in a pool
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Not So Intelligent. by TheSeeker(m): 5:26pm On Jul 10, 2009
If she's not intelligent then what are your friends envious of you for?
Romance › Re: Who Says You Can't Get A Friend,sexy Lover,wife/husband And 'teaser'? by TheSeeker(m): 5:14pm On Jul 10, 2009
How about if I nominate you as a guest speaker at the upcoming "Singles Night" at my church? You sure make a good speaker. Keep it up!

BTW, nice choice of words there.
Romance › Re: Is It A Guys Duty 2 Always Give His Gf Money For Hair Do. by TheSeeker(m): 5:09pm On Jul 10, 2009
[quote author=frank3.16 link=topic=294796.msg4166831#msg4166831 date=1247241921]words of a prostit (if u finish am na u talk am)[/quote]Prostitute, I finish am
luxoire:
@poster - are you man or not? in fact are you an adult or not? why are you complaining here? have you told her how you feel about this whole thing?


Is your problem her expectations or your finances?

either way talk to her, and if she is a reasonable girl she will listen and understand your position if she isnt - you can either continue or walk away

Bottom line - no be you give her hair - if she wants to maintain it, she should be prepared to pay for it if you aren't - or she can cut it off!

set the tone of r/ship now! so you both know where you stand, what you expect and how the r/ship is to be going forward
Set the tone for giving her money to make her hair? Do you have an idea what your saying? There's nothing to set the tone about. She obviously is materialistic and ain't no tone is gon' be set around there.

@Poster

I still reiterate that you tell her to skin her head and be as beautifully natural as an African "mutoto" grin grin
Romance › Re: Teen Pregnant After ‘swimming In Pool’ by TheSeeker(m): 5:05pm On Jul 10, 2009
iice:
[color=#9900ff]Blasphemy! shocked angry grin grin
There is and ever will be only one Micheal Phelps cheesy cheesy

Ok i so love Ian Thorpe too tongue[/color]
It was said of Jesus Christ too but didn't people name their children Jesus and changed the pronunciation to "Haysus" Pleaseeee!
Romance › Re: Trust - How To Earn It And Be More Trusting In Family Relationships by TheSeeker(m): 3:49pm On Jul 10, 2009
Too long. Why don't y'all make your write-ups pithy? All these long articles don't make so much sense. Summarize your points and make them compendious -- that way it'll be read to assimilation. Good job on the article anyway. Props to you.
Romance › Re: Teen Pregnant After ‘swimming In Pool’ by TheSeeker(m): 3:37pm On Jul 10, 2009
Wow! Another Michael Phelps is on the way. But how are we sure that he won't be floating when he's born? Since she got pregnant from floating sperms. Some people are just plain stupid
Politics › Re: Mother Sells Daughter For N15,000 by TheSeeker(m): 1:17pm On Jul 10, 2009
Lord Jesus! Have Mercy!
Romance › Re: Distance And Money Affected My Dream For Her. by TheSeeker(m): 1:15pm On Jul 10, 2009
Mr. Nollywood blockbuster!

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